Apple Shaped!

I am unfotunately apple shaped. My legs are so muscular and thin but my back and shoulders are so wide and i have a belly! i am so self concious ... i always think people are staring at me! ive been trying to figure out ways to get my back fat to go awway and lose some weight but i cant seem to do the trick! is there anyone else out there thats apple shaped and going through the same **** i am?? i cant help to hate my body and i wanna get over it. i like to wear shorts and a tshirt to show off my legs but i still feel uncomfortable because of my shoulders... ya know?  i cant find any pants to fit right... most give me a saggy ass lol im not that big but i look it. i just dont know how some girls i know that are bigger then i am where the same size or smaller! grrr sorry for the venting... hehe. any advice ladies??

im the same way and belive me hun i feel your pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you can never find pants to fit you........no one belives that you weight as much as you do.........my legs are so long and beautiful but the rest of me sucks soooooo much.......the only thing that really helps if cardio. it doesnt matter how much you weight train or starve yourself the last place that you gonna lose inches is from your back and middle while your butt gets smaller and smaller..........i know it sucks!!!!!!!!!!!! im new to this site if you ever need any one to talk to message me....