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What are you really attracted to?


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Example: I am extremely attracted to really intelligent men. The smarter the better. Especially if it's intelligence in science or math. I have no idea why either. =)

Just thought this might be an interesting topic.
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brains, humour, and compassion, in either gender.
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Personality overall, especially humor.. I love a man who can be serious but also joke with me... I like sarcasm.  Eyes, Smile, and dark hair.
Pizza, Oreos, and ice cream, especially mint chocolate chip.
a fun girl with nice T&A ^_^
I guess I am shallow - but I was attracted to my hubby 24 years ago just cuz he was cute!!!  Red curly hair beard and blue eyes to die for.
humor, confidence, intelligence
brains, humor, compassion, creativity, vision, determination, laid back natue, loyalty...i tend to have high standards.
I am currently attracted to a pair of penetrating blue/green eyes intent on everything I say. Funny and goofy at Very unexpected times keeps me on my toes. I cant seem to stop smiling! Talk to at least 6 times a day. Excellent hoticulturalist, botanist and arborist, Self-deprecating, erudite and esoteric. Open to all sorts of spirituality and can have the deepest philosophical, theological convos.

And in my adult life, I've experienced the most romantic/platonic moments with.

even the compulsive indecisiveness is hot to me! (i cringe)
Brains, kindness, goofyness and tons of heart!
Fine! I guess I am in love!
being able to keep up a conversation is important, right next to a great sense of humor. I think really great friendships and relationships sometimes depend on whether or not two people have a similar sense of humor, really.
being able to shut up - equally important.
LOL! Yeah, knowing when to shut up is an important trait. The best times with that "special someone" are those quiet moments when you're cuddling. :)
I always find a firm bubble butt attractive on a guy! *giggles*
English teachers lol- just something sexy about a well read man.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE long hair on a man, esp brown, with striking eyes, and stubble mmmmmm.

Dream man= Aragorn from lord of the rings.... Though I will be quite happy with the actor who played him, Viggo Mortensen... sexy sexy sexy.
I tend to be attracted to the nerds too.  There's just something about them... Hehehe... And really nice teeth and amazing eyes are nice too. 
It kinda cracks me up how many people didn't list anything remotely pertaining to looks in what they're attracted to.  Not buying it.

Teeth are important, jcd.  That isn't even just an aesthetic thing.  lol  It has health implications & one of the things that can matter if you have children too.  Some people are prone to cavities & stuff like that, but it's not so bad if a person is conscientious & takes care of it. 

I'm mostly a total package kinda girl.  A person's gotta be attractive to me, yeah.  I prefer they be the type that puts a little effort in & cares about appearances.  (not obsessively).  I'm not going into detail on this part.  lol   Let's just say I know what I like.

Can't stand stupid!  Must be at least reasonably well spoken, as well.  (not so easy to find)  If I heard a person I was interested in say "tell me where it's at"  I'd be nowhere they could find me again.  :P

Funny is good.  Personality & sense of humor are important to me & it would be nice if the person gave a rat's ass about other people too.  Kindness is a good trait in a mate.  lol  No rhyme intended.

Edit:  Oops.  I meant to add musical talent.  Not so much that they have to be really, deeply talented, but for example, someone who can carry a tune & is confident to sing at a karaoke bar if their in one.
I totally agree about the karaoke!!! I love it so much and if a potential guy will get up there and belt it out no matter what his voice sounds like he is instantly S-E-X-Y!
I like a man with tats. I  guess you could say that I like the bad boys. The ones that are make me laugh, and are dangerous, and exciting to be with. Maybe that is why my mom does'nt like my husband. LOL
Robinsue - I did say I was attracted to hubby cuz he was cute.  Heck I'm the one that picked him up in the bar LOL
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