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| Motivation | Trying to motivate my mom | Aug 07 2009 05:24 (UTC) |
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If you can, try to make the walking (and any other exercise) a fun event rather than a task to lose weight. My mother is the same way about results and it was hard to get her to start exercising and to eat right (she favored starvation diets). We started bike riding together with my father in part because it was fun and in part to encourage him to exercise (he has a severe heart condition and so can only ride thanks to a motor-assist bike). I think the second key, after making it fun, is to emphasize fitness over weight loss. I'm telling you what, my mom gained on the scale those first several weeks - but she looked so much better. You could really tell she was much fitter, and she felt better. It took a while for the feeling better part to hit, but I think it is something important that people miss. If doing something like that makes you feel better than why not do it? |
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| Motivation | Victory is mine! [Post your successes] | Jun 14 2009 01:06 (UTC) |
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Victory is mine today on a couple fronts The first is that I did a 30 mile bike ride (we got lost The second 'victory' makes me feel silly (and vain) to admit, but it also makes me feel great. I've never felt I looked good (I always feel like the ugliest girl in the room). Lately I've been a lot happier with my appearance even though I haven't really lost any weight, but still have very little confidence in my appearance. So it was a real shock today while out riding that a passenger in a van leaned out and yelled "DAMN!" when I rode by. (I've never been whistled at or anything of that sort, ever, so it shocked me big time!) From the tone I couldn't but help as take it as a complement - which is huge because I usually interpret complements as either sarcastic or rationalize them away (ie, s/he is just being nice). This time I just grinned and rode off feeling more confident than ever. |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | Jun 08 2009 12:31 (UTC) |
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Ugh, another increase. Since my doctor ruled out pregnancy I was told to cut my exercise to a minimum and eat at or slightly over maintenance last week (and this week if there's still no TTOM - which is the case). I despise the scale trending up when I'm still not even in the upper end of a healthy BMI for my height! I feel like I'll never make the goal at this rate
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| Games & Challenges | CC Loses a Polar Bear Challenge | Jun 01 2009 12:12 (UTC) |
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Down 0.5 6.3/600 (1.05%) We're over 1% now. |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | Jun 01 2009 12:09 (UTC) |
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I'm down to 157.5 - still a net increase of 1.5. Despite that, I'm down 1" on my hip measurements this week! I've been stuck at 40" forever - now I'm at 39". I even lost a little on my arms and thighs - and when I was out clothes shopping I could actually wear some medium tops just fine - some of the tops with sleeves were uncomfortable around the arms, but at least I could get them on! I got in far more exercise than ever due to the nice weather - logged a bit over 4,000 calories in exercise this week via the heart rate monitor. It came to about 7 hours and 30 minutes of activity. I kept my deficit between 500-1000 most of the week except Sunday, where I went a bit over maintenance. It was a good week in regards to doing the right things, even if I didn't drop back to 156. The downside: TTOM didn't materialize this week, despite all the indications it would - it should have hit Thursday or Friday. I'm a bit concerned on that; I may not be able to stick in this competition depending on the cause. I'm hoping it was just due to the freakish amount of exercise this week (I usually only log burns about 1,000-2,000). I may be a fretful mess this week - I'm going to try to cut my exercise down to only weight lifting and wait and see. |
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| Games & Challenges | CC Loses a Polar Bear Challenge | May 31 2009 14:11 (UTC) |
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I figured no one wanted to do it, so I hadn't checked in a while. I'm down 1 since I posted it (lots of plateau) so: 5.2/600 (0.87%) |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | May 27 2009 02:18 (UTC) |
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Happy birthday Shapeshifter! Hope it was fun!
I'm not surprised; I usually go up for TTOM. Add that to the holiday plus the fact that I started lifting weights again and it means I've got at least some water weight. I'll have to wait until next week to see what really happened. I managed to eat terrible today, so I'm a little demoralized. It's bad when boredom and stress at work leads to eating over your burn... even after adding 500 to your burn meter total for the day through exercise. I wasn't even hungry, and I even felt fairly full, but I couldn't help myself today. On top of a gain, this feels icky; I know the gain so far is water - I'll have to work 'harder' to get a real gain. It doesn't help things though. Maybe I'll catch a second wind and do a workout video here in a bit. |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | May 26 2009 01:15 (UTC) |
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Just checking in; I won't post a weigh in until tomorrow morning - I just got back into town. Look at all the progress you gals have made already! Way to go! I'm hoping to hold steady or for a marginal loss this week. TTOM and the return of lifting weights usually causes me to gain in the short term just from water retention. I think I did OK for the weekend... not good, but not terrible. I guess we'll see how it goes tomorrow morning. Maybe I'll go try do a round of one of the workout videos since I feel a little more motivated now. See you all tomorrow! |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | May 21 2009 11:28 (UTC) |
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You all rock... it's motivating just seeing all you awesome people here so we can lose together I'm going to drag myself out of bed now and try and sneak a bike ride in this morning so I feel like I'm making headway on this goal. I may not get a chance to ride this evening, depending on how much of a stressful work frenzy we are in to get caught up on the project work. So better get it in now when all I'll be missing is sleep! |
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| Games & Challenges | 10lbs by July 4th! | May 20 2009 01:18 (UTC) |
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If you all are still open to new members, I'd appreciate joining. I'm 24, 5'6" and 156 at the moment. I started out at 175 in August '08, went rather quickly down to 153 until final exams (and master's thesis project) hit. Between that and job hunting I went back up to 162 and am trying to fight a plateau to get down again. I was sitting on 160-162 for weeks on end despite my best efforts. Since a good friend of my boyfriend is getting married on the 4th I have extra reason to try and drop down - hopefully that'll get me out of the 150's. I don't know that I can drop 10, but I'll shoot for it - and no matter what the result my reward is going to be a snazzy little dress to wear to the wedding. So, I could use some motivation - I'm not so accountable to myself right now! |
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| Weight Loss | Stop snacking during exams | May 19 2009 01:30 (UTC) |
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I couldn't go without munching through my last semester of graduate school, so here are things I found that were helpful for snacking a little bit better: -Gum: Something to chew on with flavor, better than snacking on candy -Hard Candies: better than soft, because they take a while to eat. -Beef/Turkey/etc Jerky: protein and takes a while to eat if you get the tough kind -HOT pepper slices: you can't eat them very fast and you'll need plenty of water with them. For me Jalepenos are hot enough... get something that pushes your hot limits :) This was actually my favorite, because it really got me drinking enough water! -Grapes/Precut fruit: I didn't have the time to fuss with prepping fruit, so grapes and other bite sized fruit made nice snacks - and those pre-cut apples were nice to bring along. I always felt oranges were too much fuss, but that's just me. -Flavored low/no cal drinks: Sometimes I just wanted flavor more than food - so those flavored carbonate waters were nice, as were crystal light on the go packs. -Popcorn: Not great, but better than some of the snack options (doughnuts, candy bars) -Strong Mints: (like Altoids) the little strong mints kept me from eating other things much the same way brushing your teeth does.
Other than snack options, just keep in mind that more time in doesn't always net more productivity. It's always good to get a feel for when you'd actually get more done by taking a break, getting more sleep, and de-stress yourself. And good luck on your exams! |
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| Motivation | The Little Victories | May 19 2009 01:19 (UTC) |
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I realized while checking the "totals" log on my heart rate monitor that I had logged over 13,000 calories of exercise in 10 weeks - so an average of 1,300 a week. In addition, I had logged over 45 hours of exercise. That's 1,300 more calories a week and 45 more hours of exercise than I would have logged if I had never found CC. |
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| The Lounge | mother's day? | May 01 2009 02:08 (UTC) |
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This year I've entered my mom and I in a Mother's Day 5K for us to walk together. She's said for a while she always wanted to do one, but never has because she's not up to running one. (I know I couldn't run that either!) So this year we are going to do a 5K even if it's just walking. Maybe later this year or next year we can work up to jogging it together and go from there. Usually we do cards and breakfast though. |
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| Weight Loss | Tell me your current Weight Loss Frustrations | Apr 11 2009 22:31 (UTC) |
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My frustration today is... I put in 2 and 1/2 hours today doing activities I dearly love and burning a whopping 1,165 calories. I couldn't wait to spend half that one something yummy - like a york peppermint patty broken over some frozen yogurt. BUT THEN - mom wanted to eat Taco Bell for lunch and I think what the hey, I'll get something small and enjoy it because it couldn't possibly wipe out my deficit for the day. Now I'm at a net surplus of calories without having had dinner. Ugh, and it so wasn't worth the calories. I love my cheat days, but I'd rather spend them on things I want - not eating crappy food just because that's what others want to eat. Being a 'social eater' is so frustrating some days. |
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| Fitness | Jumping Rope - Epic fail. | Apr 11 2009 12:08 (UTC) |
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I wouldn't worry about not being able to jump too long at first - it may be discouraging but you'll improve. Just try to jump for as long as you can at the fastest speed you think you can maintain. Then rest for as long as you need to and start again. You'll also miss less jumps over time - I know I couldn't go 10 or so without missing when I picked it up in August. Now I usually only miss when I'm getting tired toward the end of the workout. I regularly get in about 150-200 jumps per jump period (about 2 minutes) without missing now. The interesting thing I've noticed about jumping rope, since I got a heart rate monitor, was that jumping really tops out your heart rate - way more than I expected. I regularly hit 94% max with an 80s% max average when doing a jump rope workout - the average still encompassing the time I spend walking to recover. And that's even with resting LONGER than I think I need before I feel like I could jump again. So I guess what I meant to convey is that don't just consider your actual jump time - your body is still working hard during the recovery periods. A 15 minute work out, including resting period, is quite a workout in its own right even if most of it is rest time. |
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| The Lounge | kiss my ASS ---> ( Y ) | Dec 20 2008 20:29 (UTC) |
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KMA obnoxious people in the surrounding apartments (and your guests) who caused massive amounts of damage to the walls, emergency lights, and stair rails shared by our apartments - which the land lord is going to take out of all of our security deposits because the rest of us SANE people can't stay up all night every night to babysit the halls on the off chance you and your idiot guests can be caught in the act. If I knew who you were don't doubt for a second that I'd turn you sorry asses in. KMA to the above people for also causing our hallway walls to be lined in freaking METAL SHEETS to prevent more damage, which is also undoubtedly coming out of all of our security deposits. And KMA to the (likely same people) who throw up right in front of the doors out of the apartment complex so often that we have to look before we step out. (Also, thanks to the person who put down the cardboard - at least we can step on something not biohazard and it can be tossed when it gets contaminated.) KMA flu that I've had since Wednesday, while I was grading under a tight deadline. And now I can't enjoy my first few days off since the semester began. KMA stress, depression, and eye infections.
Ok, I feel a little better.
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| The Lounge | Finals week anyone? | Dec 15 2008 17:45 (UTC) |
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One thing about being a grad student - we rarely have final exams. This semester I don't have any.. but also haven't gotten ANY grades back on anything we did. It feels like our grades are going to be totally subjective. I almost would rather have homework/finals just to know where I stood in the class. Instead we get the lovely final projects, presentations, and papers. Ugh.
Good luck on all of your final exams! Just keep in mind that it's the final stretch and then you'll be done with those courses. |
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| Games & Challenges | Stew's Crew Part Deux -- 10-15 lbs by New Year's! CLOSED TO NEW MEMBERS | Dec 12 2008 18:16 (UTC) |
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I'd go biking but it's far too cold for that - walking is more doable without the extra wind chill from speed. Our weather is pretty gross at the moment. I think I'll restrict it mostly to doing weights and jumping rope while I'm gym less. |
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| Games & Challenges | Stew's Crew Part Deux -- 10-15 lbs by New Year's! CLOSED TO NEW MEMBERS | Dec 12 2008 14:40 (UTC) |
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Congrats ladyelizabeth! That's great! I'm still sitting SW of 156, but it's TTOM so it doesn't mean a whole lot. We'll see how in gear I can get this next week, before I'm gymless due to end of semester. |
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| The Lounge | Of all the things I've lost, I think I miss my _ _ _ _ the most. | Dec 09 2008 18:32 (UTC) |
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You can always try bribes... hm, is there a 4 letter word for bribe? According to one website... you could call it a "bait", a "gift", or a "perk." After you give it though, you'll miss your "perk" the most, especially if it doesn't help you get an appeal |
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| The Lounge | Religion! | Dec 09 2008 15:51 (UTC) |
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I thought the Christmas spirit was an adult beverage... |
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| Games & Challenges | Stew's Crew Part Deux -- 10-15 lbs by New Year's! CLOSED TO NEW MEMBERS | Dec 09 2008 15:42 (UTC) |
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Woo, I'm shaking with relief after this morning. I passed my final master's presentation! Now if I pass my classes this semester it's only a matter of taking one more summer class and I'll be home free. I'm going to do a celebratory work out later today, after office hours. No more stress eating is reason enough for me! Now it's just two classes to go plus some grading, so not much left. Hope you all are doing well this week! |
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| The Lounge | Of all the things I've lost, I think I miss my _ _ _ _ the most. | Dec 09 2008 15:17 (UTC) |
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Of all the things I've lost, I think I miss my TIME the most. Oh for all that is good what I wouldn't give to have weekends. It's coming soon when I get out of school... but not soon enough. Having actual free-not-guilty-I-should-be-doing-homework time - is it just a dream? |
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| The Lounge | Favorite Christmas Special or Movie? | Dec 08 2008 21:55 (UTC) |
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I love "Olive, the Other Reindeer" - it's a cute little movie. |
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| The Lounge | Return of Randomly Offensive Post | Dec 08 2008 21:52 (UTC) |
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Original Post by moonikins: Relates traumatic childhood experience involving honking, shaming poster for honking for less than entirely necessary reasons. Defines in explicit terms what needs to be met for honking to be acceptable. Cites 17 sources including 12 of questionable authority, 3 geosites by the same author, and only one reasonable source. Refuses to leave room for alternative reasons for honking. Changes topic without notice to note appreciation for moderators. Brown noses shamelessly. Briefly swerves off topic to relate Peeps into discussion. Meanders aimlessly for paragraphs. Apologizes for long post, mentions need to do some procrastinated on task, and disappears for undetermined amount of time. |
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| The Lounge | Dead threads coming alive | Dec 08 2008 15:55 (UTC) |
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^ That or practice their Threadcromancy skills. Nothing like the dark forum arts to liven up your work day. |
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| The Lounge | I'm not good at anything. | Dec 08 2008 14:40 (UTC) |
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Original Post by moonikins: Oh goodness no, I had buried the memories of having to learn that song in elementary school... ahhhhhh First you bite their heads off, Then you suck their guts out, Then you throw their skin away. Nobody knows how I survive on worms three times a day! (Sorry... reflex...) Schnooder, I agree with the others who said you write very entertaining stuff. I also would like to point out that some of the best things come out of trying to learn/do things and failing - but learning something new or stumbling across something better. If you do things perfectly you never do them differently and never improve. Mistakes are some of the best teachers out there, after all. We learn what not to do again and perhaps better understand what makes something work while we're at it. |
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| The Lounge | Just need a little help | Dec 07 2008 17:39 (UTC) |
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Original Post by hockeygirl44: That second line there really bothered me. I strongly disagree that someone who's thinking about / has attempted suicide is just taking "the easy way out." I know when I was there it was about feeling like there was no other option. It felt like things would never get better, nothing would change, and that everyone was better off without me. It certainly didn't feel like that was the "easy" option. There wasn't a choice about it because to keep living as things were wasn't an option - it was unbearable and I had put up with it for far long enough already. Every waking moment was an exercise in emotional torture and every night was filled with the same thing in the form of nightmares. It was inescapable and had been going on for years. What reason was there to believe it would change? What I'm most thankful for, that got me through my worst moments, were friends who wouldn't give up on me no matter how much I pushed them away. (I was trying to distance myself from everyone before attempting suicide so they wouldn't be as hurt.) They wouldn't let me get far enough away that I felt I could take the one option left to me, and that sometimes made me angry with them for making me suffer longer. They'd let me cry for what surely seemed to them like no reason, and not judge me for it. They didn't press me for answers or reasons, they let me tell them when I felt I could voice it to them. They had endless faith in me that I never felt I deserved but desperately wanted to believe in. I clung to their faith in me like it was the lone lit candle in the dark. I think the best thing to do for someone depressed enough to consider suicide is to let them know you care, help them seek help if they are willing to accept it, not judge them for the thoughts/attempts at suicide, and try to stay optimistic about their future for them (since they are so overrun with negative thoughts). So I hope that didn't come off as bashing you for your thoughts on it being the easy way out. Every time I encountered someone with that point of view it just made things worse for me - because they just didn't understand it had nothing to do with choice. It made me feel even more weak to be "taking the easy way out" as if I didn't think I was the weakest most worthless person on the face of the earth already. It just pushed me that much further down the wrong path. I am so glad I'm not in that dark part of my life anymore. |
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| The Lounge | Why Did They Break My Car Window!!!???!!!? | Dec 07 2008 15:52 (UTC) |
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Some people just don't have any respect for other people, let alone the property of other people. That alone has always disgusted me a fair bit with my peers in high school and now college. I imagine they enjoy it the same way bullies enjoy paining their victims. They don't need any reason - they do it because hurting others makes them feel powerful and thus better about themselves. Which is a pathetic way to live. We have had our mailbox bashed on the order of two dozen times - the first dozen or so we had a 'release' style mailbox that just let go when it was hit and would go flying but sustain little damage. So they put fireworks in it and blew it up. They did that repeatedly to the steel ones we replaced it with, and could have really hurt someone - one time it blew the back part of the box a good twenty-five feet before it smashed into the stairs to the house. We went through at least two to three mail boxes a year for several years there. A steel box could usually survive two to three attacks. All this in addition to the shooting out of car mirrors, multiple eggings, tp'ing, and occasionally finding our mail box flat out stolen. It really makes me want to find a plot of land in the middle of nowhere and have no contact with the outside world for at least a decade. It's disgusting that people treat others that way, and I really have had enough of it to last a lifetime already. |
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| The Lounge | MEH meh meh! | Dec 05 2008 19:55 (UTC) |
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I wouldn't wish the Lifetime channel on my worst enemies. |
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