Posts by baconburger

This post reminds me of a married couple I am friends with.  Lets call them, Jack and Jill. 

It is very possible that he is asexual.  meaning, that he prefers to not have sex with anyone and that he'd rather be alone (is more comfortable) when he busts his nut.

In the case of my married friends, the role is reversed.  Jill doesn't cheat on Jack, but she also doesn't like having sex.  It has nothing to do with Jack.  Jill would just rather masturbate 'alone' then have sex.  She doesn't like sex.

From what Jill has told me (with the help of counseling) they have found a way to compromise.  they have lots of foreplay masturbate together most of the time.  but to be fair to Jack, she has intercourse with him once a week as her compromise since he is willing to masturbate most of the time the rest of the week.  It looks like (from the outside) that it's working, but the only way to be sure is to have a talk with him.

Anyway, I just thought I would throw out another possibility.  Personally, I'd rahter have sex.  I don't know how she masturbates, but if she's using a dildo or something, imo, it's pretty much the same thing as having sex.  Only better because you're having it with someone you love.

You definatly need to talk to him about this.  If you don't, it will only eat you up inside and keep you wondering.  Nobody wants to think their SO is cheating on them.  The sooner you get to the bottom of this, the better you will feel because you'll be able to take some sort of action.  Whether it's breaking it off, or sticking it out.  Either way, you really need to find out!

Good luck.  I hope everything works out

Original Post by moodymomma1977:

how nice. 

wouldn't it be great if you'd take the 'other' cat that needs medical attention to the vet too?  just sayin

it baffles me that you can pick and choose WHICH cat is worthy of medical attention..

*shakes head*

if you have an animal that's in need.... then take it!!  don't pick and choose which cat is worthy of your attention and/or medical need

 

 

*****edit to post other thread that CD started about the cat that is ALSO in need of medical attention

 100% in agreement!!

I had been wanting to say something when I first read that thread, but didn't have the guts to do so (especially because I was a new member).  Thanks for speaking up.  These poor animals that we take into our homes depend on us!

Original Post by cellulitedelight:

In all fairness, I take my cats to the vet.  If Alex wants to take his cat to the vet, it's coming out of his paycheck.

.. Oh, wait, that's right... He doesn't get one. :o

 How can you EVEN use that as an excuse?

Original Post by cellulitedelight:

I so rarely play that card.  Usually only when it comes to his old cat that just needs to die peacefully already.

At least you admit that you DO play that card.  but only when it comes to taking care of YOUR responsibilities... sad

Original Post by betzc:

 Animals do age people... sometimes it IS just time to let go.  CD  doesn't deserve **** about that.

 Read the other thread!  That cat is NOT old.  So anyone who neglects their animals like that DOES deserve **** about it!

Original Post by watergirl:

congrats on making the old cat happy - thats a good story 

note to self...never share personal information with that moody chick

 Note to self about not sharing info with moody?  that's funny..

As long as you're not neglecting your pets, I doubt moody really CARES about any personal info you decide to dish out. 

Original Post by susiecue:

Yes, animals get old, but this cat is *not* old - at least not according to that other thread.  CD said that it was seven years old.  Cats live into their late teens or early twenties.  No, it's not a cute little kitten anymore, but that doesn't make it old.

 EXACTLY

Original Post by watergirl:

wtf is going on here? whats with all the snarky cat people ? i swear all yall people on this site are insane

Snarky?  If you had actually READ the thread, you'd KNOW what we were talking about.  Cuudos to you for defending something you didn't even read up on.

Original Post by momto2siameses:

i have not been on in awhile and boy did I pick the wrong topic to open up.

First off let me say that i am glad that you found something that made Vodka well and healthy once again.

I am a little disturbed by how you treat "fat-cat". 7 years old is not old for an indoor cat. As someone else said indorr cats can live well into their teens and twentys. What this cat needs is love, attention, a vet visit to rule out any medical conditions, and if all else fails a new home. CD has made if very clear that 1. she wil not pay to have the cat taken to a vet 2. she wants it died 3. she wants to see it died a painful natural death because she hates it too much to put it to sleep in a peaceful way.

As for the "I will not take his cat to a vet and pay for it. He can do it and pay for it out of his check..." line well newsflash you married him so his cat is your cat. So you are not taking your cats to the vet when they need it or this cat would already be at the vets right now seeing if there is a medical problem causing all of this.

If "fat-cat" is that big that she can not clean herself properly for the love of god put her on a diet. Would you like to be so big that you could not wipe your own bum after going to the bathroom? No...So why do you think that she enjoys it.

Pet owners are suppose to look after the will-being of their pets...not intentionally watch them die a slow death because the Princess does not like her.

And anyone that can defend this cold blooded, disgusting, nasty attitude towards a pet does not need to ever have one.

 Best thing that I have heard in this thread so far.

hehe... everyone gets a boyfriend here!! (1 2 3 4) 

Im just learning how to do links, so bare with me.

I think you two should have links to each other's threads (for comparison)

I think they're pretty GOOD! 

Pumba

Very nice, thanks moody.   Who can resist a good looking young man like that?  Red and yellow with a sparkly B.  He has my heart and is the bacon on my burger.  lol

Everyone has been assigned a boyfriend or girlfriend except for me.  gee, thanks 

I suppose I am not worthy 

you're all insane! lol

Where do you come up with these 'thread topics'? 

Kiss my ass you inconsiderate jerk (neighbor) who steps ON TOP OF my flowers in the front yard, instead of walking AROUND on the sidewalk like you're suppose to!

Kiss my ass undercover 'secret shopper' who followed me around the entire store because he thought I was stealing!!  Which I was not, I just happened to open my bag to put my phone away NOT to put merchandise IN the bag. Geez

Target Daily Calories cals

^^^

edit: it's not allowing me to copy and paste the entire page...  ah well

yeah... it's a glich alright!

edit2:  I tried it a couple of more times.  the first two still recommended 800 cals, then the third time it said 1200 calories (BUT still has it listed in my eat meter box saying 800 cals)  that's really really strange

orange chicken peel

Oh PERFECT! It's like you read my mind post before I even clicked on the reply button.

1200 calories sounds more like it.

Thank you very much jewelsmcblah!  I really appreciate your help!

although no one has read this or replyed yet,

update: 

I changed the age on "my account settings" to my correct age, but CC+ is still giving me a target goal of 800 calorie eat meter.

I'm not really new here (as I lurked on CC for several months before creating an account)  so I know that an 800 eat meter isn't normal/healthy, so something's not right here.

Any ideas why it's giving me an 800 calorie eat meter?

Theses are my stats:

• 5 feet 0 inches tall
• 140 lbs

Is there anyone with similar stats around?  How many calories are YOU eating?  Before I created this account, I was eating around 1200-1400 calories and exercising around two times a week.  (but I plan up to my exercise once I find out how many calories are right for me)

Oh no no no no!  Are you for real?  By not putting your frozen and refrigerated foods away immediately, can make you VERY VERY ill!  You should throw out all of those items right away before someone takes them out to eat.