Posts by jess_sun

Hey I'm on nuva-ring and I had the same problem this summer. My doc said it's perfectly safe to just replace the ring every month and skip your period. Anyway I left my ring in for an extra week with no mess. What you should do is  change your ring on the 15 of January then resume your regular cycle in Feb.  Just make sure you drink plenty of water, and use some Midol if you start feeling really bloated.

Oh and have fun on that vacation, it sounds like a blast!

ETA If you have already established a regular cycle, it will be difficult to make it happen sooner, that's the way it works for me anyway. I always skip a month and then resume, no bloating or anything else

Thanks guys. I wish I wasn't so preoccupied with finding out what I did. I keep trying to remember if i said something online but nothing comes to mind. I don't know I just feel angry, and hurt, and stupid because I've known it was coming sooner or later i just didn't want to give up. Which of course is stupid because I know better, I never wanted to be one of those girls that hangs on for dear life.

All you guys calling him a jerk, thanks lol. But I am woman enough to say I'm not without fault. Like I said things have been rough.

Original Post by trhawley:

Is there really a good way to break up?  I don't think so. 

It sounds like you should have ended this relationship a long time ago.

yes you are right I should have. and you know maybe a text wasn't so bad I mean after all I don't really need to know what set him off. No harm in being falsely accused as long I know I didn't do it right?

Umney, I called and called and called. 2 voicemails and texted. Maybe he didn't mean for it to end in a break up, but it is. I'm sick of being second guessed. He has ceased to be a boyfriend. I see him once a week, we communicate only through texts and the only time he wants to see me is when he needs to get laid. So I'm done.

hahahaha i'm sitting here giggling at the thought of some crazy lady screaming into the phone "Your employee killed baby jesus!!!" Ah I needed a good laugh.

Tell your friends this isn't a diet, it's a lifestyle change. Tell them that you still intend to eat all the goodies, just not in ridiculous amounts. If that doesn't satisfy them tough beans.

In answer to your question I will try to avoid overeating, I've learned to listen when my body say it's full, but I won't torture myself counting calories. Some turkey, stuffing, homemade mashed potatoes, and deviled eggs sound good and I only get them twice a year.

The danger of Halloween is not in the scary things we see but in the secret, wicked, cruel activities that go on behind the scenes. These activities include:

• Sex with demons
• Orgies between animals and humans
• Animal and human sacrifices
• Sacrificing babies to shed innocent blood
• Rape and molestation of adults, children and babies
• Revel nights
• Conjuring of demons and casting of spells
• Release of "time-released" curses against the innocent and the ignorant.

My favorite part of the article right here. Sometimes I hate the net. You can write anything and not have to cite sources. That really irks the literature student in me who painstakingly copied citations on every notecard so I could ace a report.

No, I'm getting pissed off by people that are lecturing me when I don't need it and expect me to have everyone else take care of my problems, or simply give up on my quest to better my teeth.

You gotta calm down. Most people can't understand your situation. I know what it's like to be let down over and over and over by your parents. You do not sound like a selfish kid. How many adults are still leaching off there parents while partying in college? You are not doing that and if no one else will I applaud you for trying to take responsibility for yourself. Too many teenagers expect the world from their parents nowadays and you are an exception.

That being said you absolutely do need to focus on your schoolwork first. You obviously have a way to get to work now, so I recommend you focus on one goal at a time the first being your braces. I also want to caution you on changing schools. Online school is tough and having the freedom to do it at your own pace is a lot of hard work. I love my school but my first year was hard, I had no time management skills, I wasn't prepared for the increased challenges and I fell behind. You have to have the time and determination to do it without a teacher hovering over you. You will most likely have to rearrange your work hour or cut back all together. If that doesn't sound like something you can handle then stay where you are. I also wanted to say that it's ok if you need to go back to regular school. There have been days that I wished I could because this stuff is hard! But I can't because of medical problems. There is no shame in saying that the situation is too hard.

 I think that you are a very determined young woman and I think you are giving everything to try to better yourself. Just take it slow. If it takes an extra 3-4 months to pay for braces then so be it. Please don't put work over school right now or you will regret it later.

ETA You can take foreign languages online. You record speaking assignment and submit them to the teacher who grades them just as any other teacher would. Tests often consist of writing 2-3 paragraphs in the language in addition to regular multiple choice questions. Essay are required first in English then gradually adding in more of the language until your final essay written entirely in the foreign language.

Original Post by sleepless_in_america:

Original Post by jess_sun:

If you can make it through the year, I recommend Ashworth. I switched from Keystone in May and it's fantastic. Plus my payments are only 40 a month. I would tell you to ease up on the jobs but I'm guessing you have to pay for your schooling and I know CA is expensive I looked into it. The only thing you can do is talk to the vp of your school and see if you can do things differently or make a switch to a different school before your grades suffer. If you need anything else don't hesitate to email, I've become pretty familiar with the world of online courses.

 Actually, my school is free. It's free public lol. I looked into doing it privately and it is very expensive and I couldn't afford it. 40 a month doesn't sound too bad...I'll look into it :) I'm trying to save up/pay for braces and a car. I kind of need these jobs, and other people can do it. Surely I can. It's just CA doesn't make it any easier.

Ah must be thinking of a different school,I've looked at a lot lol. Would it be possible for you to rearrange your schedule so you only work evenings, say 4-10 ? Then you can do your classes during the day like in a public school. Surely between 8 am -3pm you can do six classes, or am I not understanding the schedule? Talk to the boss at your main job and tell them school has to come first. A good boss will understand that. Then go to your fill-in and tell them that your school is threatening truancy. You can only work X-day for X hours and if that isn't possible you'll have to quit. Your education has to come first.

If you can make it through the year, I recommend Ashworth. I switched from Keystone in May and it's fantastic. Plus my payments are only 40 a month. I would tell you to ease up on the jobs but I'm guessing you have to pay for your schooling and I know CA is expensive I looked into it. The only thing you can do is talk to the vp of your school and see if you can do things differently or make a switch to a different school before your grades suffer. If you need anything else don't hesitate to email, I've become pretty familiar with the world of online courses.

That's why people shouldn't do business with family, it gets messy. Maybe you could offer to spend the day with her finding a dog friendly apartment or small house. I would be crushed if I had to give up my puppy.

Ma, I was kinda hoping House would stay there for awhile. It would be kinda cool to see him bust mental cases. The show needs a little mix up.

Original Post by cptbunny:

Original Post by jess_sun:

On a side note, I can't beleive they are charging a 13 yr old with assault, that girl must have really knocked 'em around.

If she was 31, would you still be shocked? Because a fist is still a fist.

I'm sorry if I offended you, it's just that most of the adults in their lives so far are treating the other girls as a "kids will be kids" issue, but the one they are harassing gets slapped with adult charges. I guess I wasn't articulating my thoughts very well

Original Post by jackattack07:

Oh man I can't stop laughing. Women are all completely insane. You think he's dressing like a chick because there were condoms and panties all over the room?!?!? ooomggggggggg

 No I said we didn't know and neither do you. There is probably a 95% chance he is cheating, but you have to admit that there could be other things going on because he left his junk out in the open. Most cheaters don't do that. He made no attempt to hide this stuff from her which means he is either really really stupid, or something else is going on.

Original Post by jackattack07:

LLLLOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLL

 

You think he uses condoms to masturbate.. and found women's underwear.. but you still aren't sure? hahahahaha!

And you people are telling her that she should try to save the relationship? GOOD LORD!

Damn a little insensitive aren't we? No woman ever wants to admit she was wrong about a guy. A lot of that comes from fear of being judged for being "blind" funny how you are doing just that. Bottom line is we aren't in the bedroom with him are we? So we can't judge can we? People are telling her to be calm and ask him about it. Maybe he'll come clean and she can escape with some dignity. Maybe he will admit that dressing up as a woman turns him on , and since he won't dress up in front of her, he can't do the deed. Maybe he is just another jerk who can't be faithful. We don't know, but you don't have a reason in the world to be as mean-spirited as you just were.

She was awesome

In seriousness though

Loving, independent, courageous

I think I'm doing great on the independent part, the loving can use some showing, and courageous needs work.