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| Motivation | I hate cheat days! | Apr 14 2009 16:51 (UTC) |
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There are days when everyone feels the tension and cheats... if they say they dont, well, are they really honest with themself? I have lost a total of 87 pounds in 7 months. Sure, it is hard, and I have hit a plateu, and yes I get more than frustrated when I do my weekly weighin and dammit, the scale hasnt moved as much as it was in the beginning. I am on a 1200 calorie diabetic diet, my doctor put me on it. However, there are days that I go to 1500 calories, and somedays even more, but most days I am very restrictive on my calories and dont even reach the 1200 mark by still eating healthy foods (oatmeal for breakfast, salad for lunch, and a small dinner and yes that can be done) and not be starving. I have found that if I fluctuate a bit on my calories every so often, it helps MY body distinguish how to use the calorie intake better, but maybe that is just me. Planned cheat days are not something I do, I overdo it, so I gave up on planned days. If we go out for dinner, then yes, I eat something I know I like, that is my cheat, even if it does for that day put me over my limit. I never feel restricted. I buy things I like, but low fat, or fat free versions now. Ice Cream... omg! That is a downfall for me, but I found that Skinny Cow is very low calorie for ice cream, and I allow myself one of those per week. Keep veggies ready to snack on in the fridge, celery, broccoli, bell peppers, etc. Spend a bit of time on the weekend cutting them up and ready for snacking so you can grab them instead of a bag of chips. You would be surprised if you put the chips on a high cabinet out of sight, you do forget they are there if they are not at eye level when you open that cabinet. Good luck! I know you can do this. If I can go from 256 pounds (I ALWAYS had something to eat in front of me) to 169 pounds in 7 months, and do it a healthy way, anyone can! |
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| Weight Loss | Seriously need help and input! | Apr 14 2009 16:34 (UTC) |
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I am looking forward to answering the questions! Good luck on the thesis! :D |
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| New Members | So ... who else woke up and said, "How did I let this happen?!" | Jan 28 2009 09:15 (UTC) |
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Original Post by kokorozashi: |
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| New Members | So ... who else woke up and said, "How did I let this happen?!" | Jan 15 2009 04:39 (UTC) |
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My doctor wont let me work atm, all I get to do is walk and i finally got him to agree to letting me go to the classes at the pool... he only agreed when I told them there was a class for people with arthritis and isnt as vigourous as he would think. So, he said he would let me know, and he found out I was telling him exactly what they told me and he approved that, I get to go again HOPEFULLY tomorrow. Although, my sister is in the hospital about 75 miles from here, I dont want to be too far from the phone if I am needed as I dont have a cell anymore. I didnt eat much today, my nerves were sooo bad. I did snack a bit, but not on a meal type thing, and I was busy most of the afternoon, which isnt going to make my other doctor (my husband ;) haha ) happy at all. My real doctor put me on a 1500 calorie diabetic diet when I told him I want a plan I want gastric bypass. He said ok, 1500 calories a day, and it is going to be a diabetic diet... You have no idea how happy I was when I was younger I went to help my mom cook at the nursing home when she was already told she only had 6 months to a year to live, but she refused to stop working, so I started going in and she thought I was just going to hang up there with her, I jumped in and started doing things and together we made their breakfast and lunch and desserts. Mom put me on the diabetic desserts. She knew the cook in the evening only gave the diabetics fruit cocktail EVERYNIGHT for dessert, that way she didnt have to COOK them a dessert. So, I started making a few extras for the evening shift as well. I made diabetic pies, cobbler, cookies, cakes, etc that were completely sugarfree. That summer, mom called me into the livingroom after we got home. She gave me a letter that said something to the effect of : You have worked here all summer without pay. How about you come in on Friday evening and we will start paying you. I kinda became the diabetic bakery girl. Im so happy I done that now. Cause I have a sweet tooth, but I can definately clear that up if I eat one or two bites of a diabetic dessert. So, I know tonight my son asked if I would bake a cake, I told him I would do it tomorrow as it was already too late to start it for him to have any tonight anyways. Today and yesterday were downers for me, and I used to go straight to the fridge, now... I tend to stay busy which is killing the muscles in my back they are trying to treat.... ugh, when it rains it pours! But, I have to agree with you Kokorozashi, when you have a group like this... you realize the things you need to stay on track with. Even when I fail, I will admit it and I admit I didnt come CLOSE to my calorie intake as I should have today. Hope everyone has a good day tomorrow and a great night tonight! |
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| New Members | So ... who else woke up and said, "How did I let this happen?!" | Jan 14 2009 20:13 (UTC) |
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I didnt "wake up" until I was 256 pounds. I am 5 ft 4 inches, so yeah...
I am down 75 pounds since last April. I am doing it by eating better and walking. Yesterday I started a water excersize program. I really enjoyed it. I decided I will go 3 times a week for now, the days I have physical therapy as well. It doesn't take much for me to look at the calories in something and say OMG! WHAT WAS I THINKING?! I buy the packages of flavoring for my water, because I just can not hack plain water, they politely say 5 calories per serving. Cool, I can hang with that. Then I get them all home and realize there are 2 servings per individual packet. Ok, so 5 bottles of water is 50 calories, totally worth it. Then there is the 2 tbsp chili that I wanted on my hotdog last night (still not the best thing, I know) yeah, I ended up eating ONE chilidog instead of the two hotdogs i had planned. I felt really guilty afterwards though. My guilt is what drives me I guess. I have to make myself responsible for my actions. It wasnt anyone else's fault but my own for me to reach that size, and now, at 181, I am still not where I want to be (which is 150) but I have so far met everY SMALL GOAL I have set. Don't set a large goal, those are too daunting, the smaller goals are easier to achieve, and then when achieved, say ok, now, 5-10 more pounds, but set a number not just 5-10 if it is 7 then set 7, so you have a goal to reach. I admire your determination, and I have a feeling you will do great :) I subcounsiously started losing weight, and when I was down 20 pounds at the doctors office I was like WOW! :) Good luck! And welcome! :) |
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| Weight Loss | I hate Thanksgiving and I have another one today! | Dec 01 2008 09:17 (UTC) |
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We had our first Thanksgiving this year in our new house. Of course, we fixed enough for everyone and then some. My starting weight when I joined here was 256 and I am 5'4. I am now down to 191. I found it funny, my dad and well of course the rest of the family loaded up their plates and I ate a SMALL portion of everything on the table. My daughter made a peach pie (diabetic) for me so I could have dessert as well. Everyone had seconds, and then started on desert. My dad looks over at me and says "Are you still eating?!" I said I am on my FIRST plate, thank you!" He just laughed at me. I dont eat fast anymore, cause I tend to eat WAY too much if I do. Sometimes, it takes me 45 minutes to eat a bowl of oatmeal because I have learned that if I preoccupy myself with conversation and put the fork or spoon down to talk, or read when Im alone, I dont eat nearly as much. I actually didnt gain anything this Thanksgiving, which I was very thankful for, but hun, dont get discouraged. You will be able to lose it afterwards. Just eat slow and small portions. I dont let anyone tell me what or how much or how often to eat anymore. I had to take control of that to get where I am now. |
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| Motivation | 30 somethings size 16+ | Oct 06 2008 01:17 (UTC) |
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Oh my Angie, that does sound like a rough 4 days! I so hope your week is better!
Am going to PA for the next few days, so I hope everyone is safe and has a great week! I will see you all when I get back :)
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| Motivation | 30 somethings size 16+ | Oct 04 2008 21:15 (UTC) |
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Hey Ladies! :) I am glad to hear everyone has been doing good. Welcome to the newcomers as well. I am still new too, so still learning names and such. I have been having HORRIBLE foods... tacos, pizza, etc, but have been watching my portions. I am now down to 210. 45 pounds down, so many more to go. But hey, its a start! :D Also, I have found making your own pizza is better than buying from a pizza place or frozen pizza, veggie pizzas arent bad on the taste and YOU control what goes on it! I have noticed a lot of people here are eating salads. I love salads as well, and I have made a promise to myself come Wednesday, I am back to where I need to be. we will be out of town on a company trip and not sure what they will be serving for meals... but, my suggestion on the salads, get various salad dressings. Eating the same one all the time gets old. I went from HV Ranch to HV Ranch light, not much of a taste difference and is great. Also, there are many Kraft dressings that are fat free that are really good as well. Catalina Free is really good. Also, dont add the same things all the time, make a variety of veggies in your salads. If you make them the exact same all the time, it becomes very tiresome very quickly.
Seems I have rambled a lot today, just wanted to maybe give a few suggestions on some foods that I know that have helped me along the way. I will be back in a few days after our trip to PA, then I am back to counting every single calorie as I need to do! You ladies have a great weekend and good luck to you all! :D Hugs, Halo |
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| Motivation | 30 somethings size 16+ | Sep 30 2008 21:51 (UTC) |
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Thank you so much for the encouragement! I have been struggling the past few days, stress is killing me! I have been working hard to stay within my calorie limit, although yesterday I went over a bit :( I seemed to have hit that damn platuaue (sp) but I figure I will get over that too. I havent eaten any late night snacks the past few nights, so that was one accomplishment I spose. I hope everyone is doing well! |
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| Motivation | 30 somethings size 16+ | Sep 26 2008 23:36 (UTC) |
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Kthompson- Wow, that would be a relief for you and your husband, but I sure feel for the young girl involved. That has to hurt her very badly. I would definately document the time and day she dropped her off and talk to a lawyer as soon as possible. That would go a long way in court. Thank you for your support darlin, I already love it here! |
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| New Members | Hi There | Sep 26 2008 23:29 (UTC) |
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oh yeah, i mark EVERYTHING down that I eat. That is what has helped me make better food choices :) |
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| New Members | Hi There | Sep 26 2008 14:44 (UTC) |
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I am still losing anywhere for 1-4 pounds a week. i do take vitamens as well as calcium. I would be willing to try to eat more day, but the guilt would do me in. To be honest, I dont count every single calorie, and I am sure there are days I do go over my 1200 limit, I just try not to go over it by too far. I lost 9 pounds in 2 weeks a couple of weeks ago.
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| New Members | Hi There | Sep 26 2008 12:22 (UTC) |
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Thank you for your reply. My team of doctors put me on the diet, it was mainly for purposes of the lapband surgery when i was considering it, but now, I have lost too much weight for it without having 2 major weight illnesses due to my weight. I have one... hypertention I only recently again began eating at night due to stress. I have been on the 1200 calorie diet for quiet some time now. I suffer from insomnia, and am not hungry when I eat, I just eat out of stress. I forgot to add that in my first post, sorry. I actually don't get hungry at all anymore, I have to remember to eat. The calories are spread out during the day, but I do not eat after dinner at all usually, just this past week I have been pretty stressed out, leading to eating after dinner. Your idea about the artificial sweetner makes sense. I will definately do my best to cut that down to a bear minimum! Thanks again for your reply :) |
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| Motivation | 30 somethings size 16+ | Sep 25 2008 21:29 (UTC) |
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Hi, Im new to this place, and was hoping to maybe get in on the support system you all have going here. I am 31, and to be honest, after reading all of the replies, I feel as if I am the biggest one here. At my heaviest, I weight 255 pounds. My doctor put me on a 1200 calorie diabetic diet. I was debating the lapband surgery. I have lost down to 213 pounds and to be honest, I cant tell you what size clothes I wear anymore. All my old clothes fall off me, and I cant see going out and buying brand new clothes when I am still doing my best to lose weight. I have changed the way I am eating, although I have to have a VERY limited excercise routine due to the fact I have a bloodclot in my leg. My doctor wont allow me to do anything other than walk and swim. Instead of eating a half a bag of chips for a snack, I now eat a tortilla with some deli sliced chicken on it, I changed from Ranch Dressing to reduced cal ranch dressing, I now have a variety of salad dressings that are low cal and taste great. I was actually able to get into a dress I wore 10 years ago. A major accomplishment for myself. However, the problem is, I have found myself snacking late at night again, and that is something I have to stop. Well, I have rambled enough for now. I just wanted to give an introduction to myself and see if I would be able to join in here. Thanks for reading, Michelle aka DucttapedHalo |
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So you can log your weight -- which allows you to do the following:
- Plot your weight curve
- Analyze the trend of your weight (see under Recent in the figure above)
- Determine the projected target date (see under Overall in the figure above)
