Posts by luis_turbo

Original Post by jules817:

Original Post by caloricat:

 a word of advice...if every time your man prefers to be with his friends over being with you is grounds for ending a 3-year relationship....you "may" have a problematic love life for some time.

 can't believe i'm saying this, but I agree with Calcat.

how do you normally react if your boyfriend goes out with his friends without you? does it bother you? do you give him a hard time? my ex used to do that to me. every time i wanted to have a girl's night out, i'd go, then i'd get the cold shoulder the whole next day as if i'd been out doing something wrong. i NEVER once cheated on him in 4 1/2 years. his mistrust was a big part of what ended the relationship for me.  

now, it sounds to me like your boyfriend may have been acting shady, and i wouldn't be surprised if you told me he admitted that some of his other "double shifts" were actually him hanging around and drinking. BUT you got mad before you even gave him a chance to explain, without any proof that he did lie. 

lying is never cool, and i'm not trying to take a liars side, but if you are "breaking up with him every time you get mad" then maybe he just wanted to avoid a fight and figured he would make things easy on himself by saying he was working. i honestly wouldn't blame him. your comment about there being "girls working there" makes me think that maybe you are a bit too jealous. girls are everywhere, doesn't mean he is going to cheat with one. my ex would pout if i so much as mentioned a male co-worker, it made me nuts.

if my boyfriend wants to go out with his buddies and watch sports, shoot guns, hit the bar or whatever else, i tell him to have a great time and then i make my own plans. he'd never feel the need to lie to me about what he is doing, because he knows i'm going to be fine with it (within reason). he also knows if he ever cheated on me, there'd be no second chances. if i break up with someone, i mean it.  

 I kinda have to agree on this, 2nd chances rarely work and you always have to live with that doubt so why bother.   Good Luck though :)

If this has happened many times before why would you put up with that? Yeah, you're better off without him.  . .  GL

Last minute shopping SUCKS !  ;(

TGIF !

1. Calorie Count Name (user id): luis_turbo
2. Name you prefer to be called in discussions: Louie
3. Age & Sex: 26, Male
4. General Location: Orange County, CA
5. Married? Single? Single, kinda, time off
6. Kids? Furbabies? no
7. Favorite color? green
8. Favorite movie? Night at the Roxbury
9. Hobbies? Watching movies, Soccer, DJ'ing, going out, and now running.
10. Favorite Snack? Almonds
11. Favorite Beverage? It was Soda:( , now Propel :)
12. Biggest Obstacle to Getting Healthy? No more fast food.
13. Weight/Fitness Goal? 145 lbs
14. Least Favorite Household Chore? cooking
15. How did you find Calorie Count? random search for healthy eating.
16. Anything Else You'd Like To Share? Key to weight loss is Dedication. :)

Original Post by alibsam:

Put down as much as you can. 

 I agree, right now is a great time because dealers need the business. Don't know if you can get 0% on a used car but if you put a lot down your interest and payments will be low.. GL