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The Lounge Valentine's ideas: for him Feb 11 2009
08:02 (UTC)
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I think your present really depends on how you see Valentines day. Is it a day to celebrate love? a day to remind him that you love him? a day to just buy a present because you have to? a date to create traditions?

Well, for me this year I'm with a fantastic guy :) I feel I'm very lucky and I'm considering that he could be the 'one' hehe hopefuly I'm not jinxing this... anyway, since I felt like this could be a very long relationship, and I went all out for Christmas leting him know I loved him... I decided that this was the time to make traditions. So here's what I did: I grabbed a box, a bit larger than a shoe one and then covered it completly with a collage of photos of us.

I'm not very good with crafts but this was easy to do and I must say the end product was amazing, I'm actually considering stealing it hahaha... anyway, the idea of the box is this: for a year we will put inside the box tickets, letters, menus, candy wrappers, all the things that we did togheter and on the next Valentines day we can open it together and go through the memories of the last year :) hopefully he will like it.

Just in case I went with something traditional also: I got a large transparent jar and filled it with a layer of chocolate kisses (the italian ones seeing as I'm in Italy haha), then a layer of pink gummy hearts, a layer of pink chocolate, another layer of kisses, a layer of red M&M (for this I had to buy 3 bags and take out the red ones heheh), and topped it off with a last layer of kisses :) it looks pretty cool and colorful. And last but not least I'm getting him a gift from Unicef... I think that times like this when we spend so much money on gifts we should also give something back to the people that are really in need :D!

But I think the best gift you can give is spending a wonderful day together, visit a museum or go hiking, go to a park and have a romantic picnic lunch, just have fun together :)

The Lounge Boys [sigh] Jan 26 2009
18:11 (UTC)
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I basically agree with everything that has been said, I just wanted to put my two cents in :) as for the age difference 20 and 23 isn't too much... and the thing about it's harder for older men to fall... meh, I don't really think so.

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 29 (hehehe now, that's a pretty big age difference :p) we have been together for around 7months and we're both very much in love... pretty much like 14 year olds hehe so about saying I love you, or anything of the sort...


Yeah, it's a risk... but isn't that a part of being in love? It's a lot of give and take, ups and downs and risks... but that butterflies that the incertity gives you is kind of nice. I was the first one to say 'I love you' and I was terrified of him not saying it back... actually I had decided for him to say it, but we we're just lying down joking around, and I just couldn't hold it back anymore... I freaking yelled it to him when he was in mid sentence (yeah, I know... not the most romantic moment hahaha) but he was so happy that I had said it because he had been scared to say it himself.

In my opinion if you feel it, say it. What have you got to lose? If he doesn't feel the same, it's not the end of the world... he may just need a bit more of time; but at least you got your feelings out in the open.

In the words of Dido: Well, if I wouldn't of had said... I still would of had felt it. Now where's the sense in that? :P Good luck!

The Lounge Travelling alone to Milan Italy Jan 26 2009
17:59 (UTC)
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Well, I'm not sure how much help I can provide but I happen to live there hehe... if you want feel free to message/email me and I'll do my best to answer... that way at least I can possibily give you some pointers. :)

Health & Support My boyfriend isn't making this easy... Jan 23 2009
10:13 (UTC)
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Oh my! I hadn't even thought about the fact that he might keep track of what I eat, Sonini! hehe I would feel exactly the same way, I bet your bf doesn't realize  how it makes you fell... men can be so clueless sometimes, and we can be a bit... well, sensitive hehehe

Well I talked to him and he said that he didn't realize that I wasn't helping, that he just wanted to make me happy and that he has never considered me being fat, so he really hadn't digested the whole thing... he just thought I was going through a phase.


Hopefully things are clearer now, and we will be able to balance both our needs in the food department, and we will still have a great relationship.


About the food Apricotbunny... I know! It's so hard when you sit down and see the menu with all those yummy things, that you know are FANTASTIC and you have to pick a salad, but oh well... hehehe I'm originally from Venezuela so Italian food is still wow-ing me...! But I think I'll manage it's all in the quantities and frequency :)

Thank you all for the support guys, hopefully all will work out now... I live here alone... my family is on the other side of the world and my friends live about an hour and something away, so having the support from my bf is really important. :)

Health & Support My boyfriend isn't making this easy... Jan 22 2009
17:24 (UTC)
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Thanks apricotbunny, the problem is that I live in Italy so the situation is a bit different. I don't know, people don't seem to pay so much attention to calories and such. And as you can imagine the food in restarants are fantastic, pizza, pasta, lasagna but they're anything but low fat. But I think I'll be able to find a way to balance it out.


Tonight I'm going out for a dinner and a movie, let's see how it goes. I would propose to cook at home because like you said it's pretty romantic, but he already reserved at the restaurant... meh, guess this is a good time to talk to him hehehe

Health & Support My boyfriend isn't making this easy... Jan 22 2009
15:50 (UTC)
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Thank you so much guys for the answers :) I don't really think he's sabotaging me... guess he just wants to make me happy, and well I can't complain about it. Guess I will just have to be a bit a more specific about what I can and cannot do/eat. Maybe I can give him a tour of the site so he gets it...

And I guess eating out, is just his way of spending time together but the cooking together tip is actually a good idea. Lets see how well this goes... :) Thanks for the support guys!

New Members Food Dairy updates & info outside the US Jan 20 2009
05:53 (UTC)
3

Hey welcome! :) I'm a bit of a newbie myself but I live in Italy so I often find myself having the same problem with the foods not being listed... but if you go to the Food log and use options numeber 2 you can add personalized food... so you would just have to look at the food's label and add the calories, carbs, fat, protein, etc

As for the other, I'm not sure... maybe using the same method you could gruoup all the of the sandwiches values again: calories, fiber, carbs... and then when you add it, click on the T and tag it, that way you can always have it at hand if you want to add it again (to find your taged itemsgo to account ----> tagged items)


Hope this helped and good luck!

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