Posts by kadarka

when i increased my calories i felt EXACTLY the same way as you.......you feel as if the fat is growing on you straight away. and the top of your thighs are rubbing together....sometimes i dont even want to leave the house because i feel like the michlin man =(.....

BUTT BUT BUTTT after we get through these crazy thoughts we will be happier....heatlhier.....and enjoy food and life a lot better :)

But i do understand what you are going through.....keep going =) x

yeah it is probably right!

i work as a waitress too and if you think about it you do a hell of a lot of walking, lifting plates, running up and down stairs, cleaning tables ect. x

thanks watergirl =)

Your right, and i think i will block them. I dont get it though if i saw a post which annoyed me i just wouldnt say anything!?

Original Post by pgeorgian:

Original Post by salmander23:

so what if i chose that picture for my avatar? that's totally irrelevant to what we're discussing.

you must know that's a pretty loaded image.  especially around here.  i mean, the one twin (dunno which) is kind-of a pro-ana icon.  if that's an association you want to continue, obviously that's your choice, but it's going to affect how people perceive you.  when i use my hag avatar, it's because i want everyone to know i'm mean.  y'know?

Oh really because when i saw yours i thought oh that dog looks like a bitch.....is that what you want to be perceived as, because your doing a good job. well done and Keep it up!

Original Post by pgeorgian:

salmander, if you want to be taken seriously, get a new avatar.

nobody is saying she has to exercise.  i'm usually the first one to advocate taking recovery days, and i firmly believe that getting enough sleep is always more important than getting enough exercise.  what i'm challenging is her perception of what her parents are thinking.  mind-reading is always a bad idea.

 Ok on your last post you where basicly saying that i need to grow up!?

and here you are taking a dig at someone over her avatar....wow! contradicting much!

no its good that they encourage me to go....its just they seem to be pushing it a bit too far they seem overly enthusiastic too me.

Thats what made me think, is that their way of saying im chubby. Thats all i was trying to say, (if you get what i mean) im not slating them at all they are ace parents!? Its just making me feel this way thats all.

Thank you eerica

Im glad you undrstand its like you shouldnt be eating this much (but you should)....... I think its just the fear of weight gain and what others think.

Did you go through this then? Did you experience any weight gain? if so how long did it take to come off?

And i thought that my overeating (binging) every couple of days has eased off, but i ate loads yesterday like 4000calories easy! but at least there was a 5 gap from last time i did it.

Just feel major puffy today like the marshmallo man off ghostbusters ha!

(im guessing you know what i mean)

thanks again  xxx

That post has made me feel better thanks kiwiberry :)

i think i just needed reasurance from someone else who feel the same way i do! Yes it is like i need to restrict again but i wont and see how it goes.

Thankyou for all your replies guys  x

Really no one...... =( ?

oh man! you had a concussion and i was moaning about being lazy ermmm *hangs head in shame*....

well i still dont understand why???

oh hahaha!! i thought you were saying not to oops.

=D yeah i will give it a go and see where it gets me...

thank you for all your help karozel, your a star !!!

Good luck with your weight loss too!

Oh gutted i thought i could sneak it in as exercise ha!  And im glad you can get what i am on about as a fellow waiteress =)

Yeah i suppose your right....i just tryed to double check my weight again and im around 8.5ish stones how many pounds is that?

I feel quite healthy but i do have body issues (hey what girl aint lol) But will try some weight lifting instead =)

Its also good to mix up your workout. So on the days you dont feel like running is a good thing  because then you can find another form of working out.

good luck!

omg!! thank you Risabella, that was really helpfull.

see its because of people like you i joined this site. because there is always someone to help you out.

Thanks again =D

oh dear =( i will put my stats up as soon as...... =D

well im 5,7" and 120lbs my intake is normally around 1400 a day.

I will try upping them a little to see what happens, anddd i will book an appointment with the doctor about my problem.

Thank you for your post ddugan =D appreciate it lots x