Posts by mabenner1


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Weight Loss can i add muscle while dieting? Nov 25 2009
20:04 (UTC)
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You can't build muscle while eating in a caloric deficit, outside of some newbie gains at first. That being said, you can maintain the muscle you have by lifting, and getting enough protein (about .5-1 g per pound of body weight).  Then, once you hit your weight goal, you can up your calories and bulk in muscle.

Weight Loss 5'7'' and 140 lbs with goal of 120 lbs - anybody with similar height/weight/goal? Nov 24 2009
20:16 (UTC)
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It depends on what you want to look like. I'm 5'7", and have lost 35 pounds (currently at 150).  I was the same height in high school, and didn't weigh less than 135 (and was in excellent shape..I ran 5 miles a day, played field hockey 9 months of the year),  which is why 140 is my goal (I'm 27).  If you want to look like a middle schooler, and not a woman, then go down to 120. But you'll have no figure. You'll be a stick, but if that's your goal...

Fitness Eliptical everyday? Nov 20 2009
00:45 (UTC)
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Just take at least one rest day a week, so your muscles can recuperate. Also, try doing HIIT on the elliptical, you get more explosive workout in a shorter time. You can do 15-20 minutes of high intensity instead of an hour of steady state, which will end up doing nothing for your muscles.

Weight Loss Any brides trying to slim for their wedding...? Nov 20 2009
00:43 (UTC)
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I'm getting married June 12 2010. I've already lost 34.5 pounds since March, and have about 10 to go. I have my first dress fitting Saturday!

Health & Support Survey: Birth Control Method Nov 14 2009
01:09 (UTC)
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Original Post by mperic81:

I am so forgetful about taking birth control pills and I do NOT want to get pregnant.  I wanted to ask you a quick survey, since you are all so smart! Even if you use "the pill" could you please fill this out, or offer some tips?

What method of Birth Control do you use?


yasmin (a pill)

How long have you reallied on this method?

i have been on some kind of pill since 2001

Has it always been effective?

yes

Any side effects?

less cramps, lighter period, some weight gain with ortho tri-cyclen, but i lost weight just fine when i started dieting/exercising

What do you know about IUD?

That i really really want one, but my doctor won't do it since I haven't had children yet, and its harder to insert if you haven't given birth before.



Weight Loss Fifteen hundred... Nov 13 2009
02:34 (UTC)
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To gain a pound, you would have to eat 3500 calories over your maintenance calories. So no. You haven't ruined anything, and you're most likely undereating if your goal is 1300 depending on height, weight, and age.

Weight Loss I know I am losing weight because....... Nov 12 2009
18:03 (UTC)
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its much easier for my fiance to pick me up and throw me over his shoulder LOL

Fitness Gaining Muscle with Deficit Nov 04 2009
15:30 (UTC)
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You need excess calories to build muscle outside of newbie gains. Protein consumption will help keep the muscle you have, but you won't build any more while in a deficit.

The Lounge 15 year old gang raped on street, people onlooked and joined Oct 28 2009
00:41 (UTC)
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This made my stomach turn. about a dozen people watch, and don't do anything about. that poor girl. all it would've taken is a 10 second call to 911, and this girl life would have been less f***** than it is now. its so sad.

Weight Loss Why am I not losing weight anymore? Oct 13 2009
23:56 (UTC)
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doublepost

Weight Loss Why am I not losing weight anymore? Oct 13 2009
23:56 (UTC)
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You are on the low end of healthy now. At your goal weight, 118, you will have a BMI of 18.5, which is borderline underweight/normal. Your fats are also very low, you should be eating at least 20-25% fats.

The Lounge Would you pay for your daughter's birth control? Oct 13 2009
23:21 (UTC)
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Original Post by spoiled_candy:

HELL Yes, paying for birth controll is a lot cheaper than raising your grandchildren.

Exactly. My mom took me to the doctor to get put on BC in high school, because she knew things happen sometimes, and you're better off safe than sorry.

Fitness Smokers outside the cardio room Oct 13 2009
23:18 (UTC)
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Original Post by delaney86:

Original Post by mabenner1:

I don't think its fair to judge someone for trying to better their lives, while they still have a ways to go. 

I totally agree, but I don't think she is trying to judge anyone. I think she is just watching out for her own lungs.

I found the statement Plus, why are they going to the gym only to smoke after or before their workout???" to be pretty judgemental. You don't know why I work out. You don't know why I smoke. So don't worry about it. Granted, you shouldn't have to breathe in the smoke, but don't worry about someone's reasons for smoking.

Weight Loss Muscle gain?? Oct 13 2009
23:15 (UTC)
Original Post by awestendorf:

Yep, there are a million reasons why you might now have lost weight (water retention is my typical culprit).  Higher sodium, a bigger meal the day before, sickness, lower water consumption, travel - all of them mess me up!  Don't let the small loss get you down - it will eventually catch back up with you!

I'm 99% sure that it's not muscle gain, unless you're also doing resistance training.  Pilates is not going to build muscle.  Even with heavy weight lifting, if you're eating at a deficit, you're not going to build more than a couple pounds of muscle over your first few months - and that's only if you're new to lifting.  That said, if you enjoy pilates and it gets you to be more active, by all means keep it up.

^^This.

Fitness Smokers outside the cardio room Oct 13 2009
19:06 (UTC)
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I smoke before/after my workouts. I'm not ready to quit yet, but I am getting back into shape before I do. I don't think its fair to judge someone for trying to better their lives, while they still have a ways to go. They have to start somewhere, and quitting smoking is not always the easiest first step.

Fitness Best exercise for flattening tummy? Oct 09 2009
17:30 (UTC)
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Abs are made in the kitchen.

The Lounge How does medical insurance work exactly? Oct 08 2009
22:40 (UTC)
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If they have insurance, the company will cover some, but not most, of treatment. Likely, they will be stuck with thousands of dollars of medical bills. I have insurance, and still have to pay for some medical care.  And, unfortunately, they will still have to pay if she passes away. They still spent money, time, equipment, and energy trying to save her.

Weight Loss Losing Inches NOT Pounds Oct 08 2009
17:45 (UTC)
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If you've truly lost 20 inches, you should have dropped several sizes.  Are you ensuring proper measuring tape placement when measuring?  Its hard to measure yourself in the same spot each time, and this can affect your results.

Fitness problem areas: thighs/triceps Oct 08 2009
12:34 (UTC)
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You obviously asked this question looking for  a specific answer. You didn't get what you are looking for (because its not possible!), and now you're lashing out. MY advice?  listen to the posters above me, because they do know what they are talking about.

Weight Loss Weight doesn't match pants size? *awkward topic, sorry* Oct 06 2009
19:27 (UTC)
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I've lost 33 pounds, and many many inches, but am still a D cup :) . I haven't lost a bit of boob, and my fiance loves it that way LOL. Good luck to ya, because I haven't seen a bit fall off from my chest 

Weight Loss NOT LOSING WEIGHT or INCHES?? Oct 05 2009
19:43 (UTC)
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What she said ^^^^^^

 

You need to eat more. Lots more. If you are burning 500-600 cals a day, I'd say you need to eat at least 1800, which would net you at 1200-1300 which is on the low side, but should be appropriate for your height.

Weight Loss 80% good 80% of the time Oct 02 2009
18:10 (UTC)
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As long as your one meal isn't 3500 calories over your maintenance calories, you will benefit from this. I actually take one whole cheat day a week, and I am still losing weight. I'm down 33.5 pounds over 5 1/2 months...Enjoy yourself once in a while, otherwise, restricting too much will make you more prone to binge.

The Lounge Michael Vick and Nike reunite? Oct 01 2009
20:46 (UTC)
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Original Post by lysistrata:

This might be too soon ...

But ...

It may reassure y'all somewhat that so far, Vick totally sucks.  Well, maybe that's overstating it, but he definitely isn't making big plays and seems likely to remain solidly third in line for the QB position.  He also isn't running nearly as explosively as he used to, which gives him limited value in the wildcat offense.

So, unless things really start to turn around, it's entirely possible the Eagles won't pick up his option for next year.

 I think its wayyyy too soon to tell. He only took 3 snaps in his first NFL game in about 2 years. I'm an Eagles fan, and I'm excited as hell to have Vick in Philly. We're gonna do some nasty **** on the field this year with him to back up McNabb (once he gets healthy)

Weight Loss What is this 1200 calorie bullsh*t? Oct 01 2009
20:21 (UTC)
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Original Post by fitmom4life:

Original Post by blackout:

I'm 5'7 and weight 140 so I'm not chubby but I wouldn't mind toning up a bit.
I don't count calories .. at all so I'd say I easily eat 3000+ plus a day. I guess I'm not blowing up like a baloon because I'm 18, I don't know.

I'm a 28 in jeans but I want to get down to a 26, so just lose a couple inches.

I made myself a 2000 calorie meal plan with a half hour of cardio every day and some core excersises. I never count calories and I never excersise so I'm expecting results from this.

Then I go on this board for fitness & food tips and everyone's eating between 1200 - 1500 calories a day AND excersising?

WTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HOW CAN PEOPLE DO THAT?
I feel like I'm over eating but eating 2000 cals a day but that should be fine shouldn't it? You confuse me CC. >.<

You eat 3000 calories a day, and you are 5'7", and you weigh 140? 

Yeah...I believe that. Sealed

 

 When I was in high school, as a 5'6" 135 lb. athletic female, I easily ate over 3000 calories a day. I ate fast food breakfast every day, soda all day, 2 school lunches, snack before practice, THEN dinner. THEN booze when I went out. So, I believe her!

The Lounge Has Any Relationship Ever Made it Through A Big Weight Loss? Sep 30 2009
19:33 (UTC)
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I've lost 33 pounds, and my relationship is better than ever!  We do more active things, we "enjoy" each other's company more Wink and i'm more confident, which he finds very sexy. 

Fitness Squats & Saddlebags! Sep 25 2009
15:35 (UTC)
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Lift heavier. Increase your weight so you're only able to do 3 sets of 6-8, and the last rep feels like you're really pushing it.

Weight Loss Why do diets not work? Sep 23 2009
15:43 (UTC)
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What works is making a legitimate lifestyle change. Making healthy food choices, going to whole foods over fast foods, and exercise. Being generally healthy will lead to good things. Sure, you can crash diet, lose 20 pounds, and get skinny fast, but it won't stay off.  The slower you lose the weight, the more likely you are to keep it off.  Its not just a diet, it has to be a life change.

The Lounge How do you feel about porn? Sep 21 2009
20:24 (UTC)
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Original Post by jules817:

so am i the only woman here who not only isn't bothered by her man watching it, but is also turned on by it herself? not all of it, but some. i'm not into the kind of thing where the woman is obviously uncomfortable, degraded or looks really young. but when it's two obviously very consenting adults i've got no issue with it.

never once have i considered it a slight on me if my boyfriend or ex bfs watched it. only if he started turning down the real thing in favor of his laptop and his hand would i be bothered.

 We watch together, occasionally, but only to get the real thing started Wink

The Lounge Any one live in maryland-baltimore??? Sep 20 2009
22:46 (UTC)
Original Post by thec00kieb0x:

Salisbury area here

I'm in Ocean Pines LOL

The Lounge How do you feel about porn? Sep 20 2009
21:26 (UTC)
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I've lived with my fiance for over 3 1/2 years, and I've found porn on the computer only a few times.  I just don't think about it. We have a very healthy sex life, and masturbation is completely normal. I would be more freaked out if I found pics of me that he was whacking it to.  I joke around and make fun of the titles if I do stumble upon it, because the video titles are so ridiculous.  I know he masturbates, because he's a 23 year old, but I've never seen him. So you can pretty much count on your man masturbating, even if you've never "caught" him or found the sites on the computer.

If I were to let the fact that he masturbates make me feel worse about myself, I'd be pathetic.  Me and porn have nothing to do with each other. 

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