Posts by amykins1283

No video game can take the place of human interaction. 

Like another response mentions, though, education is definitely going towards a more "exploratory" approach to problem solving and learning, especially when it comes to math and science. 

I teach kindergarten and we use a very interactive approach to all of our teaching.  We do things called mini-lessons in order to introduce a concept and then children are encouraged to explore the concept on their own while the teacher walks around encouraging them, offering guidance, answering questions, etc.  If we see a student who is struggling then we offer one on one help, if we see that a student is grasping a concept well then we can offer ideas for more advanced exploration.  After everyone has given it a whirl we come together and talk about what they did, what worked, or what didn't work, and what they learned. 

Here is a sample math lesson:  Let's say I want to teach about an ABAB or 1212 pattern, like circle, square, circle, square, etc.  I would have students line up each holding either a circle or a square.  I would put them in order, read the pattern, and then ask the students what they think would come next.  I would tell them that this is an AB pattern and then ask them what they can tell me about it (it uses two shapes).  After that "mini lesson" the kids would then be asked to use small shapes to each make the same pattern on their own.  After each child has copied the pattern I would encourage them to make their own pattern with different shapes.  After everyone had made their own patterns then we would get together and share them with each other and talk about how they are all AB patterns even though they look different.

It's really a good approach.  No one is singled out if they don't "get it" right away because everyone is mostly paying attention to their own work.  Everyone can work at their own pace and the kids get to be hands-on and really gain an understanding of the whole concept. 

BUT...no video game can replace a teacher.  They can enhance the learning experience but that's about it.   

No one is force feeding anyone this food.  The way she cooks, it's her thing.  She's a southern gal and traditionally southern food has a lot to do with butter, mayonnaise, meat, and deep fat frying.  If you don't like it, don't eat it and don't watch the show.  No one should "stop her".  She's free to do what she likes.  She makes these recipes to entertain and be extreme in order to grab people's attention.  I've never seen her hold someone down and shove a Krispy Kreme burger down their throat.  She also never touts any of her dishes as being healthy.  She readily acknowledges that they are full of butter and fat.

A little fried chicken or even a serving of Krispy Kreme Bread Pudding every once in a while isn't going to hurt you.  Everything in moderation people. 

Beef and Broccoli isn't too bad and neither is Moo Goo Gai Pan (it's also called Chicken with Chinese Vegetables).  Anything that is a lean protein paired with veggies is a better choice.  Avoid sweet sauces and anything fried.  Also, eat steamed rice instead of fried.  Bonus points if they have brown rice. 

I forgot to mention that I am allergic to dairy.  I take calcium with vitamin D supplements instead.

Original Post by timeeatthesun:

Jeez bra fitting? What's that all about- do you have to go topless while some stranger measures your chest or what?

 

Plus is it normal that they are kind of numb :/ and the skin is very translusent- I can see all of the veins!

You don't have to get naked.  They normally do it over your clothes.  That being said, a good bra fitting is ESSENTIAL to finding the correct size bra.  Wearing bras that fit you well are the number one thing you can do to help prevent sagging.  At a lot of stores the sales people can help you find the best bra for your shape.  Don't be embarassed because it's really the best thing you can do for your breasts and you will definitely be thankful that you decided to have it done.  I've had one done and now all my bras fit well and are very comfortable!   

Also, the vein/numbness thing is pretty normal.  I have smallish breasts and I can definitely see a lot of veins.  I'm pretty pale so I think that has a lot to do with it.  My breasts aren't really sensitive except for around the nipples. 

There are several conditions that could cause these cramps.  IBS is one of them. 

There is also a condition called spastic colon which causes the colon to seize up with very severe cramps.  I was diagnosed with spastic colon in 6th grade.  I never passed out from my cramps but I would be in the fetal position on the floor bawling my eyes out.  There is a medication, a muscle relaxer, that you dissolve under your tongue that helps that a doctor can prescribe.

You could also have ulcerative colitis.  This is a more severe condition.  I was diagnosed with it when I was 15.  From what you described, I don't think you could have this BUT diseases can manifest in all sorts of ways so, even though it's unlikely, it's still within the realm of possibility.  UC causes severe cramping but it is often accompanied by diarrhea (many times bloody) and sometimes severe vomiting. 

I would look up a good gastrointerologist.  They specialize in the digestive system and will be able to give you a more specific diagnosis. 

They are popping up like crazy here in northern Georgia.  I looooove their burgers but am not a huge fan of the fries.  I always just get a little hamburger with lettuce, onion, mayo, and mustard.  They have hot dogs and a few other things but I haven't bothered with anything other than the burgers! 

Original Post by puh8suwrux:

I have to say, I am the owner of a 75 lb agressive dog - a black lab/great dane mix, we think.  He (and yes, he's neutered) usually doesn't want to hurt the other dog, but he was not socialized well and thinks the way to play with other dogs is to jump on them, roll them over, and pretend to attack them, all while growling rather viciously.

For that reason, he's NEVER allowed off the leash.  If I see another dog walking by, I grab hold of his collar and hold him close to me.  I wouldn't even consider taking him to a dog park. 

What gets me is people who go walking with their tiny, mega-egoed dogs without a leash (ie. not in a dog park), and when that dog comes and starts something with mine, look at me like I'm dirt while I am trying to keep my dog from smooshing theirs.

 You are a responsible dog owner!  Good for you for knowing your dog's limits.

I can't STAND people who assume that, because their dog is small, it doesn't matter if he acts aggressively.  Every year the Humane Society sends someone to my elementary school for career day and every year the guy tells the kids that they need to be most careful around small dogs because small dogs are responsible for a much larger percentage of dog bite incidents.  He says that it mostly stems from people not taking the time to correct behaviors when the dogs are young because "They are so small, what harm can they do?". 

Original Post by lynners:

Irresponsible dog owners drive me nuts!

I'm currently fostering a dog who doesn't have the greatest reputation for being friendly with other dogs. I'm clearly am not ever going to take her to the dog park or ever have her off leash! There are a lot of dogs that live in my neighborhood, and in the near by park (not off leash OR a dog park) so many owners let their dogs off leash. I'm worried that one day one of those dogs isn't going to have good re call and just come barrelling over to say hi, and I'm going to be the "bad guy" because my dog was aggressive. Train your dog, jerk off!

 I can't stand it when people act like their dogs can do no wrong and just let them off the leash whenever, wherever.  Just last week I was walking my dogs and this little ankle biter started chasing us up the sidewalk.  His owners were calling him, trying to bribe him with treats but he just wouldn't listen to them and kept chasing us.  People need to know their dogs and treat them accordingly!  I have one that is fine off leash, comes when called, and doesn't wander so in the right environment I will occasionally let him off.  The other one is more stubborn and has a tendency to wander so he is NEVER allowed off leash in an unfenced area.  I just can't trust him!

I've read them all and I love them.  I'm generally a fan of books that are an "easy read" although I do dabble in more sophisticated literature from time to time. 

The first three books are pretty much the same as the movies and aren't very long.  You could definitely get through them easily.  Books four through seven are fairly long but still entertaining.  There are a lot of things in those books that is altered or left out of the movies because there just wasn't time to include it.  

I've been to the midnight premiere for every movie that's come out AND bought book seven at midnight and stayed up until 7 or 8 the next morning reading until I was done. 

I've never been a fan of fantasy (I especially can't stand Twilight!) but for some reason I really enjoy Harry Potter. 

Original Post by skinnylea:

I am 100% and in fact 110% with you with this one. I have a wired hair terrier and one time I was on a trail near my home where I ALWAYS walk him off leash (he is obedient and I trust him completely). We went around a corner and I saw my bogan neighboors who have a boxer, pit, and a rottweiler. As soon as I saw them I leashed my dog and the boxer and rottweiler charged my dog! My adrenaline went through the roof! They basically had no control over their dogs and I was pulling my dog around on his leash helping him avoid the snapping jaws of these two large dogs. Finally they pinned my poor dog to the ground and I just screamed at the top of my lungs, as high pitch as I could go and it shocked the two dogs long enough for their lame owners to take control. Then the three of them were like "Oh were sorry they have never done that before". . . . bull ****. I see their dogs act agressive towards others through their fence. They are terribley trained animals. It was an awful experience and luckily Arty was okay. I don't have anything against those breeds either. The problem are the owners of those dogs. They don't take the time to train breeds that could potentially be dangerous. It's always the same type of bogan who purchses those breeds as well. Was the retriever okay? I would have been furious as well.

 I've found that there are two types of people who own "Bully Breeds".

The first are people who genuinely like the breed and are willing to train their dog in order to help disspell the violent reputation the breed has. 

Then there are the elitists who see owning an aggressive breed of dog as some sort of status symbol and like the controversy. 

I really would like the population to wake up and realize that dogs are not accessories.  They are living things that need love, care, and extensive training.  If you aren't willing to put in time it takes to properly socialize and train your dog then don't get one. 

I'm currently doing it.  I had been running/walking on my treadmill in order to get some of my physical fitness back.  I printed out the program and actually tweaked it so that I was actually doing a total of 40 minutes instead of 30.  My goal is to work up to 40 minutes of solid running at 5 mph on a level surface and then begin playing with the incline and speed to build more endurance.  I really want to run a 5K or 10K by next spring/summer.

I'm game! 

Age:  25

Height:  5' 6"

Current Weight:  151.0

Goal Weight:  140 by September 30th

Mini Goal:  145 by Labor Day Weekend (Bachelorette Beach Weekend with friends!)

I just feel better when I weigh less, eat well, and exercise.  I was 160 at my highest weight and just felt like a huge, jiggly, blob.  I was just unwell.  I decided that I could NOT allow myself to continue to gain weight and I've been conscious of it ever since.  I haven't seen the 140's in quite a few years, though, so I'm a little apprehensive about whether or not I'll be able to get there without too much of a struggle. 

It was the purging combined with dehydration that probably caused your extreme dizziness.  The uncontrolled vomiting could have been a result of the three glasses of wine on an empty stomach that was already weakened from a week of purging. 

I don't have bulimia BUT I do have a digestive disorder that can cause me to have diarrhea and vomit uncontrollably when it is flaring up.  During my last flare up I had some serious problems with my heart rhythm/dizziness after a day of vomiting and not being able to rehydrate myself properly.  I had to get my electrolytes back in balance quickly in order to help restore a normal rhythm.  If you were purging you could have not only caused yourself to have an electrolyte imbalance, since you didn't drink anything, but you could have depleted your body of potassium which is one of the most important minerals for your heart.