Posts by wormyeyelid

It's sad that you measure your self-worth on what other people think of you.

Losing weight will not make a clod of a difference to one's self-esteem.

How am I being naive? By going against what everybody else is saying? I'm just voicing my own opinion.

I'm sorry, but where did I say that fat people shouldn't have high self-confidence? Everybody should have self-confidence, but nobody should be exceptionally proud because of their body shape. This is what causes body superiority.

Feminism has NOTHING to do with rejecting natural female bodies, or trying to alter or "perfect" them. Don't delude yourself - it's exactly the opposite. If you "almost" admire models (don't kid yourself, if you have an ED, you know there's nothing "almost" about it)

I'm just faulting society in it's entirety when talking about 'perfecting' natural female bodies. I hate the whole concept.

And please don't judge people with eating disorders. Eating disorders have existed a lot longer than super-thin models. They have very little to do with vanity.

Do you honestly think I spent two years slowly killing myself for vanity?

I don't admire models, but I don't have a problem with them either. They have been chosen to market goods for the fashion industry, and society as a whole has chosen what 'beauty' is. The fashion industry is proving how women will supress the human instinct of eating for vanity.

Yes there is a lot of body fascism in the fashion industry, but that would not be the case if society was more tolerant to different body types, or did not put so much emphasis on appearance.

Sorry!

True, but I'm in recovery now and part of recovery is learning to accept who you are and to stop looking for perfection.

Mypuppymylife: Haha, well it's only an inch! You're probably in better proportion than I am. Really, my proportion is a mess.

If you don't mind me asking, why did you think I was beautiful??? I'm not sure where you'd get that idea! But everyone's beautiful in their own way, you know!

I'm 5'7 and my waist is 24".

Don't be so prejudiced.

You don't know me, and you don't my boyfriend.

So don't judge.

No, I don't think you're ok. You're too young to be dieting.

Why does it matter that you're going to Ireland?

I'm from Ireland and I can tell you that the food here is just the same as anywhere else just better quality and more expensive.

US sizes are roughly 4 sizes bigger than UK sizes,

i.e. US size 0=UK size 4

      US size 1=UK size 5

      US size 2=UK size 6

Oooh, let's see. My diabetes (not the overweight kind, simply because I knew a lot about calories etc.), poor self-esteem, very high goals, competition with my female friends and peers, the list is endless really.

Original Post by max298:

You are not gay or bi...These are choices that people make either because they are confused or in many cases abused.These choices are more prevelent these days because of Hollywood and others promoting this activity as normal,which it is not.If you have girl parts you are a girl and naturally that means you were created to someday be with a man, built the way he is to be with a girl.

This is the natural order of things and notice the post you have gotten are from those who have made the choice to go against the natural order of things... Misery loves company!!!

Please put this unnatural act out of your mind and be a kid as long as you can without worrying about sexual things.You are to young to make a life changing decision like this.

 

That is so incredibly ignorant.

Homosexuality and bisexuality is very normal.

Ok, thanks.

I just wanted to clear that up.

Hey, I'm sorry if I was rude, I guess I should have warned you that I have no real regard for my health and I'm not too bothered about living for very long.

But thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. Although I'm not going to tell my parents about my ED because I'm not quite ready to get better yet. I can't wait for the day I will be ready though.

Thank you.

And can I just add, I was laughing at ktjo because I've never heard a randomer on the internet express so much concern for my well-being.

And I have amenorrhea, so technically, I can't get pregnant. I haven't had my period in quite some time now. Should I be concerned? I haven't told anyone yet.

I am not a 'tool' for my boyfriend. I know that plenty of asexuals do engage in sex just to please their partner. I don't really care, maybe I sound easy, but I love him and I just want to please him.