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Young Calorie Counters Fast Food, Anyone? [: Aug 24 2009
12:02 (UTC)
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Fast food: relating to, or specializing in food that can be prepared and served quickly.

I think raiding the fruit bowl on my kitchen table is the fastest food I can get.  :)

Tastes better and it's healthy...well, except Bill & Bob's roast beef sandwiches dripping in bbq sauce and stuffed with onion rings.  It takes over an hour for me to get one of those though.

Fitness Gym Etiquette/Pet Peeves Aug 22 2009
23:15 (UTC)
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Original Post by sybil878:

I hate gyms that have a 20 or 30 minute time limit on cardio machines during peak hours. If I'm running on a treadmill I'm not even warmed up for 20 or 30 minutes and if I showed up for a work out, I want to work out not have some half assed work out.

Me too...I do a 90-min treadmill workout and we are only allowed 30-min (2 blocks).

This is how I manage to get away with it...I write my name in for the first 2 (15-min) blocks, then write in a friend's name for the second two and then back to my own name...since the machine is reserved for the next 90 min, I don't have a problem.  :)

Fitness Gym Etiquette/Pet Peeves Aug 22 2009
13:01 (UTC)
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Original Post by bookworm12_2003:

So there are the obvious gym etiquette things like wiping down your machine when you are done.   

What are the things other people do at the gym that bother you the most? 

That is the ONE thing I really hate.  I have started telling those sweat-sharing piglets to wipe down the machines when done.  It seems the norm...and one of the people who do this was actually an employee of my gym.  She's gone now, thank God.  (Gross!!!)

It is rude to leave your germs all over the machines...even if you are not ill, you can make someone else ill--gyms are filled with people trying to improve their health and those of us who have to take immunosuppressants are at risk.  Plus, there is H1N1 now and the safest way to prevent the spread of illness is proper hand-washing (and that includes spraying and cleaning your own sweat off of any machines you are using).

Vegetarian Pescetarian- Fish Isn't Meat? Aug 19 2009
04:40 (UTC)
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You are absolutely correct.

  • A VEGAN diet contains no animal products.
  • A VEGETARIAN diet contains no creatures of any kind (fish and bugs included).
  • A PESCETARIAN diet includes sea animals.

:)

Weight Loss Two Rules lead me to confusion Aug 19 2009
04:17 (UTC)
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Here are some yummy and calorie dense foods:

  • Potatoes
  • Coconut
  • Avocados
  • Nuts and any type of Nut Butters
  • Stuffed Atrichokes
  • Breads
  • Pasta (including ravioli)
  • Pizza
  • Chowder (seafood chowder is yummy)

I understand when it's possible to eat little and not have an appetite, even with extensive exercise.  I've been there.  The only reasons I can think of would be illness or as my niece once suggested, a "shrunken stomach" (meaning your stomach can't hold very much for food and you have to eat often).  Try eating as often as possible--even if it's just a small amount.  Initially you may have a bloated feeling (I did), but that is only temporary.  Once your body is used to being nourished regularly,  you will feel (and be) healthier--also, running will greatly improve!!!  Laughing

 

Foods yet another one: food survey for the bored and restless Aug 18 2009
09:00 (UTC)
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1. favorite hot breakfast

  • Egg Beaters, Hash Browns and Toast

2. favorite cold breakfast

  • Fruit, Weetibix, Fiber One or raw oatmeal

3. favorite hot lunch 

  • Chili with Crackers

4. favorite cold lunch

  • Greek Salad and a Peanut Butter Sandwich on Oat Nut Bread

5. favorite fast food breakfast

  • GlazedKrispy Kreme Donut

6. favorite fast food lunch

  • Taco Supreme from Taco Bell

7. favorite processed foods snack

  • Oreos

8. favorite fresh/unprocessed snack

  • Berries, any kind

9. favorite dip for veggies

  • Olive oil or Ranch Dressing (full fat)

10. favorite winter time drink

  • Hot Chocolate with gobs of whipped cream

11. favorite treat at christmas/thanksgiving

  • Gingerbread, hot and fresh from the oven

12. favorite food at christmas/thanksgiving

  • Mashed Potatos

13. favorite flavor popsicle

  • Creamsicles

14. favorite ice cream flavor

  • Godiva's Chocolate and Cookies and Cream

15. favorite cold dessert

  • Tiramisu

16. favorite hot dessert

  • Bananas Foster

17. favorite carb for breakfast?

  • Banana Nut Bread (toasted) with full fat cream cheese

18. favorite carb for lunch?

  • Peanut Butter and Jelly on Oat Nut Bread

19. favorite carb for dinner

  • Baked Potato (white)

20. favorite sandwich filling

  • Peanut Butter

21. favorite way to eat cottage cheese

  • With Corn chips (Mmmmmmm)

22. favorite type of cheese

  • Brie

23. favorite way to eat eggs

  • Over Easy and served on top of white toast

24. favorite no cook meal

  • Raw Oat Meal

25. favorite vending machine snack

  • Oreos or almonds

26. favorite road trip snack from liquor store

  • Sweets and Beets (veggie chips)

27. favorite bowling alley/movie/carnival treat

  • Cotton Candy

28. favorite homemade treat

  • Anything, I love it all!

29. favorite store bought treat

  • New Shoes

30. favorite drink at coffee places

  • Hazelnut coffee
Foods What are some Very VERY VERY Low Calorie Snacks??? Aug 16 2009
23:06 (UTC)
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Original Post by olgaclark:

Sometimes I just want to eat something. I am sick of baby carrots. Is there anything I can eat as a snack and not worry about the calories. I just want to chew something, and I am not a fan of gum, it makes me very hungry. So please please please suggest something I can just snack on without too much counting involved :)


Marinated Mushrooms...the brand I like is Monterey and they are sold in the pickle section (non-refridgerated section) of the grocery store.

At only 9 calories per serving, they are very low calorie...even if you were to binge on the entire (large) jar, you would only be consuming 180 calories. 

I make a salad with them:

  • Baby Spinach Leaves
  • A Super-Large, Very Ripe Tomato
  • Mushrooms

There is no need to add dressing for flavor.  The spinach is good for helping your skin and hair while dieting (especially) and the tomato acids and vinegar help your body absorb the nutrients from the spinach.  Spinach is a SuperFood and has sooooo many health benefits...one of which is beautifying your skin's appearance.

This salad is very healthy and extremely low in calories.  It's one binge food that you can feel good about over eating.  :)

 

Weight Loss Losing Weight Aug 12 2009
23:55 (UTC)
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I think it would be wonderful for you and your Mum to work together to get healthier!  I would love my mother (whole family, actually) to join me.

Ask your Mum if you can buy a food scale (we have them here for under $15 at Walmart).  They are not expensive, but they are very helpful.  Weigh your food in grams then enter them on this site.  I think a good tape measure is also very helpful.  If you notice that you are not losing despite working out and eating healthy, you may see the difference in your body size instead of your weight.

Choose foods that are healthy, like fresh fruits and vegetables.  Eat low fat protein (like shrimp, fish, chicken breast, egg whites, etc.) and whole grains.  Toss out the white bread and rice!  Brown is better :) if it's whole grain!  Nuts are a great snack in moderation (I eat them every day).

Trade solid fats like butter for a tablespoon of extra virgin olive oil...very tasty and a healthy fat.

Don't forget to make an offer to your Mum...invite her to walk or workout with you everyday.  You can even offer a challenge--like if you both stick to your new healthy eating plan AND walk (or exercise) for 30 minutes everyday for say, 2 weeks, then you can reward yourselves with something enjoyable...like a manicure, pedicure, new shoes....

Enjoy and remember that the journey of developing healthy habits can be fun!

:)

Weight Loss Do you vacation from your diet on vacation? Aug 12 2009
20:13 (UTC)
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I eat a bit more calories than usual, but keep most portions small.  I aim for
my weight maintenance level even though I am still trying to lose a few more pounds.  Also, I keep up my activity level by walking/touring as much as possible.  I usually promise myself I will use the hotel gym...but I never have.  :P

Remember you are on vacation and it's only a week... how much damage do you really think you could do in such a short period of time by enjoying the foods of the area?  Even if you gain a pound or two, it won't be the end of the world...just return to your normal eating/activity levels when you get back home. 

Have fun! :)

Motivation I've hit my goal weight!! (before and after pics) Aug 12 2009
17:17 (UTC)
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You look... CLICK HERE

:)

Weight Loss What should my activity level be set at? Aug 11 2009
15:48 (UTC)
Original Post by jerimoceri:

Hey there, am 5'7", 189 lbs and need to increase my activity level to lose about 30 lbs. Not sure which group can help me but am on my daily log am confused re: food account and activity account.  Daily add both to my daily log and want to check how many calories I've burned vs. food calorie intake but dont see any screen that compares the two...am I dense or is there no calories in vs. calorie out analysis? Thanks

I know...I really wish they would do that and keep a past log like we have for eating.  It would be nice to be able to look back a month or so ago.

I have been keeping a log on my desk for daily calories and burn to make sure I burn an excess of 7000/week.  It would be so much nicer to have that info on here.

Weight Loss I'm so hungry Aug 11 2009
05:15 (UTC)
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Here's a snack that will make you feel full (total calories: 140):

2 Weetabix bisquits and 1 fiber water (Kellogg's makes it--it's powdered and comes in 2 flavors, Pink Lemonade and Iced Tea)).

Before eating the Weetabix, take a drink of the water and then take small bites and have a sip of water between each one.  It's very filling.  (Also, very healthy).

You can also add some yummy berries (they are low calorie and healthy).

Tomatoes: a large one (plain) is very low in calories and filling.

:)

Foods Really.. how many calories in a normal/large sized apple? Aug 04 2009
14:41 (UTC)
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Walmart sells a scale for about $14.  You really need to buy one and weigh your foods in grams.  I plan to continue to do this even after reaching my goal.  It's the most accurate way to see how many calories/nutrients you are actually eating.

There is a post about obsessing with a food scale...sorry, but I consider that MUCH better than under or overestimating my caloric/cholesterol/fat/carb intake.  We are all gaining, losing or maintaing weight to become and remain healthy and weighing your foods before eating them is a major help in obtaining that goal of good health.

If you are away from the food scale and want to eat the apple, just measure it with your hand and then when you get home, do the measurement...there are circumferences for fruit/veggies and they will give an approximate weight.

Best to you!

Weight Gain Weight gain advice for someone old and frail Aug 03 2009
14:16 (UTC)
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Best bet is to speak with a nutritionist specializing in geriatric diets.

Good calories:

New Whey '42' protien drinks (available at GNC).  It a 180 calorie drink with 42 grams of protien (and it's only like 3.5 oz.). 

http://newwhey.com/

Foods like avacados, bananas and creamy peanut butter (mixed with milk to thin a bit) are high in calories and healthy.  You can add peanut butter milk to oatmeal also. I believe that all nut butters are high calorie and healthy.  I am sure you already know about Ensure.

http://ensure.com/

You can blend pasta and beans (baked beans usually are good and high calorie--also they have a high sugar content).  Rice and lentils are good too.

Any potatoes, but especially orange ones like yams are very healthy, high in calories and can be mashed.

Salmon, eggs (with yolks), cheese, whole milk, brown rice, olive oil, and almond milk are easily mashed/blended or can be added to a mixture.  :)

Almond milk (also an almond butter):

http://www.bluediamond.com/

Also, don't forget about your slow cooker (crockpopt).  You can cook lean beef until it's very tender and put it in the food processor/blender and/or add it to mashed sweet potatoes.  Also, the beef broth is healthy and can be used as a liquid instead of water.

Best to you and God bless you and your Mother.  If you need any help, please just message me.  :)  -Lin

Foods Paula Deen's 5 Worst Recipes: Oh My God! Aug 03 2009
00:33 (UTC)
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Is she joking?  (I mean, for real?)  I had to look her up to see who she was.  I think she's just a comedian though because this looks really nasty:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zv8yEMRDe_w

Weight Loss Fat girls...Pretty Faces? Aug 01 2009
01:47 (UTC)
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Original Post by ninafish:

*Sigh*. Face and bodily preoccupations. At the end of the day, what makes somebody beautiful is the spirit which emanates from these physical forms. I don't mean to sound wishy washy and idealistic - I truly do believe this to be the case. It becomes truer and truer in my estimation the farther I journey.

You are so young to be so wise...I completely agree.  The beauty of one's soul shines through their face.  :)

Motivation Go to the gym, you slacker!!! Stop reading the flippin forums! Jul 31 2009
20:24 (UTC)
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OMG!!!  My "lushy tush" and "flabby abs" thank you.  :)

Weight Loss Liquid Diet? Jul 31 2009
14:14 (UTC)
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Please, before you even consider such a drastic weight loss plan, ask yourself if you think your skin will be able to shrink enough (that fast).  78-lbs in 100-days is going to leave you with too much excess skin. 

THEN...think about sacrificing your good health.  At some point you will have to start eating again.  Don't you feel it would be wiser to take the time to lose the weight in a healthy manner while you are learning how to be your healthiest?  I do.

:)

Health & Support Binging HELP! Jul 31 2009
10:15 (UTC)
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So what, you ate a lot today!  I just did that recently as well (last Monday (7/27/09) I ate a whopping of 4 days of my normal intake of calories).  It was GOOD and I enjoyed it immensely.  Wink  I just weighed myself and I lost 1.5 pounds since Sunday. 

It's really okay to pig out every so often.  We're human and many of us enjoy eating too many calories...probably the main reason diet companies and sites like this are so popular.

I only sweat out my first lapse which was in June.  When I saw that I didn't gain weight, but actually lost after the binge I learned something.  Your body is averaging your caloric intake and burn rate over a period of time (days???).  I am sure if I didn't binge, I would have lost more weight (but just ounces more), the bottom line is that I didn't suddenly weigh 100-lbs more for pigging out at my favorite fast food place.

My advice to you:

  • Brush the crumbs off your chin and look up at the sunrise.  It's a new day and a fresh start.  We get one of those every 24-hours and we have the opportunity to apply all the wonderful things we learned from previous days.

:)

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 30 2009
13:56 (UTC)
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Original Post by kbella24:

sree, you said that "maybe she should believe in god."  How else is a person supposed to take that statement?  Whether or not she believes in god is not going to help her make a decision in this case (the decision is already made...and I didn't see god involved in it).  In any case, the idea that believing in god makes a decision either easier or better is silly.

Not really silly....ask any practicing Christian how they make difficult decisions and they will tell you that we ask ourselves, "What would Jesus do?"

WWJD

:)

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 29 2009
20:01 (UTC)
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Original Post by tortoisewins:

http://www3.interscience.wiley.com/journal/11 8727847/abstract?CRETRY=1&SRETRY=0

Study in dogs- you have to search fetal resorption.

I'd really like to know where the information on fetal tissue wholesalers came from. I could only find information about it on anti-abortion site

This is from www.answerbag.com

At my local hospital all the tissue collected is gathered along with the tissue of women who have had miscarriages (before 24 weeks)and incinerated together. Twice a year the ashes are put in a memorial in a pivate service any of the women or thier partners are welcome to be at.

http://abortionclinicdays.blogs.com

This anti-abortion person is claiming that there is no "public record of what happens to fetal cadavers", which is a fascinating re-framing of what all government regulations treat as "hazardous waste", as they do any human tissue, be it blood, tumors, parts removed by surgery etc. There are very strict guidelines about how all human tissue is handled, and medical waste is a very well regulated business. It is ultimately buried or burned.

I can't get your link to work, but what you are describing is a "spontaneous abortion" which is the medical term for miscarriage.  That is very different than a voluntary abortion.  You implied that the animals chose to abort their babies when in fact nature made that decision.  Miscarriage is entirely different than an abortion.  Mothers who miscarry have not chosen to abort their child.

I cannot find any credible info on that subject anywhere and I have even called my vet today and she said abortions are done on animals, but it's only because people choose (and pay) to have it done (obviously without the consent of the animal).

Also, I am surprised that you could not find any information about what is done with the aborted babies remains.  Some are cremated (especially late abortions), some are used for cosmetics, health products, medications, stem cells, research, etc.  There is a HUGE profit in selling fetal body parts.  If you search using Google, you will find sooooooo many links.  However, many will be Christian.

Here is a highly credible, non-Christian site for you to check out:

The American Society for Cell Biology

Just out of curiosity, your comment about parents of aborted children...if it's only a clump of cells and not a human being yet, then why would there be a memorial service in which the aborted babies are included with the ones that were miscarried?  My clipped toenails are just a clump of cells and I don't feel the need to hold a memorial service for them.  Maybe the hospital workers who do this realize that there are women (and "sperm suppliers") who will one day regret having taken a human life--a life they created. 

I did see that you quoted from someone's blog so I will quote from a forum post:

*** WARNING: Not for the squeemish or extremely sensitive. ***



We've heard all the stories of doctors eating fetuses, "vampires" or cannibals buying them, abortion clinics chopping them up in a garbage disposals, aliens using them for hybrid births, even people selling them marinated in Prego sauce.

But....where do they REALLY go?

I witnessed an abortion in the very room it took place some time ago. Tongs were inserted and broke the fetus' neck (which was clearly visible on the monitor). It was then removed swiftly through a suction device and ended up inside of a metal, box-shaped container. And I imagine other fetuses were also inside of this container, as it was the size of a large deep freezer such as one you would use to store food in your garage or basement.

There was definitely liquid inside of the container, and the fetus appeared to still be alive - even after the neck was broken. Possibly, the nerves in the body caused further movement, but it was quite disturbing to see regardless.

Does anyone know where the fetuses are really taken after they are put into the large containers? Are they shipped to labs for Stem Cell research, are they sold, or are they simply buried in a mass fetus grave?

I have to admit, I hate thinking about what I witnessed that day -- but I'd rather know the truth than continue hearing so many lies.

How are they honestly disposed of?

Someone must know...

-Mea source: http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread292 049/pg1

Really do a search if you are interested--not all info is pro-life nor Christian.  You will find many scientific sites as well and be able to read first hand what they admit to doing legally.  You will learn that it's not so uncommon for a baby to survive the abortion, but it's tossed in with the other abortions anyway.  You will discover a few people who were aborted and lived to tell about it (rare, because usually they are just discarded along with successful abortions).  You will also see that the abortion clinics WANT your baby because it's profitable...they SELL them to labs, etc.

Sorry my post is soooo long.  Embarassed

God bless you!  -Lin

Weight Loss I ate over my maintenance! What will happen? Jul 29 2009
11:23 (UTC)
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So what, you ate a lot for a couple of days!  I just did too (I ate a whopping of 4 days of my normal intake of calories on Monday).  It was GOOD and I enjoyed it immensely.  Wink

It's really okay to pig out every so often.  We're human and many of us enjoy eating too many calories...probably the main reason diet companies and sites like this are so popular.

I only sweat out my first lapse which was in June.  When I saw that I didn't gain weight, but actually lost after the binge I learned something.  Your body is averaging your caloric intake and burn rate over a period of time (days???).  I am sure if I didn't binge, I would have lost more weight (but just ounces more), the bottom line is that I didn't suddenly weigh 100-lbs more for pigging out at my favorite fast food place.

My advice to you:

  • Brush the crumbs off your chin and look up at the sunrise.  It's a new day and a fresh start.  We get one of those every 24-hours and we have the opportunity to apply all the wonderful things we learned from previous days.
Weight Loss Dangers of the atkins diet if not done properly from personal experience Jul 29 2009
11:06 (UTC)
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I'm so glad that you are better...please continue to get healthier every day.

I also tried Atkins and had to stop after 2 weeks.  I gained weight and felt awful (I am a major veggie eater) and it just didn't work for me.  I was going for "cuts" and a low body fat % but because my system couldn't handle the drastic change in diet, I was not receiving any benefit from it at all.

I am sorry about your immune system.  Even though that bacteria was already in your body, it seems to have had the perfect opportunity to attack you when your defenses were low (so it thrived and you became sick).  I have an autoimmune illness which makes my immune system very powerful (it works to kill me if I don't take meds) and maybe that could have worked to my benefit if I continued with Atkins, but my body couldn't handle the high fat diet.  Who knows...I am just glad to hear that you are alright now.

God bless you, always!

Foods Coleslaw with no mayo Jul 28 2009
16:22 (UTC)
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I have 2 recipes (I adore coleslaw).

First one:

  • 1 head of cabbage cut up to fit in the food processor.
  • 1 package carrots
  • Olive Oil and vinegar (to taste)

Second One:

  • 1 head of cabbage cut up to fit in the food processor.
  • 1 package carrots
  • Ranch dressing (to taste)

 

Also, I sometimes use the shredded cabbage/carrot mixture as a base for stir-fry (instead of rice). 

Pregnancy & Parenting Termination topic - I made a decision Jul 28 2009
12:51 (UTC)
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Original Post by tani24:

Abortion is a very valid, moral, responsible option.  Isnt it funny how pro choicers are about having a choice, whereas pro lifers are about taking away a choice.

I'm sorry you feel that way, however I am so happy for your family! 

When my sister delivered her last child she had a tubal ligation.  You may want to consider that.  You don't have to do anything else for birth control :)

Best to you and your family.

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 28 2009
09:18 (UTC)
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tortoisewins: Just wanted to point out that many people do get pregnant on birth control.  If you think about it most pills are 98-99 percent effective, that means 1-2 out of every 100 can get pregnant.

True, that IS an accidental pregnancy...not using birth control is what you do to get pregnant.

tortoisewins: As far as critters aborting.  I am not sure what PG is specifically referring to.  But I know many species of animals that pregnancy will gestate longer or terminate when resources are scarce.  And some animals will also eat or kill their own young.  Rabbits, pigs, etc..

I know about the longer gestation periods, but I have never heard of an animal terminating a pregnancy.  How do they do that?  I am fascinated.

tortoisewins: And isn't it funny that the "life is in her hands".  Apparently women must bear the weight of the world, because if they become pregnant they are wholly and totally responsible.  I don't hear a lot of people going after the sperm suppliers.

Those "sperm suppliers" have NO RIGHTS when it comes to their unborn child.  If the woman chooses the abortion, and he wants the child...well, it's HER choice legally. As you pointed out, "Bottom line, her life, her body, her choice." 

Honestly, does anyone know of a site or somewhere that I can learn about animals that choose abortion?  I cannot find anything of merit online--(just joke things) and I am fascinated...I have never heard of it before today.  This seems even greater than Jane Goodall's discovery about chimps making tools.

In case anyone has wondered what becomes of aborted babies: Fetal tissue wholesalers are companies which place employees in abortion clinics to harvest tissue, limbs, organs, etc. from aborted babies. This material is then shipped to researchers working for universities, pharmaceutical companies and government agencies. Although it is against federal law to sell human tissue or body parts, these organizations have devised a system to circumvent this restriction. Technically, all fetal material they harvest is "donated" to them by the clinics. However, they do pay a "site fee" to the clinics for the right to access the tissue. The tissue is then "donated" to the researchers who in turn pay the wholesalers for the cost of retrieval. Profit is realized by the wholesalers' ability to set their own retrieval fees.

Weight Gain condiments / syrups Jul 28 2009
08:54 (UTC)
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Unfortunately they are VERY important and can sneak up on you and attach themselves to your thighs. (Don't ask how I know this.) Yell

Many restaurants give super large portions, not even close to the 1-serving size. 

Here is a list of some of those condiments and their calories for 1-serving.

  • Cream for your latte (1-T or 15g) 29 calories.
  • Whipped Cream  (1-T or 3g) 8 calories.
  • Chocolate Syrup (2-T or 39g) 109 calories.
  • Chocolate/Hazelnut Spread (1-T or 18g) 95 calories.
  • Cream Cheese (1-inch square or 16g) 56 calories.
  • Grape Jelly (1-T or 20g) 50 calories.
  • Caramel (1-oz or 28g) 100 calories.

The BEST way to figure out your caloric intake is to prepare foods at home and weigh everything (in grams).  It's near impossible to try and figure out how much you get when you are in a restaurant and record it later.  Once I started to weigh my foods, I saw what a serving is and it was no where near the amount I was used to eating. 

The cream in your latte is at least 5 servings (guesstimate)? That would add 150 calories.  Look at the others, like jelly, chocolate syrup and my favorite, cream cheese--I love gobs of it on a bagel. Sealed  1-oz barely butters one side.  I gave up bagels--mine were too close to a full day's calories.  I gave up drinking coffee my favorite way as well...now I drink hardly any coffee at all, but my coffee is no longer super high in calories, fat and carbs.

You can see how several servings do add up--and you are getting way more than one serving of cream in your latte for sure. 

I bought myself a great little scale at Walmart for $14. I weigh every gram that enters my mouth (except water).

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 28 2009
06:41 (UTC)
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Original Post by pgeorgian:

Original Post by fightinginsanity:

Original Post by pgeorgian:

you know, the other thing that gets ignored is the fact that abortion is a natural process.  animals abort all the time, when resources are scarce.  and our resources are bloody scarce, people!

the fact that we've lost the ability to abort voluntarily without medical intervention is unfortunate, but abortion is a necessary process for the survival of any species.

Um... I think we call it miscarriage- and it happens VERY frequently.

you kind-of missed the point.  so i highlighted the critical parts.

I can't seem to find anything about animals voluntarily aborting their unborn.  Please provide links.  Are these mammals?  Mammal mommies are so nurturing and really, with small exception, most animals WANT their young to survive--it's instinct and important for the continuation of a species.

Please send links or tell me how I may find out about animals voluntarily aborting their unborn.  I am interested...I am a major animal lover and have never heard of such a thing (I am a very active volunteer for 2 organizations).  The only animal abortions I have ever heard of involve people and I doubt the animal asked (or chose) to have an abortion.

Also, about your comment about over-population: If a person feels as though we shouldn't continue our species because there are too many people on our planet now...then why shouldn't they be responsible about creating a new life.  There are so many excellent options for birth control today and being lax about creating a life you don't wish to see survive is not responsible behaviour, nor is it truly an accidental pregnancy (unless you have no idea that sexual activity can lead to pregnancy).  So, how would this be a justifiable argument for abortion?  Would it be applied to those who have already been born?  Who should decide who's life is worthy of living and whom should be slaughtered?  That argument is nonsense. 

If you don't wish to get pregnant, then be responsible about birth control--someone's LIFE is in your hands. 

Original Post by pgeorgian:

Original Post by cellotlhicks:

Who here who is advocating adopting these children is an adoptive parent? Just wondering...

not yet, but when i do, it will be a teenager out of the foster system.  you know, those babies whom nobody else wants.

edit: not that it's in any way relevant whether or not i adopt.

LaughingAWESOME!!!!Laughing  Me too! :)

Actually, I currently do respite care for teens and pre-teens. 

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 28 2009
06:23 (UTC)
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Original Post by lilspoiled66:

im going to have to back watergirl, i dont find adoption "trashy" or only for the incapable. in fact, i find it a lot more respectable than killing a child due to inconvenience. if it's not for you that's one thing, but i have a genuine respect for anyone who wishes a better life than they can provide for their child.

I couldn't agree more...allowing your baby a chance to live and grow with a family that loves them, well, that has to be one of the most unselfish, compassionate, caring, loving, NOBLE gifts a Mother can give her child.

Any Mother brave enough to carry for 9-months and opt for adoption is anything but trashy..she is a true hero! Innocent (and a great Mother)

Pregnancy & Parenting really desperatly need help, dont know weather to terminate pregnancy Jul 27 2009
21:36 (UTC)
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Original Post by pgeorgian:

and i'm sure this belief will inform your decision when it's your unplanned pregnancy.  but it's your belief, so let's not impose it on everyone else, okay?

human life is no more sacred than any other, and we sacrifice other life forms all the time for our comfort, convenience, and health. 

Um...the OP said, "Once again, its my fault, I took the risk, thinking I would leave it in fates hands and we could deal with it if it happend."

Exactly HOW would this pregnancy be classified as "unplanned"?

Seems to me it was planned...but the risktaker is not the OP, it's her child.

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