Posts by bmsage

I may be to old to comment on this thread but I'm going to tell you any way.

 If you are bi, you are young and should not have to worry about it right now.  Have fun and be your self.  I am a mother of three.  Teens and up.  They have taught me so much and I am still learning.  They are so wise.  They are all Jesus Followers and they believe that all people are to be loved no matter of their sexual orientation, their race and so on and so on.

 Thinking you have to decide at 13 or 15 if you are bi or not should not be an issue.  I know that there is a push to have sex at a younger age but you have a choice if you want to or not.  For your sake and your aqaintance sake, choose later than sooner for it gives you a chance to make other choices [more age appropriate choices] that will help you to grow confident.  For when you start giving your self to "others" they tend to control more of you than you think.  It may seem that you are making choices but you tend on making choices to please "that other" and not choices for yourself.

Back to my kids.  they also talk about friend crushes.  I never heard of this until this year and I realise that after I thought about it I have friend crushes too.  they are like a guy crush where you want to be with some one and you want to please them and you think about them all the time and  trying to do things to get near them.  this can be real confusing.  Especially when it is a person of the same sex that this is happening for you.  

I think you are young and have choices to make.  Some of these choices don't have to be made right now.  Be a teen and enjoy YOUR time don't try and do what others do just because they are doing it unless it makes you happy and it is your choice.