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| Weight Loss | New Detox starting . . . . | Nov 17 2009 17:49 (UTC) |
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Wow, you guys, i didn't realise it was such a bit deal, mentioning "pro-ana" and "pro-mia" kinda puts the fear of god in me, nobody ever told me before that detoxing was bad! But cheers millions for letting me know, will go about it a whole other way, lots more water, fruit & veg!!! Thanks for the advice! |
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| Motivation | any ideas to help unmotivated boyfriend? | Nov 15 2009 10:11 (UTC) |
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Hey Hun, I can really see how you'd be close to throwing in the towel, if it were me i'd probably have given up a long while back. It's hard to understand why he can't see the danger in what he's doing to himself, especially with his parents history, but then not everybody is the same so some things that seem obvious to us might not be so to others. It's hard to know how to try improve his lifestyle as he is an adult and free to make his own decisions, if he were a child at least you could take him in hand and make his decissions for him. Have you tried going shopping without him, or making a list and only allowing a certain amount of his crisps, etc on that list each week, I find my bf loves to nibble too, but if we don't so much of them in our weekly shop then he doesn't look for them during the week, i'm a firm believer that if it's in the cupboard we'll eat it, if it's not we probably won't even look for it! I'm not sure what your living situation is like, but if ye got a dog / puppy it might turn those stroles into lively walks every day? I'm sorry i can't really be of any help, but i really hope this works out for you, i know it can be heartbraking watching someone doing harm to themselves and not being able to help! I'm here if you need to vent though, Best of luck hun! |
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