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Calorie Count Removal of suggested foods that I hate? Sep 27 2007
00:58 (UTC)
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I'd really like to see this too...it gave me some really good suggestions which I actually did take and am happy for doing so! But now it just keep suggesting alternate versions of what I already eat, being able to delete them would help alot I think, then maybe we can get some more great suggestions that we will actually use?
Health & Support Seriously what is wrong with me... Sep 26 2007
21:25 (UTC)
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Well its not that I don't eat at all - its just that I didn't get the opportunity to count what I ate and just ate whatever was around, not knowing how many cals it was, so it may have not been necessarily a nutritionally balanced meal like I usually eat...and may have been too little as well. I usually eat about 4 or 5 meals a day just so I can get enough cals - its just sometimes I get busy so end up eating alot at once at the end of the day. You may be right though because I know I could be more consistent, and even though I'm trying extremely hard to keep a good schedule, you know how life gets! Thanks!
The Lounge Frustrated? Sep 12 2007
23:12 (UTC)
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I'm not really mad at anything, but immensely enjoyed reading all the posts! I just wanted to tell vklamorick that I bought some of those shoes too and they did exactly the same thing to me! Go to the drugstore and get some backers for the heels, they just stick on and stop your heels slipping and causing the blister. For about $3 they are totally worth it. Worked perfectly, now my shoes are wonderful! Now you don't have to be mad anymore! Smile
The Lounge How many Canadians are out there? Sep 06 2007
00:34 (UTC)
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*waves from way over in Halifax*
The Lounge Argh! Sep 06 2007
00:28 (UTC)
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I like the first shoes better! But don't just wear a black skirt with a white top and black and white shoes, you will look cut in half and honestly like the waitress at the restaurant you are going to. If you insist on wearing all black and white, and are going to wear a white top, balance it out with something black also on top so you don't look so block-like. Personally I think you should wear all black and carry a white handbag or wear something white in your hair (although don't know what colour hair you have) and wear white jewelry such as pearls. If that seems too much black for you, I think you should think about wearing a solid colour top, with no pattern, not a complicated style. Worst thing you can do is go out in an outfit that the wait-staff is going to be wearing. Just my personal opinion though.
Weight Loss For girls wondering, "Am I thin enough?" Aug 31 2007
21:06 (UTC)
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"Thin" is such an awful word...anytime anyone says it I want to cringe. Here's the webster's definition for "thin": having little extent from one surface to its opposite, not well fleshed, lacking substance or strength, lacking in intensity or brilliance, it may imply lack of substance, richness, or abundance.

Those are just some of them, but none of them sound like something anyone should want to be. What happened to Fit? Strong? Healthy? Buff? Built? Athletic? Energy? LIFE? When did our conception of beauty turn to this...thin? That word should never have to be used to describe a living person. Ban it from your vocabulary forever, replace it with something positive!

Fitness How Can I Become More Flexible? Aug 31 2007
18:09 (UTC)
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I third the Yoga! Nothing is better I swear! Most bodybuilders, runners, cyclists, you name it have shortened muscles and decreased flexibility especially if you don't stretch before AND after you exercise. Doing sports like this tends to tighten the muscle and contracts it, hence why your so tight that you can't touch your toes. I didn't do any yoga for a year or so, then just started it up again the other day. I was in so much pain I could hardly even touch the floor. After warming up sufficiently though I can usually do the whole bendy in half thing no problem (forget about touching your toes - hands under the feet is where its at - what woman wouldn't swoon over that! ). You have to be regular about it though and have patience. So forget about what you hear about yoga being for women and get yourself a video or book and bust out a mat!
Fitness just do it - need motivation to exercise Aug 31 2007
17:54 (UTC)
Buy fancy new exercise clothes and gear such as weights, ball etc, then you have to go or you'll feel guilty for not using them! Wink
Health & Support Vitamins!!! Aug 31 2007
17:49 (UTC)
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bump?
The Lounge The pob... any opinions Aug 31 2007
16:26 (UTC)
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I think bobs are nice, however I don't know about getting a hairstyle named after a celeb...that says to me that it is the "fad" right now. Plus all I hear about all over the internet is people wanting to get their haircut like Victoria Beckham. Well, if its the fad and everyone is doing it, then it won't be unique anymore, everyone will have one. Then you'll just be another "pob" in the crowd! I think the point of a haircut like this is to make a dramatic statement. But if everyone else and their grandma is making the same statement, its not so dramatic anymore. That kinda defeats the point in my opinion of getting a "unique" haircut. I guess that's my only opinion of it: it seems to be everyone is getting one, whether they will look good in it or not, but just because its the trend right now. Egads I can see it now, at school this fall, everyone's gonna have that haircut, replacing the oh so popular, "I just got out of bed" look (and then straightened my hair, and then teased it, then hairspray, etc). Hmm, maybe it will be refreshing instead of monotonous?
The Lounge Gift ideas for people you don't know that well Aug 31 2007
15:42 (UTC)
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If you want to bring something Canadian, bring little jars of maple syrup or jams made in Canada, perhaps some Canadian Cheese? Ice wine is of course another favorite. Food is ok to bring with you (A British friend of mine brings ice wine back all the time), as long as you are ok with the weight (a bottle of wine can be quite heavy with the restrictions now-a-days). Try to stay away from things for the house or for them to wear, because you don't know what their personal style/colours are. Food or food type products are usually the best bet for something like this, because then it appeals to the whole family, regardless of gender, and if you bring a selection then if someone doesn't like something they can try one of the other options. If you don't care if its Canadian or not, and just wanted to thank them, just pick up some flowers, a couple bottles of wine and a nice card when your there and give that to them, just makes a nice gesture to say thank-you. I also liked your idea of a coffee table book or the calendar idea, if you find one that seems universally appealing to a wide range of people.
Foods How do you freeze single portions of home made soups? Aug 31 2007
15:33 (UTC)
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brighteyes: I have that set! ♥ them! I love that they are organized for you and keeps it neat, my one complaint is that there isn't a larger sized container, I had to buy separate ones for that. Probably good for single portions of things like soup though, not so much for say a sandwich. But I LOVE that there are measurements already on the side (or mine have them anyways) so you know exactly what your portion is. The one thing though is, if you are clumsy (like I am) DON'T freeze them! I froze one of them once with something liquid inside, when I was taking it out of the freezer I accidentally dropped it on the floor and the container shattered (literally like glass) because it was hard from being frozen. I would say if you want to freeze things, just buy those ziploc disposable containers, so you don't care so much if they get ruined.
Foods Portable Meal Ideas? Aug 30 2007
18:46 (UTC)
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Carrihound: I must admit that I didn't know what tabouli was, I looked it up though and it looks delish! Thanks I think I will try making a batch for lunch! Any tips on how to make it properly?

Mooo: I also have never tried PB and jelly on a wrap...I am not a fan of jelly or the two together, but maybe PB and a banana would work? What kind of wrap do you use? I usually get ones that are flavored like something, somehow I don't think that would be very good though lol...I have had such a hard time finding a wrap I like. I am in Canada, and can't seem to find many of the suggestions that people give on here. I reeeally like your idea of a thermos of soup or chili, I will definitely do that when winter months roll around!

These are fabulous ideas, Thanks! 

The Lounge What Fashion Do You Hate? Aug 30 2007
18:31 (UTC)
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Another thing I can't stand to see...when girls wear pants that are waaay too long for them and instead of getting it hemmed or something, they just walk around on the back of the pants. It ruins the pants and just looks...sloppy. On some of them there's a good six inches of pant under their foot. Why did they even buy them like that? And isn't it uncomfortable to walk on? Doesn't it feel like your pants are being pulled off with every step? *sigh* Modern "fashion" will ever continue to amaze me...
Weight Loss Same Weight as Boyfriend Aug 30 2007
14:24 (UTC)
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Lol I weighed the same (or more Surprised) than my bf for a long time! Not anymore though! Muahaha! It didn't bother me at first because he always told me I was beautiful, but I started being more conscious of it as I started to want to lose weight. Then it would realllly bother me, alot. I would wonder what people were thinking when they saw us together and feel ashamed (there's that old conception that the woman should be "dainty" as Anna was talking about). He still always told me I'm beautiful though, and motivated me to lose the weight (not for him, he already thought I was beautiful, but because I wanted to feel that beautiful for myself too). He has the super fast "man" metabolism too...and he isn't even that tall! But he can eat at least 2 boxes of crackers a day (on top of everything else he eats - and those things are fattening! Chips in a box marketed as healthy! Evil!) and not gain a pound. It was realllly hard at first to try and diet with him around, but I just started to use it to my advantage. Every time there was something I shouldn't eat, I just shoveled it onto his plate lol. Works every time, its like having your own personal hoover!
The Lounge What Fashion Do You Hate? Aug 30 2007
14:02 (UTC)
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I don't know if its considered fashion, but this trend of all the girls being such a ridiculous dark orange colour - all times of the year. Then caking obscene amounts of make-up on top of their sun-baked skin. I'm sorry, but it does not look sexy, just sleazy IMO...
Weight Loss What popular Fad Diet/Diet Trend do you HATE? Aug 29 2007
18:04 (UTC)
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Hydroycut: mostly just because of their dumb commercial...it is on ALL the time! I change the channel now when its on it annoys me so much! The one with the "supposed" doctor who lost 20 lbs in 4 weeks or something like that with the obviously faked before and after shots, and they have these obviously two different women bounding through the surf, both wearing the same bikini while she talks about how embarrassing it is to be soooo fat.  OK, first of all: 30 lbs overweight (or whatever she said she lost - it doesn't seem to be relevant to how she actually looked) is not that fat, second why are you still wearing the same bikini? No wonder she was embarrassed if she was wearing a bikini that was 3 sizes too small to go bounding through the surf in...it sorta just makes me sad that some people will actually go pick up the phone and order some of that horrible stuff as a result of that commercial...
The Lounge in love but... Aug 29 2007
17:33 (UTC)
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I always miss my bf when I'm not around him...but sometimes the missing is, I guess in different increments, if that makes sense. Ex: When we first started going out I would only see him on the weekends. I would miss him alot the Sunday I had to leave, then on Monday I would be ok, by Wed I would be looking forward to the weekend again, Thurs would be like torture, and Friday I would get all excited to see him again. Then I lived with him, and it would be slightly different, I would be fine all day at work, then come home and see him and realize that I missed him alot all day, without even really registering it, but with the hug and welcome home, suddenly I would realize how much I missed him that day (Usually on days that were bad though, otherwise it would just be a sort of low key, missed telling him something amusing or something I wanted to, etc).  I definitely attribute it to getting used to his presence and knowing I would see him when I got home from work that night would make it all better. Now we happen to be long distance, I will see him again in a few weeks, and I am just getting used to this full-blown missing thing again...it is like a piece of my heart is missing...not fun. I think if anything not missing him may be a good thing - you don't want to feel like this all the time, trust me.
The Lounge Scary article on obesity Aug 29 2007
16:16 (UTC)
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I second the fact that it is cheaper to eat unhealthy than healthy. Of course, it depends on what your eating too. I could live on Kraft Dinner and Mr.Noodle for about $20/month. In order to get the range of nutrients I need to be healthy, I need a range of foods that, on a per gram type basis, cost way more than my Mac&Cheese dinner would have.

That said, I think the obesity epidemic has alot to do with poor education on nutrition, an unwillingness to learn/take the steps to living a healthy lifestyle and just plain laziness. So many people are walking around with no hope, because they think this is the way they were meant to be, so they have no incentive to try and change so they come up with these "excuses" about how it is too expensive, too hard, don't have the time, it's not convenient, etc. The whole culture is built on "convenience". Heaven forbid we have to work hard to get something we want. If its not easy, fast and new-fangled, we don't want it, to put it bluntly. We are bombarded with ads constantly about quick fixes: lose 7 lbs in a week, lose 10 lbs fast with such-and-such pill. So people are more than willing to spend their hard-earned dollars on these expensive "remedies" to all their problems, simply because its "fast", but then they complain that healthy eating and exercise is "too expensive". Last I checked, walking was free. Then, when their "quick fix' doesn't work in a week, they give up in disgust and resign themselves to the fact that "they've tried everything, but nothing works". I mean, its not like the answer itsn't out there to be "found". Look around this site at all the people who succeeded with diet and exercise, who were willing to go in for the long haul and just do it. Holy cow! Diet and Exercise! Must be the next best ticket to your weight loss! Lets make a commercial! Oh wait, you mean it took you how long? Oh, I can't wait that long, I have a size 4 dress in my closet I need to fit in by next week...you get the idea. They don't realize that if they started today, they may not fit into the dress by next week, but maybe in a year, and so what? It will be permanent, sustainable, healthy weight loss that they will be able to then enjoy for the rest of their lives, instead of spending it unhappy about their weight and using every last fad diet to get it done quick. If they took the time and money spent on all those diets and actually just started eating healthy, a method that has been proven time and time again to WORK, they would not have to end up feeling like such a failure everytime.

It is this attitude of convenience that contributed alot to making America fat I think, as well as a general degradation of the attitude of the nation as a whole, people are now used to it and feel entitled to have everything in a timely fashion with little to no effort. Patience and plain old hard work have, unfortunately, been unceremoniously defenestrated.  

The Lounge My bf does not brush his teeth Aug 29 2007
14:28 (UTC)
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And THAT lilsammi, is the difference between you and a man....Lol sorry couldn't help it...
The Lounge Inexplicable Love/Passion for Office Supplies Aug 28 2007
16:22 (UTC)
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This thread is brilliant!

I definitely have an almost unhealthy obsession with office supplies. This is me in Staples: I stop in the store, look at my *cart* FULL of office supplies: pens, mini drawers to hold the pens, seven different kinds of paper - all needed for a different purpose, 14 colors of post-its, pencil crayons, erasable pencil crayons, markers for when a pencil crayon will just not do, a journal or two (I have no idea why I need so many, none of the 5 that I have are even filled - but I could still spend, literally, hours in the journal section just looking at them...sigh...) and of course: some sort of tupperware to organize it all...then I realize that this will probably all add up to about 100$ (the bad thing about office supplies - they're sooo expensive!!!!) then I have to go and put it all back. Sometimes I just have to throw it at the nearest shelf and run to the cashier (even though I feel bad then for the people who have to restock it) with only what I "desperately" need clutched in my fingers. I stand at the register and try to convince myself I don't need it and just to leave, but I'm standing there on my tip-toes wanting sooo badly to go back for it...It's worse than junk food. I don't binge on chips, I binge on office supplies! The fabulous thing is I need lots (and lots Wink) of office supplies for what I do, so I can usually justify having more....hehe....

The Lounge Have a slightly weird problem... Aug 27 2007
19:47 (UTC)
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I wouldn't worry too much about being "mean" to someone that is harassing you. Granted, there can be a fine line between standing up for yourself and your body, and being just plain b*tchy. However, I think that this is something that is way too prevalent, and way too accepted in today's society. We as a group need to be more upfront about this, and should not have to feel "mean" just because we are protecting our right to work and live without being hustled! I think this is a situation that warrants a little bit of toughness, they need to know that they are making you uncomfortable, and they need to know that you won't stand for it, or the inappropriate behavior will continue, and maybe even escalate (which you do NOT want to happen). You don't have to be rude about it, just say in a calm, firm voice, "That is a very inappropriate comment." If they continue, that's when you start getting even tougher. It is up to your personal discretion, if they are just being chatty, then maybe just go along with it. If they start saying really inappropriate comments or even getting physical, then you SHOULD and should feel perfectly justified in saying something. Do not let a perceived concept of "meanness" prevent you from protecting yourself. Is he being "nice" by intruding on your space and comfort? The bottom line is, YOU set your own personal boundaries, it is perfectly justifiable to let people know when they have crossed them.
Foods Apple Cider Vinegar? Aug 27 2007
19:14 (UTC)
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*bump*

The Lounge Christians In Premarital Sexual Relationships Aug 27 2007
18:28 (UTC)
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I think my issue would be more with those Christians who do profess to believe in all these "foundations" of Christianity, and then go and do it anyways...it seems to me that anyone who could c**p all over their beliefs like that everyday and still be ok with it, is not even a upstanding, respectable person, much less an upstanding supposed "Christian".
The Lounge Have a slightly weird problem... Aug 27 2007
18:21 (UTC)
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Ladies...we do NOT need to put up with this! It is not appropriate for a way older man to be hitting on young girls and they should know it! Do not just smile and nod and humor them - then they get to think that they are getting away with it! It is not OK and they should not think that it is!  Tell them that they are being inappropriate, and that you do not appreciate being hit on at your place of work, that it is harassment (make sure to use the word), and will call security if needed. Stand up for yourselves girls, this should be considered an unacceptable practice in modern society, sadly it seems it is not...only we can change the way of thinking though by refusing to let it slide.
Calorie Count Suggestion - Water log Aug 27 2007
18:11 (UTC)
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Another helpful suggestion for you:

I got a plastic bottle, one of the ones that has measurements up the side saying how many ounces it is.  Mine is 22 ounces, so I just aim to fill up the bottle 3 times per day. Less to keep track of, and then I can bring it everywhere with me so I remember to drink my water!

The Lounge I can't believe how angry people get when they can't choose their cookie. Aug 24 2007
12:45 (UTC)
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Haha spirochete that is SO TRUE! What is it about walking into any restaurant (or other store for that matter) that makes some people feel so...entitled? The people who work there are human too, they are just trying to work and make money. I know it's their job to serve you and all, but there's no rule that you have to make it as difficult as possible for them! I wish people had a compassion button...when someone sees that they are being rude or disrespectful for no reason someone could push their button and they would be forced to feel just a little bit of empathy for the other people around them.
The Lounge men!! what is more attractive... Aug 22 2007
20:47 (UTC)
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Umm well "rexy" usually means anorexic...unless it was a typo I'd suggest you consider some serious counseling...there's nothing sexy about a woman who starves herself to death.
Weight Loss What changes are you finding as you lose weight? Aug 22 2007
13:48 (UTC)
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It's the little things that we never even thought about when we set out to lose weight, that thin people never have had to deal with that catch us off guard alot. Some differences I didn't even consider:

 -It's easier for me to wear high heels now, my feet don't get as sore. I think because I don't have all that extra weight bearing down on the balls of my feet, as well my feet are noticeably thinner so the straps don't dig.  

-I can feel the bones in my hips when I lay on my side....sometimes can be painful. I had to get a pillow top mattress because of this.

-None of my rings fit either, except a few I had when I was a kid. I was actually trying some on the other day and my rings I used to wear on my fingers don't even fit on my thumbs anymore!

-Thighs don't wear out of my pants anymore. I can wear skirts again without the discomfort of my thighs rubbing together (they were pretty bad - still are but they are bearable now)

-I nicked myself alot too when first trying to shave - especially the backs of my legs where those tendons are behind the knees (know which one's I mean? There are two and they stick out now so there's a hollow between them) , because I wasn't used to having a hollow there, just fat! Also the ankles got a couple really bad ones too! I'm more used to navigating around it now though. 

-I LOVE (love love love) being able to wrap my towel all the way around myself! I have this towel that I've had for quite awhile and it used to may as well be a dishtowel when I wrapped it around me. I knew when I fit into that towel that I was achieving success lol. 

- I am colder all the time now too. People used to call me "the furnace" because I was always so hot (body heat that is haha), now I have to remember to bring a sweater everywhere, so I don't freeze! In Canada this is crucial!

-Something unrelated to my body (or maybe it is haha), but still a change: men actually hit on me. Overtly and very "forwardly" about it. Nothing I ever really had to deal with before so it catches me off guard still and I still don't know how to respond without being awkward.

The Lounge Etiquette? Aug 21 2007
15:06 (UTC)
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When I say etiquette...I guess it depends on your definition of what "etiquette" means. Another interesting question: What means proper etiquette to you?

For me, opening doors and saying please and thank-you are just being polite and should be done in all situations. Proper etiquette I guess applies for me more to events, business interactions, meals, etc. Ex: proper way to thank a host, correct dress to wear to events, correct way to conduct yourself at an event with food, correct way to make introductions, correct way to invite someone to an event, rsvp-ing to an event, canceling at the last minute with no reason, etc...things that seem to me that people think less and less about. I tend to really notice when someone displays improper etiquette towards me or others, but am wondering if this is just a sign of the times and they really don't know better (perhaps were never taught), or if they are choosing to disregard the rules, going instead for a more "quick and dirty" routine as Laurie mentioned.

Feel free to elaborate on what you consider proper etiquette, I am interested to know what you feel it should extend too.
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