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| Weight Loss | I may have found the secret to permanent weight loss! Why isn't this all over the news? | May 21 2009 12:31 (UTC) |
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I believe you. You're not an ad! You're just excited, and I can understand why. Weight loss is exciting. And you want to share that with everyone else here. I hope the people reading this will understand that. I do.
I checked out the Curves info, and it seems solid. Someone above mentioned Calorie Cycling, which I take it this is a modified version. It isn't a "fad". Someone above said "nothing good will come of this", and I beg to differ. Whenever I'm dieting, I always "mix it up", especially to prevent or break plateaus. From what I understand, there is this chemical called Leptin that controls your metabolism. Leptin is designed to make your metabolic process more "efficient", which means that if you're dieting on the same amount of calories for a lengthy period of time, at some point, your metabolism becomes accustomed to what you're eating. Eating more or less will tell the Leptin that it needs to reconfigure its "efficiency parameters" to fit the new amount of calories. And then when you go back to your regular amount of calories, Leptin has to start all over again in figuring out how to handle them efficiently. Meaning that "cycling" your calories is perhaps the best way to keep Leptin on its toes, and your metabolism running at optimal speed (well, exercise may be the best thing for your metabolism, but we're talking about dieting here.) I know my explanation isn't the most technical. Here is a Wikipedia article on Leptin http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leptin. And here is a cut&paste from a place that explains it better than I can:
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| Young Calorie Counters | too young to know if you are bi/gay? | May 18 2009 18:43 (UTC) |
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I was aware of sex when I was 6. I saw glimpses of my first dirty movie when I was 7. I got ahold of my first pornography novel ("borrowed" from a neighbor) when I was 8. It was during that time that I realized that I liked thinking about the girls as much as the guys. I didn't know what bisexual meant, but I knew that women could like women, and I knew that I liked women. That's just me, though. I think it's safe to say that a kid who is old enough to be aware of themselves as sexual beings is a kid who's old enough to know whether or not they're bi-- even if they don't know the word to describe it. With that said, whenever I refer to my daughter's future, I tell her, "When you have a boyfriend or girlfriend..." I'm letting her know early that it's okay, whatever she decides. |
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| Weight Loss | The emotions of weight loss | May 18 2009 17:07 (UTC) |
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Despair: I have so much weight to lose, sometimes it seems like it will never happen. I have been overweight ALL OF MY LIFE, so I can't even IMAGINE what it must be like to be thin. I wasn't even thin as a little kid! Envy: My younger brother - whom I started on the road to weight loss - has lost 70lbs through diet and exercise and is now training others. Meanwhile, I weigh more than I've literally ever weighed before, and he's offering ME advice. Embarrassment: My boyfriend weighs the same amount as the number of pounds I need to lose to be healthy. Sometimes I am so embarrassed to be naked around him. We have an open discourse about weight, and I know I am not his ideal body type, and it really makes me self-conscious during sex or showers or whenever. Afraid: I'm not even really certain what I'm afraid of. Losing weight will be a good thing, right? Maybe I am afraid of the saggy bags my breasts will become (they're not that spectacular now, as it is.) Or of the infamous flap of skin around my stomach that I won't be able to afford to have surgically removed. Maybe I'm afraid-- no, I think I *am* afraid-- that when I lose all the weight I need to lose, I still won't be "good enough." For some strange reason, it felt really good to get all of that out. I am hiding behind my fat, and it's killing me. I am KILLING myself. I've got to figure out how to love myself instead of feeling so freaking bad about myself all the time... |
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| Health & Support | Gas! eeek! | Aug 29 2007 08:46 (UTC) |
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Thanks for the input. I bought both Bean-o and Gas-X, and so far, Gas-X seems to be working with no adverse side effects. I guess I will give bean-o a try next time I make one of those smoothies. They're so delicious! I wish they didn't turn me into Stinky McStinkerson. Thanks again for the input! |
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| Weight Loss | Revving up your metabolism is not a good thing. | Aug 22 2007 16:02 (UTC) |
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spirochete: Yeah, I read up on that and I'm not too sure I get it. I mean, basically what they're saying is that your best bet is to eat lower-calorie, nutrient-dense foods. Improving what you eat leads to a longer life, right? It doesn't seem like anything new, just a strangely extreme version of what we all know works. de Grey's work though involves a more scientific way of fixing the pathology that results from metabolism. He's broken that pathology up into seven target areas, and is trying to figure out ways of combating each area by use of rejuvenation therapy (which from what I understand would be a mixture of medicine and medical treatments.) With regards to "metabolic damages" - that's just a fact of life. One could even say that being alive is what kills us. Just sitting on your ass with a slow metabolism will lead to death as surely as being really active and healthy with a fast metabolism will lead to death. The important thing is - being active and healthy with a fast metabolism has the side of effect of making us more resistant to metabolic damages. It's a win-win situation, really. Pretty much the best hope we currently have of prolonging our lives. |
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| Weight Loss | Revving up your metabolism is not a good thing. | Aug 22 2007 13:52 (UTC) |
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balldez - I think I understand what you are trying to say. I recently saw a very interesting lecture about prolonging life by Aubrey de Grey (founder of the Methuselah Foundation, a sometimes controversial geneticist and gerontologist), and he describes in a very accessible way his base theory on how to prolong life. I mention him because he points out that metabolism is the cause of aging, which is - barring disease or unfortunate accident - the reason why we die. The Methuselah Foundation is devoted to finding a method of reversing the damage that metabolism does to the body. According to de Grey (and a variety of others), aging is the result of the accumulation of by-products of metabolism (see: Seven causes of aging). In that way, speeding up metabolism = causing death faster, which seems to be what balldez is trying to say. What balldez doesn't seem to take into account is the body's natural ability to correct the damage that metabolism causes. Obviously, the body can't correct it all - if it did, we'd never age, and never die. But a healthy body can stave off those damages for anywhere from 60 to 80 years, on average. Taking into account the body's ability to correct metabolic damage (or what de Grey calls pathology), I'd like to point out that the various benefits of boosting metabolism - healthy weight, development of lean muscle, improved cardio health, etcetera - all lead to the body's increased ability to correct metabolic damage. Simply put - the methods that we use to increase metabolism, like eating the right foods and exercising - will make us healthier, and better able to "fight" aging. Or to refer to the car analogy: if metabolism represents the usual wear and tear on a vehicle, working to boost your metabolism is a lot like taking your car in for regular tune-ups. Even though one day your car WILL become unsalvagable (because hey, nothing lasts forever!), taking good care of it guarantees that you will dramatically extend its life. That's my take on it, anyhow. With that said, if you've never read up on Aubrey de Grey's work, or seen him speak, you should. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 14 2007 14:55 (UTC) |
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| Hey guys. Sorry I haven't been around, I've been pretty unwell. Probably TMI, but I've had TTOM for about a month and a half, and ended up in the hospital due to exhaustion/dizziness/severe anemia. I don't know how many other females go through prolonged periods, but if it ever goes for more than a couple of weeks, my advice is to see a doctor about how to treat it before it gets really bad. Anyone alive out there? How is YOUR thursday going? |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 10 2007 10:56 (UTC) |
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| Hey guys. Sorry for not being around yesterday; I spent most of the day and part of the evening in the emergency room. *sigh* | |||
| The Lounge | When an adult dates a 16 year old.... | Jun 08 2007 14:28 (UTC) |
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| I have always dated men older than me. There is a common generalization that holds a lot of unfortunate truth to it - girls tend to be more mature than males their age. Perhaps it is societal conditioning, where girls start thinking about serious things in a serious manner sooner, who knows. Whatever the cause, I have heard far too many times of females who couldn't find an intellectual and emotional counterpart their age, and so will only date older men. I'm amazed at how quick so many people are to say that an older male doesn't belong with a younger female. There is a point where it is both ridiculous and creepy, but imposing a sweeping age limit can be a disservice. There are some 16 year old females who have gone through more in their 16 years on the planet than a lot of their older counterparts. It's a matter of life experience and legality. This guy sounds like a jerk for a variety of reasons, and maybe in this case a 24-year-old being with a 16-year-old is wrong, but you can't assume that everyone of a certain age has the same emotional/mental/spiritual experience. It's possible that emotionally and in other ways, this guy is more like an 18-year-old (it sounds like it.) The only people who can gauge are the people who are around him on a regular basis. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 08 2007 03:17 (UTC) |
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| Awwww, I'm sorry Kristine. It gets better, really. I just tell myself don't give up. Also, a good mantra is, "I'm doing the best I can, right now, with what I have to work with." Even if you fall off the wagon, or if you're not losing weight, you're doing the best you can do. Good luck! Today, I did much better with the water. I had 3 18-oz bottles of water, and 2 16-oz bottles. I also peed a whole bunch, and somehow, my several days irregularity problem was solved straight away. Amazing how a lot of water makes the body start fixing itself! How's everyone else doing? Don't forget. Tomorrow is weigh-in! |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 07 2007 17:33 (UTC) |
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| I'm going to try restricting my caloric intake. So it's 1200 for me for a few days, because I've been on a plateau as well. All I can say is make sure that you're careful about EVERYTHING that goes into your mouth, because a little bit of this or that, especially if it doesn't get logged, can add up. I have learned my lesson with taking bites of this or that. So try a few days to a week of lowered calories and see if that helps. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 07 2007 14:15 (UTC) |
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| Way to go, kristine! I still can't seem to break 64oz/day. It's a convenient number. If I can drink four 16-oz bottles of water, that's a good day for me. :( How's everyone else doing today? Things are pretty quiet in the Thin Mints thread, let's shake it up some today! I've been playing The Impossible Quiz. If you've got a few minutes, let's see who can get the furthest! Apparently the quiz isn't IMPOSSIBLE, just really hard. But I can't get past lvl 28. :( |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 06 2007 03:12 (UTC) |
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Ugh guys, I'm losing motivation, and I don't know why. I haven't exercised since last week. What do you do when you start feeling like you don't want to do anything except veg out forever? |
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| Weight Loss | i want a donut | Jun 05 2007 16:43 (UTC) |
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| I'm in the have-a-donut camp. A life of deprivation might work for some people, but not for me! I think that's what life's about, being good most of the time, but occasionally eating, drinking, or having something that's enjoyable but maybe not as healthy as it should be. Some say good cannot exist without evil. I say eating healthy cannot exist without the occasional deviation, in my experience, the better to avoid the day when, desperate for a donut, you find yourself eating a whole half-a-dozen. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 05 2007 15:58 (UTC) |
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| Hey guys! This is your team leader, just checking in to see how everyone's been doing. The thread's been kind of quiet. So water is a big challenge for me. It's always been difficult for me to drink water, so I don't think I'll do very well this week, apologies ahead of time. Monday: 2 16-oz cups, 2 16-oz bottles. Tuesday: All I've had today is an iced coffee (skim milk and splenda, though!) Horrible, I know, but I started the day off-kilter. If I start drinking now, I might actually be able to meet some sort of respectable goal. How's everyone else doing? Hopefully you're doing better than I am, but if you're doing just as bad with the challenge, don't worry, I understand and sympathize entirely. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 03 2007 03:13 (UTC) |
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| wait, doc2bmo needs to check in. Please do so before midnight, so your weight can count! | |||
| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 03 2007 03:11 (UTC) |
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| Thanks so much guys for posting your weights on time! We all had a rough week, but that's okay, we're still forging ahead. The whole weight-loss thing is an up-and-down experience, don't forget that! Everyone but kat and cutensweet checked in this week. Yay! As I have to go to bed, I am sending in our tallies now. |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 03 2007 01:23 (UTC) |
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| Well, my weigh-in for the end of the week: 259.5. I was down to 258, but along came salt. Oh well. my ideal caloric intake is currently 1550 |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | Jun 02 2007 02:51 (UTC) |
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| Same here. My period ended... only to start again a day later. My stupid body is rebelling against me or something. I've only lost one lb. I will see what the scale says tomorrow and try weighing in then... |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 31 2007 15:15 (UTC) |
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| Today's exercise minutes: 47mins SI6 cardio. Where is everyone!? Kristine and susan, thanks for checking in! I've used the elliptical before, and you know, that was a wonderful machine. I used to live with someone who had one, and while I don't miss them, I sure do miss the elliptical. It was a real work-out, but it felt really good. I worked my way from 10mins up to 30, and was starting to feel like a real runner! |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 30 2007 15:13 (UTC) |
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Okay guys! We really need to start posting our exercise here, just to keep track. Please just check in once a day, to let everyone know what kind of cardio you've been doing! Monday: 47mins, SI6 Tuesday: 30mins Hip Hop Abs, 25mins DDR. Wednesday: (so far) 47mins, SI6 - planning on some DDR later, I love that game. What about you? Please check in with your exercise minutes! |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 30 2007 14:40 (UTC) |
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| Hey guys! How's it going? It's a lovely wednesday morning, and I am writing from work of all places. I'm curious - what do you all do for a living? I think I mentioned before, but I am a web designer, which has its up and downsides. I think I like most getting to work on a computer, because I'm such a computer geek, but the downside is having projects that have 1-hour deadlines, when it's a lot of work. I guess a lot of jobs are like that. What do you like/dislike about your job? |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 29 2007 15:05 (UTC) |
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DDR! I'm totally going to do DDR! Yes! kristine - I'm not going to lie, yes they are... IF you are not in shape. If you are already working out on the elliptical, they will be a challenge, but not overwhelming. I guess I figure if I can do it, anyone can - I was incredibly out of shape, but now my stamina is increasing. I can climb long flights of stairs without being out of breath. Hip Hop Abs is a tough yet fun one. Slim in 6 is more tradititonal. Both of them give your abs a good work-out and get in a good amount of cardio, but sometimes when I am done with Hip Hop Abs, I don't feel as though I've done as much work, because it was fun to do. So when I want to FEEL as though I've worked out, I do SI6. 9360499181 - DEFINITELY weigh in. Please weigh-in this week, you're still a part of this team! It's okay about last week, the first week's always kind of rocky while people get into the swing of things. Don't forget to check out the team badge (it's in my pictures gallery) and snag it if you want! |
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| Motivation | New Zine idea, for web or for print | May 29 2007 15:00 (UTC) |
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| Thanks for the replies, veryminte and vivian. veryminte: I'm looking for just the kind of stuff vivian mentioned. Inspirational, true-life stuff, OR stories OR poetry/prose. OR even photography and visual art. I imagine it to be a hodgepodge of the best of what CC has to offer in the way of literary art and visual art, with a central theme of motivation, getting healthy, weight loss, and positive life changes. So, if anyone out there has a story to tell, about how their lives have changed or anything, let me know. With enough interest, we could really make something like this happen. |
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| Motivation | New Zine idea, for web or for print | May 28 2007 20:42 (UTC) |
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| No writers, poets, or people who want to see their work in print? :( | |||
| The Lounge | gotta love when your own grandmother calls you fat. | May 28 2007 14:14 (UTC) |
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I think the most difficult thing in the world is to say what you have to say, and mean it, and stand behind it. I'm in therapy right now, and I am learning how to, well-- communicate. My advice would be to say something like this: "Grandma, I love and respect you, and I know that you love me. But calling me fat is judgemental and unnecessarily hurtful and all it does is chip away at my self-confidence. I would appreciate if you could support the effort that I am putting into losing weight, instead of criticizing me for the weight that I haven't lost yet." Or something along those lines. The risk with saying things like that is that it might be poorly received. If the person is irrational, they might even take insult that you dare talk to them like that. Thing is, life is happier and healthier when you communicate like that, even if it's scary. If you're lucky, they will realize that they are wrong. My mother is hands-down the most irrational person in the world, but I have managed to get through to her by talking to her like this. Sometimes. You have to train family to stop saying stupid things, you know. Trust me. No matter the outcome, you will feel better, because you're right, and all you're asking of her is something that you deserve: RESPECT. |
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| Games & Challenges | Lean n Mean Dragons New You Team 3 | May 28 2007 07:04 (UTC) |
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| Congratulations! You guys did great! *leaves a "Congratulations, GOOD JOB!" cake with buttercream frosting for the winners* |
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| Games & Challenges | New You Week 1 Winners | May 28 2007 07:03 (UTC) |
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| Wow, you've really got your stuff together, Nyc! This is awesome. I love how you're doing it, and you explained it really well! Thank you for all of this effort you're putting in. p.s. you forgot to put the thin mints weekly minutes down on the sheet. :( |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 28 2007 07:00 (UTC) |
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| Wow guys, we did fantabulous! I am proud of everyone! Next week, we're going to win this for sure! What do you all plan on doing for cardio? I can't get to a gym, but I can do aerobics. Usually I do a 30 minute workout, either Slim in 6 or Hip Hop Abs, but I think for this coming week, I will do the advanced level of either one of those. "Ramp It Up" for SI6, and "Full Body Burn" for Hip Hop Abs. That's 45 minutes of intense workout. I hope I can do it, fingers crossed! Good luck to everyone! |
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| Games & Challenges | The Thin Mints Thread - Team 6 - New You Challenge | May 27 2007 14:56 (UTC) |
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| Yay for rhonda! Thanks for checking in! C'mon, the rest of you can do it! Don't make me hunt you down, haha! |
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