Posts by la_discotheque

Romantic love is needed because it is beneficial to our survival. If we find a mate who remainsromantically interested in us they will share their resources, and pooling resources in general is good for both parties involved. When it comes to babies the general consensus is that we have these feelings to make sure we spend time caring for our offspring, once again enhancing their likelihood of survival.

Many scientists think that romance is something that our species have evolved. At the end of the day it aids the survival of our species: Not very romantic when you think about it but still pretty essential :)

Original Post by mommakitty:

Why are you guys assuming that the calorie coach is a him?  I'd prefer to think if it as a b*tch, therefore is female.

But we all know that boys can be bitches too ;) Let's not go bringing down the sisterhood.

Because I'm a happier, more confident person when I weigh less :)

I'm curious about it too. No matter what weight I am, from 120lbs to 155lbs I always have horrible saddlebags which just won't shift.

I was thinking about getting Vaser lipo which is similar in method ( a bit more invasive) but don't know anyone who's had either procedure.

Hun and sweetie are boooring.

If you're going to try and get on a stranger's nerves by using terms of endearment at the end of your spiel, why not go for something a bit more original? Kittykat? Cupcake? Peachpie? Sugartits? Dollface?

Condescending AND brilliant.

Constellation.

Original Post by charleet:

You don't want to sleep with the toad anyway...consider this.  He had sex with a prostitute.  You have sex with him now, and you're having sex with everyone that SHE had sex with...if you know nothing about her, you should try to find out. 

You have no idea what you're talking about. An EXTREMELY tiny little minority of working girls wouldn't use protection. They're females too and if anything through their line of work know exactly what to fear from STDs. If anything, it's safer to sleep with a prostitute than someone you pick up from a club or bar because they will never ever take a gamble with their sexual health; it's their living.

From the sound of it your hubby sounds like the kind of guy who's been using escorts for years. Maybe the guilt's finally caught up with him so he decided to tell you? I would honestly suggest trying to get him to talk openly about his sexual past. When it comes to men who use prostitutes regularly it becomes like an addiction and is extremely hard to overcome. Unless he's willing to make a change so the both of you can work towards a new sex life I'd maybe suggest separating. It'll cause you too much heartache to stay with someone like him in the long run.

Congrats on the 3days! I'm 15 hours in now and quite honestly wouldn't be surprised if it happens again tonight. Meh.

Did you know that even if you purge the entire contents of your stomach you're still likely to digest about a third of the calorie content? Could explain your weight gain.

Make sure you keep drinking water / snacking on healthy stuff throughout the day so you're less likely to obsess over binging. Good luck!

Original Post by musicalfishmich:

hahaha and now you're an expert on anthropology? please carmen.

years of scientific research? disagreeing with mother nature? where do you come up with this BS?

I'm studying a Bachelor's degree in Psychology. Everything Carmen brought up is valid; within evolutionary and social psychology there are numerous theories and a huge volume of studies and literature to back up what she said.

Why are you making such a big deal about this? HAHA.

Original Post by lindinig:

I love hard bodies in men, both to look at and to snuggle against. Lean hard bodies, not bulky hard bodies :).

Exactly. It's like, I've got enough smooshy bits for the both of us, no need to add to that

Original Post by musicalfishmich:

Original Post by carmenxox:

 

my friends don't lie to me. I hang out with guys only... I don't hang out with girls because I see them act like that all the time. I stay away from the bitchyness and drama thanks

hahah ... really now? well that was nice for a good laugh :X

So was that^

Biiiitchy.

I killed my hair with bleach going from black to blonde so I had to chop it all off.  I'm not going to lie, there were tears in my eyes as I cut it all off. Some girls can pull it off really well; IMO it's all about a combination of confidence and good face shape.

Doesn't stop me from feeling like I look like a boy though :(

Original Post by shapeshifter:

Original Post by cptbunny:

He was my first crush!

Me too!!!! 

bernadetteb29 - the "red leather jacket"!!!! didn't we all just want one like it! ;) 

OHMYGOD, thank you guys!

The looks I got from my friends when I admitted this... It's nice to know I'm not a complete weirdo. Or rather, there are other freaks out there like me. Woo!

Moonwalker was blates the best childhood film ever.

Am I the only person who giggled at the title of this topic? Silly me.

Anyways. I prefer my guys skinny but toned. I've never found muscles attractive or, for that matter, anyone who looks larger than I do. I don't think I could ever date anyone even slightly overweight either. That sounds terribly superficial doesn't it? My bad.

Veggie delite subs! I'm a total carb fiend so they're pretty much my fav fast food.

Pitta bread with houmous & salad from kebab shops are neat too. As long as you forfeit any mayo / other condiments they shouldn't have more than 350 cals. They're also massive so they fill you up really well, espesh after a night out drinking.