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The Lounge New Canadian Airline Policy re Obese and Disabled Travellers Jan 12 2008
18:04 (UTC)
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Really it just about needs. They need someone to help them if the want it or not. No one needs to be two seats wide.

Rich disabled? LOL thats too funny. Most disabled people have half to work with of what a normal person would PLUS medical expenses. Its to encourage travel with the disabled im sure. They really dont care. Its marketing.


The Lounge Kid issue; what to do? Oct 08 2007
17:10 (UTC)
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i didnt say that...i dont know you and i dont know you all know each other.

but you are putting words in my mouth and being overly aggressive.
maybe you should review your own ways of existing and keeping yourself in check.

not all parents even bother with why. they just punish.
so it doesnt go without saying because i dont assume things.
The Lounge Kid issue; what to do? Oct 08 2007
16:48 (UTC)
15
ok....well i had a mother that was a revenge beast.
guess who i dont talk to anymore.

point is that the kid felt they had to lie.

why?

not comfortable for some reason

whats that reason?


i didnt say cut them slack. i said UNDERSTAND WHY.

they are NOT an adult. and if you knew anything about the way the brain develops your only start to think of others when you hits a certain age. usually being 16+

The Lounge gang violence. Oct 08 2007
16:40 (UTC)
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when it takes a hour for cops to show up to your poverty/crime ridden area you have to have something else protecting you. and sometimes that all you have (a gang)

you can stop gang violence. gov and corps do the same thing but on a larger scale. make money-get stuff-my rules

you cant just stop living that way either. here you  leave and then people think you are going to snitch and you end up dead.


its basically just greed, fear and egos...one of the oldest element of human existance. its in our nature to be territorial and want things to feel stable/safe/alpha.
The Lounge Kid issue; what to do? Oct 08 2007
16:34 (UTC)
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god you people must really forget what its like to be a teen.

they are not idiots. just tell her strait up you cant drop everything and yeh it sucks..but she need to work out a plan because of the one car. thats just the way it is. shes not a failure because she is just learning to be responsible and thinking of others..and "letting herself down" a kid will read that as:
FAILURE !
LOSER !
DISAPPOINTMENT !
The Lounge Kid issue; what to do? Oct 08 2007
16:28 (UTC)
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removal of prvlges.

that cell phone thing..OH YEH..that would of been a charge..i would of taken it away too. i wouldnt of split it in the first place.

i would make him take the stuff back to the store and get to stand in the return line and tell him if he wanted a ride he should of just ASKED.

i just think you should look into why he lied before doing anything.
but yeh...make him stand in that annoying return line. lol
thats priceless.




The Lounge The Ideal. Oct 08 2007
16:18 (UTC)
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almost

36-37
26-27
36-37

changes with the bloaties. i used to be two inches bottom heavy when i was younger. not that i am complaining. i thought the ideal made it difficult to dress without looking schleppy on my frame and with the type of clothing fit (loose) i was comfy with. amde me look bigger than i was unless i had on fitted things.
The Lounge Kid issue; what to do? Oct 08 2007
16:11 (UTC)
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um....it was your day off. i would just ask him why he didnt just ask for a ride instead of lying about it.

maybe something is going on when he rides the bus. or maybe he just hates riding the bus.

revenge? you wanted to be a parent right?

i am just confused on why it would make you mad that you drove your own flesh and blood to his school. i mean there is a mom missing her boy on this site...i just dont understand why you are mad. you shouldnt charge your kids to raise them. they didnt ask to be brought into this world. punish his ass for lying...yeh. but charging him money....i just dont think thats right.
The Lounge Tanned vs. Not tanned Oct 08 2007
16:04 (UTC)
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tanning does add to it. its why body builders are never pale. the pale skin tricks the eye and you lose depth.

on the other hand it ages your skin. i notice in people around me that tan always lose the looks to thier face a lot sooner.

its kinda a trade off. you dont have to tan to get skin cancer either. it can happen from just daily exposure. tanning booths do mimic the sun in the way they make your body release feel good chemicals. ever read about seasonal disorder where people get depressed in the winter from less sun? so you feeling bummed out could add to your body image perception being more negative.

i was going to tan to boost my mood this summer. decided against it as i was looking around at the young people with wrinkley foreheads. im going for the long term thing.lol
The Lounge the ex-boyfriends, skinny model girlfriend Oct 08 2007
15:47 (UTC)
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going to dinner with an ex is just a stupid idea in itself.
dinner can make it worse. you shouldnt even bother talking to him. he obviously doesnt care that the contact bothers you or doesnt notice. its a waste of your time and not fair to your current guy or your self worth.


is your current guy ok with that?

stay home and watch CLerks

"

Jay: "Oh, you used to go out with her?"

Dante: "Yeah, well, I thought we might be starting again."

Jay: "Don't you already have a girlfriend?"

Dante: "Yeah, Veronica."

Jay: "And what, you're gonna dump her for that Caitlin chick?"

Dante: "Maybe."

Jay: "I don't know, dude. That Caitlin chick's nice, but I see that

Veronica girl doin' bleep for you all the time. I saw her rubbin' your back, bleepin' comes and bring you food. Didn't I see her change your tire once?"

Dante: "Hey, I jacked up the car. All she did was unloosen the nuts and put the tire on."

Jay: "Well, I know she does a lot for you."

Dante: "She's my girlfriend."

Jay: "I had some girlfriends too, but all they wanted from me was weed and bleep."

Jay: "****, my grandma used to say, 'What's better? bleepin' a good plate with nothin' on it?' No wait, I bleeped up. 'What's a good plate with nothin' on it?'"

Dante: "Meaning?"


Jay: "I don't know. She was senile and bleep. She used to bleepin' piss herself all the time. And bleep herself."

Jay: "Come on, Silent Bob, let's get the bleep outta this bleepin' gyp joint with this fucikin' **** Dante. You **** smoker."

Silent Bob (Kevin Smith): "You know, there's a million fine-lookin' women in the world, dude, but they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on ya."

Jay: "Come on, Limp Dick."

Silent Bob: "Yeah, yeah, yeah."

"
Health & Support Ganglion cyst on wrist - painful!! Oct 08 2007
15:31 (UTC)
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i love that it was called "cost mngmt"  haa haa

all the above repeated complications is why i didnt bother with paying to have it removed.

The Lounge My boyfriends mum Oct 08 2007
15:24 (UTC)
2
she should talk to her doctor as your wt can affect your meds as well as food types.

The Lounge Ipod Theft- Protect yourself - MUGGED for ipods Oct 08 2007
15:20 (UTC)
i cant see it....

the first thing i thought of though in videos land was sick of it all "potential for a fall" as i was out walking with my lock on a rope for a friendly greeting if i found the dude.
 
edit...which i know is in irony of the whole message but...ooh i woudl of lved to split a skull with that lock that day

"
"Potential For A Fall"

Here's another tale, a replay of society's failures
out for ourselves, bred to consume in pursuit of wealth
and the ones in charge, once secure show disregard
for future generations who must endure what's left behind

No compassion, no caution, no forethought
Potential for a fall
No forethought, no vision, no future
Potential for a fall
go about our lives as we turn a blind eye
as long as i get mine
potential for a fall
submissive, complacent, sit back and let it slip away
just can't seem to hold it together

And yet we continue with the charade of being individuals
as we get spoon-fed, kept in check by the latest trends
are we that shallow? is getting your groove on all that matters
i'm not asking you to bleed but show consideration please
sit back and let it slip away
We can't seem to hold it together we can't seem to get it right
"
The Lounge Ipod Theft- Protect yourself - MUGGED for ipods Oct 07 2007
15:22 (UTC)
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OH..i didnt ever even think of that baby thing...yeh! that is a bad idea.

i remember we got stickers in school when i was much younger to put on your window to alert fire fighters there was a child in the home. I put it on my window when i was little and my father FLIPPED out. I was in first grade so i got the boogeyman explanation....but yeh...ugh....

everyday i come across new reasons to never have kids.
The Lounge Ipod Theft- Protect yourself - MUGGED for ipods Oct 07 2007
14:23 (UTC)
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i agree.
this happened to my s.o. in the middle of the afternoon. it wasnt even night or anything.

theres been tons of times where just making a visual on someone following me has saved my tookas. one time walking home from a store a tinted car kept circling me and 2 friends. we cut through yards and doubled back to lose them. another time a person following us (2) bus stop to bus stop..we just crossed our arms and stared the guy down who turned around and walked the other way. thank god the bus showed up shortly after. i didnt see him at first. i heard his sneaker skid the pavement.

at an old place my neighbor saw a lady walking talking on her cell and in outer space get mugged by someone in a car. the just drove up, punched her in the face and grabbed her purse and took off with it.

right outside the drug store near a place i used to work and old lady got punched in the face and kicked and some guy ran off with her big grandma bag.

people call me paranoid too when i turn my rings under or dont wear them at all or tuck my little wallet purse under my jacket or bring a "dummy wallet" to toss and run away.

i would rather be called paranoid than victim.

it made me think of a news story awhile back of this little granny in NYC that was punched repeatedly by some young thug in the doorway of her building. she made the granny in the wedding singer look buff....i just think that is so cowardly and lame when young healthy males will beat a old person down for a few dollars or a few pills.

i just want to get a house so badly so i can have a few big dogs to make me feel comfy. i know its not 100% solid safety...but a lot less likely to be jacked when you are walking 2 dobes or a couple big rotties.

Health & Support Ganglion cyst on wrist - painful!! Oct 06 2007
18:21 (UTC)
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mine made my left arm useless. it cost more to fix the thing than to take a few years off. plus i didnt want to deal with the complications.

you can get it injected with steroids first before going to get it cut out. and just because they do cut it out doesnt mean it wont come back same as with the injection.

take supps for joint health and stop taking that ib stuff. take arnica montana 30 cc. it works better

for now they are going to tell you to splint it and take pain meds before cutting it out.

my s.o. did just those two things and his went away.

mine took a few master cleanses and supps. i still have it a bit but it was a cluster of occult cysts that i worked until my hand couldnt even hold a paper.
bad move on my part but i had to pay the bills.

ehh.. good luck. its annoying to deal with to say the least.
Weight Loss do you ever find yourself looking down on others? Oct 06 2007
13:05 (UTC)
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how to stop:
realize you are being a total a-hole.

you did the same freaking thing so who the **** are you to even think that. you are pathetic.


hows it feel to be judged?

Weight Loss |Featherweight Division|18.5-21.0 BMI Goals Oct 06 2007
12:58 (UTC)
5
robo you should go to talk to someone. i think its best for yourself to remove yourself from this group. i dont want anyone developing or exercising in any type of disordered behavior.

i hope you seek help.

Fitness Ashamed to go to the gym Oct 05 2007
19:00 (UTC)
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then dont go till you get to a comfortable wt.


you dont have to workout to lose. especially when overwt.
i saved my working out for the last pounds.

working against natural inclinations would be a set up for quiting and failure for me.



 
Foods Best kind of candy! Oct 03 2007
12:28 (UTC)
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plain ole' hershey bars
Weight Loss Muscular and Manly Oct 03 2007
11:34 (UTC)
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eat less and do more cardio. use less strength training on the upper body.

or just eat less and do nothing.


i did option b. it took a couple years to get rid of my runner's thighs.

doing pilates off and on as well as yoga stretched out my shape from round to long and lean.

good luck!


also i suggest trying out different types of clothing looks.
structured clothing can make a muscular person look more "husky"
think flowy and soft. like blouses etc.

The Lounge Tired of the atrocious grammar/spelling Oct 01 2007
19:03 (UTC)
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you better watch out! you might get stabbed with a red pen and get a demerit or detention or have to write 100 times on the board something absolutely pointless!
Weight Loss Girls size 4-6 - please help with jeans sizing!! Oct 01 2007
18:59 (UTC)
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levi's. you can get them in tall.
The Lounge Tired of the atrocious grammar/spelling Oct 01 2007
18:58 (UTC)
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no spell check..deal with it...


who cares!

its a message board not a term paper.
Weight Loss desperate Oct 01 2007
18:55 (UTC)
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no doctor would tell you its ok to drink 1 diet pop only (12 oz) as your fluid intake. you are lying.

you can die on a fast within a day if your electrolytes are messed up. which by your fluid intake they probably already are.

you thrw up the water because you need electrolytes with the hydration (gatorade/smartwater)

but like someone already said. you are going to do what you want to anyway. so have fun passing kidney stones and blood and enjoy that painfully blocked gallbladder that could kill you.

Weight Loss desperate Oct 01 2007
14:17 (UTC)
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its because you are dehydrated from drinking coke zero.

drink water at room temp. if you wont even drink water you dont really want to lose it that badly. that coke zero stuff stalls out my losses.
The Lounge "Man" complains about splinter Oct 01 2007
14:11 (UTC)
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men actually have a lower pain threshold than women.

so i guess a man would complain before a woman.

you should of told him to be a woman.

lol
Weight Loss desperate Oct 01 2007
13:55 (UTC)
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if you eat the proper diet and drink water as your only beverage..

4 pounds will most likely be gone in that time anyway.
when you start a diet you lose water wt first and its usually about that much.


The Lounge Are we promiscuous? Oct 01 2007
13:53 (UTC)
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ehh..i always thought it to be ironic that someone talking about someone elses sex life in judgement based in morals.

what is it anyones business?

besides. you screw once you can be infected. you dont even have to do anything. skin contact or body fluid contact you can be infected.

disease doesnt have morals. it just operated on opportunity.
Weight Loss anyone with pretty fit or skinny boyfriends? Oct 01 2007
13:45 (UTC)
1
ohso - my guy is the same..and just looking at him i knew his wt should be about 200-215. we did a body fat check and it turned out to be right. (% of body fat ideal based on measurements&wt rather than just wt alone) at 185 a(a bmi recc.) he would be too thin.

it is rather interesting that you found the same to be true for yourself as well.

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