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The Lounge My kids were in a vehicle accident...what would you do? Apr 05 2008
16:31 (UTC)
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I dont have a GAL.  I have full custody with reasonable visitation.  I cannot call an ambulance because I don't have the address they are at. He has moved in with a girl friend recently (or so I'm told).  I do know what town they are in though.  This seems so fishy to me as well because when I asked where the wreck happened he said he didnt know.  I said the kids were involved in an accident and you dont know where??  He then told the name of the street.  I feel like he's hiding something.  I just don't really know what I can do since I don't know the exact address.  Thats another reason why I didnt just leave and go get them because if he wont agree to let me get them I'll just get there and not know where they are.  This is such bullsh**.  I can't even get him to answer the phone now.

I called my local police and they told me that it would be best to file a police report when the kids get home so that they could take pictures but that does nothing or them getting medical attention.  As far as I know there was no EMT called...I'm not positive but I think the girls would have mentioned it if they were.  I just don't know what else I can do.
The Lounge which is worse - cheating with acquaintance/friend or prostitute? - now with extra question! Apr 05 2008
11:54 (UTC)
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If my significant other slept with any one of those he wouldnt be my significant other.  I would rather none of the above.
The Lounge My kids were in a vehicle accident...what would you do? Apr 05 2008
11:44 (UTC)
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I m tempted to do that but I'm not sure they would make him bring them home since I agreed to let him have visitation.  I just dont knwo what to do.  He is unbelievably difficult. 
Pregnancy & Parenting Why do people think that holding their baby will make me want to keep the child I am carrying? Mar 28 2008
20:05 (UTC)
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I feel for you and for the baby.  I think that you are doing what is right by giving this baby a loving home.  Not that my opinion really matters.  However, I wonder why you keep starting threads about this issue.  I think, now this is just my opinion.....but, I think maybe you are needing confirmation.  Just as others have said this is your decision what other people think doesnt matter you are the one that has to live with the decision you make. 

In any case, from reading the various posts and changing your mind so rapidly I would suggest you seek counseling.  It would help you come to terms with what you are feeling and possibly help you to be not so miserable.  You have to remember your hormones will make you jump at issues that you might not would have before.  It did surprise me when you said some of the things you did.  Maybe the issues you are feeling go deeper than just pregnancy.  I'm honestly not trying to be hateful or anything of the sort.  I am concerned for you and for the baby. 

As with any advice you can ignore what you dont like. 

I would just say try not to make any decisions until you have the baby.  If the father is willing to take the child then there is no rush. 
Fitness Have you ever been to a fitness boot camp? Is there one in your area? Mar 28 2008
19:41 (UTC)
I think I'm going to try to start next week.  Thank you for your responses. 

I hope the trainer doesnt yell......that would be kinda funny to pay to have someone yell at you :). 

And...WOW 52 inches!!  WTG!!
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
13:13 (UTC)
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It has been really fun chatting with you all today.  I look forward to doing it again soon.  I must cook something for breakfast.  You guys have a great day. 

Thanks again for the link.  I'm going to look at those when I come back. 

Cya :)
Motivation Miss Motivation... is lacking... Mar 27 2008
13:02 (UTC)
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Yes I have done that.  And you are still making progress.  Maintaining can be work as well.  You may want to take a break from trying to lose and just enjoy where you are at for awhile.  I think that is good sometimes to keep from getting burned out.  Of course, losing down to a healthy BMI is important as well but we are human :). 

When I get in those "I don't want to do this anymore moods" I usually just try to make myself do something that would be considered working out and I feel better afterwards.  I find that having a buddy to talk to helps and coming to this site is the greatest. 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:56 (UTC)
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hey deathrocket :)
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:55 (UTC)
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I can understand the not being able to afford it.  When I first got divorced I went without any tv at all for about 3 years.
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:52 (UTC)
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opps
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:52 (UTC)
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Thanks for the link :) I'm going to look at that.  I just got done posting in your journal.  And thanks for the add :). 

LOL @ the 9 1/2 weeks comment. 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:51 (UTC)
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Thanks for the link :) I'm going to look at that.  I just got done posting in your journal.  And thanks for the add :). 

LOL @ the 9 1/2 weeks comment. 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:39 (UTC)
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Good Morning laura :)
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:35 (UTC)
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nice, I'm in Arkansas.  You guys can call me Cass if you want to.  It sounds a little better than manic
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:32 (UTC)
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Where are you from Carrie? 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:30 (UTC)
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Yeah figures.  I'm too broke with school and the kids to travel that far right now.  I wanted to go to the one close to me back in the fall but wound up not being able to.
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:26 (UTC)
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Good morning rocky
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:26 (UTC)
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Yeah if you can find the link that would be interesting to see. 

I just noticed the part about the meetup...where is it?  Probably too far for me to travel.
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:19 (UTC)
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Oh I thought you were done.  You look to be at a healthy weight :).
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:18 (UTC)
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Good Morning yach :)
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:16 (UTC)
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what posts?
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:16 (UTC)
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I would have to go visit if I didn't live close to some family.  Hopefully you have friends you can spend some holidays with?  Did you move for your job?

Sorry I'm so full of questions lol.  I'm trying to get to know everyone better here. 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:14 (UTC)
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I just looked at all your pictures hk.  I love seeing weight loss progress on here.  The pics look awesome.  It is inspiring to see so many people losing the weight.  I want to post some of my "big girl" pics.
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:12 (UTC)
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I guess I don't understand what you mean.  How is an elephant a camera man?
Foods Calcium intake suffers when eating healthy. Mar 27 2008
12:10 (UTC)
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I have to agree with the others.  My calcium intake is better now.  It was almost non existent before.
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:06 (UTC)
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Well you could always get "creative"hk
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:05 (UTC)
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Awwww 5 is a sweet age.  I miss mine being babies.  I don't think I need another baby though.  Do you have any family close to you?  It's difficult to be away from the family.
Weight Loss Pictures Mar 27 2008
12:03 (UTC)
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You go girl!!  You look great! That is awesome. 
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:00 (UTC)
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how old is he?  mine are 12, 9, and 7
The Lounge They say you want Chat revolution. Weeeeell, you know.. we all want to change the world. Mar 27 2008
12:00 (UTC)
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Take lots of pics so I can oooo and ahhhh and all i miss at Disney
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