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| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Oct 12 2007 00:39 (UTC) |
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| look what i'm saying is that ok, for some people they dont take it like he did in this horrible way, fine, but porn is sssoooooo readily available to everyone, and you never know who's hands it might fall into, ya know? | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Oct 12 2007 00:34 (UTC) |
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| ok so everyone is saying that porn was not his problem. But let me tell you before he got into this stuff he was the best boyfriend anyone could ask for, and treated me great!! After he got into it, he stopped having sex with me and he says its because he knew i was a "whore" and stuff like that!! I knew he got these words from the porn!! PEOPLE, AFTER THE PORN CAME THE DISRESPECT AND THE VIOLENCE, and i know thats where he got these ideas that it was ok!! | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Oct 10 2007 01:08 (UTC) |
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| zarelha, i very much appreciate your post. Your right its not my job to fix him, but honestly i feel so sorry for him, i pray for him very night that he gets through this. I still love him regardless but i couldnt take it anymore. | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Oct 08 2007 17:19 (UTC) |
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| HELLO EVERYBODY. THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR ADVICE ON THIS MATTER....JUST WANTED TO LET YA'LL KNOW THAT LAST NIGHT I LEFT HIM!! HE STARTED GOING TO STRIP CLUBS AND THE PORN WAS GETTING OUT OF HAND. THE BIGGEST REASON I HAD TO LET HIM GO....THE NAME CALLING AND DEGRADING GOT TO BE TOO MUCH AND OUT OF CONTROL. HE CALLED ME A DIRTY WHORE...I DEFENDED MYSELF (VERBALLY) AND HE PUSHED ME ON THE FLOOR!! SO FOR ALL OF YOU THAT SAY THAT PORN IS HARMLESS...YOUR FULL OF IT...LOOK WHERE IT GOT ME!!
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| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:17 (UTC) |
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| i really appreciate you guys!! but i have to go get ready for school, i'm gonna go try to get him to take a shower with me :) but i would appreciate if in the future maybe later on tonight, we could continue discussing, i find it very helpful | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:12 (UTC) |
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| well...idk he used to like the whole student/teacher thing, why? | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:10 (UTC) |
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| i dont want to do it, but i am considering leaving the relationship...i dont want to i love him so much, but i dont know if we can do this anymore... | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:09 (UTC) |
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| i told him that he shouldnt talk to me that way and he apoplogized, but he still does it, and i dont think he knows it | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:08 (UTC) |
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| yes, we have...lol he likes to roleplay...or at least he used to :'( | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:06 (UTC) |
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| believe me he's had all the access in the world...he grew up without family from the time he was 2 since he was 16 hes stayed at random friends houses who i know for certain look at porn all the time...i think he did too and now hes just starting again | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:03 (UTC) |
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| i suppose he is under a littl bit of stress...but i really cant undestand waht sexual gratification has to do with stress :/ | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:02 (UTC) |
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| dew...in the beginning it was just whatever it was my freinds hanging out with his, we got to know eachother and became very close friends...i'm going to be honest i didnt want to say cuz its a little embarrassing, but ever since he started watching porn i feel that he degrades and belittles me, he even called me a "slut" the other day...i guess its normal in porn idk | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 18:00 (UTC) |
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| no you're right tiger,the women in the porn arent the ones he asked to marry or the ones he comes home to, or the ones he loves....but they ARE the ones he gets his sexual pleasures from, thats what hurts me | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:57 (UTC) |
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| i've known him for 4 years, been with him for three, but the porn only started about 8 months ago | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:56 (UTC) |
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| i really want to bring up the subject of counseling to him...but how when he lies about having the porn in the first place. and my distaste towards porn comes from the fact that i guess i just want him to look at me, only me, and i would be willing to do anything to get him to | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:54 (UTC) |
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| honestly, if he was addicted to sex, then i would give it to him anytime he wanted it and i wasnt busy with work or school i like it to..this really makes me sad | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:53 (UTC) |
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| maybe i am a bit insecure...but i havent alwaus been, its the porn that MAKES me insecure | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:51 (UTC) |
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| by the way, i never expected so many responses, i really appreciate them all of you | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:50 (UTC) |
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| Thank you italianprincess...i see your point...but at this point i cant help but think hes just not attracted to me...i feel so ugly most of the time around him | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:45 (UTC) |
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| ok again not to sound nasty...but i guess you could say i am "a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets" lol i would do anything, and i he knows that....i like making love of course, but not all the time, that would be boring | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:43 (UTC) |
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| ok not to sound nasty....but i have tried everything....i have sooo many sexy little outfits that i think most guys would like, when i wear them he looks and says...wow you look nice and then goes on to do what he was doing....do you have any idea how much that hurts..i've posted a pic of both my face and body now :( | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:36 (UTC) |
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| um....no dew lol i dont, and the difference is...im pretty sure the people in pornography have no emotional attatchment, and honestly i find them to be sluttly and permiscous | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:35 (UTC) |
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| i do, i mean we dont really fight fight, just little arguments, i ask him why he likes it so much, and why he is not intersted in me anymore, but he doesnt really have an answer for me, we're not blowing up at eachother, i just dont get it | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:34 (UTC) |
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| i couldnt watch it, i've treid looking at different types of porn to see what he is so interseted in, but i find it repulsive | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:30 (UTC) |
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| well actually lilsammi is right, we fight more about the fact that i dislike something and he does it anyway...and about twice a month | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:28 (UTC) |
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| We have none of those problems we've always been open to eachother the only thing we fight about is porn | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:25 (UTC) |
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| we've been together 3 years and i will post a pic shortly i only have one....ok so i'm not HOT ok but i'm not ugly | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:24 (UTC) |
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| Really...like what? | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:20 (UTC) |
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| i dont know why he doesnt want to have sex to me....thats what im trying to figure out, because everyone tells me im very pretty and for the most part we get along great....i really just dont know | |||
| The Lounge | Pornography... AAAAH!! | Sep 12 2007 17:18 (UTC) |
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| dew...sorry i dont get what you meant | |||
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