Posts by lisa032385

Original Post by adolphs:

 Red fades out in about 3-4 weeks.

I second this.  I am naturally dark blonde and can't keep red in my hair for more than a few days.  I've tried coloring my hair red at a salon twice now and both times it quickly faded to a lighter orangey color.  Some hair just doesn't take color well.  I'd love to go the color you showed in the picture, but my hair just isn't up for it. 

?are you buying a condo or a house?

A condo probably.

Be aware that if you're buying a condo/townhouse/house in an association that the association will frequently make special assessments.  For instance, my association fees started at $175 and have gone up to $275 in the last 7 years in addition to an assessment between $1,000-$2,000 per year.  You do not have a choice if the association votes in higher dues or assessments.

Two things I have been asking is how old is the roof and how much is in the association's reserve fund.  The lender and I used $300/mo as an estimate for condo fees although most of the properties I looked at are under $150/mo. 

I know they can do special assessments.  Last year my friend's association was $19,000 over budget for snow removal because of all the crazy snow we got, but she was only charged $100.  What were your special assesments for?

I work 14 hours on Mondays and Thursdays and just got back from the gym.  I go on my lunch.   Not sure if that would work with your job or not.

Original Post by pavlovcat:

I recently realized that when I am in binge mode and am having a hard time getting back on track I have a tendancy to focus on distorted thoughts about NEVER BEING ABLE TO EAT -insert junk food- AGAIN!!!!  And then I can't stop focusing on that food, and then my mind wanders over to other foods that I'm suddenly convinced I'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO EAT AGAIN!!!! and suddenly I must also eat that food, and on and on.  And it doesn't matter if I don't actually feel like eating that food or if I eat that food to the point that it makes me feel sick, I just continue to feel a compulsion to consume.  I want to eat until there's no more to eat, and then I want to go get more junk food to eat.

 Wow, I was just telling my boyfriend about this last night.  I feel the same way.  I think, oh I better eat that now, because I may not be able to do it later.  He told me I was really mesed up for thinking that way.  I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one. 

Sorry to hear about your back.  That sucks.  I have been on vicodin a few times.  The first time was several years ago when I had my wisdom teeth out and developed a dry socket.  I never had a high feeling, and it seemed to help with the pain.  However, once my prescription was up, I was practically begging the dentist for a refill, despite experiencing little to no pain.  I had this panic feeling that I would be in great pain if I didn't get more.  Luckily my dentist didn't give me anymore and I was fine.

Fastforward several years and I was prescribed it again for my broken arm.  I needed it because it was the worst pain I've ever had.  I took the maximum dose as frequently as possible and it didn't really seem to help all that much.  I had terrible stomach aches and crazy scary nightmares on it.  I ended up getting prescribed Percocet, which is stronger on the pain and easier on the stomach.  With the Percocet, I experienced that high feeling you mentioned.  I loved it and it helped with the pain.  However, I found myself taking the pills even when I didn't need them.  Basically I had to just completely quit taking them, but my pain had already decreased.

I guess the point is, everyone has different experiences, but it is quite easy to get addicted.  I would make sure you are being honest with yourself about your pain level and need for the medication.  Also, you should discuss your concerns with your doctor.  There may be a less addictive alternative. 

You really just need to wiegh the risks versus the benefits and ask yourself how bad you need this medication.  When my boyfriend's back acts up, he is out for days if he doesn't take his pills.  Crawling to the bathroom on his hands and knees and all.  You should be fine on the minimum dose for a limited amount of time under doctor supervision, but definitely keep an eye on it.

I agree that you should tell him about your difficulty vocalizing your feelings.  You shouldn't be forced to do something you don't feel comfortable doing.  However, just try saying it, as it gets easier the more often you do.  Just don't blow him off when he says it.  If you can't say it back, at least acknowledge it by saying something like, "Aw, thanks hun." 

I weigh myself daily as well.  I don't do it at the same time of day.  Yes it flucuates by several pounds, but I don't worry about it.  It's the overall trend I am looking at.  I usually weigh myself every time I'm in the bathroom with the scale.  Not because I am obsessing, but just because I am bored/curious.  I've found that BMs don't make much of a difference for me.  Sorry, TMI.  Really its just a number though.  I measure my success moreso on how I feel. 

Original Post by valtorpublic:

When the new guidelines are published by our governments, web sites like this one will have to adapt.  I mean let's face it, it truly looks like we are completely wasting our times and efforts here.

What do you think ?

I sure hope not!  I think that general attitude of people on this website is to promote physical activity.  Our nutritional goals may need some tweaking though.

Fabio Fitness - an oldie but goodie

I heard that the Girl Scouts reduced the number of servings in a box in order to save on costs versus raising the price.  So the good news is you didn't eat as many cookies as you would have if you ate almost a whole box a year ago. 

I would never do this by responding directly to an ad on Craigslist.  After looking into other sites, like www.donoreggs.com and www.eggdonor.com it seems like the compensation is $5000-10,000, depending on how in demand your eggs are (specific religion, atheltic aspriations, model looks, etc.).   I think $6,000 from an agency seems more legit than $20,000 from some random couple.  The second site is the one I looked into more, and they provide you with an additional insurance policy and a lawyer to go over the contract with. 

I guess it sounds like a good opportunity for someone who meets the qualifications and has no attachment to their eggs.  Personally,  I received good grades in school and scored well on my standardized tests, but have just average looks and no atheletic or artistic ability whatsoever.  I initially wanted to say beggers can't be choosers, but when paying so much money for something, it would make sense that the couple would have such high standards.  Also, I personlly would always wonder what attributes  the person that came from my egg had.  Punnett squares always fascinated me in biology.

Breaking the Law by Judas Priest gets me every time.  Except I'm too chicken to actually break the law, so I slow all the way down and accelerate as fast as I can up to the speed limit without actually going more than 6 mph over.  It makes me feel like a bad ****.

My goal for the day is to not eat anymore candy and to make it to the gym.  One serving of Peanut Butter M&Ms is enough for me today.

Welcome back.  I like the forums here too, especially because they aren't blocked by my work computer.  They provide hours of entertainment on slow days.

I spoke with my insurance company and they said that in situations such as these, the apartment company is usually responsible.  My insurance company is working with their insurance company and they are going to get it taken care of. 

I just found out from the doctor that I need surgery, so I am glad to have someone taking care of the situation for me.  I am surprised at how much is involved in a simple fall and never knew how much a few broken bones hurt!  Now all I have to do is work with my employer to get my short-term disability insurance to kick in for my lost wages.