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| The Lounge | sexy lingerie for flabby belly | Sep 14 2007 15:06 (UTC) |
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| thanks a lot for your feedback. I was also thinking something like a silky night gown or a corset. one problem is what size? I know that before she wore a 38 dd, or sometimes 38d, but now that she has lost weight what size shall I get her? XL? XXL? L? would it be nice to show cleavage? her breasts are also a bit shaggy (but I find them really nice for her age and size!).
sabine, she really does not want to be naked in front of my dad! that's for sure; we have talked about it alot. i know that her problem is to hide her not-so nice parts (i.e belly) and the reason that she doesn't want to have sex or any sexual relationship with my dad is because of her body, thus I think that nice underwear that she will not need to take off immediately would boost her self-esteem! she will be visiting me in about a week, (we live in different countries) thus I would like to have bought her already the appropriate lingerie! |
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| Weight Loss | anyone 5'4" 125-135 with pics? | Sep 14 2007 14:57 (UTC) |
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| I am either 5'4 or 5'5 (I am not sure about that I know that in meters I am 1.65) and currently110 lbs. I have come down to that from 132 lbs. In my gallery you can see pics before and after. However, I am not fit at all, and I am very petite frame. Cheers | |||
| The Lounge | sex: how often? | Sep 13 2007 16:09 (UTC) |
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| angie, how about morning sex? can you do that with the kids around? do you ever lock your door? my mother always tells me that from the moment they had kids they stopped having sex often, and now that both me and my brother are married it's too late to enjoy any sexual activity, because 1st my mom doesn't like her body (she is overweight even though I believe that at her age her body is nice) and 2nd my father has health problems. so, in other words I don't want to end up like my parents! | |||
| The Lounge | sex: how often? | Sep 13 2007 16:00 (UTC) |
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| well, I would have to say probably adult movies (there is porn especially for women if you don't enjoy porn *for men*), and I second jules suggestion: toys! I don't understand why KY is messy?! also how old is he and how experienced? and I don't mean one-night stands or things like that, but how many relationships before you etc? i don't really get it with the g-point destination, clitoral orgasm? how about that? no good? | |||
| The Lounge | sex: how often? | Sep 13 2007 14:02 (UTC) |
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| yes, of course sex is not the only form of intimacy. thanks for your reply. it seems to me that I am the only woman who wants that much sex - or at least that is what my ex and my hubby say (I want more than once a day for sure). thus, i am scared that when I become a mom everything will fall apart, my libido will deteriorate and since I am the one who asks for it all the time, my sex life will diminish! | |||
| The Lounge | sex: how often? | Sep 13 2007 13:44 (UTC) |
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| angie i see that you are a mom! how does that interfere with your sexual relationship?
we have been living together for 4 years, married for 2 and few months, and we are having sex more than 8 times a week, but I am also counting days when we have sex more than once. I am terrified that when we'll have kids we will have sex far less often. |
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| The Lounge | sex: how often? | Sep 13 2007 13:39 (UTC) |
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| do you count it if you have sex more than one time at a go? | |||
| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 13 2007 13:20 (UTC) |
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| thanks zarelha! i am trying to build my self-esteem again! the funny thing is that when I was heavier and my thighs were bigger, I didn't care at all. I was very confident with the way I looked (and was also single for a while). it was after losing those 20+ pounds that I started worrying! and especially after the plastic surgeon... why the hell did I go to a plastic surgeon for laser?! well, anyway thanks! I am really looking forward to start belly-dancing and I'll see how that goes. if that goes well I might attempt to quit smoking and also start squash. for the gym, it will probably take me more ! | |||
| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 12 2007 14:14 (UTC) |
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| hi trhawley, thanks for your reply. I am afraid most plastic surgeons would do that... if you consider all the photos they have on their websites for liposuction and see the before and after it's totally crazy. Women with great bodies going to have liposuction to achieve what? I don't know... I think celebrities and plastic surgeons promote surgery for everything as the best solution.
I never believed that I needed liposuction, just some exercise to tone up :-) but you can imagine that being told that I need liposuction makes me feel more self-conscious than before. |
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| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 11 2007 19:43 (UTC) |
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| thanks so much for your kind words! unfortunately I don't feel like I have nice curves, as I believe that my butt is a bit on the low part and my thighs together with my knees and calves make a straight line. anyhow, thank you so much! I am moving countries in Oct. and I already found belly-dancing classes there! so, I am up for a new start! hopefully I will also quit smoking! Something else, many belly-dancers do not have a lean figure; why is that? maybe I should also go for squash with my hubby!? that would certainly make me more toned up?! but first I need to focus on the cardio, right? edit: you are right about my lungs and heart; I don't really know what to say. I am healthy (blood tests etc) but the shortness of breath is certainly from smoking. when I had quit I was way better and could swim fast, run fast etc. so, it's definitely smoking. as for the saddlebags, a plastic surgeon to whom I went for laser hair removal told me that I had and that I needed to do liposuction or something like that. |
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| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 11 2007 17:16 (UTC) |
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| hi! thanks for letting me know about tanita. I had no idea I could buy one! I certainly do not want to lose any more weight, just tone up a bit and get lean- like when I was at 15! how long do you think it will take? oh, how about belly-dancing? will that be a good start? I like the idea of belly-dancing whereas I don't unfortunately like the idea of going to the gym. I am a heavy smoker, and it really makes me short of breath, even when i am walking a bit faster than usual.
can you see my picture now? I don't know what I am doing wrong with it. |
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| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 10 2007 12:39 (UTC) |
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| thanks for your messages. how can I measure my body fat? there is no gym around here so any ideas on how to do it on my own? | |||
| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 07 2007 12:48 (UTC) |
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Thanks for your replies! My problem is that I am a smoker I don't think I need to lose any weight. In the last three years I've lost 22 pounds (I was 132 lbs) without following any specific diet (just stopped eating bread), and I don't think that by losing any more weight I would be able to lose my saddlebags or my fat ankles. and I am also very afraid of losing the little breast tissue that I have left; from a 32dd I ended up being a 32c! I don;t want to lose that as well. Any suggestions that do not involve straining exercise would be great! How long would I need to wait to see any changes in my body? I am unfortunately not very patient and I tend to quit easily Many thanks again for your replies Daniela ps. out of curiousity, what body type would you say I am? |
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| Fitness | saddlebags and kankles | Sep 07 2007 00:36 (UTC) |
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| I have uploaded it in my gallery. Isn't it there? It's not really clear but that was all I could find... | |||
and I cannot really run or swim! Also my doing squats I am afraid that my buttocks and calves will become larger, which I definitely do not want as they are both already large enough. 
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