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| Fitness | Just walking? | Aug 31 2009 05:41 (UTC) |
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Original Post by zooplah: I have to disagree. The original poster doesn't sound like she is having trouble doing 30 minutes a day, so I don't see that there is a need to do less. At least, I don't equate her saying she is "feeling it" with excessive pain. I took that to mean that her muscles are letting her know that they are being used. Sort of how I "feel it" after doing 30 minutes of stationary bike and 1 hour of elliptical at the gym. As for starting out at 5 minutes, I don't know about her, but I think that wouldn't do me any good at all, since it normally takes me at least that long to get my heart rate up. And at least for me, a 5 minute walk wouldn't even get me to my mailbox and back. Even at my heaviest, when walking was often painful, I could do 30 minutes. The thing that really improved over time was the distance I could cover in 30 minutes. When I started out, my walking speed was pretty slow (3 mph or so). Now my normal walking pace is over 4.5 mph and if I'm in a hurry, I can walk at 5.5 - 6 mph. Naturally, it doesn't hurt to have long legs (I'm 6'5"). :) To the original poster, I would repeat the suggestion to make sure you have a good pair of shoes for walking and if doing 30 minutes a day at your current pace IS causing you undue pain, then instead of walking less, just slow down a bit until you get used to it, then gradually pick up the pace. Besides, 30 minutes of walking is a good amount of time to unwind from a hectic day (I like to walk in the evenings). |
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| Weight Loss | Is BMR a constant? | Jun 13 2009 15:57 (UTC) |
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Original Post by xxana: You are confusing the burn meter with BMR. They are not the same. BMR doesn't take into account activity at all. It is simply the amount of calories needed to keep your body functioning. Your BMR does change however, based on weight loss or gain. But as someone else commented, BMR calculations (where you just plug in variables like height, weight, etc) are just estimates and for people who aren't average (very tall, very short, very overweight) they can have a significant amount of error. |
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| Weight Loss | I may have found the secret to permanent weight loss! Why isn't this all over the news? | May 22 2009 00:16 (UTC) |
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I don't want to rain on your parade, and if this works for you, then I'm glad, but any claim to have found "the secret" to weight loss automatically triggers my BS alarm. Every study I have ever read of people who successfully lose weight and keep it off has come to the same conclusions: 1. There is no "one size, fits all" method of weight loss. Every person react differently to weight loss regimens and while some might react favorably to high carb, low fat diets, others would react favorably to low carb, high protein diets. People aren't machines. We each have unique body chemistries and reactions to different foods, so there are very few rules that can be applied to everyone. 2. The most successful dieters are those who customize their weight loss regimens based on experimentation and figuring out what works best for the individual. These people tailor their diets based on how their bodies work and are successful at maintaining their weight loss because they know how to tweak their eating to achieve their weight management goals. Good luck in reaching your goals and I hope that you can maintain your enthusiasm, because I believe that having a positive attitude is one of the most important factors to successful weight management. Cheers. |
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| Weight Loss | Is it possible to lose a small amount of height due to weight gain? | May 21 2009 23:54 (UTC) |
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This post got me thinking and I did a little research and found out that it is natural for a person to lose height as they age, partially due to shrinking of the discs in the spine. The study found that people who don't exercise regularly, which in related to obesity, had more shrinkage of the discs and consequently more height lost. Average height lost due to aging was about 5.5 centimeters in those who didn't exercise and only about half as much for those that do (2.6 cm). While this doesn't state specifically that being overweight can cause you to get shorter, it is a good argument for including regular exercise in your weight loss plan to minimize the amount of height lost as you age. The study also found that exercise helped prevent bones from bending and being compressed, which could also contribute to lost height, by keeping them stronger and less brittle. |
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| Weight Loss | Is it possible to lose a small amount of height due to weight gain? | May 21 2009 08:09 (UTC) |
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I would believe it is possible for the following reason. A person who is carrying a lot of excess weight is stressing their spine, and compacting the discs between the vertabrae. If each of these discs were to lose some of their thickness, you could conceivably lose a little height. I don't imagine that it would be very much, but it is not beyond the realm of possibility. I believe this way because of a discussion I had recently with my doctor, who suggested that one of the possible reasons for my lower back pain was due to deterioration of the discs in my spine, caused by the added stress of carrying extra weight. |
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| The Lounge | xp or vista? | May 18 2009 02:20 (UTC) |
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Original Post by pgeorgian: Vista got a bad rap because it was rushed out before it was properly supported by the hardware manufacturers and because the initial version didn't offer any compelling reasons to switch (and no, "it's prettier" isn't a compelling reason). As for the hardware manufacturers installing it where it didn't belong, you can blame Intel and Microsoft for that. Microsoft for pushing it and Intel for colluding with them to misrepresent machines as "Vista Capable". As for Linux, most people hate Linux because of one of the following reasons: 1. It won't run Windows software except via an emulator. I don't know why people expect Linux to be Windows compatible, but don't complain that OS X doesn't run Windows software. Linux isn't Windows or a Windows clone any more than OS X is. 2. People, unfairly in my opinion, expect Linux to act exactly like Windows and when it doesn't, they complain. If I gave you a brand new Ferrari with a manual transmission and you had only ever driven a Ford Focus with an automatic transmission, there would be a learning curve and they wouldn't drive exactly the same, but that wouldn't mean that the Ferrari sucks because of the differences. It would just mean that they are different. It has been my personal experience that people who try Linux without pre conceived notions of how a computer is supposed to work have little trouble with it. If you just want to browse the web, read e-mails, create simple word processing documents/spreadsheets/presentations, then Linux is very capable of doing all of these things and you can do them for free. The catch is that you have to be willing to learn something new. My wife, daughter, son, and non-English speaking nephew had no trouble learning how to use Linux (and none of them are technical geeks). I just point out to them the equivalent program to use and they figure it out with little or no trouble. If you are building a new computer (as opposed to buying one), then you can either pay for the OS, the office software, and most of the other software, or you can give Linux a try and get the OS, the office suite, and most of the other software for free. You can even try it out on your existing Windows computer without installing it by downloading a live CD image and running it entirely from CD. Just be prepared to read the instructions. Learning to use Linux is like learning to ride a motorcycle for the first time. You need to go slow and learn how things work to avoid problems. |
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| Foods | Which calories do I count? | May 13 2009 00:01 (UTC) |
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Glad to be of help. The basic rule is that protein and carbs (except for alcohol) provide 4 calories per gram, fat provides 9 calories per gram and alcohol is 7 calories per gram, so if you want to see how much they are rounding, then use these numbers (assuming that the label tells you how many grams of each of these) to calculate a more accurate calorie count. Or if you are lazy, just add 5 to every calorie listing on labels. This will give you a slight overestimate, but not by a whole lot. |
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| Foods | Which calories do I count? | May 12 2009 13:48 (UTC) |
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One reason the site and the packages differ is because food manufacturers round calories down (usually) to the nearest 5. This site on the other hand, uses the number of grams of protein, carbs, and fat to calculate the calories, using the rule that each gram of protein and carbohydrate has X number of calories and each gram of fat has Y number of calories. The rule (at least in the US) is that food manufacturers can round down the number of calories to the nearest 5, ie. if a food has between 5 and 9.9999 calories, then they can say it has 5 calories per serving. So I have found that this site usually says that foods have more calories then the labels. |
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| Weight Loss | Any Biggest Loser Fans/Dieters here | May 12 2009 07:30 (UTC) |
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Original Post by tomatotomata: I don't consider myself as having completed a workout if it isn't at least an hour long. My regular cardio routine is about 1 hr 45 minutes (30 minutes on the stationary bike, followed by 1 hour elliptical + 5 minute cooldown, and a 4.5 mph walk for 1 mile, which takes me about 13.5 minutes). And on non-cardio days, between resistance training and "light" cardio (walking at about 4 mph for 30 minutes) I easily spend an hour. I just don't see the point of what some people I see at the gym call cardio (15 minutes on the elliptical or treadmill). But I spent 9 years in the Army, where an hour was usually the minimum amount of time spent doing physical training, so my views on fitness are skewed by that experience. |
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| Weight Loss | Eating at your BMR to lose weight? | May 08 2009 02:39 (UTC) |
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Original Post by peaches0405: When I was talking about people preaching the "eat your BMR" gospel, I didn't mean you in particular, since I have found your posts and suggestions very informative and well balanced. The people I was referring to were the one's who, unlike you, simply state that you MUST eat your BMR as if it is a hard and fast rule and ignore the errors in the BMR calculators. Having your BMR measured by a physician is definitely the way to go if you can afford it. I also agree that using your BMR is not a bad place to start because of two reasons: 1. It ensures that you are allowing sufficient calories to get proper nutrition (meaning a balance of carbs, protiens, and fat and vitamins and other nutrients). 2. It encourages people to be more active to create the deficit they want, instead of trying to rely on diet alone. The people I object to, and you are not one of them, are those who act as though eating your BMR was a dieting commandment, "Thou shalt not eat below your BMR or thou wilt surely be plagued by starvation mode." They are the ones, unlike you, who run away when I point out some of the potential deficiencies in this strategy. You on the other hand, don't run away, but explain your reasoning and are willing to engage in intelligent discourse, which benefits not only you and I, but anyone else who reads our points of view. For the record, I think that you offer good advice to people and enough background to explain why you believe as you do. I know that some people think I am annoying or as someone on another thread put it, nasty in my responses, but I can honestly say that neither is my intention. I hope you didn't take my response the wrong way, I was simply trying to point out that like many of the "rules" that people spout here, that the "eat your BMR" rule has deficiencies that people should be aware of if they decide to follow it. Have a nice day. |
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| Weight Loss | Eating at your BMR to lose weight? | May 07 2009 19:25 (UTC) |
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I appreciate the wish of good luck. I'm sure I'll need it. And like you, I didn't start counting calories here, but started with my own plan that I developed with the input of my doctor. And I still don't use the tools here, because I find them to be poorly designed and much harder than just keeping a pen and paper tally of my consumption, but then, I'm old fashioned that way. I mainly come here to continue learning as much as I can about weight loss and nutrition. As for which reference number to base your meal plans on, I started out using my BMR (not using Harris-Benedict, but a different formula), not for my current weight, but for my target weight. I reasoned that I want my body to work as efficiently as it can at that level of calories and that if I could find the balance of foods to satisfy my hunger at that level now, then maintenance would be a breeze because I would already have become used to eating the appropriate amount of calories for the weight I want to maintain. I'm not 100% certain that this is a valid line of reasoning, but I think that it can't be too far from true since several of the formulas for calculating BMR that are statistically more accurate than Harris-Benedict make adjustments for the difference between your current weight and your target weight, like the weight adjusted Harris-Benedict formula. Anyhow, following my plan, under my doctor's supervision, allowed me to lose the first 100 pounds of my overall goal and is helping me to get ever closer to my final destination. Cheers everyone. :) |
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| Weight Loss | Eating at your BMR to lose weight? | May 07 2009 13:49 (UTC) |
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Original Post by peaches0405: And what most people who preach the "eat your BMR" gospel fail to get is that the BMR calculators widely used by people here and even the calculation done here for burn meter (which is based on a BMR calculation) are badly skewed if you are not "average". The Harris-Benedict BMR calculation, which serves as the basis of the burn meter can overestimate your caloric needs by 20% or more, especially if you have a lot of weight to lose. So the heavier you are to start with, the greater the error. So what I am getting at is you can't discount his statement that eating his BMR would have not worked unless you take into account his starting weight. It is entirely possible that any deficit that you think you are creating by eating your BMR could be negated by the amount of error in the BMR calculation. To the OP: Congratulations on your weight loss and on maintaining. I still haven't reached my ultimate goal, but I'm getting there slowly but surely and hope to one day be able to say that I reached my goal of losing 150 pounds. |
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| Weight Loss | So what is the one wierd rule? | May 06 2009 14:59 (UTC) |
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Well, the first thing that should make you suspect about the ad is that it says you can target belly fat specifically, when it has been proven time and time again that targeted weight loss doesn't work. As for the ad, if you follow it, you will find that they are trying to sell you two things. The first is the acai berry supplement and the second is a cleanse product. While as others have stated, acai berry is good for you, the supplement is questionable at best and downright bogus at worst. Their claims to have been featured on Fox news and Rachel Ray, etc. are also bogus, because the Rachel Ray segment they reference was about acai berry juice, not their supplement and it wasn't featured on Fox News Network, but a local Fox affiliate in some city and again, this feature on Fox news was not about their supplement, but the benefits of acai berry juice. The cleanse product part is even worse, since the whole idea of cleansing is based on junk science. Multiple studies have proven that the claim that your colon needs to be periodically cleansed to remove toxins is not only bogus, but is damaging to the good bacteria that live in your colon and that are essential to good health. While the cleanse product they are pushing isn't as bad as the Master Cleanse, it still is based on a faulty premise and as such, I would recommend staying far away from it. As for how much money they have made, I'm sure it is tons, since when you order either of the products, you are automatically enrolled in their refill program, so you end up paying >$50 per month for both products. |
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| Weight Loss | Oh no, I've been eating 500 cals below my BMR :( | May 05 2009 11:58 (UTC) |
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Why do people persist in clinging to the fallacy that eating below your BMR is always bad? That simply isn't the case. If you have a significant amount of weight to lose, then there is no reason why you should not eat below your BMR, because if you have significant, excess body fat, then those fat stores can be burned to make up the difference between what you consume and what you require to maintain your bodily functions, as long as you are getting adequate nutrition (1200 recommended minimum calories for women and 1500 minimum calories for med). Besides that, unless you had your BMR measured by a physician, then it is just an ESTIMATE anyways. And if you are very overweight or very short or very tall, or not a caucasian, then the ESTIMATE that you get using the most popular BMR calculation (the Harris-Benedict formula) has a significant margin of error. When eating at or near or BMR is important is when you are very close to a healthy weight, because you no longer have significant fat stores to burn. Eating your BMR as a hard and fast rule is NOT valid. It is a safe recommendation to ensure adequate nutrition, but is NOT a hard and fast rule. |
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| Foods | Cottage Cheese -Eeeewww or Whoohoo?? | May 02 2009 02:48 (UTC) |
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I can't stand fruit in cottage cheese. Just thinking of it makes me want to hurl. One of the ways I do enjoy it (besides straight out of the container) is on a simple salad of lettuce, tomato and cucumber. If you like celery, you could also put the cottage cheese in the blender, with a little fat free ranch dressing and use it as a dip (fat free cottage cheese isn't as good for this as the 1%). I have also blended cottage cheese with plain non-fat yogurt and cayenne pepper and used it as a vegetable dip as well. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | May 01 2009 01:55 (UTC) |
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According to Miriam-Webster's dictionary, both spelt and spelled are correct, depending on whether you are speaking British English or American English. I would say more, but apparently my tone is too "nasty" for some people and they want me to stop talking. Have a nice evening everyone and I wish you all success in meeting your goals. Cheers. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 30 2009 00:20 (UTC) |
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Original Post by crazyperson01: Wow. Now that is extremely rude. I wasn't talking to you exclusively, I was expressing my opinion. If you don't like what I have to say, then don't read my comments in this PUBLIC forum. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 29 2009 13:54 (UTC) |
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Original Post by tealpenguin326: Well, my original response to this thread was equally about the reasons why people who are yo-yo dieting are failing (the "go on a diet and starve", then "go off the diet and eat normally" cycle) and about the fact that like many people with other types of addictions, a lot of overweight people make excuses for why they are overweight instead of recognizing their self destructive behavior, and then creating an informed, well balanced plan and sticking to it. Then later responses started leaning more towards the "my life is horrible", "I'm too stressed", and other excuses that people use for not eating properly. Many people who are yo-yo dieting are doing exactly the wrong thing in that they eat one way while on a diet and think they can "eat normally" when they reach their goal. This clearly isn't your case. Because they have this mindset of diet means starving themselves or depriving themselves, I don't think they can ever succeed because they are starting with an incorrect premise. So even though they are trying and want to lose weight, they need to educate themselves and come up with a workable plan, and not one founded on a misconception. Wanting and trying to lose weight with an unworkable plan is just as doomed to failure as trying to run a marathon with your shoe laces tied together. I agree with you completely that your situation was a special case and you recognized it as such and took corrective action. It is unfortunate that because your father was ignorant of the truth that you were made to suffer, but I'm glad you found the solution to your problem and wish you success in reaching your goals. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 28 2009 23:13 (UTC) |
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I honestly don't think I sounded defensive at all and as I said, I do agree that people do let stress and grief become excuses for not eating healthy. I just don't think that allowing ourselves to make excuses accomplishes anything. And I agree that "needing to eat" to overcome stress and "thinking they need to eat" to overcome stress are different, but you didn't say "thinking" in your original response, so my response was to what you said, not what you meant. Read what I said again and you will see that I see your point, I just don't agree with it. Yes, people do eat to deal with stress and grief, but that doesn't make it the right thing to do. And unless someone recognizes that it isn't the right thing to do and changes, then they are unlikely to succeed at losing weight. That is the primary disagreement between our positions. I think that it is essential that people do say, "It's my fault that I didn't make healthier eating choices." You can't change your behavior unless you realize that your behavior is self destructive. If you don't accept responsibility for your actions, then it isn't your fault when you fail. I'm not saying that we should say, "It's my fault and I'm such a loser that I can't do anything about it." We should say, "It's my fault, but I am stronger than that and I know that with a little more effort, I can overcome this," or "Wow, I really haven't been eating properly while grieving, but I need to deal with the grief and not let it sidetrack me any longer. I'm stronger than that and I'm sure that the person I am grieving would not want me to hurt my health any more." It isn't about blame or fault, it's about recognizing the reasons we are not eating healthy. It is healthy to grieve, but eating to fill the void left by the death of a loved one isn't healthy, it's avoidance. That doesn't mean that I'm going to criticize someone for letting their emotions get the better of them. But if someone I cared about was letting their grief ruin their health, I would try to encourage them to find a better way to deal with their grief than eating. As for making the comments to someone or about someone who hasn't asked for my advice or opinion, I agree that it is extremely rude and I don't do that. But if asked, I'm not going to be less than honest or be an enabler for someone looking for excuses. Again, I'm not saying to the OP that they are looking for excuses, I'm just trying to contribute food for thought (which is great for your diet, since it has no calories) that you can take or leave as you see fit. To kthompson92 and alineamorim: I wish you both success and if what I have said encourages you, then I am glad. Bringing a new life into the world is a wondrous thing. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 27 2009 23:41 (UTC) |
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I understood that you were supporting what I said, but I just don't agree with 100% of what you said. If that constitutes arguing with you, then I guess I am, but if we all agreed on everything, the world would be a pretty boring place. My intention was to state my personal belief that the reasons you gave for gaining weight, other than childbirth, are things that we have control over. You can believe as you choose, however, I don't believe for one minute that eating is the proper response to being overwhelmed with stress or grief, so I disagree with your statement that they "need to eat" to get past the rough spots. I have had plenty of my own rough spots, and it wasn't until I stopped making excuses and did something that things got better. Let me clarify my position. There are a myriad of reasons why people gain weight. Some are out of our control, like medical conditions or pregnancy. Others are in our control, like eating to relieve stress or boredom. For those things in our control, we have to make a conscious choice to do the right thing. Responsibility and blame aren't the same thing. When I recognized that my weight was becoming more and more of an issue and that it was destroying my quality of life, I started looking at myself for those things over which I have control, like eating when I wasn't hungry, and then choosing to stop that behaviour. Choosing to eat unhealthy foods. It was my responsibility to make the hard choices that had to be made to turn my life around. What I didn't do was look for excuses for my behaviour, like stress from my job, depression over the loss of my mother, or anything else, because if I let myself make excuses, then I would never do what I knew in my heart to the be right thing. I am not saying that it is easy to make any of these changes. I am just saying that if you want to succeed, then blaming your boyfriend, or that your parent died, or anything else won't help you to succeed. I'm not saying that you should beat yourself up if you gain some weight while you are grieving, but you must realize that "eating" isn't the solution to your grief and use that realization as an incentive to make better choices for your health, both physical and mental, because eating might distract you from your grief, but it is just that, a distraction, and your mental health will suffer if you don't work to overcome the grief in a more positive way. One other note. I firmly believe that if people eat when they are stressed or bored, that it starts a cycle where you eat to distract you from your stress, which causes you to gain weight, which makes you feel bad about yourself, which adds to your stress, etc. There are so many better ways to deal with stress. Read a book, go for a walk, read to a child, plant vegetables or grow herbs in a window box, take up woodworking, or meditate. What seems to hang people up about what I say is when I say take responsibility for their own actions. For some reason, people equate this with blaming themselves, which has a negative connotation. What I am really trying to say is that if we find ourselves engaging in behaviour that is harmful to ourselves, such as eating unhealthy foods or overeating, that once we recognize this behaviour, that we take action to correct ourselves. We look at ourselves and say, "I would be happier if I stopped overeating and lost some weight." Then if we don't know how to do that, we educate ourselves. Once we have an idea how to proceed, we make a plan and once the plan is made, we execute that plan. You will notice that nowhere in there is anything negative. No self pity, guilt for not controlling ourselves in the first place, beating ourselves up if we slip up and get off track, or anything like that. It doesn't matter how we got here, what matters is that we are here and that if we work hard, realizing that it won't be easy, that we can do something about it and make things better. If we let ourselves become overly concerned with negative things that contributed to the current state, then it is difficult to move forward. Agree with me or not. It doesn't matter. If you find encouragement in what I am saying, then I'm happy for you. If you don't, then reject my ideas and find what works for you. As I said in my original post, this is all just my opinion. Take it for what it is worth. |
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| Foods | Does tomato soup... | Apr 26 2009 20:31 (UTC) |
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I can't agree that nothing goes better with grilled cheese than tomato soup, because grilled cheese is such a generic name. For example, when I was growing up, grilled cheese was made with white bread and American cheese. But now one of my favorite grilled cheese is made with sourdough and swiss, which is excellent with French Onion soup, or Rye bread with meunster cheese, which I prefer when I am eating vegetable soup, or Pumpernickel and mozzerella, which I prefer with Zoupa Tuscana (an Italian potato soup with sausage and kale). I'm not saying that grilled cheese isn't good with tomato soup, just that for that particular soup, I prefer honey wheat with pepper jack cheese. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 26 2009 02:27 (UTC) |
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crazyperson01: I assume you were responding to my post and if so, I don't disagree that the reasons you stated do contribute to weight gain, but with the exception of reason A (having children, which I can't claim :) ), that the other reasons can be overcome. Growing up, my family was poor, my father wasn't around (divorce) and my mother had weight issues, but I don't let that be an excuse for me to not be the best me I can be. And my mother died at a relatively young age (in her early fifties), so I have known loss too. But the reason I gained the weight I did was that I wasn't careful about what I ate and I didn't exercise enough. I have no one to blame for that but me and I don't make any excuses. I made myself fat and the only one who can change that is me. As for your question regarding exercise, then I stand by my suggestion to just do whatever you are comfortable doing, because any exercise is better than no exercise. I don't do much running, because I have a history of shin splints, but I do enjoy bicycling. I did that today with my nephew, who is living with us for a few months. So it was a chance to not only get in some exercise, but to do something fun with him. So if you want to start out just walking, then later try jogging, then I say go for it. But if you can afford it, then get a new pair of well made walking/running shoes. Your feet will thank you for it. |
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| Weight Loss | You could lose weight if you really wanted to. | Apr 25 2009 17:50 (UTC) |
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Original Post by tealpenguin326: Don't take this as a personal attack. I'm not talking to any one person with this response, but here are my (I'm sure to be unpopular with some) thoughts. A large number of overweight people are indeed that way because they eat too much and don't exercise enough. I used to be one of them. So while for some, there are medical reasons why they are overweight, these people are the exception rather than the rule. And it was indeed the case for me that once I really tried to lose weight, I did. The statement you made about starving yourself to lose weight then trying to go back to "eating normally", I think is a sign of the wrong thinking that many people trying to lose weight engage in. I think that you realize that "going on a diet", then "going off a diet" when you reach your goal doesn't work. A person who wants to lose weight, in my opinion, should think about their eating habits and try to come up with ways to regulate their eating so that they: 1. Get proper nutrition (a good balance of vitamins and minerals from the foods they eat and a proper balance between fat, protein, and carbs). 2. Allow for foods that appeal to them by planning your meals. Just because you are cutting back on calories doesn't mean that you are starving yourself. If you choose the right foods, you can be satiated but not bloated and not have a diet filled with junk calories. Think about foods that have bulk without a lot of calories (cucumbers are a very good example). In addition, adding any type of exercise to your lifestyle will help. It has been said often here that simple things like taking stairs instead of an elevator, parking farther away from a building, or taking a walk in the evening or morning can be very beneficial to your diet. I even read a study that indicated that fidgeting can help you burn extra calories (like I'm doing right now by bouncing my knee while sitting at my computer). Basically what I am saying is that people need to change their eating habits to lose weight. Make eating healthy equal "eating normally". The wrong thinking I was talking about was that you are supposed to eat one way when you are trying to lose weight and then you can go back to your old way of eating once you reach your goal. The more correct way of thinking, again, in my opinion, is that you adjust your eating habits as described above so that you get quality food in reasonable quantities and when you reach your goal, you can increase your portions a bit to maintain, while still eating the same healthy foods. It is my personal opinion that unless you have a medical condition that is interfering with your weight loss, that the steps to a successful weight loss and healthy plan are as follows: 1. Take a close look at your eating habits to identify the changes you need to make to have a healthy diet. This includes things like reducing or eliminating saturated fats from your diet, reducing the number of empty calories you consume, fighting the urge to eat for reasons other than hunger (boredom, stress, etc), and once you decide on the changes that you should make, make them. You don't have to do this all at once, but can do it incrementally. 2. Take responsibility for your own behaviour. Unless someone is holding you down and force feeding you, then you have control over what you put into your body. You have to make the decision to eat right and blaming stress created by bad relationships, lack of support from friends and family, or any other reason isn't going to help you to be strong and do what you know is right for you. 3. Educate yourself on weight loss, nutrition, and exercise. Many of the most successful people when it comes to weight loss are those who make up their own weight loss regimens. You know best what you like to eat and what activities you can work into your life on a permanent basis, so if you educate yourself and use what you learn to create your own diet and exercise plans, then your chances for success go up. And a willingness to experiment with new ideas based on what you read or hear from others who are losing weight is a good thing. When something works, you can incorporate it into your plan and when it doesn't work, you can reject it. 4. Once you find what works for you, talk it over with your doctor or a nutritionist to see what they think of your plan and whether or not they see any issues that you might not have considered. Never be afraid to question their responses either, because no one knows everything and just because "common wisdom" says that something is right doesn't make it right. Common wisdom once held that the earth was flat and that the universe revolved around the earth. 5. Once you have a workable plan, stick with it. This is the "eat healthy for the rest of your life" part and is the part that many people don't get. You don't lose weight and keep it off by "going on a diet" and then when your goal is reached, "going off your diet". You lose weight by consciously choosing to eat healthy, which implies sensible portions, and being active to the degree you are comfortable with, which should not be totally sedentary. Once again, I am not directing this response at any one person, so if anyone takes this as a personal attack, then be aware that my intention is simply to discuss my personal opinion. But basically, I personally believe the following to be true: For many people who are overweight, it is your own fault and if you really tried you could lose the weight. I would, however, not be intentionally rude to someone by commenting on their weight or on how they choose to manage it. If, and only if asked, would I discuss my opinions on weight loss and why I hold those opinions. (And I consider the original post as "asking" for opinions.) I wish everyone here success in reaching their goals. If it makes anyone feel better, feel free to flame away. I have a thick skin. |
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| The Lounge | Wireless Internet | Apr 23 2009 04:37 (UTC) |
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Original Post by tahitisweetie123: It is not perfectly legit. Unauthorized access to a computer network is a crime. It doesn't matter how easy the owner of the network makes it for you. If you didn't pay for it and it isn't a free hotspot like many places operate, then you are stealing. It also doesn't matter how little you might use it. Stealing is stealing. |
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| Motivation | Losing in all the wrong ways.. | Apr 21 2009 14:58 (UTC) |
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Original Post by chrissy1988: You are making the same mistake that most other people who say you have to eat your BMR make. For people who are significantly overweight, food eaten is not the only source of calories that they can draw upon. If you have excess fat stores, some of the calories required for our bodies to function can come from those fat stores in our body. So it is possible to do resistance exercise to increase or maintain lean body mass, eat below your BMR, not exceed a daily deficit of 1000, and lose weight without screwing up your metabolism. And you totally ignored the fact that for people who aren't average (very tall, very short, very overweight, etc) and caucasian, that the BMR calculations can be grossly wrong. When I started losing weight, I was over 370 pounds. I am also 6'5" tall and the BMR calculation for someone of that size using the Harris-Benedict formula is grossly skewed (it overestimates required calories by 20% or more). So I stand by my claim that saying NEVER eating below your BMR is a myth, because of these facts: 1. For people with excess fat, fat stores can make up the difference between the amount calories consumed and those required to allow the body to function. If this wasn't the case, then why would the body store fat in the first place. Fat is stored energy to be used by the body when insufficient calories are consumed to make the body function. 2. BMR, as calculated by all of the formulas, is based on norms and most of the studies have been performed on caucasian people, so if you aren't caucasian, and fall outside of the norm, then the accuracy of the number goes down significantly. And as I stated in my first response, I am not saying that the recommendation to eat your BMR is a bad one, in fact, I think that in most cases, it is a very safe one. And the closer you get to a healthy weight, the more important it becomes. But saying that you should NEVER eat below your BMR is still NOT true for everyone all of the time. It depends on a lot of factors and IS NOT a hard and fast rule. And you will also note that I didn't recommend a specific calories level to consume or deficit to create, because although I have done a lot of personal research on losing weight safely, I am not a trained dietician or nutritionist and I don't believe that I should do so. I am merely pointing out that there is no dieting commandment "Thou shalt not eat below your BMR." Weight loss isn't that cut and dried. If it were as simple as just following some dieting 10 commandments, then everyone could do it. But because there are so many factors to take into account, what works for most may not work for all. |
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| Motivation | Losing in all the wrong ways.. | Apr 21 2009 04:12 (UTC) |
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Original Post by chrissy1988: Never is a very strong word and there is no rule that you should not eat below your BMR. That is a myth. Whether or not eating below your BMR is advisable is dependent on a number of variables, including how active you are and how much you have to lose. BMR is just an estimate anyways and depending on which formula you use to calculate is subject to error (and the most popular BMR formula that most calculators on the web use is one of the worst as far as accuracy goes). While eating at a calorie level at or above your BMR IS a good way to make sure that you are allowing enough calories to get proper nutrition, it ISN'T a hard and fast rule. It is recommended for people who are very close to a healthy weight and who are active enough to still be able to create a deficit through exercise. |
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| The Lounge | How we become overweight... | Apr 20 2009 05:32 (UTC) |
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Original Post by valtorpublic: Diet alone wasn't what enabled me to lose the weight, it was the combination of diet and exercise that was key. And it seems to me that your comment about insulin would mean that exercise is important to correcting the metabolic imbalance, while the original text you quoted seemed to argue that exercise had no effect. Sounds suspect to me. As for the final statement you made about reducing carbs to below 50 or 60 percent of their diet, doesn't hold true for a lot of people who effectively lose weight. The original text you quoted seemed to me to state that the theory explained all of the seemingly conflicting data on weight loss that is out there, but I don't believe that weight loss can be reduced to any one set of rules and that it isn't an exact science. Each individual case has so many variables affecting weight loss and gain, that the only reasonable approach is to tailor any weight loss plan to the individual. That is why the diet I follow was created for me by me and incorporates ideas from a myriad of sources and is based largely on experimentation that I have done on myself, keeping what works and throwing out what doesn't. |
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| The Lounge | How we become overweight... | Apr 19 2009 17:17 (UTC) |
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Synopsis: A fat metabolism defect is what makes you fat. Diet and exercise don't work to help you lose weight. Carbs are bad and not eating them is the way to correct your metabolism. I guess all of the people here who successfully lose weight through diet and exercise while still eating carbs are just deluding themselves. And as for the defect in fat metabolism explaining the sedentary behaviour typically associated with obesity, how about the sedentary behaviour being explained by the fact that it takes a lot more energy for a fat person to be active than it does for a skinny one or that carrying extra weight puts extra strain on joints, muscles and bones that can cause pain, thus psychologically reinforcing the sedentary behaviour that contributed to weight gain in the first place. Sorry.....sounds like bull to me. But I guess everyone can make your own judgement. Personally, I'll continue to do what has helped me to lose over 100 pounds (a healthy, balanced diet and exercise). |
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| Weight Loss | What to do when you find out your scale was off...by 13 pounds?!?! | Apr 17 2009 16:03 (UTC) |
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Original Post by cowch: In what country are you talking about? My doctor's scale is subject to the same inaccuracies as anyone elses and isn't examined by any Department of Weights and Measures. And the checking I did seemed to indicate that in most cases, the scales in doctor's offices are only checked at the request of the doctor (I read this at multiple websites for county and state Departments of Weights and Measures). |
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| The Lounge | Obama’s Mandatory Public Service Plan? | Apr 16 2009 05:59 (UTC) |
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Original Post by clairelaine: I wouldn't say "probably won't". You would think that given our supposed love of freedom and demand for civil rights in this country, that noone would support legislation that allowed for warrantless searches based on rulings from secret courtroom proceedings, but that is exactly what the "Patriot Act" did. And the way that legislators are allowed to name their bills (the Patriot Act is a perfect example) in such a way as to make it difficult to vote against them without suffering at reelection time (you voted against the "Patriot Act"??? What are you...a Communist?) is just wrong. A more realistic name for the Patriot Act would have been "The Abrogation of Due Process Act", since that is a large part of what it does. And our current Vice President has a record of supporting legislation like this that is eroding our rights under the Constitution. And for those of you who will say that we should give up some of our freedom in the name of security, then I offer the quote, "Those who desire to give up freedom in order to gain security will not have, nor do they deserve, either one." by that famous "right wing" statesman Benjamin Franklin. As I said previously, I don't have a problem with any program that encourages people to volunteer by offering tax incentives to do so, because I believe that those that volunteer their time should be rewarded and it is voluntary. I just fear the language in the current bill that says that it might be mandatory. Call me a pessimist, but given the track record of our government in the past few years, I really don't see any reason for optimism. So far I have been thoroughly unimpressed with the "change" that Obama has brought about. I hope that he follows through on his promises, but so far, it ain't looking that way to me. |
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