Posts by frankh19

Zekie,

It's human nature to pick upon people we see as weaker or worse off than we are and I'm afraid that's what you have been subjected to. Most of the time this behaviour is used as a diversionary tactic or used by someone showing off in front of others.

Most of us on this community are here to lose weight and have probably been subjected to this type of comment from others and as time goes on you learn to blank it out.

The good news is that because you are here, it means you have already started to think about losing the excess weight, so think positive the next time someone passes a remark about you and be happy with who you are and what you are doing and stay away from the Fast Foods as they are short-term motivators.

I have been subject to similar remarks during my time and when someone says that to me I sometimes mutter to them with the line

"at least I can lose the weight, you'll always be an ugly b*****d".

However, before saying this to anyone be sure that you are able to outrun them.