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Fitness Need To Lose Weight Before Wedding, Dress Does Not Fit!!! Jul 05 2008
08:59 (UTC)
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Well Bryndchildr, you must have missed the part where she says she already "walks 30 minutes" and "has been trying to lose weight forever" and and nothing is happening.

That is why I said that doesn't count. It's not doing what she wants it to do. If that is working for YOUR body, that's great. But you are not her, don't have her body, don't have her metabolism, and don't have her goals. You cannot compare yourself to her needs.

I'm a professional trainer and providing free expertise to guide her to meet HER goals in HER timeframe. And from her own statements, she obviously needs to do a lot more than just walk with kids.

But glad that's working okay for you.

Fitness Questions About Personal Training Jul 04 2008
20:08 (UTC)

Hmmm. I'm really not feeling his approach. These guys have no "bedside manner" and a superiority complex. What's going on in the training world these days?

Anyway, I have clients that I've been seeing 1x, 2x or even 3x per week (except for vacations and illness) for 6-10 years. They work out on their own for sure, but they love working out with me because of the variety and challenge that I build into their workout.

A good trainer doesn't just stand there and watch you work out! Neither does he or she judge you. We watch you to make sure you are not going to hurt yourself and are executing your moves with proper form. We are there to TEACH you how to exercise correctly. :)

 

Not only that, there should be a lot of planning that goes into developing each routine so that you progress in a safe and steady way towards your stated fitness and health goals. Lower your blood pressure or cholesterol, strengthen your knees or back, get back into shape after having a baby, rehab an injury, etc.

A good trainer can take you from A to Z so that you get there looking great, feeling wonderful, and happy.

As the poster above me said, do not be afraid to change trainers if you feel the one you have isn't working well with you. It's a personal relationship that must be built around trust. If you trust your trainer, you will try things that you don't think you can do becasue most times we know your capabilities and strengths and have more confidence in our clients than they do themselves! Such trust is mandatory.

Lastly, $25 is cheap beyond all reason. You have absolutely nothing to complain about there! I charge $75-150 per session (depending on the goal and whether they are a special needs type client - diabetic, heart problems requiring careful monitoring, wheelchair bound, etc.)

 

Fitness Does anyone own a Bodybugg?? Jul 04 2008
19:57 (UTC)

The Body Bugg is an excellent tool for weight management and weight loss.  I cannot recommend it enough.

However, if you are the impatient sort, have no skills with or interest in computers, are frustrated by technology, then it is not for you.  I have one and use it extensively.  It saves data for up to a week, so it is not necessary to download information every night - every few days is sufficient.  Lots of people LIKE to do it more often though, because they can see there on the screen exactly what they've burned, what they've eaten, how much more they need to eat or move to be at goal for the day.  It's wonderful for me, but I love tech stuff.

The newer models (mine is about 3 years old), come with a watch type receiver that transmits the burn right to the wrist band so you can get real time burn information.  I might upgrade... not sure though if I really care about that when I can just download in 10 seconds and get the same information without spending the $$. 

People are curious about the Bugg and ask what it is.  Lots of fitness people already know though, and will just smile and ask how you like it.  I've worn mine to many different events without a care and people were curious.  Was fodder for some very interesting discussions with people that I probably never would have talked to otherwise. 

If you're single, try wearing it to a club like I did. The guys that were into sports and working out flocked around to ask questions about my routine and where I work out.  I got 2 hot guy's numbers out of the deal and some great dates, so hey, the Body Bugg has done WONDEROUS things for my body and love life.  lololol

Fitness thighs Jul 04 2008
19:43 (UTC)
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Be sure not to use weights - do body weight exercises only!!

Try these:

Traveling Squats With Side Leg Lift

Stand in a long hallway with feet about hip width apart.  Facing forward, lift left leg up into a squat where your left foot lands outside shoulder width.  Move right foot in towards left foot (back to hip width) and repeat pattern.  Travel down the hallway, leg lift/squat, leg lift/squat.  It helps to clasp your hands in front of your body in prayer position because you will feel like you need mercy!  Alas, none will come, but your saddle bags will shrink.

Prone Leg Raises

On hands and knees on mat.  Extend left leg behind body straight.  Foot is flexed, not pointed!  Lift leg straight up, keeping pelvis pointing towards the floor.  Return to start position. Repeat 25 times.  Then swing leg out to the left side of your body and lift it up and down 25 times.  Repeat on other leg.  Stretch hips out by laying in the prayer position with forehead on mat and butt pushed back onto thighs.  Again, you will feel like you need mercy.  Alas, none will come. lol!!

They call me "No Mercy" for a reason!

Fitness body bug??? Jul 04 2008
19:35 (UTC)

I have a Body Bugg that I bought directly through the Apex website about 3 years ago.  I love it.   Using the online tool makes the package complete, though the food logging part is very similar to what you get here on Calorie Count, you get other benefits like being able to track how many calories you've burned from the arm band itself.  It counts EVERYTHING and with about 95% accuracy.  It even tracks the calories you burn while sleeping, and comes up with the most on track RMR and calories needed.  The only place you can't wear it is while swimming or bathing, as it is water resistant but not water PROOF.

Right now I am testing a similar product called SenseWear which is also made by BodyMedia (same company that makes the Body Bugg).  I just started this test this morning, so I have nothing to tell you about the difference or which might be best, etc. yet.  I'll try to remember to contact you next week with my analysis.

Fitness Is there a lower body muscle group I am ignoring? Jul 04 2008
19:27 (UTC)
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Deadlifts are for your hamstrings and glutes and DEFINITELY are complimentary.  The squats and lunges do work them, but deadlifts are a targeted exercise and should be a part of any office worker's exercise routine to avoid the wide butt syndrome! :)

As far as a back injury goes, the unexercised back is the weak back and weak backs are more prone to injury. 

Try the one arm Dumb bell row.  Place left knee on bench and left hand.  Right foot is extended behind you somewhat with knees lightly bent. You want your back to be flat and your chest parallel with the floor.  Dumb Bell is in right hand, hanging towards floor stretching out your lat muscles.  Pulling shoulder blade down towards butt, you lift the dumb bell up towards your hip.  Keep your elbow close to your body.  Push chest out as you squeeze your back muscles on the right side WITHOUT ROTATING YOUR BODY TO HELP.  Just use your back muscles.  Keep abs tight and neck neutral.  SLowly lower weight to stretch lat gently then repeat.  Start with 12 reps on each side.

Fitness Lower Abs? Jul 04 2008
19:20 (UTC)
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Beginner: Reverse Curls

Lay on back on carpet or mat. Knees bent, feet flat on the floor about 10" from butt. Head and shoulders should be relaxed and on the floor. Put your hands under your low back if you need assistance stabilizing your pelvis.  Keeping head and shoulders on the mat, you slowly lift your feet from the floor WITHOUT BENDING YOUR KNEES MORE AND LETTING YOUR FEET DROP CLOSER TO YOUR BODY, you curl your lower pelvis upwards. Maintain control as you slowly lift and lower, keeping that same 10" distance from the body and concentrating on using the proper muscles. Breathe!!

Intermediate: Low Bicycling (on floor)

Lay on back with hands behind head, chest lifted from floor. Extend right leg so that it hovers a few inches from the floor, left leg is bent with knee at about pelvis. Rotate right armpit towards left knee. Lower left leg to straight position as right leg comes up in bent knee as you rotate left armpit towards right knee. Keep belly button pulled in. Repeat rotation sequence, keeping abs drawn in and leg as low to the floor as you can handle keeping good form. Repeat for 50 reps on each side - 2 sets to start.

Advanced: Reverse Curls on Physioball

You need a 65 cm physioball for this exercise, and a railing or something to hold onto overhead. Lying on your back over the ball, you reach backwards and grab onto the railing. Lift your feet from the floor with bent knees, curling your lower pelvis towards your chest. Toes slowly lower and gently tap the floor. Repeat 25 reps. This is a very hard exercise as you are trying to maintain your balance on the ball. The lower fibers of your rectus are being worked like crazy at the same time. If you feel it in your back, readjust your position on the ball. If you still feel it in your back, it means your abs are too weak and you need to go back to the beginner exercises for awhile.

Fitness When to increase weights?? Jul 04 2008
19:07 (UTC)
Original Post by maryg2:

My goal is basically to tone and gain muscle mass/strength and endurance.

I have been working out on this schedule for about 2 months now and am wondering when I should be able increase the weight I am lifting? I find that even if I raise it 5 lbs it becomes difficult to complete my reps (I do 3 sets of 12-15 reps). Should I increase by 5lbs anyways and just complete what reps I can even if it is not a full 12-15 reps? Or should keep the weight low and do more reps? I just thought I'd be able to increase by now without as much difficulty.

My Suggestions:

  • Increase your weights by 5-8 lbs and reduce the number of reps.
  • Doing 3 sets of high reps in the 12-15 range works better for beginners, and for toning/fat burning/maintenance. You want neither of those results.
  • If you want to gain muscularity and strength, you would use a weight that allows you to complete more like 4 sets of 8 reps, where you are getting your butt kicked on the 7th and 8th reps.

 

Fitness Circuit Training Jul 04 2008
18:55 (UTC)
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The great thing about forums and cyberspace is that people are free to say what THEY think, not what you want them to think nor what you want them to say.  My opinion on this matter (just as any others that dissent) is just as valid and just as reasonable as yours.


Secondly, it is common for women to come into weight training fearful of getting muscles.  For some reason they think if they lift a weight they will look like a body builder.  It is a common fallacy and one that trainers have to wrestle with eliminating every single day.  That is what I do.  And once a woman SEES the difference in how her body looks and how she feels, the fear of having muscles goes away.  That is all it is - fear.  But it is nothing to be afraid of and so I share information.

It is not rude, it is information.  Anyone reading can take it or leave it, just as they do anything else online. 

Fitness Circuit Training Jul 04 2008
10:18 (UTC)
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Why be afraid of muscle?  It looks good.  Firm arms, toned abs, strong shoulders and a high tight butt SHOULD be what you are looking for.  Women should not be afraid of having a few muscles.  You might to be able to punch someone's lights out if they try to grab you.  You need to be able to lift things by yourself.  You need to be able to carry your kids and all their gear and not feel like you are gonna pass out or your arms fall off.

Never be afraid of being physically strong and reflecting that strength with firm, toned muscles.  Nothing gigantic like a female body builder, just toned, firm, defined.

Fitness Newbie Weight Lifting Gain...When will it reverse and I start losing pounds again? Jul 04 2008
10:14 (UTC)
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Well dang girl, you are probably water logged!  Why in the world are you drinking so much water?  Nobody needs to drink that much fluid.

Also, can ya go buy some new drawers? lololol!!!  (that panties falling off thing had me ROFL!)

But to answer your question, the newbie weight gain thing lasts sometimes about 3 weeks, then suddenly clients drop like 5 lbs.  Just about overnight.  I'm thinking if you stop overloading on water you will be under 200 pounds.  Again, overnight.

Fitness Question about resistance bands.. Jul 04 2008
10:11 (UTC)

Increase reps is one way, but you should also change bands.  Yellow is easiest, then green, then red, then blue.  Increase the resistance eventually.

What exercises are you doing with the bands?  I know dozens and can tell you a few to add to your routine so you can mix it up. 

Fitness How many calorie's do I burn??? Jul 04 2008
10:09 (UTC)

Why not get a heart rate monitor that counts calories and wear it when you ride your bike.  It would be set to YOUR weight, height, age, gender and body fat percentage, so the estimated calorie burn is pretty accurate.  I'm thinking that with an hour bike ride, you probably burn about 550-600 calories.  But to make sure, I suggest you invest in a Polar A5 Heart Rate Monitor.  Not the newest model but it fits the bill.  They are about $60 and are even sold at Target these days.  The newest weight loss type monitor is the F11... they are over $150 but you can often catch them on same for $129.  If you have the money to spare that is the better choice.


That way you don't have to be confused and you just look at the reader, write down what it says, and go on with your life! :)

Fitness Personal Trainer Advice Jul 04 2008
09:59 (UTC)
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hahaha!!! That was comedy for real!  I was laughing so hard at your story. 

Girlfriend, you are a young woman.  You need to get off that pole and do some cardio and build up endurance so that you have a strong HEART and CARDIOVASCULAR system.  You know, the weights and steady state treadmill are great for the outside of your body, but you have to pump it up and get that heart racing to strengthen your INSIDES.


If you don't have the $$ for a trainer, talk to her about 1/2 hour sessions once every two weeks, OR if you can train with another person which reduces the rate considerably.  She should be able to set you up with another person who would also like to train and save a bit of money.


Oh boy, this was the funniest thing I've read on this site, thanks for the laughs.  Enjoyed your story immensely.  :)

Fitness personal trainer - very discouraging introductory session Jul 04 2008
09:48 (UTC)
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Boy oh boy.


I am the manager of a fitness team and I want you to know, if a member complained to me that one of my staff members had talked to them in such a disrespectful, distastefully tactless way they would have been fired on the spot.

Our members are our life blood, and discouraged members quit.  Not our goal at all, so I apologize for your experience.  People like that give the rest of us a bad name. :(

Balance in life is the key.  I never tell my clients to cut out the food and events that make their life enjoyable and that are meaningful to them - I just point out that making smarter choices about said foods would be the smartest approach.  LIke, do you really need to eat bread AND pasta at the same meal?  Can you just have 2 tacos, not 4?  Can you cut back from a quart of soda a day to 1 glass?  See, things like that make a big difference and people don't feel so deprived.


Lastly, one of my specialities is post-rehabilitation.  The first thing that trainer should have done was address your back and knee problems with a postural assessment, corrective flexibility exercises, and core strengthening exercises. 

THAT is what you need and why you are having problems in the areas you are having them.  Short of a traumatic injury, tight muscles and misalignment of the hips is responsible for I'd say at least 70% of the problems people have with their knees and backs.

Again, I'm so sorry you had such a negative experience.  You really should discuss the situation with the fitness manager and request an assessment with a different trainer - one with some sense.

Weight Loss don't understand what's going on here... Jul 04 2008
09:31 (UTC)

What does your exercise routine consist of?  Let's start there.  Saying "I exercise" isn't very specific.


Also, I seriously doubt that a woman that "exercises very day" and eats under 1500 calories per day is eating enough.  Your body will hold onto every single bit of fat as it thinks its starving and your body is trying to make sure it LIVES! 

I mean, if you truly are exercising at a vigorous pace for 60 minutes or so, you could be burning as many as 400-500 calories just there alone!  Which would mean you need to add calories to replace that burn PLUS your reduced calorie intake.  So say you were supposed to eat 1450 calories and you burned 500, you'd need to eat at least 1800 calories that day.

Fitness Need To Lose Weight Before Wedding, Dress Does Not Fit!!! Jul 04 2008
09:20 (UTC)
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This is nothing to panic over. You can easily lose enough body fat to fit your dress in 6 whole weeks.

It will take some concentrated effort on your part and you will have to cut out all the extraneous junk that people typically eat. Soda, juice, margaritas, buttered popcorn, chips, hot dogs, burgers, fries, burritos, gravy, white pasta, white bread, etc. GONE GONE GONE.

Walking with kids doesn't even count. Unless they are big kids and you guys are hoofing it, that is just another leisure activity. You need to be MOVING in order for it to count as a fat burning activity. I suggest you do the following 3 to 4 days per week, making sure you do cardio twice per day even on days you don't weight train:

AM: Weight Training Workout:

  • 25 squats - body weight
  • 15 push ups - from knees
  • 15 lunges to the front - body weight
  • 25 jumping jacks
  • 25 split squats with dumb bells
  • 15 shoulder presses with dumb bells
  • 15 biceps curls with dumb bells
  • 15 leaping lunges body weight
  • 15 bent over rows (for back)
  • 15 bent over reverse flyes (for back)
  • 25 triceps bench dips (can use a low table or stair)
  • 25 jumping jacks
  • 15 lateral raises with dumb bells
  • 25 reverse curls (for abs)
  • 25 long reaches (legs straight up in air, try to curl up to touch toes
  • 25 side to side bends with hands behind head

Should take about 20 minutes. End with elliptical or a jog or rope jumping for 20 minutes.

PM:  Cardio - Elliptical in target heart range for 30 minutes.

Exercise will help with the pre-wedding day jitters and stress.  You should also see the fat melt off if you eat as listed above.  It's just for a few weeks -- you can do it!!  Your dress may even end up being too big!

Recipes Question: Creating a fat free ground beef? Dec 10 2007
03:14 (UTC)
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My grocery store had London Broil on sale for $1.99 a pound the other day.  So I bought 10 lbs and had it ground up by the butcher and put into 1 lb packages for my freezer.

The cut is very lean and the butcher said the ground meat is about 4% fat.   He recommended that I cook it with some sort of moisture to avoid it being dry and chewy - its that low in fat, but VERY flavorful.  

Fitness Leg Cramps Dec 09 2007
23:07 (UTC)
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Drink more water.  You are sweating a lot and probably not drinking enough flud to replace the loss of water.  Sounds like you are dehydrated, which is the #1 cause of muscle cramps in the legs.  Try putting a pinch of organic sea salt in your water bottle when you go to the gym.

Check your potassium intake.  Before bed start eating a banana or an apple - both of which are high in potassium and help with cramping.

Make sure your calcium levels are adequate for your age and gender.  Calcium is another mineral that contributes to cramps in the legs. 

Fitness Stability ball/fitness ball chairs? What is your opinion? Dec 09 2007
22:54 (UTC)
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To receive the benefits of sitting on a ball (core strength, improvement in balance), you can't use one of those chair bases!  You have to just use the ball itself.  Rebalancing yourself as the ball moves and rolls is where the benefits are gained.  You don't receive those bonuses if the ball is locked into position in one of those frames.
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