Posts by soglialoro

Just wanted to drop in and tell you that are prayers are still and will continue to be with you and your family. Please send us an update on how you are doing when you are able to.

God Bless ~Sarah PA

that you don't have to be around every day or every month to be a good best friend..

Cheers to you too crazineko~! I am right there with you on EVERY SINGLE THING you said. It's refreshing to know that I am not the only one out there with the same views.  Thanks for posting!

you all crack me up...

The world is coming to an end... what will we do?

hehe I love you people..

Original Post by jules817:

Original Post by schnooder:

If you feel like you need some meat curtains down there or a summer sausage you should install it.

 

 are they still taking nominations for the quote of the year in the awards thread?

 I'm sure they are.. I agree.. This takes the cake.

Original Post by loriklorik:

Original Post by floggingsully:

Original Post by schnooder:

She was basically totally disgusted.

She says " God made you that way and you shouldn't change it" blah blah freaking blah.

Did you ask her if she's ever colored her hair? or worn makup? cause that would be changing the way god made you.

 

 lol christians dont do the logic thing. Its wrong for everyone else but doesnt apply to themselves (or, its "different" for them in their mind)

 Why do people feel the need to generalize all Christians? I guess I am a *****y christian because I wholeheartedly believe in god and Jesus and I don't give a crap what people do to their bodies..

I am not a typical christian I guess..

dude I WISH we were getting snow this year...

LAst year we averaged 6 inches.... the weather man said we were getting around 30inches this year....

It's all been inches of rain... so much freaking rain..

I agree Alle... it sucks if it's cold and plain. We need snow here in PA..

Jolynn, please send it here!

are you sick or streesed CD? Maybe she is trying to make you feel better? Aww she loves you

obviously I was totally wrong about people not wanting to touch this thread.

Original Post by udokier:

Original Post by pgeorgian:

you haven't been "pushed back into a closet."  you're an adult; if you're in a closet, you put yourself there. 

marriage is about choosing monogamy.  bisexuality is irrelevant to monogamy.  society isn't the problem; the problem is that you want to sleep with people who are not your wife.

you're just trying to make excuses for what you want to do.  stop blaming your sexuality, your wife, society, etc. and own the fact that you want to screw around.  then, at least, you'll be asking yourself the right questions.

Dang, pgeorgian, can't add much to that. 

 

What she said.

 Ditto.. PG always gets it.

Original Post by elpinko:

Original Post by pgeorgian:

bisexuality is beside the point.

Basically true. But the only reason I bring it up is that before we married, I was very open about it, and have essentially been pushed back into a closet during that time, and I do I have repressed a part of myself and am really sick of that. (Not necessarily talking about sex here, but just being able to talk frankly and openly with people. Of course part of the problem is with society in general being unable to grasp the concept of a bisexual man married to a woman. Society pretty much accept gays and straight people, but bi people, not so much. The thing that infuriates me most is the assumption by some people that I "became straight" when I got married. It obviously does not work that way.

 

But as for the ethical question of whether or not adultery is kinder, bisexuality is totally irrelevant, I agree.

 I think she thought you when you got married that you gave up being bi-sexual... obviously in her mind because you would be MARRIED to her and FAITH FULL to her and that means no MEN so therefore she thought that went out the window the minute you said "i do"...maybe? anyone?

Original Post by juliemae2:

Original Post by elpinko:

Original Post by juliemae2:

No, sneaking around on her is not the kind thing to do.

I think you should get into therapy.

And I'm restraining myself from giving you hell about the stretch marks comment. I'll just sit here telling myself that if you were still "in love" with her, such things wouldn't matter much at all.

It's obviously no fault of her own, I know. But if I had had testicular cancer and she made an honest comment that it turned her off would you condemn her? People cannot help what is a turnon or a turnoff, and I'm sorry, but men are much more visual creatures than women.

I wonder if she would even go. She has already said that she thinks sex is just for making kids and that she doesn't want any more kids (frankly, neither do I.)

 

I'm not condemning you.  LOL.  I'm just feeling sorry for myself over here and wondering if my husband thinks the same thing about my battle scars.  I've decided to believe that he doesn't.

But back to the original topic, if she wants to keep the marriage she will go to counseling with you.  If not, she won't.  It's not all about your sex life and I don't think it should be presented to her that way.  You are dissatisfied with the relationship and you are feeling like you might seek comfort outside of it.  Rather than doing that right off the bat, why not at least try to make things better first.  If it doesn't work out, at least you can say you tried. 

I think that's the honorable way to go about changing things. 

Do try not to convince yourself that cheating on her would be honorable.

 I agree 110%... lol.. I concur.

I am surprised that she married you if she was so religious and she knew you were bi-sexual..

Original Post by cellulitedelight:

no, but i got something scarier. a long list of messages from pgeorgian. be afraid. be vcery afraid.

 CD I read your (drunk) posts in the food forum the other day.. you and PG are so funny together!  You two both make my days sometimes when work is boring!

Just saying thanks!

Original Post by girlfighting27:

Nope. I haven't gotten any. I think you're suppposed to copy and paste the email and send it to one of the mods so that they can check on it!

 ok I will if she persists.