Posts by basicsarcasm

Original Post by ashalee_88:

we've had a discussion, well he said he's going to change all of his uhh hiccups i'll call it  and he did seem genuine about everything, so i hope he does change..if not i can't see it working, i need him to just to treat me better i suppose which he said he knows he has to fix that so hopefully things will improve from now on

I really hope things DO improve for you. I just broke up literary with my boyfriend of 7 years because he refused to change and I kept taking him back because I was scared to be alone. I was a fool to try to hang on to something that I knew didn't work from the very beginning.

I'm not saying that your situation won't work. I'm just saying be weary. It's easy to fall back into old habits and to do what feels easy. You're beautiful and smart and you deserve someone who knows that. Don't settle. This should be his last chance. If he messes this up. Walk out and don't even look back.

Goodluck!

I pretty much feel the same way about everything you said about focusing on yourself! I've just gone through a break-up so I want to do it this year so much more than ever before. . .

Stay motivated. I'm sure you'll rock 2008.