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The Lounge How old are you and your significant other? Oct 29 2008
15:14 (UTC)
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Original Post by rudegirlsdontcry:

I turned 20 in June. My current boyfriend turned 23 in March. We'll have been together for three years in August.

We've been living together since January 2007 and I still don't hate him. He claims he doesn't hate me either. We've got two fish, the turtle I've had since I was 8, and we recently adopted a dog. Overall, I think we're doing pretty well. Laughing

 I think that's cute.  We've been living together since May.  And so far we've been fine.  We had my 5 year old beta, but he died (I got him for my 13th birthday and he died the morning of my 18th) Now we have 3 new betas, his dog, CJ, the doggy he adopted for me for my birthday, Sox, and my adorable hamster Tootie.  So we have a full house too.  Haha.  Good luck to the two of you!

The Lounge Ughh, I hate you so much. SO MUCH. Jul 17 2008
16:01 (UTC)
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Original Post by vicereine:

I had another job that I had to be there some Saturdays and Sundays at 8am, I would sometimes actually stay up all night then go to work. Oh and I don't drink anything caffeinated.

 Haha that's funny...  When I was in school and had to be awake by 7 to be there by 7:55, you have no idea how many times I just said screw it at about 5 am and decided to stay up all night.  I seem to be MORE tired if I sleep from 5 to 7 than if I don't sleep at all.  :]

Young Calorie Counters If you could have the body of any celebrity who would it be? Jul 16 2008
21:53 (UTC)
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Marilyn Monroe.

:]]]

http://drx.typepad.com/psychotherapyblog/imag es/2007/12/31/marilyn_monroe_on_long_island_1 956.jpg

The Lounge Ughh, I hate you so much. SO MUCH. Jul 16 2008
21:14 (UTC)
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Original Post by yachtracer1977:

People are annoyed when others are peppy (like MOI) because they're just jealous.  They WISH they were as happy as me.

:-D

*dances around*

*hands out SMILE! buttons*

*bounces out*

 I won't even deny that this is true.

it is completely true.

I could only dream of actually feeling peppy and happy in the morning.

But no.

my body feels like poop.

so i feel like a cranky #$%@&

:]

The Lounge Ughh, I hate you so much. SO MUCH. Jul 16 2008
19:46 (UTC)
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Original Post by nomoreexcuses:

Morning people are annoying; but the payoff in annoying people is so great, that I choose to be one anyway.

Laughing

 Yes.  I would imagine I would get great pleasure out of annoying people if I was a morning person.  The same way I love to annoy people who can't stay up past 10 ;)

The Lounge Ughh, I hate you so much. SO MUCH. Jul 16 2008
19:32 (UTC)
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I HATE the mornings.

hate them.

hate them.

ugh.

:[

The Lounge guys, would you buy your gf/wife pads? :) Jul 14 2008
18:23 (UTC)
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Original Post by beachwalker:

So I  have never asked him..."honey can you pick me up pads?"  Yeah...I'm sure he'd come home with baby diapers...or oven mitts.

:0)

 that's the funniest thing i've read all day... haha.

As for the OP, i have a funny story...

I left my parents' house to live with my boyfriend.  I was sitting on the couch as soon as we get to his place and i look at him and i say "Oh my god, can you do me a huge favor??"  And his first response "What?  Do you need me to run out and get some tampons?"

LOL.

I simply smiled and said "No, babe, actually I wondered if you would grab me a coke from the fridge..."

I thought it was adorable. ;]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 12 2008
17:48 (UTC)
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Original Post by dbackerfan:

Original Post by seraphic72:

I smoked cigarettes for over 20 years. I really enjoyed it and there was nothing better than relaxing with a smoke. I have two children who are 9 and 7 and I knew if I wanted to see them grow up and get married..etc..that I'd have to quit. When spring came, my sinuses and allergies kicked into full gear causing me to develop a chest infection. I knew that this would be the perfect time to quit as I was coughing a lot, not breathing so well and the taste of cigarettes were awful. I bought the Nicoderm patch and I have been smoke-free for almost 10 weeks now. I feel wonderful and can't believe how much energy I have now and the taste of food has improved drastically. Now I'm concentrating on losing about 20lbs and just living a healthier life. :) That's my story!

I smoked for over 30 yrs quit cold turkey 3 yrs ago this month- best thing I ever did for myself after losing 50 lbs - now to just lose thos "quit lbs"

 kudos to both of you!!!  I never smoked cigarettes, but my parents have always struggled to quit off and on.  I saw how difficult it was and think it's awesome when people can do it!  :]]]]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 12 2008
17:46 (UTC)
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Original Post by schnooder:

well my mistake, I thought you had multiple.

I never said that it mattered and never said you could not post what you wanted. So you don't have to be all defensive.

And I don't read through these threads....too long, too much time.

 I've got no need to be defensive.

I was simply saying that I only have two.

And if you don't read the thread through, then why pop in to post something that you are mistaken about.  It just seems kind of pointless to me anyway...

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 12 2008
17:42 (UTC)
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I'm sure it is good to use caution when you post things about yourself, but my friends and parents all know about this and as far as future employers, i doubt they would find this forum post.  And, honestly it's not like they know my full name or anything.  So, I see no harm in talking about how I kicked former habits.  :]

If anyone is worried about that stuff, they can elect not to post.  Yay for the right to make your own decisions!!!  I will accept responsibility for my posts if any complications arise in my life because of them.

I'm not promoting or condoning illegal or questionable actions.

I'm simply sharing.

and I don't see the harm in that.

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 12 2008
17:32 (UTC)
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Original Post by schnooder:

Are your only posts about drugs and drinking or what?

 I definitely only have two and this one was started based off of the other one.  You would've known that if you read through the other thread.

And I must ask why it matters what my posts are about.

I can post what I want.

:]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 12 2008
00:16 (UTC)
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misskady, oh i don't doubt that some children need medication.  I just think doctors are too pushy and willing to give children medication when they don't need it.  Some children, like your nephew, may need medication because of psychological damage.  But a child that has trouble sitting still and likes to hop from one game to another does not need medication.  They're young and have lots and lots of energy.  They don't want to stick to one thing because they are curious.  I also think people should lay off the antibiotics.  Don't people realize that antibiotics kill even the good bacteria in our bodies??  They also make it nigh impossible to develop immunities or antibodies of our own to fight off illnesses.  We'd have much stronger immune systems if we didn't use formulated medicine to kill every single bacteria we shelter.  I believe antibiotics have a time and place, but people take them for illnesses that we'd be able to fight off ourselves.

The Lounge what's the worst movie you've ever seen? Jul 11 2008
23:47 (UTC)
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ugh, even though everyone else loved it, I HATED "There Will Be Blood"

IMO, it was boring and just plain uck.

:/

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 11 2008
21:17 (UTC)
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i totally agree!  Seems like there's a pill for everything nowadays.  Restless leg syndrome?  Here's a pill!  Constipation?  Don't fix it the natural way with natural foods, we have a pill!  And, I'm sorry, but I think they're way too quick to diagnose people with ADD or ADHD.  Children especially.  They almost ALL have attention problems and hyperactivity problems.  Stop feeding them meds, they're CHILDREN.

The Lounge Anyone Seen Wall-E? Jul 11 2008
20:27 (UTC)
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I cried.

I'm not even kidding.

when he didn't remember her...

:[[[

Then he remembered her and I was happy!!

Best movie I've seen in a while.  I loved it!!!

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 11 2008
20:22 (UTC)
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laschndr,

I used to black out on several occasions.  That's one of the reasons I kicked the habit.  I realized how dangerous that was... I could've been raped or worse.  I was very very lucky not to be hurt or get alcohol poisoning.  Anyway, since i obviously tend to go over my limit when i drink, i just stay away from it all together.  I try to be strong and think things through instead of blindly going along with whatever everyone else is doing.

:]

nomo, please don't kill the thread!!!  We're not encouraging anything illegal... more like discouraging.  And sharing views and opinions.  For support and motivational purposes!!!  :]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 11 2008
04:17 (UTC)
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Original Post by kaffwynn:

Original Post by misskady:

I don't drink or do drugs. I never have.  It's a complete waste of time.   Stupidity and immaturity at best. sorry, don't mean to offend, but that is my opinion.

Lymabean, I am glad you are sober, but, in my opinion you will not be for long. You seem to look back on it fondly, which I find sad.

Really?  Cause I find it sad that you are so judgmental about something you have no experience with.

I don't really think it is fair to make comments like that.  To me, it seems like she is fairly well committed to a clean and sober (close to) life.

It's actually really good that she's made some of these realizations so young.  for me, it took until I was 20, and for others it takes a lot longer than that.

Don't be so self righteous.

 just because mudslides taste good does not mean i want to drink them.  And in no way shape or form did i let on like i look back on it fondly... cause i don't.  And i'm pretty sure i voiced the fact that i realized what it was doing to me and my body and my health.

kaff, thank you for seeing what i was trying to project.  I am grateful for my sobriety and just because i think some drinks taste good does not mean i look back on my days of shooting whiskey and moonshine "fondly".

:]

let us try not to judge people.

The Lounge If you could recommend one song Jul 11 2008
00:14 (UTC)
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Original Post by purespark:

"Cowboys from Hell" by Pantera.

 Ahh, Pantera.

equally fun and violently loud.

;]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 11 2008
00:12 (UTC)
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haha, i have a friend who is 26 and she doesn't really drink more than a margarita here and there.  We thought it would be funny to see her drunk so she agreed to drink one night....

NEVER AGAIN.

She was the worst drunk i've ever seen. haha. angry, sad, loud, abnoxious.

it was ridiculous.

mudslides do taste pretty good, though, not gonna lie ;]

The Lounge If you could recommend one song Jul 11 2008
00:04 (UTC)
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Original Post by scooby316:

 Part of the reason I like them better...I tend to favor "less angry" music :)

 Yeah that's understandable.  I don't favor either.  lol.  If I'm angry or just hyper and need faster music I go for Tool.  If I'm laid back just chilling or if I'm sad or down I tend to turn to APC for comfort.

Both are amazing.

Yupp.  Faves for sure.

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 11 2008
00:00 (UTC)
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Kudos to you ladyfirelyght!!!

That's the way I am now.  I haven't drank to get drunk/buzzed/tipsy for a year now.  But occasionally, like once every 3 or 4 months I'll have a glass of wine with my meal.  That's about it.

I'm also nutty enough without the added drugged affect.  :]

The Lounge If you could recommend one song Jul 10 2008
23:51 (UTC)
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Original Post by scooby316:

More of a perfect circle fan, myself :)

 APC is also truly amazing.

both bands have a time and place depending on my mood.

APC is lighter and generally less angry.

Maynard James Keenan is my future husband though. lol.

The Lounge If you could recommend one song Jul 10 2008
23:47 (UTC)
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vicarious by tool.

amazing lyrics.

amazing instrumentals.

amazing song.

amazing band <333

The Lounge How old are you and your significant other? Jul 10 2008
23:45 (UTC)
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zarelha, i agree with you too.  It is correct that my upbringing caused me to be more mature, but there are other ways of raising more mature children without dysfunction or abuse.  So I'm sure like you there are others who were simply raised to be more mature.  I myself was forced to be more mature, but I'm sure maturity can come from perfectly heathy family lives as well.

:]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 10 2008
23:39 (UTC)
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I've never done meth, but I've seen it ruin lives.  I've seen addicted parents that can't even provide for their children because they waste all (and I mean all) their money on meth.  It's a nasty nasty creation.

icutoffmyhair, my mom beat my a** when she found out i had smoked cannabis (and i wasn't even doing it anymore).  I found that to be ridiculous anyway considering i wasn't doing crack or coke or meth or anything.
The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 10 2008
23:31 (UTC)
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Original Post by pgeorgian:

it's a terrible drug.  it's not even a drug; it's poison with a high attached.

 I second that!!  Just poisonous chemicals... blech.

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 10 2008
23:27 (UTC)
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It just stinks.  Like chemicals almost.  uck.  The reason is because meth is made up of different chemicals that in order to get out of the system need to seep out the pores.  This is what causes the open sores that ooze meth.  this is also why real broke meth heads pick their scabs and eat them.  it gets them a little high.  And it also leaks out their pores to cause the nasty odor.  ew.

The Lounge is it okay to not like sex? Jul 10 2008
23:23 (UTC)
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I'll be 18 in a week and a half and from a teen's perspective, I enjoy sex.  But you have to be ready for it.  I had sex at 15 and hated it.  Wasn't ready for it.  Since then I've had a few relationships that involved sex and I still didn't like it.  It was painful/uncomfortable/embarrassing to me.  Then when I met my current boyfriend over a year and a half ago, I finally felt I was ready to relax and try to enjoy it.  Well, now I love it. 

Maybe you're looking for the reassurance that the affection is real and not just based on sex.  Therefore cuddling/kissing might make you feel like it's genuine and not just sex drive.

Who knows.

But you should never feel "not normal" about any of that.

:]

The Lounge Kicking Addictions, Let us share our stories... Jul 10 2008
23:16 (UTC)
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anndjoe, when i moved to illinois, i moved into a really nice community (granted, kids still do drugs here, they just stick to more expensive ones because they can afford it.  ie. coke) anyway, nobody here had really heard much about meth.  I was shocked.  I grew up in a little town out in the country in Morristown, Tennessee, and ALMOST EVERYONE DID METH.  It's gross.  And it makes you get open oozing sores all over your body and also causes your teeth to rot out of your head and your eyes to turn an off white color.  yucky.

The Lounge What does YOUR username mean? Jul 10 2008
23:07 (UTC)
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My name is Allyssa Marie

My family and friends call me Lyss Lyssa Lyssie

LYssa MArie

Then I just made it into lymabean

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