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Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 19 2009
23:00 (UTC)
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BRIIIIIIIIT!!!!!! Welcome back, chica! :-)

Akela, I'd say relax, but have a plan.  The thing is that normal people, that is people that DON'T have amazing food issues like a lot of us on here, gain weight over the holidays.  I know that in one regular day, i.e. a day without pie, cheesecake, rolls, mac and cheese, and stuffing, I can easily eat 3500 calories without breaking a sweat.  Because I'm a food fiend like that.  Some chips and queso, a few margaritas, a deep fried entree involving melty cheese, all after a heavy breakfast... I can gain a pound in ONE DAY by eating just two incredibly indulgent meals.  I am THAT BAD.  Knowing that, and knowing what temptations are around on Thanksgiving, I always have a plan.  The plan is key.

Msn, your lunch sounds dreamy!  Are you still doing those cute little whatchafaceit boxes with the cut out foodie things? (And can you figure out what I mean through my non-speak, lol?)

Dalma, That's so way awesome!  Yay for size 4s!!!!  I'll admit I'm jealous... I don't think I'm built that way. I'm thinking a 6 is as far as I'll be able to go since I'm so bottom heavy.  But then I think about it and realize that a SIZE FREAKING SIX is AMAZINGLY FREAKING TINY!!!!  And then I feel a bit better, lol!  It may not make sense psychologically, but you can SO do it... And you'll be fabulous in your fours!  GO DALMA!!!!  :-)

Hi, Watchme! And I agree with Dalma about naysayers.  This guy I knew that was a friend of a friend told me when I first started losing weight that he didn't think I'd ever be a size 12 because I was just a big girl.  Can you imagine?!  I saw him when I went out for Halloween and I was rocking a size 8 skirt, and it was the best feeling EVER!!! So screw the negative folks... You can do it, chica! :-)

Have a great night, ladies!  I'm off to the gym!!! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 19 2009
19:22 (UTC)
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Hi everyone!

Dalma, Thanks!  I try wearing eyeliner, but I can never do it well, and I feel like I look like Amy Winehouse, lol!  Maybe I'll go look at some YouTube videos of make-up application... Practice makes perfect, and all that... And maybe, just maybe, Mr. Rice liked you because you weren't being a groupie!  It's possible, is all I'm sayin'! :-)

Msn, Thanks for the compliments!!! :-)  I've kinda given up on the C25K for now... I took a "break" from the gym, and when I tried to start running again my knees were unhappy.  So I'm back to weight training to toughen them up a bit before I start it AGAIN.  *sigh*  To my knowledge, Mladdy's the only one that's truly finished it, and that lady can run for  like an hour straight!  She's a machine! :-)

Akela, Thanks for the kind words!  I really needed to hear that!  We'll definitely keep on fighting! :-)

Iwill, Lol, thanks!  I actually took a few pics of myself smiling and immediately erased them because I felt like I looked old.  I think I'm going through another quarter(-ish) life crisis... I keep looking for wrinkles and crows feet!

Ana, Don't stress!  Deep breaths!  Thanksgiving will be here soon! Just one week! :-)

Watchme, feeling good and maintaining is DEFINITELY an accomplishment!  I'm so glad you're sounding more upbeat! :-)

Hi Shapie!!! :-)

Akasha, it sounds like you've got a great plan, in a bunch of different ways!  Good for you, chica!  Keep up the good work! :-)

Okay, so let me just say, work Thanksgiving lunch + carrot cake = Me at 1400 cals for the day already.  Boooo to carrot cake!  I was doing so well until they pulled that out! Hmph.  That's okay, I'm going to the gym tonight, so hopefully I can make up for it a bit.  I weighed in at 157.2 this morning, which I'm hoping is the start of an actual downward trend, and not just me coming off of TOM.  We shall see. 

In other news, my coworker and I are starting a work Biggest Loser for my department... We're going to start it in January, and I'm hoping the lure of a $200 pot will help me get my ass in gear!  Not to mention the fact that the contest ends the day before my 27th birthday!  What a birthday present, eh?  I'm not going to slack until then, though (at least not any more than I already am :-/  I still wanna hit 149lbs by NYE.

Carrot cake is stupid.

Happy Thursday! :-)

Weight Loss I want to get down to 135 Nov 19 2009
19:04 (UTC)
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Original Post by caverlady:

135 is my goal as well.  I started out over a year ago at 200 pounds and lately I've been bouncing around the high 150's to low 160's.  I'm now struggling for every pound and can't seem to break through my current plateau.  I'm happy to try and help you reach your goal.  Perhaps along the way I'll be able to find the way to mine as well!

I'm in the same situation as you... I started almost two years ago at 220lbs, and have been bouncing from 150-159lbs since May.  I'm 5'5" and 157 right now... I'm hoping to hit 149lbs by New Year's Eve, and then 130-135 by the spring.  Plateaus SUCK!

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 18 2009
21:06 (UTC)
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Hi ladies!

Hi everyone new!

Watchme, I'm so glad the food is working out for you!  That's awesome!  And I'm SO glad you're feeling better about yourself!  Rock on, chica!

Iwill, I LOOOOVE the hair!  You look SO good!!!!  :-)

Dalma, the BF and I were watching the Ravens-Browns game on Monday, and they showed Ray Rice w/o his helmet on a few times... I kept thinking to myself that he looked familiar, lol!  Now I know why! And maybe he was always in the way for a reason, eh foxy?  Did you talk to him at all? :-)

Akela, don't feel bad!  We all have weight spikes and plateaus and such on our graphs.  I get sad when I look at mine and realize I was 9lbs away from my goal weight in May, and then slacked my way up almost 10lbs over the course of 6 months... It sucks, but we have to keep fighting back!  We can do it! :-)

KARI!!! Welcome back! Way to lose the excess baggage (in both ways)! 

Kathleen, Thanksgiving, surprisingly enough, is never as bad for me as a regular splurge sort of day (especially if that splurge day involves Mexican food!).  There's always SO many different things to eat, that I take a little of everything, and inevitably don't like a few things so I end up kind of nibbling my way through Thanksgiving dinner.  Drink lotsa water, get big servings of veggies and eat those first, then turkey breast, and that should help a TON.  By the time dessert-time rolls around, you'll be so full of lean protein, veggies and water it'll be easier to turn down indecently sized portions. You'll do great!  :-)

So I've been doing okay-ish the last few days.  Never going over maintenance, but not with the deficit I'd like.  The scale said 159lbs Monday morning, but TOM is in full force, so I'm hoping I'm back down to 156lbs, and maybe lower by Friday... We'll see.  I FEEL better at least, so there's that.

Happy Wednesday, ladies! :-)

Edited to add: I posted a pic of me with my make-up on... Looking at it now, I realize that it's not as extreme as I thought it was Saturday, (it's super subtle, 'cuz that's what I asked for, but it looked super dolled up to me then, lol), but I still think it looks nice.  Baby steps! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 16 2009
16:44 (UTC)
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Happy Monday, ladies!

Akela, I'm SO sorry you're going through such a rough patch with your little guy.  I know NOTHING about children, so I'm probably no help at all, but I know Mladdy's little guy is kinda close in age to yours (I think).  She might have some advice for you... Good luck!

Dalma, You looked AMAZING in those pics!  Soooo skinny!  YAY for strapless dresses!!!  Good for you, chica!  And wow, yeah, there were DEFINITELY some good looking guys there!  Fun times! :-)

Watchme, hang in there, honey. (((hugs)))

So even though I've been horrible with my eating/working out last week, and the scale has creeped up a bit, I'm in a good mood for 3 reasons:  1) I went to get my hair done on Saturday, and it's finally GROWING!  I've been trying to get it to grow for years, since I cut it off in HS.  It's FINALLY hitting my shoulders and my split ends aren't as bad as I thought they were, so it didn't have to be trimmed as much as usual.  So YAY for that!  2) I kept wanting to wait until I hit my goal weight to buy make-up, since I don't know anything about it, and figured it could be part of a sort of goal weight make-over, but since it's taking me twice as long as I planned, I just went to MAC on Saturday and bought some.  I don't love the way it feels, and I hate that it comes off on EVERYTHING (clothes, fingers, sunglasses, etc.), but I DO like how nice and even my skin tone looks when I have it on.  I'll probably never be an everyday make-up kind of girl, but at least twice a month I'm going to make myself dress up, and be all pretty. :-)  3) The BF is FINALLY joining the gym with me tonight! 

I'll post make-up/pretty hair pics sometime tonight (after the gym!) if I can...

As far as weight loss goes, I'm attempting to get back on the wagon for the week... Wish me luck! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 11 2009
14:42 (UTC)
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Good morning, ladies!

Watchme,  I'm glad the foods are working out for you!  That's awesome, chica! :-)

Dalma, 2,000 cals at the gym is AMAZING!  You're kicking ass, lady!  Good for you!  And YAY on the boxing!  Rock it out! :-)

Akela, I'm sorry you're so stressed, chica... Yay for meal plans, though!  That's TOTALLY helpful! :-)

Antiquitas, I'm sorry about the ovarian cyst... I know those can be super painful!  Feel better soon!

Okay, so yesterday I went to Target on my lunch break and got my scale!  Last night when I weighed before dinner it said 159.0lbs, and this morning when I first woke up it said 155.4lbs.  It's nice to know what my weight is, but now I'm conflicted as to what time to weigh myself.  When I was using the scale at work, I always weighed at 3pm (on Tuesdays and Fridays), because I liked knowing that it was probably my average daily weight.  Since I can't do that now, though, I'm wondering if it's better to go by my evening weight or my morning weight... Or average the two?  Is stepping on the scale twice a day really a good idea, anyway? *sigh* 

In any case, it's nice to know that I'm definitely still in the 150lbs (and not in the 160s), and it give me a clear idea of where I need to go from here.  I'm going to restart my weight loss spreadsheet that I'd given up on MONTHS ago, and start doing measurements again.  I really think that not keeping myself accountable is 90% of the reason I've slacked off lately.  There's exactly 2 weeks until Thanksgiving "break" starts, and I'd like to be down 4lbs (morning weight 151.4, evening weight 155lbs).  I know in all likelihood I'll gain most of that back over Thanksgiving, but at least I'll go into December still in the 150s and not in the 160s again.  I'm thinking gym for sure tonight...  Gotta get started on burning 7000 calories in the next 7 days! :-)

The Lounge Question about race Nov 09 2009
22:57 (UTC)
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Original Post by muttlover:

I am getting a lot of different answers. As kdh said, I probably won't get the answer I "want," or a even a definite one, because we all have different opinions.

But I have seen more than one of you say that if you are apart of a group and say a joke/generalized statement about them, it's fine. However, if you are not apart of that group and say a joke/generalized statement about them, it's not fine.

But isn't that in itself... I don't want to say racist, but not racially equal? I'm sorry, I can't think of the word/phrase I'm wanting to say here...

As far as the "racially equal" thing goes, I don't think you're getting what people are saying.   I like the example that one of the above posters used: it's like how you can complain about your family and make fun of them all you want to, but if a non-family member were to say the same thing, it can be construed as an insult.   I think it's assumed that there's an implicit understanding that within a family, a group of friends or in this case within an ethnic group, there is love and understanding behind jokes and/or criticisms. 

For example, if I call my mother overbearing, she might be annoyed at me, but she knows that I know that she's overbearing out of love and her desire to see me do well.  I love her, and so while I joke or criticize, at the end of the day, the motive behind it isn't malicious or hateful.  If my boyfriend were to say the same thing, I'd wonder if he had a problem with my mother.  It would seem like a bit of an attack on her character because I don't know where he's coming from with his criticism.

I think the potential to offend comes from the fact that people don't know where your statements are coming from: hate and disdain or semi-joking understanding. 

And for the record, I don't let anyone call me the "N" word, nor would I ever use it.

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 09 2009
20:05 (UTC)
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Hi ladies...

Fallon, hang in there!  I hope everything turns out okay! (((hugs)))

Watchme, given your time constraints, prepared foods sound like a great idea!  Let us know how it is!

Dalma, I LOVE that dress!  Yay for fitting hot dresses! :-D

Akasha, I'm sorry about your mom's roommate... I'm sure your mom is SO happy for your support right now!

Akela, I'm sorry you guys had a crappy hotel stay, but kudos to you for sending on feedback to the corporate office!  A lot of people don't do that, and I'd like to think it helps! :-)

So, I'm sorry I haven't really been around for the last few days.  Work was hectic at the end of last week, and we spent the weekend at the BF's parents' ranch where I utterly gorged myself. Embarassed

I've decided that my main problem is that even though I've been working out regularly over the past few weeks, and burning crazy calories at the gym, my eating goes off at least once during the week, and generally all weekend long.  I USED to be able to cheat all weekend and still lose a bit, but I just can't do that now.  So here's my plan: 1) buy the damn scale I've been putting off buying.  I haven't had a regular scale in months (since the one I was using at work disappeared), and even though I weigh myself whenever I go to the gym, it's SUPER variable depending on my workout/water consumption.  I need a scale at home so I can weigh myself at least a few times a week to really keep track of my weight. 2) Plan my meals.  When I've got a plan, I do great!  When I play it by ear, my hunger plans my meals, and hunger is not a healthy eater.  Hunger convinces me that Mexican food would be a great idea, or that french fries are really necessary parts of my diet.  So I'm hoping if I can just keep it together I can still be down a few pounds by the end of the month.

Happy Monday, ladies! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Nov 03 2009
22:47 (UTC)
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Hi ladies! 

Just wanted to pop in and say hi! 

Dalma, OMG, you looked amazing in your Halloween outfit!  Soooo skinny!  Good for you chica!  I'll post pics of my costume tomorrow, though it didn't  turn out quite as burlesque-y as I'd intended.  As for looking one way in clothes, and another in the buff, I'm right there with you.  In clothes I look okay (although still incredibly bottom heavy), while without clothes I'm lumpy as hell.  I HATE it.  :-/  And yeah, I can't do a simple breakfast either.  Right now I usually do an egg white omelet with toast and the BF's mom's homemade jelly, and by the time 11:30am rolls around I'm SO ready for lunch!  My problem with food right now is that as it gets colder, I want comfort food.  Last night we made homemade pizza, which would've been fine if I'd had a slice or two, but I had FOUR.  Ugh.  I wish I could have a better relationship with food, but it seems like it never really gets easy... There are good days and bad days, and I think we just have to roll with them...

Watchme, I'm sorry you had a sucky weekend!  Keep your head up, chica... You'll make it through! :-)

Ana! Welcome back!!! And YAY on the 10s!  Good for you, chica! :-)

Okay, well I'm off to the gym... I'm determined to see 149lbs before Thanksgiving, which means I've got to get off 6lbs in 3 weeks... Definitely doable, but since I haven't seen 2lbs/week loss in almost a year, I have to really step it up, work out hardcore, and not find myself eating like I did last night again...

Have a great evening, everyone! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 29 2009
18:14 (UTC)
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Good morning, ladies!

Fayny, Thanks for the compliments!  :-)  And WOW about the bootcamp!  I'm barely awake enough to figure out how to turn on the coffee maker in the morning, let alone do bootcamp!  That's awesome, chica! :-)

Mladdy, Mexican food is a toughie... Every time you think you're over it, and you can move on with life without sending yearning looks towards someone else's enchiladas for lunch, the craving comes back worse than before!  Really, I think food with benefits (LMAO at that, btw!) is the best way to go!  If you ever do figure out how to make Mexican food less deliciously appealing, PLEASE let me know!!!

Watchme, Thanks! :-)  And please go get some rest!  You'll get back into the groove of weight loss!  There's definitely a light at the end of the tunnel for you!  Hang in there, chica! :-)

Iwill, That's so sweet of you!  Thank you! :-)  And I like your break up line for Mexican food... Although much like with non-food relationships, a few margaritas in, and suddenly the break-up doesn't seem like such a bad idea after all...

Dalma, Even though I'm not supposed to congratulate you, I am anyway, because I know how awesome it feel to fit into a single digit size... It's like unbelievably awesome!  Good for you, chica!   You ROCK!!!! :-) As far as costumes go, it's not really tough to put together something of your own... Usually it's actually easier to wear some combination of your own clothes and get an accessory kit for the "costume" part of it.  One year I was a sailor and I wore a navy pleated skirt, a white button down shirt and a sailor cap... Not fancy, but not expensive, and it works! I will say, though, that Halloween costumes run small BUT usually the "plus size" ones are exactly the same as the SML ones, just larger.  And really, who cares what the tag says?  Only YOU will know what size it is... All everyone else will know is that you'll look fabulous! Go show off those arms, girl! :-)

Akela, You look GORGEOUS!!!  Congratulations, chica! :-D

Akasha, it's still yet to be seen if I'll be able to actually wear these bad boys... Right now, I can get my butt into them, but the zipper makes a v-shape and shows no indication whatsoever of wanting to close.  Who knows what they'll look like or it they'll even fit right once I can actually zip them...

Shapie, Aww!  Thank you!  The funniest thing ever was when I told the BF about Will Sasso and he Googled him, and was like "So THAT'S who that is!  People have been telling me forever that I look like some dude on MadTV, but I had no clue who they were talking about!" Lol!  And I'm so glad the toast and slide show went well! 

So last night I went shopping for Halloween stuff, but since the BF and I are on a strict pre-Christmas budget, I decided to be cheap and get a corset with a broken zipper off the sale rack (it was $25 when it was supposed to be $60!).  It's a 32 and I'm a 36, but I figured I'd just relace it, fix the zipper, and I'd have a great start to my costume.  So I fixed the zipper and relaced it, only to discover that it makes my boobs utterly flat and thus is totally unflattering.  Plus, there's no returns, so I'm stuck with a corset and down $25 on my $40 costume budget. :-(  I'm freaking out because I want to dress up, but now I don't know exactly what I'm going to do... I'm going to Target tonight to wander around for inspiration. *sigh*

On the bright side, I went to the gym last night again, and got in a pretty good work out!  AND I weighed myself and I'm back in the 150s!  156.75lbs to be exact!  I've been firmly ON the wagon all week, and I'm optimistic about making it down to 149lbs by Thanksgiving.  Of course, that means I'll have to watch my eating over Thanksgiving so I don't go back up to the 150s again, but I like to think that I'm up for the challenge! 

Happy Thursday, everyone! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 27 2009
17:09 (UTC)
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Shapie,  I'm glad you had a great time at the wedding!  How did your toast go?  Did you end up shortening it, or did you give the whole thing?  And how's your Halloween costume coming?

Dalma, thanks for the compliments!  I felt fabulous that night, and really, that was the whole idea of getting a new dress... I wanted to FEEL good! I think at any shape/size, it's nice to have a night where you can feel like a princess! :-) And I had no idea who Will Sasso was until just now when I googled him, lol!  You're totally right, though, he DOES look like the BF!  Craziness!  When people ask what he looks like, I have someone to compare him to! :-)

And I would never buy non-stretch jeans, but I inherited them from a friend of mine who was cleaning out her closet and had a bunch of 8s and 6s she wanted to get rid of.  She's the kind of girl who gets a new wardrobe every season, so it's not that they're old, they're just not new enough for her, lol!  In any case, I don't know if I'll ever wear them out anywhere because I also find non-stretch jeans to be binding, but they'll work as an indicator of size.  And knee problems are no joke... You may want to get it looked at, and then talk to a physical therapist or trainer about the best exercises to prevent further injury and strengthen the joint.

And WHOO HOO!!!! on the all size 10 outfit!!!! Good for you, chica!  Post a pic when you can so we can bask in your glorious 10-ness!!!! :-D

Fayny, yeah, it's scary how a little ambivalence can go a long way in setting you back... I didn't gain very much, but I've gotten way out of shape and I definitely FEEL a difference in how my body feels and clothes fit.  It's not fun... You'll get back into the groove!  You can do it!  :-)

Boots, THANKS!!!! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 27 2009
14:09 (UTC)
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Good morning!

Dalma, That would be so cool!  Too bad we live like 1000+ miles apart... I was so stoked about Halloween, and now it's like "eh".  I'm still going out though.  Probably I need to go ahead and pick out a costume, then, huh?  I want to be an old school bat girl (with like a cape and stuff, not like the skin tight leather deal), or I want to be a burlesque dancer, 'cuz why not, you know? And yes, I just posted two pics from the wedding... One of me from the backside, because even though I haven't been gymming it lately, my calves look AWESOME, and the other of me and the BF.  In the end, the dress I got (on sale at Macy's!!! YAY!) was a size 8 which did wonders for my confidence! It's nice to know that even though I've gotten a bit flabbier from not working out, I haven't actually gone up a full size.  It helps, of course, that the skirt was all flowy, but I'll take what I can get!

And wow, I wish I could be tired of food!  Although I've found that the more I work out, the less of a big deal food becomes... Hopefully I'll get your attitude someday, too! :-)

Bzb, wow, sounds like things have been SUPER eventful for you, but in a good way!  I too felt like a cow in HS when I was around 150... I never was a varsity athlete, but I was JV, and played 2 sports... I just wasn't stick thin like everyone else in my school so I felt like a total heifer.  In any case, I'm glad to hear you're doing so well!  :-)

So I went to the gym last night, and realized that 2 months of not going has put me TOTALLY our of shape.  I feel nice and sore this morning, though, and I keep telling myself I'm rebuilding all that muscle I've lost!  I'm aiming for a full size 6 (meaning I can wear 99% of 6s I come across) by my birthday in April.  That used to sound so small, but I really think I can get there now!  Since I was almost an 8 a few months ago, and I'm a solid 10 now, I figure that it's not too much to ask to get down to a 6 as my final size... We'll see, though.  My goal by NYE, though, is to fit into this pair of size 8 non-stretch jeans that are in my closet, that I couldn't fit into before, even though I was an 8 in about half my wardrobe.  That and to finally be able to run 3 miles straight through... That'd be nice, too! :-)

Have a great morning, ladies! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 26 2009
19:54 (UTC)
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Hey ladies! 

Akasha, Congrats on 6 years!  That's amazing!!!  I'm glad you guys had a great time! I'm jumping back on the wagon, too, so don't feel bad for the lapse... It feels good to be back on! :-)

Elf, I have to bring my gym clothes with me too... Otherwise there's always some reason not to go to the gym.  Congrats on the 46lbs lost!  Good for you, chica!

Embalmer, I'm so sorry about being robbed... My boss just got her credit cards stolen twice in the same week, and watching her go through it two times now, I know how much it sucks.  Hang in there! :-/

Iwill, Maybe try plucking the most stray of the stray hairs?  Or try just trimming down any particularly crazy ones?  So long as there's about 1/4 inch, they can still wax/pluck/thread.  I pluck my own, but a few times a year I try to get them done by a professional so I have clean lines to follow the rest of the time, so I know how much it sucks having to watch your brows go all wild kingdom on you.  Try to bear it for a little while longer if you can... It's totally worth it!

Dalma, YAY for boutique clothes and DOUBLE YAY for 10s!  You're SO rocking the weight loss, chica!  Good for you!  And YAY on the license weight matching!  Texas doesn't do weights on their DLs, but my old license said 147lbs, because that was my weight in HS when I got my permit at 15!  Isn't it kinda funny how something as simple as a weight on a DL can make you feel so good? :-)

Mladdy, Who cares if you didn't quite keep up in spin class?!  You did a spin class!  That in and of itself is awesome in my book!  Keep up the great work, chica! :-)

Welcome back BZB!!!! You look great!  Congrats on the 196!!!:-)

Boots, Thanks for the compliment, but I don't know that my cookie eating, beer drinking, non-working out ass even belongs in the same sentence as Dalma!  She's killing it! :-)  And congrats to your hubby for getting the new job!  That's awesome! :-)

Okay, ladies, I'm officially back on the wagon.  I've got my work out gear in my car, and I'm going after work tonight.  I was bad over the weekend with food, but it's okay... I'm logging all my cals today, and I'm excited to get back into my working out, so I'm optimistic about that!  Wish me luck on my first day REALLY back in action! 

On the downside, it looks like I'm going to be partying on Halloween by myself.  Most of my friends either have other commitments (one's son is having surgery a few days before, another is moving, etc.), or are in the industry and working that night.  The BF can't go out with me because we have his daughter that weekend.  I'm totally bummed.  I want to go out because Halloween and New Years are my two favorite holidays, and I love dressing up, and seeing the costumes other people come up with, etc., but I feel weird/lonely going out by myself.  I know if I stay home with the BF and his kid I'm going to be bitter and depressed, and reconnecting with my old party friends is not an option, so I'm going out... I just wish there was someone to go with me... :-(

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 23 2009
16:51 (UTC)
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Dalma, I tried on the dress AGAIN last night and asked the BF what he really thought about it.  His response?  "You look... You look fine!"  Fine?  FINE?  Fine is NOT what I was going for!  It's a little loose on top since I'm so not well endowed up there, and it's a little too snug in the hips... I'm keeping it to wear in case I can't find another one, but since the BF told me I look "fine", he's now volunteered to take me shopping this afternoon to see if we can't find something else.  Not because it looks "bad", he says, just so we find something I feel more comfortable in. *SIGH*

I never get to dress up and go to things, so I really, really want to look HOT!  I want to feel confident and sexy!  And although the dress itself is sexy, I'm afraid me+dress= big, hot mess!

Hair, I'm doing loose waves/curls with the top pulled back and clipped with a cute faux-rhinestone clip or something (haven't bought it yet), and shoes, I'm going basic black peep-toe pumps because they're broken in and I won't end up hopping around or going barefoot by the time the night is over.  Since we're shopping on the way to the wedding (it starts at 5:30pm, and it's 2 hours away... I'm leaving work at 12pm... Last minute much?!), I'm bringing a few jewelry options with me: a string of basic pearls and drop pearl earrings, and simple sliver dangling earrings with a silver necklace of some sort (I've got like 10, so I'll pick one). 

In any case, wish me luck!  I'll post pics at some point regardless of which dress I wear, but I'm REALLY hoping to find one that makes me FEEL gorgeous.

Happy Friday, ladies! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 22 2009
21:33 (UTC)
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Original Post by mladdy:
 I'm pretending the burning sensation in my groin is it's special way of thanking me. Laughing

LMAO!  That killed me!  You're awesome, chica!  I'm SO glad you're back! :-)

Dalma, So I was trying on the dress I bought for the wedding tomorrow for the BF last night, and we got into a whole argument because he thinks it's too plain and I need to accessorize more.  So because I'm totally style challenged, I went and looked at your dress pics for accessorizing ideas.  Looking at it again after having just seen mine, I'm pretty sure that I somehow managed to get the EXACT SAME DRESS!!!!  Wouldn't that be nuts?!  I got mine at TJ Maxx, but it's a London Times dress... Is yours London Times?  In any case, looking at the pics has made me want to go dress shopping again tonight, 'cuz I'm pretty sure there's no way I'll look as good in mine as you do in yours! I'm totally having an attack of jealousy over your hourglass-ness... Can I borrow your body for tomorrow night?  I promise to return it in good condition! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 22 2009
19:20 (UTC)
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Hi ladies!

Dalma, That's an awesome goal!  I know you can make it there, too!  :-)

Mladdy, I'm right there with you on the backsliding... My 10s are getting tight, and any 8s I was fitting in are a no go... I'm definitely planning on being my old size by Thanksgiving! And good for you for joining the Y!  I used to go when I was in HS, and I loved it... It's a great environment!

Iwill, Awesome job on seeing the scale moving in the right direction!  Keep up the good work, chica! :-)

So I finally gave in and weighed myself today, and to my shock, the scale said 158lbs (down from 160 at the beginning of the month)  Now, despite my best intentions, I haven't really done anything to deserve losing those two pounds.  I haven't worked out (I know, I know...) and I've been counting calories sporadically until this week.  Furthermore, my clothes are tighter than they were 2 months ago.  The only thing I can conclude is that I've lost some muscle, and gained some fat.  Which is good and bad, I guess...  It's good as far as my self-esteem goes, because it means I'm not THAT far off where I was a few months ago.  It means I can lose 9lbs, and be in the 140s!  It means that I have less ground to re-do.  It's also good because I've found that on previous occasions when I've slacked off and lost some muscle, I actually drop sizes faster when I go back to weight training, which is always fun!  It's bad, of course, because it's unhealthy, and makes me feel blobby.  And who wants to be less strong?  It's also bad, because I'm starting to have knee problems again, which I'd worked so hard to alleviate through strength training.

On the bright side, I'm incredibly optimistic about my future.  It'll be hard as hell, BUT, I'm thinking that if I become totally focused, I can even be back down to 150lbs by Thanksgiving... And with any luck, I'll hit my goal weight not to far into the new year!  I'd love to say for sure that I'll hit it by NYE, but December is already getting packed with parties and gatherings, so I know that's probably too ambitious.  It'd be nice to hit up the after Christmas sales a few sizes smaller, though...

Happy Thursday! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 21 2009
19:20 (UTC)
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Hi everyone!

Dalma, Thanks for the tough love, lol!  I definitely need it... I've been letting life stuff be an excuse for not taking care of myself, and that needs to stop.  I've been trying to help the BF, but it seems like we're mostly just slowing each other down.  *sigh*  In any case, I know I'm queen of making elaborate plans and then dropping them, but if I don't have some sort of plan or routine, then I'll make excuses for not doing things.  So I'm going to make a new plan... AGAIN.  At least I'm logging calories again...

SIGH...

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 20 2009
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*Slinks back in*

Watchme, thanks for calling me out via Facebook... I SHOULD be back here...

Akela, Congratulations!  I can't wait to see pics!

MLADDY!!!!! YAYYY!!!!  YOU'RE BACK!!!! :-)

All who've been sick: feel better!

Dalma, Looking SOOOO hot, chica!  Good for you!  Actually, funny moment... I went to check out your pic a second ago, and realized that the dress I bought Sunday for this wedding I'm going to Friday is almost exactly the same as the dress you have on in the picture from the wedding you went to a few months (?) ago!  Craziness! :-)

Okay, as for me... I haven't been on a scale in two weeks.  I haven't counted a calorie in probably three.  I haven't been to the gym in two weeks... I feel the weight coming back on, and it feels disgusting.  So, I'm starting AGAIN.  If I can pull myself together, that is.  I ate a 400 calorie brownie last night even thought it wasn't even that good.  My eating is out of control!

I need to recapture my starting spirit from two years ago... Where did that go?

In any case, I hope you all are doing well! 

The Lounge I Caught My Stepson Having Sex. Oct 09 2009
16:43 (UTC)
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I would say ignore the teenagers who think that you're being a big ol' meanie to the poor neglected kid; they haven't experienced being adults yet, so I don't think they can completely understand how difficult it is to feel like you're not in control in your own home.  The bottom line is that you pay the bills, you feed, clothe, and maintain a household for this child, and he doesn't respect you.  Regardless of whether it's "fair" or not for a child to have sex/friends/drugs, it's YOUR house.  It's not fair for you to wonder whether or not you're going to come home to find police there or your belongings missing.  You have a right to determine who enters your home, and what goes on there.

I definitely agree with the other posters who said that you should talk to your husband.  Point out to him that you don't feel safe with the constant parade of drug using people in and out of your house, especially since your belongings go missing, and the kid has been caught in your stuff before.  Even if he's sure his son isn't using harder drugs, it doesn't mean that his friends aren't.  Your husband needs to man up and make sure that you have a safe place to live, and if he doesn't enforce the rules and discipline his son to prevent the behavior, it's going to continue. 

As far as interaction with the kid goes, I read a quote on a step-parents' board that said "Where I have no authority, I will take no responsibility".  If your husband will not allow you to have authority in your home and back you up, take no responsibility for the kid.  I wouldn't do his laundry, cook for him, or help in out in anyway that's not life threatening.  Be cordial and polite, but in a situation like this, I would disengage until your husband decides to allow you authority in your own home. 

In any case, that's my $0.02.  Good luck!

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 06 2009
14:30 (UTC)
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OMFG... Current weight - 160.25lbs.

I swore up and down I'd never be back in the 160s again.  Crap.  I know it's probably not the most accurate since I went the the gym only about 1 hour after dinner, and I did weight training which can cause my muscles to retain water.  Also, it was about 9pm at night, and you're right, Elf, it's not as accurate.  I still never thought I'd see that number on the scale again, and I'm totally bummed about it.

Well, this is a lesson for me... Even when things get crazy and I don't have time to work out, I still need to have a scale and keep track of my weight.  I can't imagine how much more I would've gained if I hadn't been to the gym last night. :-/

On the bright side, the BF went with me, and I think he's really serious about getting healthy this time!  Hopefully working together, we can both really make some progress! 

It just sucks that I'm starting over AGAIN.  You'd think I'd have learned by now... :-/

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 05 2009
22:57 (UTC)
400

Hey ladies!

Weekly - Failed... I just haven't been getting my ass up and moving lately.

Sharing - MET!

Weight... No clue.  I NEED to get to the gym tonight and weigh myself, and if I actually make it, I'll post tomorrow.  I really need to buy my own scale...

Ana, Your classes both sound awesome!  I love finding a great cardio class!  It makes me WANT to work out!

Elf, I'm SO sorry about your grandma!  Hang in there, chica! *hugs*

Dani! Welcome back!  Good to see you! :-)

Dalma, I'm so sorry things have gone south with Jay, but I'm glad you're forming an exit strategy... You deserve WAY more than that sort of treatment!  *hugs*

Sorry for the brief post, ladies... Things have been nuts today, but I'll be back tomorrow!  :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Oct 01 2009
18:43 (UTC)
434

Hi everyone!

Fallon, I get you... I'm a big ol' sap (apparently), and I even think that this season is little too touchy feely. Usually I kind of roll my eyes at the sappy stuff, especially if it seems staged, but the last 10 minutes of that episode just turned on the water works... It was just so sweet and UN-staged.  And YAY for edible arrangements!  Those always look SO cool! :-)

Shapie/Dalma, my friends in both HS and college used to get so annoyed with me for walking around talking in a British (Queen's English, not cockney... Can't do that one!) or French accent... I soooo should've been a drama kid, lol!

Iwill/Boots, I can't imagine having to make friends in a new city... I wouldn't know how!  All my friends now are people I met through people that I met through other people that I knew from school... If I moved and had no starting point I have no clue how I'd make friends!  On top of that, even though I have friends here, I don't see them nearly as often as I wish I did... I think guys are generally more homebodies than women; in my situation, the BF would gladly sit at home every night and only see his friends like once a month.  If I arrange something, he has no problem going, he just doesn't take the effort to.

Akela, Don't stress!  Try to remember it's YOUR day!  (((hugs)))

Dalma, Rock on, chica!!!!  YAY for 12s!!!!!  You're doing SO awesome!!!! :-D  As far as changing your weight goal goes, I think focusing on body fat percentage is actually a bit better... Two people at the same weight can look TOTALLY different depending on bf%, and you never know how the added muscle will make you look.  Maybe try to make it to your original goal, and then after that focus on getting your body fat where you want?  Either way, it's so AWESOME that you're so close!  Good for you! :-)

So I've been eating wonderfully all week... Since Monday I've been under maintenance everyday, and everything I've eaten has been planned and healthy.  I was feeling pretty good!  This morning, though, I woke up to find the BF already up and in the kitchen.  "I made you breakfast!" He says, beaming at me.  "Biscuits!"  Crap.  So we had biscuits for breakfast.  Specifically I had THREE.  I have so much trouble saying no to my boy when he's being cute, and especially when it involves white bread.  Even though they were reduced fat, each one of those suckers had 160 calories!  With reduced sugar jelly, I had about 600 cals for breakfast alone!  To make matters worse, because there was no protein, I was STARVING by 10:30am, and had to eat some carrot sticks to make it through til lunch.  I'm already practically at my calorie goal for the day, and it seems like it's pretty much guaranteed that I'll go over (though still under maintenance).  On top of that, I STILL haven't been to the gym because the BF keeps saying he wants to go with me, so I go home, we have dinner, and then he doesn't want to go.  Once I'm home, I have SO much trouble getting to the gym... When he flakes out, I do too.  So I packed my gym bag in my car this morning, and if he says he doesn't want to go, I'm going straight after work.  I want October to be my month!  :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 30 2009
18:52 (UTC)
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Fallon, I LOVE Biggest Loser!  And YES!  Tracey is completely NUTS!  She's like psycho stalker chick nuts, complete with the crazy eyes!  The kind of person in a horror movie that would be stabbing someone repeatedly but giggling uncontrollably at the same time!  N.U.T.S.  I'm surprised Jillian didn't actually throttle her.  I wanted her to have lost nothing at all so they could send her home, but that wouldn't have been fair to Coach Mo.  I know he wouldn't do it, but if I was him, next week when they go back to eliminating one person from a team, I'd throw the weigh in.  I'd be lazy all week so the purple team would fall below the line, and they could send Tracey's crazy ass home.  But then I'm feeling all assertive and vindicitive today, lol!  On a brighter note, weren't the last 10 minutes just gut wrenching?!  I cried from the minute Shay started talking after the weigh-in, until the credits rolled!  The BF was looking at me like I was an alien being, lol!  Luvs it!  :-)

Watchme, I'm waiting for the journal post too!!!! Double the pressure, now!:-P (j/k)! :-)  In any case, I'm glad you've come to the realization that you need to take care of yourself... You push yourself so hard and spread yourself so thin that you worry me!  Definitely take some "you" time!

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 30 2009
15:38 (UTC)
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Dalma, Good for you!  I totally understand, because that's SO me!  I'd been working so hard to make the BF happy, that I was neglecting myself.  Consequently, I was getting bitter towards him, and I couldn't figure out why I was being bitchy when I really wanted to make him happy... I was becoming someone I didn't like, and definitely NOT the person he fell in love with.  I stressed myself out over stuff and wouldn't talk to him about it so I didn't stress HIM out, or worry him, or upset him.  Screw that.  I'm done with that.  We're supposed to be a team, so I need to be a team player and communicate with him. If he can't handle it, then we won't work out, but it's better to find out NOW than to be miserable and bitter for weeks, months, YEARS only to find out that despite all my attempts, we didn't work out anyway.  I think our guys like us better when we're happy, anyway.  I, personally, think that the BF will be WAY happier having to get off his ass and do some stuff for himself, face the realities of things that bother me, and deal without getting his way sometime, but have a happy, loving girlfriend who does things because she wants to, not because she feels like she HAS to, than when he was being catered to 24/7, not being told about the hard stuff, and getting what he wanted all the time, but dealing with a resentful, unhappy woman.  And even if he ISN'T happier, I AM, so he'll have to deal. :-P

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 30 2009
15:04 (UTC)
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Hey ladies!

I forgot to say on Monday that I met the book challenge for the month... I'll weigh in tonight and get back to ya'll tomorrow morning, first thing.

Sweepie, OMG, you look AMAZING!  Congratulations, chica! :-)

Dalma, Are you freaking kidding me?!  He said THAT! The one seemingly universal male trait that I hate more than anything is cockiness.  Combined with and obvious lack of support just makes him seem like an uber-dickhead.  YAY on getting carded, though!  I haven't been carded in FOREVER... I never thought I'd look forward to it, lol!

Akela, the BF is like your dude... He thinks I'm kinda silly and dumb for the stuff I do (like going through the effort to separate egg whites for my omelet in the morning, or having to ice, stretch and weight train in a certain way just so I can continue running without hurting my knees), but he's overall very supportive.  I do wonder, though, if the "liking me the way I am" attitude is almost more harmful than Jay's cocky "You won't make it" attitude... I don't know about you, but I'm more prone to justify treating myself a little more often than I should, whereas if the BF EVER said anything like Dalma's dude did, I'm so stubborn and I'd be so pissed, that I'd eat like a damn saint, lol!

Iliketoast, My guy is also pretty big, and I think he thinks that too... That I'll want to ditch him for a gym guy or something once I'm done losing weight.  Part of me is like, "you're being dumb, and offensive!  1) I'm with you because I love you, and 2) Do you really think I'm that shallow?!"  The other part of me is thinking, "Wait a second, are you thinking that because that's what you'd do to me if you lost weight?!" So he's learned to stop saying stuff like that for the most part since it gets me on a rant, lol!

Shapie, oooh, good insight on the Jay situation!  I'd never considered that he might be doing it on purpose!  Let's hope that's the case.  And hey, good luck at the gym! And I LOVE the idea of being Jessica Rabbit!  I always say that my idols growing up were She-ra, Vanna White and Jessica Rabbit, lol!  I would totally jack your idea too, if I didn't think I'd look heinous with red hair!  :-)

Sharing Challenge: I liked the book, although I don't know that I'd read it again (which is my test for true book likeability).  I saw a lot of my experiences mirrored in Shauna's, especially the obsessiveness about numbers and the scale (I too have a spreadsheet!), and all the fat girl life-isms... The way she would work her life around the fat.  I used to do a lot of that. Towards the end of the book, her story really resonated with me: I appreciated that she, like me, took years to get to her goal, and that towards the end the actual goal she had for herself changed from being a magic number (complete with the streamers, confetti and tiara!) to being a state of being/mind... Her conclusions for the whole journey really touched me, and is honestly where I'd like to end up, mentally.  Probably my favorite take-away point was that the process of losing weight was less about the fat, and more about the process of learning to love herself... Which is why the things that she originally planned to do once she got skinny, ended up happening on the way. 

Weekly Challenge: I don't know if it counts, but the BF and I walked to the dog park yesterday with our puppy, and walked back.  It's not exactly wacky, but it's definitely something we'd never done before...

Okay, so I've been doing some soul searching the past few days, thinking about what I want out of life, and out of myself.  Dalma, your words about some of the reasons why I've stalled out weight loss wise hit me like a rock between the eyes.  I thought I was over the "being afraid of the goal" phase of weight loss, since I too hit it around 199lbs, but that's exactly where I am/was.  Like Shauna said, once the fat is gone, I can't blame my problems on it any more... I have to face ME.  Secondly, it means being selfish, which is something that I'm typically very uncomfortable doing.  I'm one of those pleaser, "I'd rather be miserable and make someone else happy" sort of chicks.  But doing that, I ended up being bitter and resentful in a lot of different areas of my life.  So I'm going to try being selfish for a bit.  I'm worried that I'll swing too far the other direction and become TOO selfish, but I'm hoping that the people I love in my life will bear with me, and gently check me if my behavior gets out of line.  So given that, I'm GOING to hit my weight goal by the end of the year.  I know this sounds sort of hypocritical since I was just lauding Shauna's state of mind regarding weight loss and the journey not being just a number on the scale, but I NEED to get there.  I'm so good at starting stuff and not finishing them, that I feel like if I don't get there, I won't have achieved my major goal which is a renewed confidence in myself.  I've been afraid to try things for so long because I was afraid of failing... And if I just don't finish, then I can't fail, right?  I need to prove to myself that I'm capable of setting a goal, going after it, and succeeding.

Okay, done, ranting now... I'll check in with my final September weigh in tomorrow morning.

Happy Wednesday, ladies! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 28 2009
14:41 (UTC)
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Hi everyone...

So last week, despite my intentions, I ended up just giving up.  I didn't count calories, I ate whatever I wanted to, and I didn't blink at it. I feel GROSS.  I feel FAT.  I'm mad at myself for totally giving up and not doing what I'm supposed to do.  On top of that, since the BF and I have been enabling each other, he's gained weight too, and is starting to get really upset about it.  This has to stop.  As I was reading the challenge book, I saw SO much of myself in Shauna... And it made me feel better to know that some people take a really long time to get there too.  I get bitter sometimes when I think of all the people who lose 80-100lbs in like a year, and they're just done.  I've been working at this for almost two years, and still fall off the wagon like crazy.

In any case, I'm done rambling... Just wanted to say hi, and I'm truly trying to get back on track.  I want to see my goal weight SO badly... Encouraging words would be wonderful!  I'm going to the gym tonight for the first time in a month, and I'll weigh myself for the first time in a few weeks, so I'm anticipating being sore and really bummed tomorrow...

Watchme, (((hugs)))  All I can say is I'm so sorry, chica.  Men are a-holes.  (((hugs again)))

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 18 2009
21:46 (UTC)
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Fallon, oooh, I love football boys!  And ya'll are totally a cute couple!  And he cooks too?!  Totally a keeper!  Luvs it! :-)

Akela, Good for you for sticking to your cals this week!  That's awesome! I wish I could do the big breakfast thing...  I'm a night eater, though, and no matter what I try, I end up eating the same number of cals at night whether my breakfast was big or small.  Keep up the good work, chica! :-)

Dalma, timelines, and more importantly DEADLINES are key to sanity.  You get a light at the end of the tunnel to look forward to!  Good luck with getting her to move out!  Oh, and also, make SURE to mention that one of the reasons you're giving her until January is so that she has time to save up money for deposits, etc... This accomplishes the dual goals of you guys exhibiting some concern for her, so she shouldn't, like, burn down the house or something in a rage, and also allows you guys to be hardasses if she tries to pull the "I just don't have the money to move out right now," deal when January rolls around.  If it sounds like I've thought this sitch through a few times, it's only because I have!  Lol! :-) 

And re: the BF... It's not that we're going through a rough patch necessarily, it's that I'M going through a rough patch with some things he does/did.  I haven't really communicated much to him, so he doesn't know that I've been stressing.  I like to really think things through before I confront someone with something, so while in my head my initial reaction is an expletive-laced tirade, what he gets (a week later) is a calm, "hey babe, so I was thinking..." with a list of solutions/plans or dealing with things.  So as not to get into the whole long story (ies), there was the stress of work and stress about school/the future on top of the stress of the move, money issues, issues with sharing household duties, me trying to figure out my role with his daughter, and right before the move I had a very short pregnancy scare (didn't even mention to him).  So the last few weeks have been kinda hellacious.  I've been questioning myself and him, and keeping it all inside... Actually exercise probably would've really helped a lot... *shrugs* Anyway, I'm starting to feel a bit better now, so I'm trying to cut out my bad behaviors again.

Akasha, Dalma's sooo right about the junior's sizes... I saved a lot of my cute clothes from back then, and a lot of the ones that are still kinda in style, fit weird.  For instance, today I'm wearing my 10 jeans, but two days ago I was wearing my 13s from high school, and although they both fit in the hip, the waist on the 13s is too loose.  So even though it's the same body, apparently my curves have changed from when I was 17.  Which is funny, because back then I thought that I was curvy and everyone I went to school with was a stick figure... Who'd have thought 1) I apparently wasn't that curvy, and 2) I would get curvier as time went on?  Craziness!

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 18 2009
14:47 (UTC)
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*slinks back in*

Hi ladies...

Dalma, Maybe try discussing a timeline with Jay?  It's one thing to say that he wants her out, it's another for him to say, "she's going to be out in 2 months", or something along those lines.  I've found that when the BF is being a non-confrontational puss about something, if I suggest firm deadlines, he'll man-up a bit... Just a thought.  Awesome that he's on your side, thoug!

FALLON!!!! Welcome back, chica!  Glad to hear you're doing well!  Tell us more about this guy!  I'm dying to hear!!!

Boots, I'm sorry the roomie thing didn't work out, but I'm glad he's leaving with some haste... It's worse for everyone when they stick around for too long!

Okay, so I'm back for real now.  I've not just fallen off the wagon, I've been run over by it.  I've been stressed about a bunch of stuff lately, and I found myself eating my feelings. I had 5 cookies yesterday, then Whataburger for dinner, and that's on the light side for how I've been eating for the past two weeks.  I just kind of gave up for a while.  Between work, stress over school, and stress in my relationship, I've been at my wits end.  I can't really talk to the BF about some of the stuff because I don't think he'd understand some of it, and the rest of it is ABOUT him...  *sigh* But I do know that gaining back a ton of weight WON'T make me feel better at all.  I haven't weighed myself since Wednesday, but I'm creeping back up on 160lbs, and after over 1.5 years of this process, you'd think I'd be better than to let it pack back on.

In any case, my goal for next week is to drop by and check in at least once a day... I do better when I'm talking to you guys on a regular basis.

sharing challenge: I don't eat milk in my cereal; I drink a glass of milk on the side, but I hate the way it makes cereal all mushy.  Plus it seems like a waste of milk, so I eat my cereal dry.  I'm also weird on texture, which is why I don't eat tofu.  I also hate anything that's mushy and hard/lumpy at the same time, like tapioca.  I LOVE onions, and really would eat them in every meal if I could.  I'm sure there's other weird things I do that I can't think of right now... Maybe I'll ask the BF, lol!  He always seems to notice those things! :-)

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 11 2009
20:59 (UTC)
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Hi ladies...

Once again I've been MIA... Sorry, team. :-(

The BF's dad was in the hospital so between moving, work and that, I've been running myself ragged.

Despite that, my weight's back up to 154lbs because I've been eating out almost every meal for the last week. Sorry to be a downer, but I'm feeling pretty bummed and hopeless right now about weight loss.  Maybe Monday my spirits will be up. :-/

Sharing challenge: My biggest excuse is always a time-related thing.  I would go to the gym, but I left work 15 minutes late, so I wouldn't be home from the gym until 8pm, and then I wouldn't have time to cook dinner, and it would eat up the whole evening... Or the ever popular, "I'm just too tired today".

I'll be back Monday with (hopefully) a better outlook on life/weight loss, and actual comments for everyone.

Have a great weekend, ladies!

Motivation Girls in their 20's who want to lose about 100 pounds Sep 01 2009
15:31 (UTC)
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Hey ladies...

Moving is going well!  We've moved all the BF's stuff out of storage, and my stuff is about half packed.  We have to have everything in my place packed and ready to go for Friday when the BF's dad and brother come to help us move all of it, so this week is all about boxing, boxing and more boxing.  On the plus side, I'm more in love with new place every time I stop by! 

I'll try to pop in later this afternoon and comment on everyone's posts, but I really just wanted to come post my August weight...

August 1 weight: 156.5lbs

August 31 weight: 152lbs

So I'm down 4.5lbs.  Not nearly as impressive as all you super stars with -8-10lbs for the month, but moving in the right direction!

Happy Tuesday, ladies! :-)

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