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The Lounge My religion class is making me question my religion Oct 14 2009
16:15 (UTC)
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I was raised in a Baptist Church and accepted Christ in 4th grade (I think).  Having a relationship with God through Jesus is what I was taught all my life and I still believe that.  What is sad is from my childhood until I turned 24 my "relationship" was based on sermons from our preacher or what I HEARD about God from other people.  I prayed regularly but ultimately my knowledge of God, His character, and living for Him was based on others' beliefs.  I generally give the illustration of trying to tell describe what chocolate tastes like to someone who has never tasted it.  Whatever words I choose to accurately describe it, that person will not have a true understanding of what chocolate is like, much less what chocolate will taste like to THEM.  At 24 I started reading the Bible with a skeptical eye.  I was beginning to think that 2/3 of the New Testament was written by one man (Paul) and we were basically worshiping him.  I started with Matthew, the first book in the New Testament because if I was going to believe in this Jesus guy, I needed to find out what He was really like and not what everyone had told me.  I was blown away by what I read!  The next year was probably the pinnacle of my spiritual life.

I say all that to get to this....It's not wrong to question God and be a skeptic.  Actually, as someone else has stated, I encourage it!  But go to the source!  Read some of the Bible with an open mind and see what God can do.  See who He is, and maybe more importantly, who He ISN'T!!!  He gets SUCH a bad rap because of bungholes who CLAIM to be believers and do some of the worst things you can imagine.  It's not God's fault!!!  Anyway, to whoever, I hope you question God and hope you check him out for real...and not what everyone else says He is.

Good luck!!

The Lounge Team Awesome Headquarters Feb 18 2009
17:55 (UTC)
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Original Post by missy81:

oh yes, a female dog haha

test: bitching

 

Is that like dogging it?

The Lounge "Diva" - Beyonce Feb 05 2009
20:49 (UTC)
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I like about half of her stuff.

The Lounge Team Awesome Headquarters Feb 05 2009
20:48 (UTC)
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cyber break dancing.....interesting.

Games & Challenges Word association Feb 05 2009
20:06 (UTC)
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flushy

Games & Challenges Return of the Questions Only Game Feb 05 2009
20:05 (UTC)
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Do I look scared?

Games & Challenges Word association Feb 05 2009
14:17 (UTC)
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Kate

Games & Challenges Word association Feb 05 2009
03:41 (UTC)
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chuck

Games & Challenges Return of the Questions Only Game Feb 05 2009
03:33 (UTC)
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So what time should I pick you up?

The Lounge I need uglier friends... Feb 05 2009
03:00 (UTC)
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See, I think that's a misconception.  Most guys definitely factor personality into things (along with mojo)....unless they're only looking for a certain thing.

 

The Lounge Does everyone have facebook? .... Feb 05 2009
02:32 (UTC)
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Original Post by loriklorik:

So, i dodged the entire facebook / myspace thing (maybe im getting old?) ... but i keep seeing people my age or older talking about their facebook / myspace!

Does everyone have this? Or are there still people like me who just dont get it / need it?

Tons of people are on both......I just haven't gotten around to it yet.....even though I know I should.

 

The Lounge I need uglier friends... Feb 05 2009
02:10 (UTC)
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Just have your friend pick a guy with a good wingman!

 

The Lounge Sex Feb 05 2009
01:46 (UTC)
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heard a rule one time in regards to intamacy partners....it's the rule of 2..

 

take the number of partners a guy admits to having and DIVIDE by 2.

take the number of partners a girl admits to having and MULTIPY by 2

 

seems kinda accurate to me!

The Lounge F My Life Feb 05 2009
01:41 (UTC)
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Interesting.

Fitness Only Classes? Mar 27 2008
20:28 (UTC)
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Don't tell me that!!!!!!  Great!  There went MY weekend plans!!!

Weight Loss Too fast? Feb 28 2008
19:47 (UTC)
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Another guy here......If you're eating healthy, then I think you should be ok.  Just don't starve yourself to get that drastic weight loss. 
Fitness getting cut Feb 26 2008
15:40 (UTC)
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So you don't do any weights during that 8 weeks?
Fitness embarresed Feb 26 2008
13:39 (UTC)
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The first thing I learned, and maybe the most important, is to go to the gym for you.  I was a really small guy trying to bench press 80 lbs (which was a really small amount) when I started.  No one laughed at me, which is what I was the most terrified of, and I found I wasn't the worst one there!  Even if I would have been, people would had been proud of me for trying, which is all you can really do.  After a time or two, you'll be in a routine and your fears will be gone!  Good luck!!
Fitness How to avoid muscle loss when doing endurance training at a calorie deficit Feb 25 2008
15:43 (UTC)
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Would this same line of thinking go into weight lifting for weight loss? 
Foods What was breakfast today (2/20/08)? Feb 22 2008
19:51 (UTC)
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Water

4 slices of turkey breast

1-apple

Fitness how to lose body fat without losing any more weight?? Feb 21 2008
17:31 (UTC)
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Mach, I seem to be in a similar situation as you were in.  I'm about 195 but my body fat is waaay too high for my tastes.  (I haven't gotten it measured)  What does your diet look like?  Excluding supplements, what do you eat for protein?  What's your target for fat grams?  How many carbs are you taking in?  Thanks. 
Foods What was breakfast today (2/20/08)? Feb 20 2008
22:18 (UTC)
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A banana

orange juice

4 slices of turkey

Foods Campbells Soup sodium Feb 19 2008
17:32 (UTC)
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I'm eating soup for lunch every day.  The calorie count is perfect.  I've never understood the big deal with sodium.  Ignorance I suppose.
Fitness Calorie intake for gaining muscle mass Feb 19 2008
17:08 (UTC)
Very interesting thread.  I've never been big on the diet side of my workouts but that's changing slowly.  Thanks guys.
New Members New.. looking for help? :( Feb 19 2008
16:49 (UTC)
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Do you like nuts or beans?  Those have protein and aren't meat.  Just a thought.
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