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Fitness Anyone else in love with Winsor Pilates? Mar 25 2008
00:29 (UTC)
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I love Pilates.  I try to do it twice a week (one hour class at Y).  I don't know that I get the benefits of cardio or the benefits of heavy weight training, but I feel like it keeps me centered and more limber than I feel when I don't take it.  I also feel like it really has helped keep, in particular, my back and hamstrings looser/longer than they would be otherwise and makes an excellent kinder/gentler counter to the "abuse" of running!   Have fun with it, and, if you find it is your thing -- keep at it!  Most of all - Enjoy! 

Take care,

Zoelda

Fitness Advice on building strength for pullups/pushups Mar 24 2008
18:07 (UTC)

Stumpuous site just rules.  THANK YOU for this reference.  I appreciate it tremendously.  I love Krista! 

Thanks again,

Zoelda

Fitness blurry vision? Mar 21 2008
21:18 (UTC)
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I have had blurry vision/weird spots of color in my vision twice over the past couple of years, but no pain, no dizziness, etc. twice.  Both times were after long runs (20 miles) during marathon training.   I made some inquiries, and I was told (though I do not know if it is true) that this was due to inadequate hydration on the run -- it was summer and I did go through a 50oz Camelbak with AminoVital on the runs and a couple of gel packs, but I sweat a LOT, so might be accurate. 

Take care,
Zoelda

Pregnancy & Parenting Breastfeeding mom looking for buddies Mar 21 2008
12:07 (UTC)
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Breastfeeding does help you lose weight, however, many women say that their bodies will not release that last 5-10 pounds while they are actively nursing.  For those of us who were breast feeding (myself included) I was certainly able to lose about 50 pounds while nursing the first time and about 32 pounds while nursing the second time (I did not gain as much weight with my second pregnancy).   Oh, and, when I say weight gain, I'm not talking weight WITH baby.  I'm talking the number on the scale TWO WEEKS after the birth of the baby!  The REAL weight gain! 

Nursing also helps with getting your uterus to contract -- meaning in the first few weeks it will help you deflate to normal down there more quickly. 

You don't need to breastfeed to lose weight, and the whole losing weight faster than so-and-so because she breast fed is a horrible mind game to start with yourself.  You are not a failure because you are not breastfeeding.  Grieve about it, but realize you have a healthy baby and start enjoying your blessing. 

I sympathize with you -- veryberrybagel -- it often seems like all my friends lose weight when change (positive or negative) happens in their lives.  And, me, every time the wind blows a little bit -- I'm eating and gaining.  I'm still locked in this struggle myself, so my advice comes not from personal victory but from being in the trench on this thing with you, but the only thing that I've found helps is realizing that the eating/weight is a symptom for me and not the problem.  My problems -- or at least some of them -- are how I deal with stress, issues with entitlement and feeling like I'm owed something and darn it I should be able to eat whatever I want because I want it and issues with rules applying to little old me and not being good at sitting home dealing with kids when I would rather be (guilt, guilt, guilt) working and can't wait until everyone is in school and I can go be a grown up again and not have to deal with diapers and car seats, etc.   So, more info about me than you want, but my point is... that when I treat my eating as my problem I do not get anywhere, but when I see the weight/eating as a symptom of something else that is wrong, I can sometimes make a little headway in the battle.  

I know it is hard, but the more you look at others and wonder why you aren't like them, the harder it will be for you.   I was around 215 pounds after my first child.  I did get down to 135-140ish and stayed there for just over 3 years before getting pregnant and miscarrying (I gained a little weight for obvious emotional reasons there) and I was about 148 when I got pregnant again with our second&third child (twins).  I was 185 pounds after that pregnancy (I was actually over 210 right before I delivered, but I was 185 two weeks after and I am now back in the battle of the last 15 pounds or so to get to my prepregnany weight.   My friends -- they lose their baby weight in 6-8 months.  Me -- it took me TWO YEARS to lose 35 pounds and, hell, I was nursing twins -- so it ain't just the breastfeeding that will or won't help you lose that weight!  I am now hovering there and just can't make headway.  I'm hoping journaling all my food will help me make some progress with this stuff.  

I am an eater.  I know -- and not to offend anyone -- but reading about some of the gals on here who have "difficulty" eating 900-1200 calories a day because that is just "so much food" actually makes me want to eat more!  I don't know WHY I feel this way!  Wink

If you can find a way to fit ANY exercise into your life if you are not already, do it.  Exercise is the only thing I have found that helps me deal with some of my nervous energy/emotional energy besides food.   It takes the edge off some of my more self-destructive behavior (eating mainly). 

I'm blathering, sorry, but your post touched me because I have spent (and still waste) a lot of time and energy feeling the same way about the general issues -- failure/friends all thin/all I do is eat and get bigger, etc. 

Hope this helps in some way.

Zoelda

Fitness How much weight should I be lifting? Mar 20 2008
23:59 (UTC)

Spirochete,

Interesting about the bicep curls.  If I leave an exercise out of group class it has usually been those because I didn't feel them that necessary given the other things we were doing.  Bicep curls are one of those exercises though that if I didn't do for a few classes with the group, they would say "we need to do bicep curls, why no bicep curls" and I always just figured since every bloody Cathe Friedrich video I owned and every other video that I've ever had had bicep curls that they were a "good exercise" and, honestly, I never even thought to question the efficacy of bicep curls.  

So, I appreciate your post, because it made me do some reading online and gather some other opinions about a move I've always taken for granted. 

Appreciate it!  Thanks!

Zoelda

Fitness All you RUNNERS: Is this distance too far to maintain for a longer period of time? Mar 20 2008
19:33 (UTC)
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I have spent plenty of time on treadmills, so I sympathize wholeheartedly with you there! 

There are some excellent training programs out there that you can customize to fit your schedule and training requirements.  If you are staying at the 6-mile mark for awhile, then I would make sure you start playing with tempo and hill climbs (take advantage of that incline feature) to get the most bang for your buck with your workouts.  As soon as you can get outside, get with a group or stand it on the treadmill -- increase your distances. 

Locally, I have friends that are solid half-marathoners for fun.  They see the 13.1 miles as their longest day out.  I also have friends that are marathoners, so they generally approach doing half-marathons as a "shorter" but "faster" long run in their schedules.  If you are used to doing the occasional 15 or 16 miler, the 13.1 feels like a little shorter day out!  I know, it is hard to believe the 13.1 can feel like "just a short run!"   Laughing

The sooner you get comfortable with longer distance runs, the easier time you will have on the day of your race.  Get a training schedule though.  Having a schedule is at least 75-80% of the battle.  Kind of like writing down food on Calorie Counter -- just writing it down helps TREMENDOUSLY.   Once you have your schedule, just do the workouts and you will be ready for your race.  Best of luck and can't wait to hear about your race day this Fall!   

Take care,
Zoelda

Fitness How much weight should I be lifting? Mar 20 2008
19:22 (UTC)
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When you first start lifting, you will have some trial and error as you figure out your max capacity for a given routine.  About.com has some wonderful "pre-fab" workouts with pictures of the exercises and form pointers. 

Form is everything.  Make the mind/body connection between the muscle and the move.  You will get more bang for your buck.

Once you feel you KNOW the form and have it correct, then start to add weights.

Your weights will change depending on what you are doing -- so what I generally recommend is picking a solid little workout to start with.  Try and make sure you hit all the major muscle groups:

Lower body: Glutes, quads, hamstrings, calves, abductors and adductors.

Upper body:  Chest, back, shoulders, triceps, biceps.

Core: Back and abs

If you are just starting, don't overwhelm yourself.  If you are going to do all your weights 1 or 2 days a week, then start out by picking ONE exercise for each muscle group and writing down a little routine for yourself. 

Lower body workout:  Dumbbell Squats, step ups or lunges, dead lifts, calf raises, side-to-sides (with band), plie squats.  

Upper body workout:  Pushups, pec flys and/or chest presses, back rows, overhead rows, lat raises, tricep dips or overhead tricep presses or kickbacks and, of course, bicep curls -- regular and hammer style.

Core:  Work on holding plank position on your elbows.  Try to work up to 2-3 minutes.  Abs:  Quickie routine we call the Pilates 200 which consists of doing the infamous Pilates "100" and then going into (I do not know officially what these are called) the Pilates leg extensions (sort of like bicycle move except you alternate between leg extensions and leg extensions with slight side-to-side (more like bicycle except without momentum).  Do 10 each way for 5 sets (i.e. another 100).  This is usually PLENTY and will require working up to for sure, so do not feel overwhelmed. 

Back to amount of weight.   Write down what your workout goal is... list exercises and list how many sets you are going to try for.  First time might be one set of 12-15 reps.  Realize that you can probably go heavier than you think with some of the leg exercises if your form is good.  Keeping in mind that if you have ever dashed up the stairs to get the phone while carrying a couple of packages -- your legs are incredibly, incredibly strong and it takes a good deal to truly exhaust these muscles.   Your arms, particularly after pre-fatiguing with pushups -- will be much easier to exhaust. 

Write down what weights you use.  Write down how tired you were.  If you could not get to 1 set of 15 reps, drop the weight.  If you feel fit enough to start with two sets of 12-15 reps, by all means -- go for it.  Work up to 3 sets.  Once you get to 3 sets, time to start experimenting.  Increase weights.  Change exercises.  Etc.   Think of lifting weights in 4-6 week cycles, so every 4-6 weeks evaluate where you are and play with your program.  

Your body will get used to whatever you to do it, so you always need to change things up to keep getting good results.  Surprise yourself.  Have fun.  Get strong! 

Take care,
Zoelda

Fitness Polar Heart Rate Monitor... Mar 19 2008
01:20 (UTC)
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 Smile

After I had my last kids (twin boys), I was huge -- like a D chest at least according to the measurement/fit guides at TitleNine.  I used their Frog Bras (for when you want to leap without bouncing) for a long time because with nursing I needed all the compression I could get.  They were great, BUT, they also did not finish the seaming the way some of my other bras have it done, so if I forgot to coat above my breasts, all along the below the breast band and my underarm area with BodyGlide and I ran longer than 10 miles (marathon training, so I was running longer than 10 miles pretty regularly), I was cut.  At this point, I was down to about a B cup, so it wasn't just those temporarily huge boobs!  The worst I ever got was a 1/2 marathon in the rain.  It looked like someone had taken a strap to my back.  Huge, bloody raised thing going completely across.  Hurt like a monster getting in the shower post-run.  The run was nothing compared to the shower!  I don't know if I just have baby bottom sensitive skin or what, but needless to say the idea of cramming an HRstrap in those areas was NOT going to happen.   I'm still about a B-cup, on the small side, but I tend to like more compression from my bras.   My favorite bra right now is Moving Comfort's Dori.  I have been able to wear those WITHOUT BodyGlide and not rip my skin open -- big selling point for me!  Smile

I have not tried the Polar Bra though, so I can't comment yay or nay on it.

 

Weight Loss The allowance tool should be shot and buried! Mar 19 2008
00:32 (UTC)
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Just a thought on some things -- I've seen a lot of people complain about calories, amount of calorie deficits and time and such.  Cutting back 300 calories may not get me anywhere quickly, but, you figure, if I exercise regularly, cut back 250-300 calories a day and be consistent, then over 6 months I would lose about 15 pounds.  Sure, that's SLOW, but, when you figure that when I cut back 1000 calories a day, I end up binging, tired and spend 6 months gaining and losing the same 5 pounds -- WOULDN'T I HAVE DONE BETTER JUST STICKING TO A MANAGEABLE 250 calorie deficit?!!?!?   I'm not any farther along by cutting more, just more yo-yo effect and more frustration.  So, I'm giving up on the TIME, TIME, TIME thing.  I have to lose 15 pounds by May 1st, blah, blah, blah.  I'd rather lose 15 pounds by September and keep it off than spend the whole summer hating myself and going through the roller coaster of success/failure/success/failure.   Gearing up and getting all calorie cutting bad-ass has not worked, so maybe it is time for a kinder, gentler approach! 

 

Fitness Polar Heart Rate Monitor... Mar 18 2008
23:27 (UTC)
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If you have chafing issues from the heart rate monitor strap, you might want to try these new sport bras from Numetrex.   They allow you to put the transmitter right in your bra and the fabric acts as a transmitter.  They are supposed to be coming out with a more supportive model.  I have one of them and have really enjoyed using in for Spin classes (where I don't need as much support as I do running).  I am hoping the more supportive model comes out soon, because I get chafed SO BADLY from having to try and wear a chest strap with my sports bra.  Not cheap, but worthwhile so far. 

Zoelda

Fitness How Do We Dispell the "Pink Dumbell Theory"? Mar 18 2008
23:18 (UTC)
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Well, I'm a fat but fit gal who has the dubious position of getting to help others with their workouts as a volunteer instructor, and I go through this all the time with encouraging women to pick up heavier weights.  One of my oft repeated qutoes is "I know you carry more weight when you drag all those grocery bags up the stairs in one trip, so, you know what, you can pick up 15s or 20s for step ups!"  Etc.   And, yes, there is a tremendous fear of bulking and there is also a desire to disconnect.  Lifting weights is hard... painful -- in a good way -- but when you are forcing yourself to hit those last two reps -- it SUCKS.   Lighter aerobics, running at a comfortable pace, the elliptical, whatever, you can almost escape from yourself.  Pilates, weights -- you are stuck there focusing on the muscles and working your body.  Quality work generally is only going to occur if you make the mind/body connections strong too.  You can't force people to change.  You can be proud of them for where they are at... and go from there.  I find in a group setting, I've been able to encourage individuals in the class to take up heavier weights and when the gals see "one of their own" doing it, and not just the instructor, they think -- heck, I can do that... and gradually they start to try for more poundage.  Peer pressure in a good way!   I started bringing and using 20s and 25s in class (for some things) just to up the ante, so now I've got at least two people using 15s who never went above 10 before.   Good stuff! 

Pregnancy & Parenting Breastfeeding mom looking for buddies Mar 14 2008
22:43 (UTC)
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Congrats on being a breastfeeding mom!  I breast fed all my kids (three of them) and just finished up with our twin boys over Christmas.   Well, actually, one weaned right around his second birthday in October and the other a couple months later during the holidays. 

You can work out, eat right, lose weight AND breast feed... especially with your little one being in the 15-month range.  You probably won't be able to do any 3-4 pound a week crash dieting, but that isn't what this is all about anyways, right? 

If you reduce your calories by no more than about 400 to 500/day and exercise, it won't be fast, but it will happen. 

I am NO jock or anything.  I was in the best shape from a physical fitness standpoint of my life (so far) when I got pregnant with the twins, and I was healthy (had boys full term with midwife) during the pregnancy, but I could NOT work out while pregnant.  It was too much for me. 

I started working out again when the boys were about 8 months old, and I ran a marathon on their second birthday -- all while being a breastfeeding mom.  

So, enjoy your baby, enjoy what you are able to give your baby by being a breastfeeding mom and go for it! 

Best,
Zoelda

Fitness how best to avoid being eaten if a scary dog rushes you? Mar 13 2008
23:41 (UTC)
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There is a big difference in how to handle a dog when you are out without a dog of your own and when you have a dog with you.

When you are alone, you can carry pepper spray as an emergency measure.  The problem with pepper spray when you are running/walking with your own dog is that the chances of you only spraying the "problem" dog are not very good. 

When I am alone, I stop running.  Dogs are prey animals.  They LOVE a good chase.  When you stop running, you remove the thrill of the chase.  I will stop and allow the dog to sniff me.  For most dogs, they sniff.  You walk away.  It's over.  If a dog seems a bit aggressive, I will turn sideways and avert my eyes.  This is a submissive posture and many dogs will recognize it as such.  Again, they sniff and walk away.  This technique seems to eliminate the nips/bites caused by excited chaser type dogs but will not necessarily truly aggressive animals.  If you are on foot and encounter a TRULY AGGRESSIVE animal, well, that, my friends is a different beastie and a VERY scary situation.  A truly aggressive animal will not bite once.  They will bite multiple times.  They will attack you, so you need to be able to counter the attack, surprise them (with pepper spray) or even use an object to deter/fend them off.   Fortunately, these are VERY, VERY rare.  Most of the bites that happen are single bites caused by an excited animal and not an animal that is a real threat -- though, yes, a big dog's bite can cause a good bit of damage and an excited big dog can seem like an aggressive and scary monster! 

When your dog is leashed and a loose dog runs up to you -- then it gets complicated and we get into all kinds of issues.  My situation has always been that my dogs will absolutely not tolerate having a dog run up to them.  They are not aggressive animals, but they are dominant and have a low tolerance for what they perceive as disrespect.   What I usually do to simplify my life is I bring my dog(s) into a close heel and tell them "on by" and we keep moving.   On foot, this can be tricky.   But, I keep my head up, dog(s) at my side in heel, commanding voice "on by, "on by" and we just keep moving.   Usually the other dog will still try and go for the butt sniff, and I simply keep my dogs focused with "on by" and we keep moving and it ends there as we go away.   If the dog follows us, I will sometimes turn and try to keep my dogs behind me so that I am in front and in charge and I will try to make it clear that the other dog needs to back off.  If the dog is really looking for a problem and takes it beyond that as we are moving away, unfortunately, we will probably have a fight.  Fortunately, the fights we have had (maybe 3 or 4 in thirteen years here), well, my guys won them and the other dogs no longer come anywhere near us.  

Respect is sometimes hard-won, ay? 

Take care,
Zoelda

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