Posts by heartcare

pretty the question you have to ask yourself is 'what do i deserve, do i deserve better than this man'. If your answer is yes then you know it is your gut feeling trying to tell you whats right for your mental health and wellbeing. if your answer is no then it shows how much turmoil your mind is in at the moment, so many women (like his other baby's mom) settle for loser guys simply because they are the father of their child. it may seem ideal but in reality it isnt, it will just waste years and years of your life thinking everything will one day be all good and one day you will both be content and happy. the guy is lying about his ex gf, i could bet my house on it. she is that desperate to cling onto him she is most definately 'offering' him something to keep him there, other than money and a roof over his head, and he knows it! otherwise he would have got himself away from her ages ago! i mean just think how easy it would probably be if he wanted to have sex with you now? men know that ex's are so vulnerable that they tend to jump back into bed with the man in an attempt to keep hold of him somehow. but it doesnt work, he gets his use out of you till he gets bored of you and starts doing exactly the same thing to another 'baby mom' of his. this guy is not going to do you any good. i only hope you are strong enough and confident enough to ask yourself that question and get rid of the loser.