Posts by nat_the_cat

thanks for all the love! can't say that i didn't think all of the above, and know that he needs to be more supportive, or can't be in my life. it breaks my heart to say that, but it's true.  the thing is, i want to lose weight for me (of course!) but i take to heart what he says.

i was the one who initiated the convo a/b weight, and he initially told me he 'wanted to be there every step of the way'. he's suggested healthy eating, etc., but lately is being a complete dick a/b things.  and yes, i do think he's trying to be helpful (or thinks this is helpful) as men are always wanting to solve probs. i need to have a serious talk w/ him clearly...just needed a space to vent.

thanks again for all the love and encouragement. it's great to know there are lots of you out there doing the same as me!  xoxoxo