Posts by stephgonz13

i want to set a good example for my son. so whenever i think about the bad foods and not wanting to exercise i just look at him.

i dont go to the gym now but i did have a membership once and dont think i will ever do it again.

FIRST  they give a PT for three free sessions and the douche ignored me the first one, didnt even show for the second, and told me the wrong way to use a machine the third.

SECOND every time i went in there like the rest of you said people are on the machines not doing anything!!! there was this one guy who would use an elliptical on the slowest setting for like 3 hours. i think he was just there to watch tv

THIRD  the last straw was when i went with my sister and these 2 little twinks were in the changing room talking ish about me. i went to the manager come to find out they arent even members and are there on a guest pass and the biotch manager doesnt do a damn thing about them. i went back told them to cancel my membership and told them i would never go back there again and if anyone asked about their establishment i would never recommend it. a holes

alright im having a major issue here that im not sure can be fixed.  my fiance decided the other day that he is fat and needs to do something about it. i to ld him about CC and he was not interested in counting " every little GD effing thing" he puts in his mouth. so i suggested a few things and he says ok i'll try. well its bee almost a month and nothing. he still goes to fast food places at least 3 times a week and then sits on his butt at home.

the issue is my nice switch doesnt always work. so when he starts to going on about needing to lose weight instead of nicely saying saying some i just bluntly tell him to stop eat all that damned junk food and do more than play video games. which of course pisses him off.

its not that im a total witch its just that im a firm believer in there is no point in b**ching about something when you have no intention of fixing it.  thats why im here. im tired of being fat and admitted that i need some kind of help.

i dont know maybe its hormones. no TOTM for me though. i be preggers so i get to be the ubber crab-azz and have an excuse.

well thanks for reading my rant. hope it was mildly entertaining. if not tough sh**.

by the way congrats to everyone who is doing so well and dont sweat it to those who hit a snag.

just remember-----dont sweat the petty things, pet the sweaty things and all will be good

well i too have ahd an eating disorder. im not expert but it does sound to me like your body is going through a mild shock. its not used to retaining nutrition and calories for long. that and you have been working out so it very well be rebuilding your muscles. there are many things that could be causing this and i strongly sugest seeing your doctor. if there is nothing wrong there try going to a neutritionist.

Original Post by victoriagirl:

So my question to the men in here is, do you consider a woman too forward if she talks about sex? Are you honest about your preferences? And to the women...are you afraid of/have you faced the same kinds of prejudices I mentioned?

 i have been judged on this subject more than once. the fact of the matter is most guys talk a big game but when it comes down to it they act like clergy. one guy i dated got all freaked out when i told him that i am very loud when enjoying myself. i mean like he isnt gonna notice later on. and i only mentioned that because the guy before him told me he wasnt used to a woman getting so into it.

why do people get so uptight about sex?! i mean it's fun and you burn calories while doing it. and like rnjt said everyone has done in one way or another.

well his ex-gf wanted to date my brother but didnt want him to feel bad so she introduced us and we clicked started dating very soon after. bakefired on her cuz my brother didnt like her that much and she got jealous of us being together. that was when we were 16.

broke up because of dumb teenager stuff (my fault) but then the same girl brought him over to my apartment 3 years later and we have been together ever since. bee 5 1/2 years and counting. once again the mutual "friend" got jealous and we haven't spoken to her in almost as long as we have been together.

hello

i am also new to this and the first im ei logged what i ate for the day i wanted to cry. i even double checked to make sure i put everything in right. sure enough i had eaten over 2000 cals also. i thought i was eating healthier but i guess not so much. i'm just going to keep on trying and hope this works.