Out of control and gaining!!!!

I haven't been on this site since about June or July, and although I was doing good and had lost a few pounds while meticulously coutning calories, here I am four months and 14 more pounds later, thinking how did this happen, AGAIN!?!?  I've never been this heavy except when I was hugely pregnant with my son.  I have some other things going on in my life as well, stress factors that I'm SURE have sent me into an untreated depression, and probably some weight gain as well.  I have got to get back into the habit of watching what and how much I put into my mouth, hopefully calorie count can help save the day!  If there is anyone else on here with young children, and/or going through a divorce, I could use a buddy right now, for sure.