Definitely adults only

So, a few nights ago, my husband got awoken at 2.30am by some pounding on the walls and squeeking noises, which apparently were coming from the neighbors bedroom. He said it was the fastest sex he had ever heard and that, since he could hear their bed and the pounding, if there was any pleasure on the girl's side he would certainly have heard it!
Well, last night I woke up and heard those same noises. It was 4.20am. And yes, it was unbelievably fast. This guy needs some advice.

So my question is, what kind of people have sex at 4.20am? I mean, unles it's their usual wakeup time, which I doubt,  it is a time of the night I just want to sleep. Do you think she was even awake?

Kipp, get whatever you can get.  Damnit, somebody out there needs to make up for all the sex I'm not having.

finewine, that is sad...

kipp, i certainly wouldnt call you old (since im 44) and am usually assumed to be about 10 years younger too, mostly because i stay in shape, keep my weight down, and still have long hair...my last serious boyfriend was 10 years younger than me, age really doesnt make a difference physically speaking, except i have noticed that with guys my age and older, well, er, potency, can be an issue, which is also sad

(didnt mean to imply that is was) may it never be...so go forth and keep it up!

kipp-- if a 22 year old asked you out... go for it. I have liked older guys before (the oldest has been 33). He was into the same music as me, etc and I just found him so attractive. I like the maturity of older guys but I need them to be able to keep up with me. haha

III don't know...I sometimes have a hard time relating to people at 6-7 years younger than me, I could only imagine what it would be like to have a 20 year difference.  If I was you I would be flattered if a 22 year old was interested in me, but I think I would just leave it at that. 

definitely need to keep up - but there are lots of good rx drugs out there for that - so you cant tell the difference between say...46 and 30, as far as multiples go...

Personally, I think that what matters a lot in a relationship is being at the same kind of stage in life, where your goals are similar, you have the same vision for the future and you're ready for the same things at the same time. Age can definitely play a factor in this just because of the stages and patterns that people generally live through, but if a 40 y o and a 20 y o are looking for the same kinds of things and have the maturity required I think it's a fine idea.

i agree completely chobe, but then i thot we were just talking about sex, not necessarily relating conversationally ;P

hahaha so you're saying just because a girl is 22 she can't carry on an intelligent conversation or have similar interests to a 40 year old?

ali, i responded to you in my journal... do you have msn messenger or something?

i dont think anyone said that...jayd states it well, but ali, it would maybe be like if a 4YO boy (has to be that young cuz you are too) told you you were pretty and he wanted to marry you...you would maybe think its cute and are flattered...no way you would go out with him, but no reflection on his intelligence or conversation skills - hahaha

I was reading an interesting article about the generational gap yesterday. Simply put, Generation X and the Baby-Boomers don't have an awful lot in common.

I could say more, but really, the article was in regards to what the political landscape might look like when Gen X finally takes over, which we can probably expect in the next 10-20. The first Gen X president.

*bonks kipp* OK, that's totally the wrong attitude. If someone shows interest in you, the last thing you assume is that they feel sorry for you. That's a great way to feel sorry for yourself.

If someone shows interest in you, just.. go with it and assume they're interested in YOU!

No wonder I can't get a date with a 24 year old, Kipp steals em all!  I'm stuck with 17 year olds....blah.