Definitely adults only

So, a few nights ago, my husband got awoken at 2.30am by some pounding on the walls and squeeking noises, which apparently were coming from the neighbors bedroom. He said it was the fastest sex he had ever heard and that, since he could hear their bed and the pounding, if there was any pleasure on the girl's side he would certainly have heard it!
Well, last night I woke up and heard those same noises. It was 4.20am. And yes, it was unbelievably fast. This guy needs some advice.

So my question is, what kind of people have sex at 4.20am? I mean, unles it's their usual wakeup time, which I doubt,  it is a time of the night I just want to sleep. Do you think she was even awake?

watergirl- I guess I just don't agree. 

And jayd- I'll leave it in my journal.

What's wrong with Immaturity? Maturity is for old people! I'm a 5 year old stuck in a 31 year old body!
*plays with his micromachines*

feel free to disagree ali...i could never date men my son's age, i can be friends with them, and enjoy spending time with them, but could never date them  (i would mother them as i do my son's friends) no personal reflection on who they are whatsoever, thats just me

hk - vroom vroom

I'm 48 and the oldest girl I have ever dated was 27. I never go looking for them,  they just start things with me.  I'm very shy and insecure about myself. I do seem to fit in better with that age group than people my own age. I can relate and find interesting things to talk about with that age group. I'm a 25 year old trapped in an ederly body.

hmmm...maybe its cuz i'm a breeder...so here's a research question: do you have any kids baxter?

Yes, two boys.

I beleive that women in ther mid 20's feel like sex objects to men there own age and because of my age i never go there, atleast not till I have developed feelings for them. Conversation first then friends.

baxter: sex objects...interesting point, i cant make a similar comparison using men in their 20s! i know when i was that age i wasnt particularly comfortable with my sexuality (i am now) but i was pretty shy as well... i can relate to the 'fitting in better with that age group' comment you made, especially when it comes to musical tastes, not many 40-somethings around who are also into death metal or rap...i like to hang out with my son's friends, who are 17 thru 21 ish, they are so much fun, i just love their energy and i can surely relate to their struggles trying to find their way after high school (none are college-bound) and i really care about them and want to make a difference in their lives, but its totally a mothering instinct for me, even though i see so much of myself (rebellious, headstrong, and independent) at that age in them, they consider me the coolest mom, and that means alot to me

You go mom, I think kids need a cool mom. Mothers are the backbone of their children and can show children especially boys what it takes to be a man. Hummmm teaching daughters to be a man, not practical. As far as relationships go with younger people, most women avoid the younger male, maybe because of the maturity level.

i think you are right - maturity level explains alot - whole different gameboard - 40ish male & 20ish female vs 40ish female & 20ish male...i'm sure some of the younger ladies can both relate to and appreciate your shyness, puts you on an entirely different playing field too

Hummmmmm never thought about the shyness thing, maybe thats it.

i mean in the sense that a younger woman would feel more comfortable or confident or in control of the situation, which may not be the case with a more alpha-esque male

I am sort of posting late in this but I have a small input:

Positve Sex is good-good exercise-good emotionally-good mentally

and yes the G spot is there-I have a technique that can make any male get their lovers waters flowing without too much effort(not going to get you off but doesn't feel bad either)

And me and my wife enjoy eachother more when we are raunchy the day before-smacking eachothers butts and so on-something to keep an old marriage flowing forward-we are 71/2 right now going on 50:^)

hahaha and you told me that basically women in their early 20s aren't mature enough for guys in their 40s.

And Kipp... I'll be in Louisville Friday morning ;) ahah

I'm 18 and lately I've been dating guys who are older than 23. I feel like guys my age aren't as put together as I am, so older just seems to work out better for me. I'm too motivated, organized, and passionate for an 18 year old guy - I probably think this because most of the guys I know who are my age are just party animals and don't know what they are even doing in college.

As far as sex goes, it is like fine wine, guys are better with age. Haha!

ali...what i actually said was that i wouldnt date a 22yo, and since i'm hetero, that would mean i date men, not women, which i am thinkin would exclude you from any generalization i made either seriously or just for fun...if you are gonna comment about something i said, at least get it right chica...

watergirl- Okay. Apparently I misread what you said the first time. No need to talk down to me. thanks.


And Kipp.... I'm dropping my mom and sister off at the airport. It's an 8a flight though. I was in Louisville last week too for a show @ Headliners. I got super lost, called a friend who lives there and got me more lost. haha