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So I was browsing the job section on craigslist and came across a posting for egg donor. 

http://madison.craigslist.org/etc/1046858701. html

I found this to be an interesting idea/concept.  On one hand, you are giving a great gift to a couple, but what drawbacks/risks come with it?  Are you left wondering all your life about how the baby is doing?  What are your thoughts on it? 

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The main physical drawback is the IVF stimulation that a donor would have to undergo, and then the retrieval procedure.  I've read that there is a possibility of something called ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome.

As for emotional/mental, it would depend on the person.  

I think you are right it would be one of the ultimate gifts to give someone and I think it is great that people do this, but i don't think that it is something i could do.

Check and make sure you don't end up donating a kidney at the same time.  If you're getting put under for a procedure you'll want to make sure that you have someone with you that's yours.

wtf smwhipple?  what sort of response was that?  not to mention that to get a kidney out they have to cut into you, not quite the same with an egg retrieval. 

AND with egg retrieval its a twilight sedation not full anesthesia. 

Facts.  They are good.  To the OP, do some googling.  Egg donation is pretty neat, but the stim drugs are very disruptive.  Its like PMS x 100, plus injections and patches and all sorts of medication depending on your protocol.  You do have to have emotional/psych testing as well.  Its an awesome gift but one that you do not want to go into lightly.  I do think that they prefer young women who have had successful pregnancies as well-- shows that their eggs are in good working order. Plus no sex the whole time you are stimming.  And no guarantee that your eggs will actually produce a baby.

Probably watching too much Law & Order of late.  If you're getting a surgical procedure done where you're not going to be completely cognizant (don't know for sure, but I suspect they don't wait for the eggs to drop), you should make sure you have someone present who is able to keep an eye on you.

$6,000 for an egg seems like it could be completely honest or a scam.  If I weren't too old I might be interested.  So many scams start out with great sounding intentions.  If it were for a family member I would most definitely do it, again for a close friend; although I wouldn't think I would charge other than actual expenses...beyond that I don't know that I would or wouldn't do it, but it would be worth the thought of weighing the pros and cons.

ya only 6,000 seems like a scam.....>>here they are offering 20,000

http://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/etc/106309181 2.html

 

I would totally do this.  I'm not going to use them, why not let someone else?

I would never do this by responding directly to an ad on Craigslist.  After looking into other sites, like www.donoreggs.com and www.eggdonor.com it seems like the compensation is $5000-10,000, depending on how in demand your eggs are (specific religion, atheltic aspriations, model looks, etc.).   I think $6,000 from an agency seems more legit than $20,000 from some random couple.  The second site is the one I looked into more, and they provide you with an additional insurance policy and a lawyer to go over the contract with. 

I guess it sounds like a good opportunity for someone who meets the qualifications and has no attachment to their eggs.  Personally,  I received good grades in school and scored well on my standardized tests, but have just average looks and no atheletic or artistic ability whatsoever.  I initially wanted to say beggers can't be choosers, but when paying so much money for something, it would make sense that the couple would have such high standards.  Also, I personlly would always wonder what attributes  the person that came from my egg had.  Punnett squares always fascinated me in biology.

I thought this was about Easter! :)

Beware that if you are currently over or underweight, they will most likely reject your application.

I applied awhile ago because I thought, hey, not using them right now, I have more than enough for the 2 kids I want, and at least one gets wasted a month now....so why not?

I come from a relatively healthy family, and the only physical thing wrong with me currently is my weight (5'6" and 169 lbs.).

I got a rejection letter, and one of the things they ask is if you are overweight. I am, and I believe that to be the only thing (besides perhaps my race, as I am white, and right now Asian donors are highest in demand in my area) that would cause me to be rejected.

Anyway, I think it's a really great thing to do, and if you can, why not?

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