embarrassing! not exactly PG either...

okay... so I have a really awkward question to ask... thank god for anonymity on the internet. stop reading if you get offended easily too i guess.

i'm really horny pretty much 24/7. it's getting in the way of studying, work, etc. My boyfriend is starting to drop hints that he's a little overwhelmed... which I don't think is what's supposed to happen! How the hell do I control this?? I'm already on the pill, which is supposed to zap your sex drive. What's going on? This hasn't come on out of the blue, I've always been pretty, erm, randy, but it has definitely gotten worse these past few weeks. Seriously I can't go 10 minutes without thinking about, uh, it. Maybe guys can help me with this...

u serious? lol im like that all the time XD normaly the week before TOTM its at its peak. It does wear them out but its better to be overly than underly sexually active. Get a ahem, buzzy friend if u realy cant wait. Or write a sexy story it helps calm u down.

edit: i just checked u had made more then one post before replying in case this wasn't real. But i can say i feel ur pain.. but my b/f dont get a choice. If i want it, i get it!

*ahem* I'd recommend helping yourself out on a regular basis, if you know what I mean. 

definately get a vibrator if you don't have one already. will take the load off your boyfriend a bit...

when i was younger (and i'm assuming you are), i used to go through the same phase sometimes in the past, it was very annoying. these phases happen, and they come and go. and don't worry, before you know it, you'll be an old bag like me and your boyfriend will be lucky if he gets some once a week.

Uhh..yeah.  You don't always need your boyfriend to help with this.  Take care of it yourself. 

Actually it may be the pill. Me and most my friends lost our sex drive while on it, but I had a ocuple friends who turned into sex fanatics because of it. I think it can go either way. But yeah *ahem* Fallingstars is right ;-)

I am sure I could *ahem* help you with this.

Oh wait, you're trying to not do that.......

lol Get married.  It seems to be the quickest fix, I've ever heard of.  :P

Yeah, the pill causes different reactions in different people.  It might just be your way  er...  there's always self service. ;)  You might very well just calm down by nature in the future, though.

cant go 10 minutes without thinking about it? well at least now you have a good insight on how the average male mind thinks... and im not saying im any exception.

sense this isnt a pg thread im going to go with that, how often do you masturbate anyway? i mean i wack off at least 3 times a day every day to get my proper fix and that seems normal to me (given how i suck at getting a gf). and im not sure if you want to reduce what your feeling or find ways of fulling it.

i mean you could turn your urges into profit if you know what im getting at, though it would be rude of me to think your like that.. but on the other hand it would also be rude of me to look down upon people that make money by having sex as their choice... its so hard to be politically correct these days. well that whole profit thing was a joke anyway, so what exactly do you mean when you say your bf is overwhelmed? does his dick/hips get too sore, just tired of doing it so much? may need a little more info before i could give an accurate judgment.

also i would like to add: im a little confused as to why you are embarrassed over wanted to have sex a lot, i really dont see anything wrong with that.  I mean it would be a dream come true if i could actually get with someone with your kind of urges... but i guess that kind of thinking is why i wack off everyday... sigh.

whats wrong with waiting? lol i prefure waiting then 'sorting myself out' and  then shocking my b/f as i do it all. LOL tis a very good workout to do male and female hip movments ;)

shrapnel's post had me laughing a typical guy talking about wacking off all the time haha just thought it was hilarious.............

I have a very high sex drive and hubby usually can keep up with me but at times he gets tired so thats when i bring BOB out my battery operated boyfriend does the trick till hubby is ready to go another round or 10.

The pill did the exact opposite to me. It slaughtered my sex drive. Now, I could care less if I ever have sex. Which is sad and makes my boyfriend pretty pissey.

Oh well... there's not a whole lot I can do about it, so I live with it.

shrapnel, too funny! however, it's not so easy being horny all the time. it totally gets in the way of everything. when you're a guy, that's one thing, but when you're a woman and people expect more of you than just being some neanderthal with his dick living in his hand... imagine that, not so easy!!!

Crap...just wait until menopause.  I was bad years ago when I was younger, then it tappered off to a more normal level, but since perimenopause hit, holy cow!  I think it's our body's way of saying "Hurry up and procreate.  You don't have much time left!!!"

Everyone is different too, so don't let anyone tell you it's wrong or whatever.  It's your "normal" for now and you have to deal with it.  And a BOB (battery operated boyfriend) is a good idea.  :o) 

Kallie, I don't know if menopause will make a difference., maybe low drive people have a problem when menopause happens.  I hear people say all the time that they aren't ineterest or my wife went through menopause and doesn't want to do anything. I 'm not on any medication and had a hysterectomy at age 28 and left on ovarie. My hub and I were lucky I guess since we got married at 18 and 19 but both turned out to have high sex drives so it has worked out. We miss a day or so a week but haven't seemed to slow down. The saying if you don't use it you lose it seems to be true.

Hahahaha this thread is wonderful. And I know exactly how you feel. Get a vibrator, take care of it yourself!

Vixen, although in the theory I could wish to suffer like you a bit more........ if you are horny then yes, get yourself something to try and sort it out, however if you are practically permanently....... lets use the word "aroused" then this can be a real medical problem, and although loads of people take the p**s it is a real problem with support groups etc.  I think your problem has to be pretty serious and pretty constant for it to be medical though.

I agree with trustwomen...helpign yourself out is a good remedy. I am like you. I have been taking BC for years...and I've switched them up. I only found that Yaz totally lowered my drive. My bf sometimes gets a little overwhelmed with me as well, and we compromise a lot of the time, so there is a lot of SOLO time. Get some of your gfs together, have a Surprise Party or any other sex toy party, and enjoy yourself!

DANG maybe I need the pill. My sex drive is low. I could care less if I was or wasn't. Don't get me wrong, I have my moments but...*sigh* sometimes I truely wish I was more like ya'll :)

thanks for all the suggestions guys! and, er, shrapnel, i'm not exactly embarrassed, just irked that it's getting in the way of the rest of my life. i already do 'help myself out' all the time, but perhaps i'll invest in a... um... buzzy buddy?