how many ex boyfriends do you have?

this is a random thread, but i thought it'd be funny. post your age, and then the number of ex boyfriends you have. 

i'm sixteen, and i have 5 ex boyfriends.

seventeen and have three ex-boyfriends. not counting guys i dated without being officially a couple.

Why - is this a contest??  I'm 60,  about 40 ex boyfriends and 3 EX husbands!  Do I win??  (p.s. - now FINALLY happily married..whew!) LOL

No ex-boyfriends or boyfriends!

I have 6 ex boyfriends!!

52 yrs old.  2 ex boyfriends, 0 exhusbands, had 32nd  anniversay on Sept 9th.

Lol@Glamgram Good times. That made me smile.


I'm 24. One ex-boyfriend before meeting and marrying my wonderful husband.


( But, I don't think he counts for more than maybe ' half ' since half the time we were dating I didn't realize we were ' going out ' I just thought we were friends. Some guys apparently think more of friendship than girls. If you sit by or talk to them... Or even take their calls... you're dating them!Lol. He introduced me as his girlfriend and I was like ...

" whoa... Girlfriend?"

Him: Yeah. I mean right...you're my girlfriend... "

me: Um. You didn't ask.... I thought we were just hanging out as friends.

Him: I have to ask?

Me: Um. Yaah.

Him: Will be my girlfriend?

Me: -Looks around at his laughing friends and says " Sure. "

There was never the whole " omg, he wants to go out with me! I wanna go out with him! " or " Omg, I'm gonna kiss him. " <- That's the first thing I thought when I saw my hubby. So one but I felt peer pressured into it because it was announced in front of friends. Then followed by being asked in front of friends too. Plus, I felt badly he was being laughed at by our friends. >_<  I don't think dating more or less people makes us any more or less of a winner! It's just a number. I had lots of guy ' friends.'  But, Hey! Some of those probably thought we were dating too.

14 years old

0 ex-boyfriend

It seems that I'm scared of boys -.-' .

Like they came from another planet or something.

Maybe I'm just too shy.

 

1 ex bf (first bf at 19)

1 sort of ex bf (never officially used bf/gf terms, he was a bit weird)

1 guy we had instant attraction (seriously head over heels at first sight), but didn't turn into anything due to too much distance and too much drama with his exes!! (23, married twice, 3 kids with 3 different women, + 1 on the way, ack)

1 summer fling

1 **** buddy

1 current bf :P

I'm 23 - I haven't gotten out much :) 

Honey,  they DO come from another planet!!   It may be good to be scared of them for awhile!   Go slowly...   They can be losts of fun, tho'

I feel I have a well rounded past;

First bf at 9, that was the cute young innocent relationship

Second bf, 15-17, that was the long term relationship

Third bf, at 18, ahhh that was the looker with the perfect french kiss

Fourth bf, at 19, married 4 months later, still at it over 22 years later

( at 16 I had an relationship that is the foder for my husbands fantasies now, and the makings of a nightmare for by bf at the time, wonder if he ever knew what was going on behind his back)

Nuff said, oops forgot the 1 one night stand I had, that was the stupid choice.

im 17 and i've got three 'official' exboyfriends.. lol. 

Original Post by lafleur_88:

ummm well due to the BPD and low self esteem ive had quite a few boyfriends/shmucks at 19, i think its somewhere like 23. Um, but if we are counting to when i was in a healthy place in my life and i truly cared about the person and they cared about me, then its something like 2.

Somewhere like 23? haha.. You don't even know how many, but it's somehwere around 23, how virtuous! I can tell your wedding dress won't be white.

Why I have to add you as a friend. I just do, you're like the female version of me, only more pure. hehehe...

Nah, Vanilla. Don't stress it. Everyone is different. Sometimes people shy away from forming relationships or certain things in life. That's not a bad thing you'll know when you're ready. There is no rush... All you have is time in life. =-P  Could be that you just don't care to have a boyfriend.  Could also be that you think a boy is cute, think a boy is smart, strong, whatever you might think.  Remember that you can think a boy is cute without feeling obligated to go on dates with him. Or be his girlfriend. You can think a lot of boys are cute or smart.  When you think you want a boyfriend, then have a boyfriend.  Until then, who cares, just think they are cute. A lot of people ruin great friendships with smart, attractive, good people by deciding they must make it more than friendship. Ten good friends is better than nine ( or ten ) failed relationships in your past.

1 ex, now with someone who is my fiance'. I am 21. Let's just say I was a house hermit who didn't go out much due to depression. :/

Married, 0 ex-boyfriends at 23 (24 in Nov).

Hopefully it stays that way! ;)

25 years old.  1 ex boyfriend. 

Going to an all-girls high school will do that to ya... though it had its good points, too.

Expect to be engaged to bf #2 within the next year or so...

erm..

All my 'boyfriends' were in sixth grade. Does that count?!

lol, in sixth grade i 'went out' with about 3 or 4 ppl...but looking back only 2 of them were 'official'. The other 2 my frends were like, oh so and so is going out with you now, and then i was like, well i'm not going out with so and so; please tell him that!!

Since then...haven't had anyone...:-(

33 male, one ex. I don't do the sleeping around bit obviously.

Original Post by nece:

19, 0 ex-boyfriends. Man I feel like a loser!

 ha ha, no worries there, nece!  I'm 22 with 0 ex-boyfriends and no current bf. 

Just had one 6 month crush that was mutual but he moved away and I haven't heard from him since.  We never dated so I don't consider him an ex.  Other than that, just one other guy I've liked since I was twelve and still kind of do, but we've never dated either.

im 15, one ex-bf. there's also this other guy, both mutual for a while but he never broke up with his gf so...jerk ):