Are there any fat chicks out there who think they're Hot?

I know I do:) I hope no one takes offense to the term "fat chick", but anywho... I've been heavy my entire life, got teased as a kid, the whole 9. But somehow, I never let that effect the way I saw myself. Since i was a teenager, i always thought I looked pretty good, despite being bigger than the other girls. I Loved buying clothes, and wearing makeup, getting my hair done, etc. and you couldnt tell me I didnt look good! Now of course, I've always realized that there were many out there who would not appreciate my beauty, but oh well, i just tried to tune them out. I'm writing this because I am so sick of reading posts where people think they're hideous just because they're fat, or their life is miserable and they cant breath again (like that old Toni Braxton song) until they loose like 50lbs. It almost makes me feel like- if you're hideous at 160- I should kill myself! Now dont get me wrong, i realize that weight loss is important for health, and will make most people look better- its just that in the meantime, I think we should appreciate ourselves more. Know that you ARE FABULOUS NOW- and will be even more so when u trim down a bit. Vanity should not be for thin folks only.  Oh well- this is just my rant for tonite. If you're big and sexy- Holler back!

i love my body and so does my boyfriend, my doctor doesn't tho! so i'm trying to lose a little weight but not stacks.

yo tengo una caliente chica!!! I wonder if I said that right. The literall translation would be I have one hot chick. Actually, I meant to say I am one hot chick, but I forgot how to say "am". lol.

 I don't care if I'm fat or skinny, when I look in the mirror, I see one hot chick and don't understand why I'm so convinced I'm not.

I do! I'm super sexay!

When I was younger my round butt embarassed me, and I thought I was ugly, but now that I'm older and wiser I can see my beauty and love it.

I was told the one whole time I was actually kinda skinny by my best friend that "no offense, but you were sexier before." I don't think she was lyin'.

sometimes i do feel pretty even though im this weight i still do get "checked out" although sometimes i question it like,why, i look nothing like i did 2 years ago, but i have let my weight define me, to the point i dont let my old friends see me now cause im afraid of there reaction, if you check out my photos you'll see what i mean. but it was a fresh breathe of air reading your post, i guess we have to work with what we got now, and just be.

well untill the last 30lb i gained i did actrally i still have days i do. i use to be the girl all  my skinny friends said "damnnn how u get all these fine men an i cant find one man"  lol i use ta tell em cause you anit got the whole package like me

just remember only a dog wants a bone..lol

thats why the ppl say for my height i should be 130 hell no i wanna be a thick 160-170

I love this thread!!

yes, I am losing weight, and I'm actually almost done.  why is this?  because I want to be more attractive to other people through the filters that the media has poisoned their minds with.  WHO do I want to be attractive to?  BIG women!  There is nothing in the world sexier than the curves of a big, confident, healthy, and did I say big? lady.  I just wish more could feel confident now, and thus be SEXY and ATTRACTIVE now, instead of waiting until their bodies are smaller... and less appealling... to embrace that sexy confident attitude.  just my two cents.

MOst of the time I forget I am chubby.  I still think I am young and thin.  Now somedays I can see in the mirror that I am older and fatter, but most of the time I see the same pretty girl that has always been there.  Sure, I'd change this or that thing, but I still feel pretty.  When I see a pic once in a while I realize how out of shape I am.  But some pics look good to me (haha).  That's why I tell my hubby he should tell me if I am putting on weight b/c I don't see it happening because I am so busy and when I fix up I look good, so I don't notice until it is a BIG problem.  My hubby is too afraid to say something. LOL.

This most recent weight gain is really my first that I cannot attribute to a pregnancy.  I didn't realize I was putting on. I wasn't weighing myself.  Suddenly my clothes didn't fit and suddenly I was up 30 lbs.  I went to the doctor and one of my complaints was that my boobs had gotten a cup larger in two months.  LOL!  I finally got big boobs and I thought it was the boob fairy, turns out the boob fairy was flying with the butt fairy, thigh fairy, and flabby arm fairy. Hahahaha. 

It's not that I hate myself for being a "fat chick", it would have been different when I was younger I am sure.   I really do want to look like I feel.  Hee hee!

I actually got to my heaviest rather quickly (92 lbs gained in 3 months) during a pregnancy.  I didn't even know I was that fat.  I just thought I looked like me until I saw a mirror or a pic of myself and realized I looked like Weird Al in the "I'm Fat" video.  You couldn't even see my nose when I turned sideways because my cheeks were in the way. I still think I am good looking and when I lose this weight I am going to be on fire!

You have an awesome personality and outlook on things!  Good luck with all your goals!

no way...I have never felt hot or pretty or cute or anything. Not once. its weird because I have a healthy BMI (22 I think) and in the mirror I look ok but when I actually look at myself all I see is blobby shapeless fat :'( I wish I could have high self esteem like all you awesome people!

my bf tells me im really thin but i know im def not! he tried taking me clothes shopping but i got so pissed that i wanted to leave cuz i couldnt find anything to wear. i have the lil muffin top...and my stomach is flat standing up but not when i sit down. the fact that i have small boobs and a scar on my chest doesnt help either...so im really picky about the shirts i wear... i just wish i had the confidence to wear whatever though and not care....but i do.

i know alot of overweight girls who have ALOT of self esteem. they know they look good and the vibe comes off of them.. they have tons of friends, do whatever they want, get the guys, etc and i think thats cool. i honestly dont look at them and think 'whoa, they are fat' cuz thier personality is stronger than thier looks.

however, if the same girl was all like 'im so fat...' and had low self esteem and didnt take care of herself otherwise... id think differently.

Wow, some of you have great confidence, I love it! Confidence + curves, now that's a winning combination.

I wish I can have a little more confidence, at the moment my self esteem seems to be at an all time low.

I am! Dontcah think? ;)

Well most of the time I think so at least.
It's just so healthy that you should love the way you look!

what a great thread

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deffo feel hotter and sexier than I did 20yrs ago.  hubby's 12yrs older than me, so he'll always have a much younger wife :P

I love my hubby and girls...and this year is about learning to love and nurture ME too!

Perfect monday morning chatter,

I consider myself to be pretty full of self esteem! I have always felt good in my skin. But lately..... I still feel adorable in my clothes but... out I don't think soo... Luckily my hubby does though. I am trying to lose for my own mental health because going clothes shopping depresses the hell out of me! I am a 14-16 so the big girl stores don't fit well and the skinny girl stores are too small. So to answer the original question Yes I am sexy as hell it just depends on the day you ask me! LOL Soon after I lose this weight I believe in my warped mind I will look like Beyonce LOL LOL LOL

Depends on the day really somedays I feel like an old woman large moo moo and orthopedic shoes and all. Other days I feel like a sexy movie star or pornstar not sure I like trashy stuff that also depends on the day. Feeling sexy to me is a state of mind you either have that ability to be sexy or you just dont........I suggest you try and find it if you dont cause it sure does make for a fabulous time!

Here is an article that I read today about some super hot fat chicks

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/07/30/world/ameri cas/30havana.html?ex=1343534400&en=c99869 93a7c9fce1&ei=5124&partner=permalink& amp;exprod=permalink

From the Article:

"For the dancers, working with Mr. Mas has changed their lives. Several said they suffered from constant embarrassment and guilt over their weight before they began dancing. But dancing has taught them to accept, if not love, their bodies. They also say that after a performance, they feel self-esteem that is foreign to most them, having suffered from the gibes of their peers since childhood.

Barbara Paula, 29, who weighs 275 pounds, has been dancing with the troupe for five years. She said it still felt strange at times to be on stage, as if she were constantly discovering the potential beauty hidden inside her body, which for years was a source of shame for her.

?It?s something new,? she said. ?I don?t have this complex anymore that because we are obese, we cannot dance, we cannot walk in the street.?

well i dotn think im hot. but i know alot fo guys who thinks im hot so i guess that counts haha. i dont think im ugly just u know i dotn liek what i look like. soo ya good luck lossing weight all.


liek i say if ur "fat" and beautifull when u lose weight ur just gona be more beautiful. i personally hte the word fat thou cuse liek i think im fat but i dont think other ppl are fat. even if the other peopel weigh liek 100lbs more then me.   good luck all

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDc-isaLXjc

Im 16 and always been tormented about my weight. Ive always been big and when i'd get teased i'd eat or snack and it would make me feel even worse. I didn't like myself and I didn't understand how my friends liked me. My younger brother by 2 years was blessed with an attractive body and high metabolism and apparently attractive, and that only bothered me more, though my brother never rubbed it in my face and has always been supportive of me. I was tired of hearing I had a pretty face... because that's all i had... a pretty face... I never had a serious boyfriend and even now I'm afraid to seriously like a guy or let them get close but my friends have almost always been guys just not romantically. They were always nicer then girls, who can be extremely cruel... But this year I decided not to take their crap anymore. Ive been taking better care of myself and I have lost over 30 pounds since January and about 6 inches! And its  only April! I nearly cried when I saw a picture of me from Christmas... I didn't recognize myself. Now Im getting attention from guys left and right and I have no clue what to do with myself. This is the best ive ever felt and im not going to give up. Ive always been told that I was pretty and now i'm being told that im beautiful and Im starting to see what they see. I am pretty and Im never going back to the way I was

I definitely am!

Even though I'm only 18, and most my friends are about 100 lbs soaking wet, I know I am hot. Screw the media with their obsession with size 0s! That's not even a real size, if you think about it...

I think sexy is very much personality. Do you know some people who always seem to just be glowing everytime you see them? Personality adds an extra dimension to their appearance. If you are confident, you will be attractive. Plain and simple. And if you have the curves to go with the confidence, you will be a sexy beast.

I never want to be stick thin, or even just thin. I want to be athletic or fit, and not be slowed down by the extra weight. I have the bust, the hips and the height - and I don't want to lose it ever!

Girls, just remember that Marilyn Monroe was super hot, and she wore a size 12 (or 16, depending on who you talk to ), so flaunt those sexy curves!