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Why did he put a girl's head in his lap?  Was he coming on to her?  I would be totally weirded out if some guy did that to me, like "Dude!  Don't touch me".  If it was stictly a friendly thing, then why would he feel the need to tell his girlfriend?

I don't think he should tell her, but he should know not to go out with her alone again!

I say that's what you get for being stupid enough to tell another girl to go out with your boyfriend! Duh!

i'd say she (the friend who went to the movie) should not have done that. It is one thing to do that with a friend when both are single, it is another to do that with your friend's bf.

I don't know if he should tell his gf now but he definitely should tell her if something weird happens again. Just so that she knows she should not trust that friend. And yes, he should not be alone with her again.

ummm...you could stir up something that isn't necessary here??  depends on what kind of relationship they have!  the girlfriend obvoiusly trusts them enough to let them to go to the cinema together alone...

if it was anything more then i would definitely say something but not sure i would in this case??  although, would i want to know??  maybe not cos it might have me feel insecure over nothing??

Her friend is a ho-bag.  I hate girls like that.  He should tell his girlfriend what a ho-bag her "friend" is. 

just re read more above - sorry!  the guy did the right thing adjusting it and pushing her away!  he should not tell his girlfriend - why put that out there??  its him that stopped it happening so good on him!

actually - i agree with fallingstars hahaha!! 

she should know what a ho-bag she is!!

yeah your totally right!!  spot on!!

yup, a friend would not do that.

Tell.  Keeping it secret only makes it look worse.  He can bring it up in a casual way, like "Hey, your friend has some boundary issues, like when we were at the movie she ... and it was weird and freaked me out."

i had a friend who would always hit on my fiance, and it creeped both of us out.  she would do it around me too.  finaly i called her on it, and she said she wasn't hitting on him her excuse was "I'm italian, we're affectionate type of people"  which whatever she may be but she doesn't need to be affectionate with MY man.  haha.  But I agree, I think he should tell her, not to cause problems, but maybe the girlfriends friend didn't mean anything by it, but if she DID the girlfriend needs to know.  she can't be mad at him it wasn't his fault, and he did the right thing by pushing her away

Im Italian too that is how many people ended up in cement shoes swimming with the fishes ;-0

he probably won't tell her, but he'll probably tell all of his friends "dude she totally wants me.  maybe i can convince my girlfriend to have her join us sometime." 

before i start sounding like a funny version of dane cook, he probably should've told her as soon as he could, because if she finds out later, it could get blown out of proportion.  

Personally, I'd go and tell my fiancee/girlfriend if such a thing happened. Like you said, just to make sure she hears the truth from me.  That and to put her mind at ease that, at least on my end, there was nothing going on.

I have no idea if your coworker's girlfriend's friend was trying something, but I'm thinking she was (how is this not purposeful?) and that your coworker should cease from hanging with her again (he may very well be thinking this already).

i say casually bring it up - for it was (hopefully) a casual gesture. if all they did was sit together and then lean on each other, i don't find it cheating or offensive. however, i have never heard of someone bringing a blanket to a movie theater. uhm, there are sweaters/coats. duh. so that makes me think this girl's action was pre-meditated. i could be paranoid, but i'd say that girls can be cruel. all in all, it's the boyfriends duty to be truthful and faithful. because this situation is even being debated on, i'd deem it a little sketchy (if not an almost unfair interaction)

my best advice would be for the boyfriend to say to his girlfriend something along these lines: "you know, the funniest thing happened when i was at the movies..." however, it has been a little while, and if the guy still hasn't told his girlfriend, it seems like he's made up his mind about the whole situation.

thank god. it might of said more about the girlfriend's character if she had flipped out over something as trivial as that - AS LONG AS the whole thing ended there.

phew.