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Awwwww.... puppy love.  I remember those days.  Enjoy every minute of it.   :D

Let me give you this fair warning, you still have ALOT of growing up to do. Don't get married right away. I'll be turning 22 tomorrow and, looking back at how much I have grown up since I was 14-15, I am amazed at how distorted my view of reality was at that age. Give yourself a chance to grow up before you get married. At least wait till you graduate high school. I would also suggest going to college and getting out on your own for a little while first. To tell you the truth, I feel less like an adult now then I did at your age. It all comes from experiences. Don't limit yourself too much.

*rolls eyes* god i'm so glad i'm out of high school and the stupid things that kids do there. you are too young to get married. by the way...in one year you will be illegal to him. god...i can't stand people who use love so loosely. you can't know love yet except for that which you show toward your family. grow up first.

Where are your parents?

It depends on which state she is in wheter it is illegal or not. Some states have a 4 year difference rule, others have 2 or less.

I think, by law you have to be able to spell 'married' before you can be allowed to do it...just sayin'..

Guys...let her have her moment. 

I'm glad you're happy football chick!  I'm sure as the years progress you'll learn and see new and different things.  The only thing I'd be concerned with is that yes, someone was right.  In 1 year, any sexual relations you have (if you have any) will be deemed as illegal.  There's no fighting that, just keep that in mind.  

Hopefully sex is that LAST thing on your mind and you're leaving it to holding hands and kissing.  Enjoy your life and your age!! 

where are the parents..???????

Tat you are so cool.  And (sorry footballchick) Kathy, too funny.

That said, it's your life path.  I hope you have/get the support of your family and his. 

Good luck.

This brings back memories.  I had a boyfriend who I thought I loved when I was 14.  We dated for a long time and I was sure we would be together forever.  He was very protective of me and said he loved me everyday.  When we broke up I thought I was going to die, my world was over.  Then, I grew up.  Thank god because I had a ton of other hot boyfriends.  Life is short, make sure you explore it.  And as far as your parents, my mom had no clue how much I liked my boyfriend.  Just make sure you make wise choices so you don't regret something later.  Good luck

Just don't marry him until you are eighteen! That gives you four years to figure out if this is what you want. Oh, and what is he going to do for a career instead of join the N.G.? You gotta think about your future!

Wow, you're younger than my youngest brother (he was born a month before you).

I'm not one to judge, but if it were my family there'd be no way in hell.

That must be a joke.

And if not, in less than a year he will be 18 and she will still be a kid. Isn't there a legal issue there? 

Hey there,

congrats on having such a fab relationship with your boyfriend.

But I'd have to agree with some of the other posts, just stay together and wait until you're in your twenties or so to get married.

There really are a lot of things happening in your late teens, you may even end up being completely different people in just 6 years time and not compatible anymore.

But whatever you do make sure it's right for you and I guess legal.

Getting married is a forever commitment or should be.  If you guys both want to be together forever, why do you need to get married now to prove it?  I think if your relationship is strong enough to get married you guys will be fine waiting a few more years. 

No matter what you decide, good luck!

I met my wife when she was very young. She was 17 and I was almost 24. We dated for seven years before we got engaged, because I didn't want to interrupt her going to college or my career by getting married before we'd gotten some things out of the way.

Now we are married, with a mortgage, a baby girl and another on the way in November. My wife and I have our Bachelor's degrees and we both want our Master's in our respective fields, but guess what? Right now we can't.

If we weren't married, we wouldn't have our beautiful baby girl, but then we also would be free to pursue other goals that we will both now have to wait many years before we can try to accomplish.

That we got married does not mean I love her anymore or less than I did when we were dating, but it set us on a path of trading certain freedoms for responsibilities. I don't regret anything, but you need to realize that your life will only become more complicated if you get married, and those complications can rip apart couples not yet mature enough to deal with them.

I have known two highschool sweetheart relationships to work out, but both of them were old souls. Not to be mean, but you don't strike me as such, so I suggest you slow down.

 Original Post by tatjanaturtle:

Guys...let her have her moment. 

I'm glad you're happy football chick!  I'm sure as the years progress you'll learn and see new and different things.  The only thing I'd be concerned with is that yes, someone was right.  In 1 year, any sexual relations you have (if you have any) will be deemed as illegal.  There's no fighting that, just keep that in mind.  

Hopefully sex is that LAST thing on your mind and you're leaving it to holding hands and kissing.  Enjoy your life and your age!! 

 

we arent having sex tell we get married! and ppl its my life!

were NOT getting Married tell i graduate! and yes im going to college... who cares if its legal. i have alot of friends that are in the same spot as me!

Original Post by football_chick_yeah:

were NOT getting Married tell i graduate! and yes im going to college... who cares if its legal. i have alot of friends that are in the same spot as me!

 Your boyfriend will care if he's brought up on charges of statutory rape.

I would have fainted (seriously) if my kids, at 14, came home and said they were 'engaged'.