What to do

There's this one guy that I have really, really strong feelings for, but nothing ever seems to happen between us. He likes me, he thinks I'm "adorable, gorgeous" whatever you can think of.

I don't feel like I'm good enough for him though. He is the best looking male I know, and any girl would be lucky to have him. He's smart, enjoys the same things I do, has a great job and lots of friends.. so I'm thinking, why me? It's gotten to the point where I avoid talking to him, and when I do see him, I freeze up. I know I should just ignore all these fears of being inadequate and get him while I can, but it's so hard. I feel like I need to lose more weight (I used to weigh about 120 pounds, now 106), work out more, be brighter, happier, smarter, bubblier. Everyone says I am one of the prettiest girls they know, but I just can. Not. See. It. I guess I'm just scared of actually getting him, then losing him and hurting more than I already do. He's patient, and is giving me space, but I don't know what to do.

What you can do is relax and let things happen.

If it is meant to be, it will come easily. You are not inadequate! Nobody is.  Attraction is attraction, simple as that.  Either he likes you in that way or he does not. Call him out on it.  Go somplace neutral and speak your feelings. Worst that can happen is that he does not have the same feelings like you do. Worst think that can happen is that he likes you.  HA- you see I read that.. Scared of getting him then loosing him.  In the meantime your a mess.  Go FOR IT!! 

106 is tiny.  Remember you should loose weight for your Health. Looking better is the + side to it. You sound confident, DO IT!

Please let me know how it worked out!!

The only thing to FEAR is FEAR itself!  -Winston Churchill