My wife of 11 years is divorcing me for someone else. I have tried all I can try to get her to change her mind, but she is not interested anymore.
I have accepted that I need to let go and move on, and I am wondering about my next steps. I plan to wait til after the holidays to give my kids a chance to adjust before I start dating again (and to give myself a bit of a break).
I guess my question is, where would I start when I go to find someone else? Bars are terrible places to meet people, and I am a computer programmer, so everyone I know through work is a dude.
I also have difficulty breaking the ice with people. Once I get to know someone, I am fine, but I always have problems with talking up a complete stranger.
So where do I go from here? Any thoughts? Anyone have success with Internet dating? Speed dating? Singles events? I welcome any and all suggestions...
so, loads of time to get back into it! your hands & fingers will remember if you give them a chance :) (& i don't know what you're talking about, music's not an expensive habit )