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what do guys think of flat chested girls.????!


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So I am quite skinny and this has made me very flat chested. So I'm wondering am I unattractive to you guys??? Do you only want boobs?? I'd really appreciate some response as this is really denting my confidence.. Thanks
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Guys just like breasts, period.

Big ones, small ones, medium ones... all kinds, as long as they're boobs.

You will be alright.

I'm pretty flat and my husband is happily married. (I am too, FTR)

Original Post by girlabsolut:

Guys just like breasts, period.

Big ones, small ones, medium ones... all kinds, as long as they're boobs.

You will be alright.

GA, is absolutely right! We love them all!

 

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

Original Post by _adrienne_:

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

May I suggest you study up on evolution? It's genetic. It's engrained in our DNA.

Original Post by armandounc:

Original Post by _adrienne_:

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

May I suggest you study up on evolution? It's genetic. It's engrained in our DNA.

I know why guys are attracted to boobs.  I know it's natural and engrained in your DNA.  I think that's partly why I'm disgusted with mine.  As I said, I don't want the attention or the sex appeal.  I'm just showing my own insecurities, I guess.  And body image issues. 

I still don't get the appeal of big boobs.

Mine are as average-sized as they can get and I'm not all that unhappy, but I have a thing for small boobs and less curvy, more androgynous figures (naturally so, not because of unhealthy weight).

Everyone has their preferences, but, in the end, I'm pretty sure guys love them all.

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Mine are 32GG, and my husband is nuts about them.  My sister is 30A and her boyfriend is just as nuts about hers.

If you are flat chested you have an excellent built-in test for separating the guys who like you for yourself from the guys who only care about your body. It gives small-breasted women an edge on getting the best guys, because they know that their guy isn’t after them for their boobs.

Thanks :))) mephyle thats so clever, never thought of it that way! Thanks everyone who's replied, it's so helpful getting others perspectives!!

Large boobs are highly over rated.  My wife was very small chested, but her nipples were extremely sensitive, which were a huge turn-on for me.  So the fact that she was small-chested didn't bother me in the least.  In fact, I enjoyed them the way they were. 

Unfortunately, she felt otherwise and hated them.  Always complained that her clothes, bikini top, etc, didn't fit right.  So she went and got implants...against my wishes.  Now she doesn't like they way they look and very rarely likes to take her top off in front of me.  She also lost a lot of her sensitivity. 

Friends of her's also are very large chested, and two of them are having back pain because of the weight.  And I believe one of them has had a breat reduction.  Large breasts also get in the way of running, so younger women/girls who like to play soccer, etc., may have problems running. 

I say be happy with what you have.  If guys don't like you because of the size of your breasts, they're jerks.  Don't worry about it because you will find someone who appreciates you for who you are. 

 

My hubby likes all sizes! His fave thing to say is that they are all fun whatever the size. Mostly guys don't really care about boob size, they notice you more if you are happy, confident, outgoing and fun to be around.

Having small boobs gives you lots of options for the sort of tops that would look 'hoochy mama' on a girl with a larger chest.

Also interesting to note that they can change as you get older, when/if you get pregnant.. and more importantly for you, if you get to a more healthy weight yours may get bigger. Your natural body shape makes a difference (ie genetics) but boobs are mostly made of fat. If you are a very low weight then you are more likely to have small boobs too. 

I was an AA cup when I was 16. After three pregnancies (and when I am at a healthy weight) my natural cup size is a D. Your body will change all through your life. Love yourself whatever your size and shape and just focus on being healthy.

Original Post by armandounc:

Original Post by _adrienne_:

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

May I suggest you study up on evolution? It's genetic. It's engrained in our DNA.


Yeah, men never mature beyond the point of wanting to suck on boobs.

When you think about it, you're all a bunch of sicko lactation fetishists even if you're no longer going after ones that are full of milk.

You're all gross.

Cooties.

 

I have small boobs, and while my boyfriends says he loves them... he definitely doesn't hesitate to notice big boobs Undecided 

I personally think that boobs look good when they look PROPORTIONAL. I'm a small, thin girl like yourself and have 30-32 B size boobs. I have never had much for boobs my whole life, and gaining and losing weight doesn't noticeably change them. 

I tried on one of those double your cup size bras from Lasenza a while ago and showed my boyfriend, and his comment was "that doesn't look good on you, it doesn't suit your shape"... which I'm glad he said cause I was thinking the same thing.

Big boobs on small/thinner girls tend to look out of place, and/or just make the girl appear "bigger" (not necessarily fat, but just...bigger). I personally like having smaller boobs because clothes fit better and you look more "streamlined".  

It's beautiful if it suits you and you carry them with confidence. My breasts are perfect for my shape/size, so that makes them sexy! Big boobs just don't suit me. 

I'll trade your flat chest for my moobs

I think it depends on the guy. My best friend loves them big... I like them small.

I think when they are real small, it's very sexy, perky... I don't know, I have always liked them small. Depends on the guy I think.

 

Original Post by raychelc:

Original Post by armandounc:

Original Post by _adrienne_:

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

May I suggest you study up on evolution? It's genetic. It's engrained in our DNA.


Yeah, men never mature beyond the point of wanting to suck on boobs.

When you think about it, you're all a bunch of sicko lactation fetishists even if you're no longer going after ones that are full of milk.

You're all gross.

Cooties.

 

Oh the things I could say about women and what they do with certain man body parts.

But this is a family forum, I am going to refrain.

I was told that more than a mouthful was wasted anyhow....hehehe

Original Post by armandounc:

Original Post by raychelc:

Original Post by armandounc:

Original Post by _adrienne_:

I don't care what guys think, I am disgusted with my boobs.  I am skinny (unhealthily so) so I can't lose anymore weight.  I don't want the sex appeal.  I don't want a woman's "curvy" body.  I know I have an ED and body image issues, but I really don't see what the appeal of big boobs is. 

(sorry, kind of a rant on my part).

May I suggest you study up on evolution? It's genetic. It's engrained in our DNA.


Yeah, men never mature beyond the point of wanting to suck on boobs.

When you think about it, you're all a bunch of sicko lactation fetishists even if you're no longer going after ones that are full of milk.

You're all gross.

Cooties.

 

Oh the things I could say about women and what they do with certain man body parts.

But this is a family forum, I am going to refrain.


Huh. I can't even argue that.

Well played.

 

Original Post by cheekysz71truck:

I was told that more than a mouthful was wasted anyhow....hehehe

And some might say this is a comment dudes say to make the itty bitty titty committee feel good just to get into their pants. hehehe

All boobs are awesome, small, large, somewhere in-between. I don't think denigrating women who are endowed is the ticket to personal self esteem.

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