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Really hurt my feelings- A letter to my husband


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Dear Man On  My Couch. ..

I'd like to think of myself as a wife that doesn't care that you come home from work so late.  I KNOW I'm the wife that cleans, does the laundry, takes care of Julia, and goes to work full time with an hour commute to and from work.  Cooking, I know, has to be worked on; because you were raised on truly amazing Italian cooking that I'm just not up to speed on.

So, when I hear you telling your friend in MY living room that you "don't believe in star-cross lovers" and that "after 7 years of dating I (meaning me) got pressure to get married" and you "wouldn't deny me that"....but also that you "could give or take marriage".  You really hurt my feelings.

When I blew my cover at the top of the stairs and yelled at you to "Unmarry me then" and you ran upstairs to explain to me that you were just telling your friend who just wanted to hear that he wasn't a loser becuase he wasn't married yet-  well I don't give a ****. 

You should have WANTED to marry me.  You should have friggin PROPOSED, instead of me just giving you an ultimatum of either marrying me or breaking up.  Anything BETTER than me calling you from work and asking you if October 30th was OK for us to have a quick wedding.....

I do love you.  So super much.  But sometimes, this really burns.

Love,

Me.

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{{{hugs}}}

 

From one married woman to another, I wish I had something to tell you. All I got is this. I hear you and I feel for you. (((HUG)))

dear vanessa's husband,

realize how effing lucky you are. she is awesome (and really pretty!!!).

from, brittany

ps - don't be a douchebag.

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Original Post by starlitocean:

dear vanessa's husband,

realize how effing lucky you are. she is awesome (and really pretty!!!).

 ^ Yes!!! You are gorgeousssssssssss!

Original Post by jblarghp:

Original Post by starlitocean:

dear vanessa's husband,

realize how effing lucky you are. she is awesome (and really pretty!!!).

^ Yes!!! You are gorgeousssssssssss!

that she is.  and that you are too...

your dog's face, however...is a little freaky.

i'm totally laughing and crying at the same time you guys are just so amazing.  he went out with the ass and I'm home alone on a saturday night sneaking cigarrettes and drinking red wine in ugly pj's.

i'm glad i'm not alone b/c i really do feel quite tiny in this cold place commonly known as marriage.

if it makes you feel any better, i'm also wearing ugly pjs.  and sitting at home debating cracking the wine.  :)

oh....mine has already been opened!!!!  who needs a glass when i can chug lol

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Original Post by starlitocean:

that she is.  and that you are too...

your dog's face, however...is a little freaky.

 haha! Awwwwwwww, no love for the bully!?

I'm in ugly jammies vegging on the couch myself!
Worse part, I was supposed to go out tonight! Unfortunately the mix of vanilla vodka and seafood didn't mix last night.  I've been getting sick all day!

...but I would certainly be crackin' open a bottle of wine myself if I didn't feel so awful! Enjoy some for me!

i love the other pics of the bully.  :)

to be honest, when i first saw that pic, i thought it was a zoomed in spider face.  REALLY not sure why...but i did.  so uh, now it's not the best pic in the world to me.  :)

Ugly jammies here too!  I'm drinking a cup of joe though.  I wish it was booze. *Sniffle*

Original Post by jewelsmcblah:

Ugly jammies here too! I'm drinking a cup of joe though. I wish it was booze. *Sniffle*

i have wine.  but due to my migraine, i'm not presently drinking it.

ps - jewels? that poo on your poking stick?  i think it's getting thrown around in the other thread.  :P

Yep.  Getting smelly at the other hang out.

Vanessa, what made you pick the name Julia? 

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Original Post by starlitocean:

i love the other pics of the bully.  :)

to be honest, when i first saw that pic, i thought it was a zoomed in spider face.  REALLY not sure why...but i did.  so uh, now it's not the best pic in the world to me.  :)

 Oook, I changed it. I have an intense fear of spiders, so I had to change it after you said it looked like a spider face!

Not to encourage domestic issues but if after a fight that involved me overhearing my husband saying he could do without being married, and him leaving: he would come home to some clothing or personal belongings burning on the lawn. I'm impulsive and kinda like fire though.

Original Post by jewelsmcblah:

Yep.  Getting smelly at the other hang out.

Vanessa, what made you pick the name Julia? 

 I've always loved the name Julia.  When I say the name it makes me think of a strong, independant, sexy woman.  Which is what I am and it's what she will be!  :)

nothing wrong with poo on a stick as long as you don't accidentally poke yourself with it.

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Original Post by starlitocean:

i love the other pics of the bully. :)

to be honest, when i first saw that pic, i thought it was a zoomed in spider face. REALLY not sure why...but i did. so uh, now it's not the best pic in the world to me. :)

Oook, I changed it. I have an intense fear of spiders, so I had to change it after you said it looked like a spider face!

it doesn't look anything like a spiderface...but somehow, it's what i saw.

keep in mine spiders seem to be following me as of late.  it's been like one panic attack after another. 

Original Post by vanessa1031:

 I've always loved the name Julia.  When I say the name it makes me think of a strong, independant, sexy woman.  Which is what I am and it's what she will be!  :)

That almost makes me like my name.Wink

i'm loving the bully!!!!!!  very adorable.  i don't see t he spider though.  but maybe it's b/c i've had some wine...

and jewels.....you are a strong sexy woman.  and don't let anyone tell you anything different.

GIRL POWER!  Coffee, Wine, Migraine Meds, and some immodium being passed around....

Pepto?

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