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Is it really possible to transform a flabby body...??


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I want to focus more on toning my body, as well as losing more weight. I am still young, yet I do not have any type of muscle tone or definition in my legs, arms, etc. Ever since puberty, I've had flabby legs, thighs, never had those lean, toned thighs that some girls have in their youth. Just poor genetics.However I want to change that

 

but I want to know is it REALLY possible for a woman who never had a toned, hot body to turn it into something like this

http://www.derekhail.com/wp-content/uploads/2 009/02/faphne-joy-show-magazine-2.jpg

 

Most of these women usually were already small, petite to begin with, and were already toned and they just enhanced that. I've never seen a woman with a flabby, shapeless body transform it into something like this ever. Maybe there have been women who did but I just never met them or witnessed this

I just want to know is it possible ??

 

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Original Post by cptbunny:

Kim K's butt isn't fake. It's called genetics. All of her sisters have some kind of ass too. And she has cellulite. She's... *gasp* human.

Sorry, it annoys me when women see something nice about another woman and get all catty with it being fake or have had plastic surgeries. Even if the woman is a "celebrity."

You can get a body similar to that woman posted if you work hard for it. It won't be exact because you're obviously not her and genetics do play a major role in our appearance. But you can get a sexy, firm, toned version of you.

her sister kourtney is petite and does not have any booty whatsoever, and the other half sisters are very skinny. khloe is a big girl but she doesn't have a butt like serena williams the kind that sits up high and sticks out.

 

but kim k does padd her behind because i've seen photos of it when it looks flat and then a few months later it looks bigger. it's really no big deal. her booty is not that impressive to me b/c I see shapely behinds like that all the time in the black community. lots of women in my family have butts more shapely than hers so I dont necessarily idolize her booty. my butt is not that big in comparison to most black girls but to whites it is..now serena williams has an awesome rear end

Original Post by stargazer1:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by jaefuma:

I was gonna post to the "many women have pear and hour glass shape" reply (which is true but, lol, "many women" don't look like that woman in the picture, wonder why), but what do you what us to tell you?

We say "maybe" or "most likely not" and you start to defend yourself. That you might have that shape, you just want this, that and the other thing,so it's totally doable and so forth. Saying that women can "pad" themselves to a better body(booty). So what is it you want? A strong, 100% yes from someone? if you already believe that that body is in you, then by all means, go for it. But don't be upset if it's not.

You're going to have to work hard, life weights, and eat right. And it will (most likely) be challenging. And at the end of all that you might get that woman's exact body, or you might just get a really good version of your own. And you should be okay with either one of those options.

Also, doing all this for a male attention get a thumbs down from me. You can start to dress/look better and take care of yourself RIGHT NOW and get a "better quality" of man RIGHT NOW without dieting yourself into someone else's ideal. You should be doing this for yourself first and foremost.

/Steps off soapbox

do you think this woman has a prettier face than most women?? what does she have that most women are lacking???

awesome genes.

define what is so awesome about her genes?

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by cptbunny:

Kim K's butt isn't fake. It's called genetics. All of her sisters have some kind of ass too. And she has cellulite. She's... *gasp* human.

Sorry, it annoys me when women see something nice about another woman and get all catty with it being fake or have had plastic surgeries. Even if the woman is a "celebrity."

You can get a body similar to that woman posted if you work hard for it. It won't be exact because you're obviously not her and genetics do play a major role in our appearance. But you can get a sexy, firm, toned version of you.

she does padd her behind because i've seen photos of it when it looks flat and then a few months later it looks bigger. it's really no big deal. her booty is not that impressive to me b/c I see shapely behinds like that all the time in the black community. lots of women in my family have butts more shapely than hers so I dont necessarily idolize her booty. my butt is not that big in comparison to most black girls but to whites it is..now serena williams has an awesome rear end

Are you dense?

That has nothing to do with what we are trying to explain to you.

Go to GNC.  Show them the picture of what you want to look like and they will give you some pills that will give you her body.

Undecided

Original Post by stargazer1:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by cptbunny:

Kim K's butt isn't fake. It's called genetics. All of her sisters have some kind of ass too. And she has cellulite. She's... *gasp* human.

Sorry, it annoys me when women see something nice about another woman and get all catty with it being fake or have had plastic surgeries. Even if the woman is a "celebrity."

You can get a body similar to that woman posted if you work hard for it. It won't be exact because you're obviously not her and genetics do play a major role in our appearance. But you can get a sexy, firm, toned version of you.

she does padd her behind because i've seen photos of it when it looks flat and then a few months later it looks bigger. it's really no big deal. her booty is not that impressive to me b/c I see shapely behinds like that all the time in the black community. lots of women in my family have butts more shapely than hers so I dont necessarily idolize her booty. my butt is not that big in comparison to most black girls but to whites it is..now serena williams has an awesome rear end

Are you dense?

That has nothing to do with what we are trying to explain to you.

no the other posters was saying that i was being catty by saying kim k padds her booty when she does. she is making it seem as if I am jealous when i'm not. just stating the truth.

Original Post by stargazer1:

Go to GNC.  Show them the picture of what you want to look like and they will give you some pills that will give you her body.

so in other words its not possible unless you were born that way

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by stargazer1:

Go to GNC.  Show them the picture of what you want to look like and they will give you some pills that will give you her body.

 

so in other words its not possible unless you were born that way

All we're trying to explain to you is that all you can do is make what you have, the best you can.  You may or may not have her body style.

Judging from other threads you have started, you have some body image issues and care about what men think way too much.

Learn to accept who you are, and quit worrying about what girlfriends of rappers look like.

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

Original Post by amethystgirl:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

do you think this woman has a prettier face than most women?? No. what does she have that most women are lacking??? A professional photoshopper.

Now let me ask you: why are you so fixated on this one woman?

This woman is pretty. I keep looking at her waistline/rib cage and it doesn't look quite normal or real to me. It's been photoshopped. The woman has a pretty face. She has absolutely perfect skin (photoshopped).

She's pretty and sexy. Lots of women are pretty and sexy. I'll bet you are too.

Original Post by moonikins:

Original Post by amethystgirl:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

do you think this woman has a prettier face than most women?? No. what does she have that most women are lacking??? A professional photoshopper.

Now let me ask you: why are you so fixated on this one woman?

This woman is pretty. I keep looking at her waistline/rib cage and it doesn't look quite normal or real to me. It's been photoshopped.

That's what I'm thinking too.

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

 If most of the men you know do that, then you need to hang out with different people, hun.

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

I hope you dumped him.

And I think you might need some counseling.

is it time to let dreamofbeingthin go back to dreaming?

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

He was/is an a-hole and stupid too. If he doesn't realize that what he sees in mags and on TV is fake then he's not worth your time. Why would you give such a dolt so much power over how you feel about yourself?

I think you're hanging around the wrong kind of men.

Original Post by moonikins:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

He was/is an a-hole and stupid too. If he doesn't realize that what he sees in mags and on TV is fake then he's not worth your time. Why would you give such a dolt so much power over how you feel about yourself?

I think you're hanging around the wrong kind of men.

most men desire those types of women, and when you look like that you have it easier in life. men tend to be nicer and go out of their way for women who look like that. and I want to work hard so I can attain that

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by moonikins:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

so I want to make sure that I always look just as good as the women he looks at on television or in magazines.

What we see on tv and in mags is fake.  Faux. Not fer reals.  At least, 99% is. 

well that still doesn't stop most men from comparing us to them. i knew a guy who used to always compare me to women on television saying i needed to do this that and the other to look like them.

He was/is an a-hole and stupid too. If he doesn't realize that what he sees in mags and on TV is fake then he's not worth your time. Why would you give such a dolt so much power over how you feel about yourself?

I think you're hanging around the wrong kind of men.

most men desire those types of women, and when you look like that you have it easier in life. men tend to be nicer and go out of their way for women who look like that. and I want to work hard so I can attain that

Stop living your life for men and start living your life for you.

 

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

most men desire those types of women, and when you look like that you have it easier in life. men tend to be nicer and go out of their way for women who look like that. and I want to work hard so I can attain that

you'll never have it easy in life if you're this wrapped up in your appearance. you'll never be good enough. let it go.

Original Post by pgeorgian:

Original Post by dreamofbeingthin:

most men desire those types of women, and when you look like that you have it easier in life. men tend to be nicer and go out of their way for women who look like that. and I want to work hard so I can attain that

you'll never have it easy in life if you're this wrapped up in your appearance. you'll never be good enough. let it go.

 Absolutely completely 100% true.

I'm just curious now, how old are you?

I mean, I hear a lot about how wonderful it is to be "pretty," but I see a lot of not so "pretty" women who are *gasp* married and*gasp* have children. That means that someone....loved them and slept with them! Surprised

Seriously, who were you with that compared you to women on the TV? And you just accepted that as truth? Women are different. Their bodies are different. Some have wide hips, big butts, big boobs, thick thighs, etc. That's just how humans are. We vary and we're different.

You shouldn't be so obsessed with being the woman on the TV screen because that is never ever, ever, ever going to happen. Because those women don't even look like that. They can even edit video now. You're basing your body off of an illusion or, at best, an rare anomaly.

Look at your body. Seriously look at it and be real with yourself. I'm not saying just submit to a life of flabbiness, but look at your body for what it is an embrace it. No amount of toning is going to give you an hour glass figure if you don't already have it. It won't give you bigger boobs either. You have to accept that. If you have it, enjoy it, if you don't, enjoy what you have.

You need to do this for you, not to have an "easier" life or to meet some guy's expectations. Get healthy because YOU want to look like the best you you can be, not some video vixen. And certainly not for some guy.

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