calves: 13 in
waist: 27 in
hip: 33 in
thank you ~
He probably likes you. Tell him to go fly a kite.
You are in perfect shape, guys can be mean..at that age, he could even like you and handles it badly.. Heh, I've had it happen.
I'd say he likes you. If you were younger his pick up would be pulling your hair, saying you have cooties and run away.
Your stats look PERFECT to me! Yeah, boys at that age are so strange.
I honestly wish I had the confidence that I have now when I was a teen - trust me, be strong and no one can harm you! Be confident in who you are and don't assume that others know best! It's definitely not always true; especially when listening to other people your own age.
ignore him... you have a good BMI
Original Post by smashley23:
Normally, i would say take the high road, but why don't you just fight back. Start a rumor that he has herpes or something.
I agree with this ^^
I also think I kind of agree with what the others are saying, he's a 16 year old boy- they're not too good at handling the way they 'like' a girl. Give him a couple of years and he'll probably be all over you!
Your measurements sound pretty 'to die for' if I'm honest.
Original Post by MsDalfo:
He can go die in a pit. You are perfectly average.
He probably likes you. Tell him to go fly a kite.
You are actually much smaller than average. You're quite fit and who made him a concern troll/body police? One of two things are going on here: 1. he is negging you. He is saying a negative comment to you to make you feel worse about yourself and more vulnerable. And he probably likes you or thinks your hot. 2. He's super self-conscious about himself.
Don't start a herpes rumor, or any kind of rumor. Do the mature thing and stand up to him directly. Nothing scares the **** more out of an entitled man then calmly asserting your superiority. Plus, he's fighting very clean by saying nasty things to your face and he clearly has the propensity to be quite cruel--don't give him the reason to do all kinds of mean and nasty things to you and your reputation behind your back. Confront him directly.
Tell him to get off his back, you like your body the way it is, that you're much smaller than average, that it's none of his business to comment on your body and then call him on whatever it is that's driving this forward -- tell him that he his insecure about his own appearances, or his weight, or that he can't be as comfortable about his own body as you are about yours.
THEN remind him that he is sexually harrassing you, which is not okay and most definitely a grave violation of your school policy among other things. :)
The guy has the hots for you! ;) Some boys are terrible at being able to express how they feel towards someone they fancy so they get all weird and insulting! Either laugh at him, blank him or tell him where to go! You're size sounds completely perfect!!
Smile at him, slow at first, then a huge cheery smile... then start laughing (his reaction should be enough fuel for a genuine laugh by this point) - nothing confuses bullies more than a reaction that is not only opposite to what they intended but one that makes them think something is wrong with them. Works especially well if you clue any friends in well so they can join in.
The guy sounds like a loser to me.
But girl, you need to develop more self-confidence. But you're only 16. Most 16 year olds have to deal with self esteem issues... you'll feel better as you get older and realize how lucky you are to be in shape :)
oh my, I love everything about that cartoon. :)
You are the PERFECT size! I want your measurements (At least the waist & thighs~2 inches away!) Don't change for everybody. Guys always say that stuff to flirt, and he's probably just a douche bag. He's trying to flirt but don't go out with him. Sounds like an ass.
